THE FORUMS
Fri May 25th - Lesson in leading and failing at a bathroom pull...twice with the same girl
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Hey guys, sorry for the lack of updates. I've been busy on vacation for the last week. I'm away this weekend and then I'm going to hit it hard until I move out. Also apologize for the brevity of this report. I typed it on my playbook.
When it was time to go out the boys wanted to go home. Lead us to downtown. There was a concert that just finished and most people were walking home.
Serious backward rationalizing for not approaching. A lot of girls under 15. Boys are having less fun as we walk. Amusing self by trying to learn the southern accent. Starting to have doubts about leading. I realize I need to flip the general mood now before it slips too far.
Decide its bar time. Run into a sports bar and we do some shots to start off the night. I rarely drink but vacation is the exception.
The boys start having fun. Bar across the street called Tilt. Only 8 girls here. Open 5 of them but nothing sticks. Want to fuck a black girl. Ratio is 50/50 here. Go into my head on the dancefloor. Open a set of hot black girls. She starts shaking her head so I yell racist. She dances with me for a bit but I get blown out by the friends.
Play big buck hunter. Start pretending my dick is the gun. Own my buddy and parade around the bar letting everyone knows. No girls left so I go outside. Boys ready to leave. I approach some couple and the dude get's pretty fucking upset. I pull the hey "I'm Canadian card" and evacuate that shit before it escalates.
They want to go home but I lead us to a shopping mall of bars.
See a girl dancing on Astroturf. Tell my buddy to approach by doing the wave with one arm. Says fuck no and tells me to do it. I approach her and do the wave. Opens so well. Grab her Lil butt and grind a bit. Lift her and drop her off by my buddy. Walk into a bar. Open a girl and steal one of her drinks. She pulls me over go meet her friends. We chat until they drag me to the bathroom. She tells her friend to watch me so I don't leave. Lol, ADD when I'm drunk, I ditch them. Hit on every girl in the bar but nothing sticks. My buddies are still outside I tell them to come in. Find out later that only one gets in. I tell the one girl to set up one of my friends. She goes to grab one of her friends and puts them together. Awesome!
I talk to the bathroom dude and tell him I'm pulling a girl in here. Smiles says no. I try to bribe but no good. Drag the girl out another way but there's an attendant when I get inside the bathroom. Fuck. She starts giving resistance. I drag her outside the girls but some bouncer says I'm going to have to ask you to move. Lame. Drag her to the other side of the bar but she skids out and leaves. Ultimate bathroom pull fail.
The boys are ready to leave but as we head home I notice another club. I walk right in. I can't get them to come in. Own the bar and approach everything. Approach 9 girls before I go back for the boys. I try to sneak into one more bar but I get shoved out. Approach a few more girls in the street but nothing sticks.
Positives
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The huge shopping mall club setup they have in Charlotte is awesome.
Lessons
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Gotta watch some peoples emotional state. Boys first. Do not them leave them hanging. Still had more fun but I could of done better leading. At no point should I have let them stay outside. I'll improve for next time.
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Hey guys, sorry for the lack of updates. I've been busy on vacation for the last week. I'm away this weekend and then I'm going to hit it hard until I move out. Also apologize for the brevity of this report. I typed it on my playbook.
When it was time to go out the boys wanted to go home. Lead us to downtown. There was a concert that just finished and most people were walking home.
Serious backward rationalizing for not approaching. A lot of girls under 15. Boys are having less fun as we walk. Amusing self by trying to learn the southern accent. Starting to have doubts about leading. I realize I need to flip the general mood now before it slips too far.
Decide its bar time. Run into a sports bar and we do some shots to start off the night. I rarely drink but vacation is the exception.
The boys start having fun. Bar across the street called Tilt. Only 8 girls here. Open 5 of them but nothing sticks. Want to fuck a black girl. Ratio is 50/50 here. Go into my head on the dancefloor. Open a set of hot black girls. She starts shaking her head so I yell racist. She dances with me for a bit but I get blown out by the friends.
Play big buck hunter. Start pretending my dick is the gun. Own my buddy and parade around the bar letting everyone knows. No girls left so I go outside. Boys ready to leave. I approach some couple and the dude get's pretty fucking upset. I pull the hey "I'm Canadian card" and evacuate that shit before it escalates.
They want to go home but I lead us to a shopping mall of bars.
See a girl dancing on Astroturf. Tell my buddy to approach by doing the wave with one arm. Says fuck no and tells me to do it. I approach her and do the wave. Opens so well. Grab her Lil butt and grind a bit. Lift her and drop her off by my buddy. Walk into a bar. Open a girl and steal one of her drinks. She pulls me over go meet her friends. We chat until they drag me to the bathroom. She tells her friend to watch me so I don't leave. Lol, ADD when I'm drunk, I ditch them. Hit on every girl in the bar but nothing sticks. My buddies are still outside I tell them to come in. Find out later that only one gets in. I tell the one girl to set up one of my friends. She goes to grab one of her friends and puts them together. Awesome!
I talk to the bathroom dude and tell him I'm pulling a girl in here. Smiles says no. I try to bribe but no good. Drag the girl out another way but there's an attendant when I get inside the bathroom. Fuck. She starts giving resistance. I drag her outside the girls but some bouncer says I'm going to have to ask you to move. Lame. Drag her to the other side of the bar but she skids out and leaves. Ultimate bathroom pull fail.
The boys are ready to leave but as we head home I notice another club. I walk right in. I can't get them to come in. Own the bar and approach everything. Approach 9 girls before I go back for the boys. I try to sneak into one more bar but I get shoved out. Approach a few more girls in the street but nothing sticks.
Positives
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The huge shopping mall club setup they have in Charlotte is awesome.
Lessons
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Gotta watch some peoples emotional state. Boys first. Do not them leave them hanging. Still had more fun but I could of done better leading. At no point should I have let them stay outside. I'll improve for next time.
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Saturday May 26th - Lesson in leading round 2. The Wave rocks Carolina.
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We were exhausted after a long day of exploring north carolina. No one wanted to go out so I took over and pushed for it. Got everyone to suit up and we hit the town.
We walk to an Irish pub, Rim Rahs, and order drinks. My buddy points to a group of older ladies and says "I think one of them was looking at you or me." One has long blonde hair, massive boobs, and a luscious ass, the other two aren't that great. I say "let's find out" as I walk over. I throw my arms around two of them. "Were you looking at me or my friends?" I say in a loud commanding voice. They start laughing. The blonde pulls me in and is looking at me like a piece of meat. Shameless coug, love it. I grab her and start waltzing with her in the middle of the bar. All eyes on us. I lift her off the ground and slide my hands down to her ass while she's grabbing at my shirt. We sit back down and I want to go drink with my boys so I tell her "back later" as I pull her waist in and make out with her. I tell her "I thought you would know how to kiss by now". She rips me in and slams her tongue down my throat in a way only an experienced girl could.
Walk back to my boys and we have a few drinks. Still trying to get my boy to approach a girl. Yesterday I showed him some dumb wave move and how well it opened. It's pretty much doing the wave with your arm. My idea is if I give him something that he can see work he'll do an approach with 100 percent belief. That's all he needs as he's a fairly well adjusted dude.
I open 3 more girls with the wave and they all go well. They all just stop what they're doing and start doing the hand worm move. Hilarious. We go upstairs and find an amazing outdoor patio. Start telling my boy he's gotta do some approaches because pussies don't get laid. I grab a girl talking to some dude and say in loud breaking rapport "pussies don't get laid." she thinks for a second and then says "ya, I wouldn't fuck a pussy". She joins our party circle and starts chatting up my boys. Proof of concept? :) I pull two random dudes into our party circle.
Grab my buddy and approach a group of 3 fatties. I do they wave they love me. My buddy is staying back..because of the corner we're both only talking to one of them. Fuck that. I tell this girl to move out of my way. I slip in behind her and talk to her larger friend. My boy gets blown out. I disengage and pat him in the back.
See some turbo hottie with her friends and motion her to come over. She flips me off. I blow her a kiss and open a cute girl in a white dress beside me. I'm feeling up her supple little while I lock eyes with her. She's loving it. We chat for a little and she starts getting snotty. I drag her over to my friends and introduce her. She starts looking for my attention when I'm not talking to her by saying to my other friends "I would never date someone like him". Lol I could isolate her but decide to go downstairs with my boy instead.
I see a perfect two set for us. Tell him "it's time for the wave!". He finally does it. Perfect! Opens flawlessly. I chat mine up but the chemistry just is not there. She goes back to her table of friends. What happens next was almost too incredible. Around 7 people (boys and girls) go up and interrupt my buddy with his girl. On every single one I pull them away and chat with them. By the end of the night the entire table of her friends loved me.
After we leave here he says "that's so stupid, I can't believe that worked." with a smile on his face. Ask what happened and he said she had a boyfriend lol. Oh well, he had the time of his life. We hit the street. One of my friends goes back as he's exhausted. The other two are down to stay out. Both having the time of they're lives.
I grab a really hot black girl on the street. It's so damn on. We chat and feel each other up for a bit. Her friends take a picture while I have the most deadly eye contact ever caught in a picture going. :D It's so on. Eventually two of the friends get bored and start pushing to leave. I didn't handle it very well and they leave while I yell racists at them. lol
We hit the shopping mall filled with clubs but everything's closed. Approached a shit ton of girls but everything fizzled pretty quickly.
Positives
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Everyone had an amazing time
I'm getting better at handling new environments without having to warmup as much
Lessons
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Learning to push and inspire is a gift
Capitalize on thing are in the bag. I could of at least pulled the MILF outside and got her to blow me. Instead she went home all sad and catty. :(
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We were exhausted after a long day of exploring north carolina. No one wanted to go out so I took over and pushed for it. Got everyone to suit up and we hit the town.
We walk to an Irish pub, Rim Rahs, and order drinks. My buddy points to a group of older ladies and says "I think one of them was looking at you or me." One has long blonde hair, massive boobs, and a luscious ass, the other two aren't that great. I say "let's find out" as I walk over. I throw my arms around two of them. "Were you looking at me or my friends?" I say in a loud commanding voice. They start laughing. The blonde pulls me in and is looking at me like a piece of meat. Shameless coug, love it. I grab her and start waltzing with her in the middle of the bar. All eyes on us. I lift her off the ground and slide my hands down to her ass while she's grabbing at my shirt. We sit back down and I want to go drink with my boys so I tell her "back later" as I pull her waist in and make out with her. I tell her "I thought you would know how to kiss by now". She rips me in and slams her tongue down my throat in a way only an experienced girl could.
Walk back to my boys and we have a few drinks. Still trying to get my boy to approach a girl. Yesterday I showed him some dumb wave move and how well it opened. It's pretty much doing the wave with your arm. My idea is if I give him something that he can see work he'll do an approach with 100 percent belief. That's all he needs as he's a fairly well adjusted dude.
I open 3 more girls with the wave and they all go well. They all just stop what they're doing and start doing the hand worm move. Hilarious. We go upstairs and find an amazing outdoor patio. Start telling my boy he's gotta do some approaches because pussies don't get laid. I grab a girl talking to some dude and say in loud breaking rapport "pussies don't get laid." she thinks for a second and then says "ya, I wouldn't fuck a pussy". She joins our party circle and starts chatting up my boys. Proof of concept? :) I pull two random dudes into our party circle.
Grab my buddy and approach a group of 3 fatties. I do they wave they love me. My buddy is staying back..because of the corner we're both only talking to one of them. Fuck that. I tell this girl to move out of my way. I slip in behind her and talk to her larger friend. My boy gets blown out. I disengage and pat him in the back.
See some turbo hottie with her friends and motion her to come over. She flips me off. I blow her a kiss and open a cute girl in a white dress beside me. I'm feeling up her supple little while I lock eyes with her. She's loving it. We chat for a little and she starts getting snotty. I drag her over to my friends and introduce her. She starts looking for my attention when I'm not talking to her by saying to my other friends "I would never date someone like him". Lol I could isolate her but decide to go downstairs with my boy instead.
I see a perfect two set for us. Tell him "it's time for the wave!". He finally does it. Perfect! Opens flawlessly. I chat mine up but the chemistry just is not there. She goes back to her table of friends. What happens next was almost too incredible. Around 7 people (boys and girls) go up and interrupt my buddy with his girl. On every single one I pull them away and chat with them. By the end of the night the entire table of her friends loved me.
After we leave here he says "that's so stupid, I can't believe that worked." with a smile on his face. Ask what happened and he said she had a boyfriend lol. Oh well, he had the time of his life. We hit the street. One of my friends goes back as he's exhausted. The other two are down to stay out. Both having the time of they're lives.
I grab a really hot black girl on the street. It's so damn on. We chat and feel each other up for a bit. Her friends take a picture while I have the most deadly eye contact ever caught in a picture going. :D It's so on. Eventually two of the friends get bored and start pushing to leave. I didn't handle it very well and they leave while I yell racists at them. lol
We hit the shopping mall filled with clubs but everything's closed. Approached a shit ton of girls but everything fizzled pretty quickly.
Positives
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Everyone had an amazing time
I'm getting better at handling new environments without having to warmup as much
Lessons
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Learning to push and inspire is a gift
Capitalize on thing are in the bag. I could of at least pulled the MILF outside and got her to blow me. Instead she went home all sad and catty. :(
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Wed June 14th - Motown - Tazmanian whirlwind of girl
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Hey dudes, vacation time is finally up. I'll be back to beasting 4 nights a week. Shit's been unreal lately. I remember six months ago when I used to imagine having more than one fuck buddy. After a few more months of HARD commitment I'm seeing CRAZY results. Three girls that just want it bad. One sweetheart that I've had as a fuck buddy for 11 months. One of the hottest girls that I've ever slept with always down. The funny part is she lives with her boyfriend but is falling for me. I kind of framed it that way too.."Oh you can't fall in love with me...you have a boyfriend..it would be wrong and I'm a heartbreaker." Then I have a third girl who's 29 but just ALWAYS wants it. Like moreso than other girls. I come over and she's on her knees. I've made two large decisions regarding game.
-I have to accept that I'm no longer a newbie and at the VERY minimum i'm on the lower level of intermediate
-It's time to get some coaching so I don't get stuck in purgatory
That being said i've decided to sign up for some coaching with the one and only manwhore. Hoping to get some solid results and insights from this dude. Anyways in our first session we mainly reviewed staying grounded in yourself. The one amazing insight I got was that when I fall out of state and either approach till I find it funny or do something to break my comfort zone it's really just me making it about myself again. Going to work on trying to bring a meditative state into the club and focus more on what my body's telling me rather than the environment. I've also decided to...do a BOOTCAMP! So excited for this. Can't wait until September. I can feel that this is just the right time for me to do this. I've been banging this out 4 nights a week for a year now. Time to ramp it up!
I get to Motown a bit late. I'm feeling pretty solid since I got laid the last three days by some very sexy girls. Anyways I have the rich stunner blowing me up to go hang out with her and her friends tonight at another bar. Last night was sexy. I sat in on her math class and pulled her to the bathroom to bang her. Any who I decided I'm going to go bang her again tonight around 11:30. I show up at Motown a bit late around 10:45.
I get into the bar and just feel fucking amazing. Go upstairs and open a short lil brown girl. She's loving it. Projecting a solid vibe. Working on my eye contact and vocal projection. She's getting completely sucked in. I move my head in and out like I'm going to kiss her as her knees get weak. ;p Her friends swoop in and steal her. It was unreal. It was like a Tasmanian devil whirlwind of girls and she just got whisked away. Havn't really seen anything like this before.
Open a three set and in a commanding voice say "What's your background." She gives me a bit of a bitchy look and says "guess." I tell her "I don't care anymore but your diva mannerisms are cute." She laughs. It's on. She's a tall girl with dark brown hair and a sexy black dress. Love it. We chat about random shit. She gives me random weird looks about random shit I'm talking about like broccoli. I feel the interaction slipping but I try my best to stay grounded. I've had a million sets go like this where the girl ends up not liking me but this one lasted longer than normal. There really is something to staying grounded and chill when you're in on a cutie. She gets all uptight when I pick her up off the ground. I talk to her friends and get blown out. I've noticed this mistake I make. Sometimes if things really start slipping I'll start talking to the friends. I've also tried escalating, isolating, and chilling back, but the result is usually the same. **Must learn to shape people's emotions toward me better**
I see the RSD boys. They're talking to two girls and I introduce myself. I say something funny as shit and then lock arms with one of the girls and yell hook. She's in love but I lose interest and walk over to talk to the boys. Aren't that many girls here tonight.
We go outside and I approach a woman with a black dude. Funny ass shit ensues. She likes me at the start when I say "You were cute I had to come say hi" but as I start flexing my intent she gets nervous. She slowly slides back around and locks arms with the black dude. I jokingly say "If you're dating her good for you." I turn my attention to the girl and say "but if you're not fuck you!" Her facial expression after I said this was hilarious.
Open a girl with by spinning her around by the hand. She says abruptly "Do I know you" I give her a confident look and say "Who are you." We talk about broccoli and shit. She's married and her husband is beside her. She says it was lovely to meet me as I walk off.
I see the brown girl again. Grab her from her friends and say "Yo girl you like icecream." She excitedly says "Ya!" I respond with "Give me your number. We're going to get some. I'll call ya so you have mine." She gives me the number before the Tazmanian whirlwind of girls swoop her away again.
I take off to bang the hottie since it's 11:30. Pound her until 3 in the morning.
Positives
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Approached a hilarious set
Felt extremely confident all night. No rejection phased me.
Lessons
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No more cutting club night short to go bang hotties. As fun as it was, I would of preferred that I kept beasting
Eye contact is deadly
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Hey dudes, vacation time is finally up. I'll be back to beasting 4 nights a week. Shit's been unreal lately. I remember six months ago when I used to imagine having more than one fuck buddy. After a few more months of HARD commitment I'm seeing CRAZY results. Three girls that just want it bad. One sweetheart that I've had as a fuck buddy for 11 months. One of the hottest girls that I've ever slept with always down. The funny part is she lives with her boyfriend but is falling for me. I kind of framed it that way too.."Oh you can't fall in love with me...you have a boyfriend..it would be wrong and I'm a heartbreaker." Then I have a third girl who's 29 but just ALWAYS wants it. Like moreso than other girls. I come over and she's on her knees. I've made two large decisions regarding game.
-I have to accept that I'm no longer a newbie and at the VERY minimum i'm on the lower level of intermediate
-It's time to get some coaching so I don't get stuck in purgatory
That being said i've decided to sign up for some coaching with the one and only manwhore. Hoping to get some solid results and insights from this dude. Anyways in our first session we mainly reviewed staying grounded in yourself. The one amazing insight I got was that when I fall out of state and either approach till I find it funny or do something to break my comfort zone it's really just me making it about myself again. Going to work on trying to bring a meditative state into the club and focus more on what my body's telling me rather than the environment. I've also decided to...do a BOOTCAMP! So excited for this. Can't wait until September. I can feel that this is just the right time for me to do this. I've been banging this out 4 nights a week for a year now. Time to ramp it up!
I get to Motown a bit late. I'm feeling pretty solid since I got laid the last three days by some very sexy girls. Anyways I have the rich stunner blowing me up to go hang out with her and her friends tonight at another bar. Last night was sexy. I sat in on her math class and pulled her to the bathroom to bang her. Any who I decided I'm going to go bang her again tonight around 11:30. I show up at Motown a bit late around 10:45.
I get into the bar and just feel fucking amazing. Go upstairs and open a short lil brown girl. She's loving it. Projecting a solid vibe. Working on my eye contact and vocal projection. She's getting completely sucked in. I move my head in and out like I'm going to kiss her as her knees get weak. ;p Her friends swoop in and steal her. It was unreal. It was like a Tasmanian devil whirlwind of girls and she just got whisked away. Havn't really seen anything like this before.
Open a three set and in a commanding voice say "What's your background." She gives me a bit of a bitchy look and says "guess." I tell her "I don't care anymore but your diva mannerisms are cute." She laughs. It's on. She's a tall girl with dark brown hair and a sexy black dress. Love it. We chat about random shit. She gives me random weird looks about random shit I'm talking about like broccoli. I feel the interaction slipping but I try my best to stay grounded. I've had a million sets go like this where the girl ends up not liking me but this one lasted longer than normal. There really is something to staying grounded and chill when you're in on a cutie. She gets all uptight when I pick her up off the ground. I talk to her friends and get blown out. I've noticed this mistake I make. Sometimes if things really start slipping I'll start talking to the friends. I've also tried escalating, isolating, and chilling back, but the result is usually the same. **Must learn to shape people's emotions toward me better**
I see the RSD boys. They're talking to two girls and I introduce myself. I say something funny as shit and then lock arms with one of the girls and yell hook. She's in love but I lose interest and walk over to talk to the boys. Aren't that many girls here tonight.
We go outside and I approach a woman with a black dude. Funny ass shit ensues. She likes me at the start when I say "You were cute I had to come say hi" but as I start flexing my intent she gets nervous. She slowly slides back around and locks arms with the black dude. I jokingly say "If you're dating her good for you." I turn my attention to the girl and say "but if you're not fuck you!" Her facial expression after I said this was hilarious.
Open a girl with by spinning her around by the hand. She says abruptly "Do I know you" I give her a confident look and say "Who are you." We talk about broccoli and shit. She's married and her husband is beside her. She says it was lovely to meet me as I walk off.
I see the brown girl again. Grab her from her friends and say "Yo girl you like icecream." She excitedly says "Ya!" I respond with "Give me your number. We're going to get some. I'll call ya so you have mine." She gives me the number before the Tazmanian whirlwind of girls swoop her away again.
I take off to bang the hottie since it's 11:30. Pound her until 3 in the morning.
Positives
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Approached a hilarious set
Felt extremely confident all night. No rejection phased me.
Lessons
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No more cutting club night short to go bang hotties. As fun as it was, I would of preferred that I kept beasting
Eye contact is deadly
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Thur June 15th - Everywhere - The ultimate solution to a dead night: Hit up a gay bar ;)
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Hey dudes, so it's my last night before I head up to a cottage with my buddies for the weekend. Going to be a sweet time. I left packing for 3 in the morning as I wanted to go out and be a bad ass on a Thursday night. This night is all about being focused on my inner body or drawing my state from within and eye contact.
Ales and I go to Rokbar first. There is one big group of girls but they hate us because we see them every week on Thursday. No one else in the club. We ditch the bar and go to the Lazy Flamingo. My buddies band is playing. We kick it for a few songs before heading out to find some ladies. Rokbar is still dead.
We walk down the street and get pulled into a new club called Hush by a manager. There are 4 girls here. A cute blondie, her hottie friend in a red dress, and two big friends. I open the one girl and she hooks immediately due to my strong eye contact. Buys me a drink. Love it. Give it to Ales. They have one disgruntled black dude friend who starts giving me shit when I jump in a picture he's taking. He walks away like a frantic diva, throws his hands in the air and says "Nope, not taking the picture anymore." I tell him he should be my photographer and follow me around taking my pictures while in a little hat. He goes and sits in the corner all sad and depressed. Chat up the girls a bit more before her boyfriend comes into the picture.
Ales and I head outside. We see the two bigger girls and start talking to them. Got really strong eye contact and am crushing it. Very centered in myself right now. Living through my intent is a bit off. I suspect this is the result of missing a shit load of days going out due to vacation. Anyways, this conversation is boring and I want to kiss her to keep my interest. I decide against this like a pussy and gave her some gay hug instead.
We go roam the streets to find more women. None left so we go to my car and I drive to Slaintee's. There's around 6 dudes in this bar and one large girl who's singing on a stage. Yay! Walk to London Taphouse. There are 0 people in here. I can't help but burst into laughter as I walk out.
Go to Agusta street and check out two different pubs. Now Agusta street has a much older crowd (29+) but we try to find anything. Check out two bars: Gallaghers and The Cat and Fiddle but there's nothing.
FUCK! Time to spice it up. Ales recommends we hit the one gay bar called Embacy. I start laughing at how retarded this is but decide it would be hilarious. We make a pact to watch each other asses since were both sexy ass dudes. We get in and it's the most packed venue so far. See a gay server in just his boxers and burst out into laugher. Love it. Open two bigger girls by the bar. Turns out one of them is single but the friend isn't down to cheat so they run away.
Hit the dance floor and start doing the gayest moves I can possibly do. Open the only turbo hottie sitting on a bench. She has brown hair and her nails are painted to glow in the dark. We flirt a bit back and forth but I can't get her to stand up so I grab a 45 year old beside her and grind with her. The turbo hottie's friend comes up and introduces herself to me. She starts hitting on me pretty hard. I'm not too interested in her so I shut down her advances. Go to the bathroom and see a 300 pound man in a thong. Fun stuff. Go outside and eat an Italian sausage...err there was a meat stand. ;) Talk to turbo hottie one last time but she's KOed and in a shitter mood. The hottie's friend kisses me and we leave.
Go into Rok. There's more people but no new girls so we depart.
Go to Sizzle. Long interaction with Scottish blonde. Kept the conversation going but I was just chilling and not trying to get something like I was out of state just vibing. The issue here is my physical escalation is off. Or maybe it just wasn't happening with this girl. She just wasn't having any form of physical escalation. Girl who's phone I broke a few weeks ago storms into the set. I attempt to stop her from ruining it by intervening and saying "What's up. hug"
Ales and I sit down with a table of 4 girls. They love us. I'm hitting on one of the girls the entire time. This was an hour and a half set. The entire table loved me but by the end I started to feel super tired. The bottom line here is we were flirting like crazy but when I tried to get the number at the end of the night her friend was dragging her by the arm to the cab. I should of got it sooner. My fault on this one. The other BIG mistake on this one was that I wasn't sitting beside her. All I could do from my position was talk across a table. I could of also just demanded she get up so we could talk for a minute.
Positives
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Gay bar dedication..nuff said
Saw some hilarious shit tonight
Getting better at staying almost in a meditative state when in a club situation
Lessons
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Escalate faster. Need to weed out interactions that aren't going anywhere.
Lead harder. If the girl isn't where I want her to be, don't except the situation, shape it.
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Hey dudes, so it's my last night before I head up to a cottage with my buddies for the weekend. Going to be a sweet time. I left packing for 3 in the morning as I wanted to go out and be a bad ass on a Thursday night. This night is all about being focused on my inner body or drawing my state from within and eye contact.
Ales and I go to Rokbar first. There is one big group of girls but they hate us because we see them every week on Thursday. No one else in the club. We ditch the bar and go to the Lazy Flamingo. My buddies band is playing. We kick it for a few songs before heading out to find some ladies. Rokbar is still dead.
We walk down the street and get pulled into a new club called Hush by a manager. There are 4 girls here. A cute blondie, her hottie friend in a red dress, and two big friends. I open the one girl and she hooks immediately due to my strong eye contact. Buys me a drink. Love it. Give it to Ales. They have one disgruntled black dude friend who starts giving me shit when I jump in a picture he's taking. He walks away like a frantic diva, throws his hands in the air and says "Nope, not taking the picture anymore." I tell him he should be my photographer and follow me around taking my pictures while in a little hat. He goes and sits in the corner all sad and depressed. Chat up the girls a bit more before her boyfriend comes into the picture.
Ales and I head outside. We see the two bigger girls and start talking to them. Got really strong eye contact and am crushing it. Very centered in myself right now. Living through my intent is a bit off. I suspect this is the result of missing a shit load of days going out due to vacation. Anyways, this conversation is boring and I want to kiss her to keep my interest. I decide against this like a pussy and gave her some gay hug instead.
We go roam the streets to find more women. None left so we go to my car and I drive to Slaintee's. There's around 6 dudes in this bar and one large girl who's singing on a stage. Yay! Walk to London Taphouse. There are 0 people in here. I can't help but burst into laughter as I walk out.
Go to Agusta street and check out two different pubs. Now Agusta street has a much older crowd (29+) but we try to find anything. Check out two bars: Gallaghers and The Cat and Fiddle but there's nothing.
FUCK! Time to spice it up. Ales recommends we hit the one gay bar called Embacy. I start laughing at how retarded this is but decide it would be hilarious. We make a pact to watch each other asses since were both sexy ass dudes. We get in and it's the most packed venue so far. See a gay server in just his boxers and burst out into laugher. Love it. Open two bigger girls by the bar. Turns out one of them is single but the friend isn't down to cheat so they run away.
Hit the dance floor and start doing the gayest moves I can possibly do. Open the only turbo hottie sitting on a bench. She has brown hair and her nails are painted to glow in the dark. We flirt a bit back and forth but I can't get her to stand up so I grab a 45 year old beside her and grind with her. The turbo hottie's friend comes up and introduces herself to me. She starts hitting on me pretty hard. I'm not too interested in her so I shut down her advances. Go to the bathroom and see a 300 pound man in a thong. Fun stuff. Go outside and eat an Italian sausage...err there was a meat stand. ;) Talk to turbo hottie one last time but she's KOed and in a shitter mood. The hottie's friend kisses me and we leave.
Go into Rok. There's more people but no new girls so we depart.
Go to Sizzle. Long interaction with Scottish blonde. Kept the conversation going but I was just chilling and not trying to get something like I was out of state just vibing. The issue here is my physical escalation is off. Or maybe it just wasn't happening with this girl. She just wasn't having any form of physical escalation. Girl who's phone I broke a few weeks ago storms into the set. I attempt to stop her from ruining it by intervening and saying "What's up. hug"
Ales and I sit down with a table of 4 girls. They love us. I'm hitting on one of the girls the entire time. This was an hour and a half set. The entire table loved me but by the end I started to feel super tired. The bottom line here is we were flirting like crazy but when I tried to get the number at the end of the night her friend was dragging her by the arm to the cab. I should of got it sooner. My fault on this one. The other BIG mistake on this one was that I wasn't sitting beside her. All I could do from my position was talk across a table. I could of also just demanded she get up so we could talk for a minute.
Positives
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Gay bar dedication..nuff said
Saw some hilarious shit tonight
Getting better at staying almost in a meditative state when in a club situation
Lessons
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Escalate faster. Need to weed out interactions that aren't going anywhere.
Lead harder. If the girl isn't where I want her to be, don't except the situation, shape it.
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Wed June 20th - Motown - Kissed the BLARNEY STONE!
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Not too many people here so I walk in and look for my buddies. I ignore the first approach breaking my rule. I do a quick walk around the club and can't find my friends. I need to fix my mistake so I open the first set of girls I see outside. I walk in and with a booming voice yell "Who are you" she turns and says very quietly some Spanish name I can't remember. I say "Girl, slow down and repeat yourself." They all start smiling and laughing. I go through their names one by one. I get to a girl with long dark hair who's name sounds like Petro. I immediately say "Petro? like the gas company? Girl let me tell you what I'm going to have you do." I go on describing to her in great detail how she's going to pump my gas and how sexy my car is. The whole time the group really can't believing what's going on and have a shocked look on their faces while they continue to laugh. They're loving me. I see my buddies and disengage the set to say hi.
Talk to this dude that looks like lil Wayne. He's getting swarmed by girls. Funny shit at Motown tonight.
Go up to the second floor with Alessandro and open a girl. I hand of god her and pull her in. I say "Girl, let me tell you about kangaroos." She's not having this at all. Gets an angry look in her eye and storms off with her friend.
Walk downstairs and bump into Rich #1 It's Rich's #1's birthday Motown tonight so were doing some shots. I see Rich # 2 on a set with three girls sitting down. He's working on one girl on the left side. A solid cutie with tight jeans, dark hair, and a sexy mouth piercing. In the middle there's a girl who is so damn shy she won't even look at me. I go up and sit between the third girl and the second girl. I demand she tells me her name. She kind of shy's away. I'm intimidating this girl way too much. Slowly more players slip in. Near the end we had Rich #1/2, Alessandro, and I trying to figure out which girl for who. Anyways, the girl(Courtney) Rich #2 was originally hitting on turns to me and says "Hey, I'll talk to you" with a smile on. She's obviously turned on and NOT intimated by my booming voice and personality. I start talking to her and move things along pretty quickly. I try to pull her off the bench but she won't come so I sit on her lap. I tell her I have a story for her. I say in breaking rapport about how kangaroos have pouches to smuggle tiny Mexicans across the border. lol She laughs but her friends pull her away.
I talk to a bunch of girls but most of them are quick blowouts as I demanded girls make me sandwiches.
I'm slipping out of state but it's not like normal. Normally I'll go into my head. I'm aware of what's happening and start to chill out and center myself. Loosens me up a bit, I accept what's happening and move on...if that makes sense.
Open a set with Rich #1. Two cuties. There's a girl with long blonde hair, short tight pants, and a pink shirt that shows off those curves just right. The other girl is a rocker girl who's wearing an Avenged Sevenfold tee. I open the blonde first. Start talking to her in a loud voice and demand her attention when it's slipping by yelling "Listen." Rich #1 was on the girl but I switch to her to get her name. I ask her what her favorite song is by Avenged and she says some new shitty song. Give her a "wtf" look and she starts saying "What! What! I know it's new but...it's still good." lol I switch back to the other girl. I wonder if Rich #1 was wondering wtf was going on. We switch one more time. The rocker girl is down but they bolt off when a third friend comes in. I didn't really try to stop this. Should of watched this situation better with the peripherals. This would of been an EASY number close. Don't see this pair of girls again.
Gotta get that physicality going. I open a bigger girl and dance with her. She's got a cute face so she passes my rule. Anyways. Easy shit obviously. Isolate her. Tell her about armadillos. Get her to do a sexy dance on my dick. Kind of force a kiss. Number close. Moving on.
Open a few more sets and have a couple funny blowouts. I'm starting to realize my physicality is REALLY WEAK tonight. I see Rich #1 again and want to have some fun. I see a HUGE sea whale of a lady with a tiny lil cutie. I say..."let's have some fun!" I open the huge lady and say "Girl! Glasses! Trade! NOW!" She starts giggling and we switch glasses. I lean in and her eyes start to widen a bit. I start thinking of the different ways I could have fun with this girl. I lean in and give her a short kiss. The other girl is getting sucked in and keeps turning her head to me. Keep in mind I'm being VERY loud and saying things with A LOT of personality to this girl. Time to motorboat. I take off my glasses and slowly shift my head down to her massive tits. Rich #1 looks over and starts wondering what's going on as she's gasping for air. Rich #1's girl is so damn shocked at this point that I open her real quick. She starts asking "Who are you" and other questions I ignore. I spin her and pull her in. She says "I'm her best friend." Rich #1 is now in close with the huge girl. Trying to steal my catch. ;) I say "YOU NEED A DOUBLE MOTORBOAT" and push Rich #1's head down as I take off my glasses and motor boat her other tit. Hilarious. She mentions she's got a tattoo on her ass of a 4 leaf clover. I rip her pants down and look at it. I decide this is a perfect time to kiss it and start saying "SHIT! I kissed the blarney stone!" I jump on Rich's back and ride we ride around while I scream. lol We're fucked up dudes. ;) We disengage from this.
I walk upstairs and see Courtney again. This time I'm going harder. I grab her and start to dance. She keeps looking back at her friend so I demand her attention by shifting her body and yelling "Focus, Girl!" Tell her to dance sexy on me. She drops some porn star moves. I tell her "Girl! You like ice cream." She smiles and excitedly says "LOVE IT!" I say "give me your number" I tell her to leave something interesting in the notes about herself. While she's putting in her number her annoying friends are trying to drag her away. I turn to them and bellow out "CHILL GIRLY." They back off and she hands me her phone back. Went for the goodbye kiss but it felt pretty forced and wasn't received well. It was something that I wanted out of the way tho.
Open a girl on the bench outside. She's being very unreceptive. I force my way in between the two girls on the right of the three set. I start trying to tell the girl in the middle about kangaroos. Even though my voice is loud as shit she won't shift her focus off her friend. I say fuck it and turn to the friend. This girl has long dark hair, tight booty shorts with a huge ass to back it, and a gorgeous face. She's into me and I can tell right away. I start going into how she's going to make a sandwich for me. I tell her to cut the edges like my mom does and other various parts that are a necessity for a proper sandwich. ;) This whole time she's smiling and saying "Fuck that I'm not making you a sandwich" I don't mind any of her objections and just keep talking. Move in a bit and her eyes widen. Make out. Slide my hand up her leg. She actually had her legs crossed and uncrosses them for me. This is obviously a signal she wants something in her vagina so I start fingering her. I don't have a great angle and her friends are sitting RIGHT beside me so I try to make it discrete as possible. Stop this after a minute or so. Grab her number with the ice cream line from before. I make her massage my back and then say "I'm going to reward you by calling and giving you my number." She keeps laughing and goes on about the sandwich and how she's not making it. I make it very clear that when we go for ice cream she's going to make me a sandwich after. Her friends tell her to stay here while they find another friend. I turn to the friends and say "We'll stay here." Hoping to strike a common ground with then. These bitches completely dismiss me and just talk to her. Lame. Oh well. They leave. We make out a bit more. Debating on if I should try to make her leave with me. I start with the baby step of getting her up. She gives me some serious resistance so I grab her and pick her up. I think this may of come off as try hard as I didn't drag her up right away. I did some weak pulls which she resisted. Once she was up I slam her against a tree. I shove my hand between her legs and push it up against her pussy while I hold my hand behind her neck. It wasn't the best move as I think she was too tall to do it. We make out and a friend comes in screaming "WERE LEAVING NOW" and rips her away by the arm.
The girl beside her opens me and won't stop going on about my voice and how I must be in theatre or some shit. She's very attracted but also very ugly. I ditch the set.
The rest of the night I mostly got blowouts. Nothing really sticks. Take off around 2:00 AM.
Positives
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Physicality is coming back. Fingering girls again. :D
Had some serious fun tonight
Becoming more grounded in myself. Not slipping way out of state that much anymore. I just accept the blow outs and where I'm at before moving on.
Kissed the BLARNEY STONE
Lessons
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A lot of personality in your voice can get some strong attraction. It can also get you blown the fuck out quickly. :D
Need to consciously push my physicality until I slip into the sweet spot where I can escalate seamlessly when the time is right. (Maybe start executing the physical escalation stack again)
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Not too many people here so I walk in and look for my buddies. I ignore the first approach breaking my rule. I do a quick walk around the club and can't find my friends. I need to fix my mistake so I open the first set of girls I see outside. I walk in and with a booming voice yell "Who are you" she turns and says very quietly some Spanish name I can't remember. I say "Girl, slow down and repeat yourself." They all start smiling and laughing. I go through their names one by one. I get to a girl with long dark hair who's name sounds like Petro. I immediately say "Petro? like the gas company? Girl let me tell you what I'm going to have you do." I go on describing to her in great detail how she's going to pump my gas and how sexy my car is. The whole time the group really can't believing what's going on and have a shocked look on their faces while they continue to laugh. They're loving me. I see my buddies and disengage the set to say hi.
Talk to this dude that looks like lil Wayne. He's getting swarmed by girls. Funny shit at Motown tonight.
Go up to the second floor with Alessandro and open a girl. I hand of god her and pull her in. I say "Girl, let me tell you about kangaroos." She's not having this at all. Gets an angry look in her eye and storms off with her friend.
Walk downstairs and bump into Rich #1 It's Rich's #1's birthday Motown tonight so were doing some shots. I see Rich # 2 on a set with three girls sitting down. He's working on one girl on the left side. A solid cutie with tight jeans, dark hair, and a sexy mouth piercing. In the middle there's a girl who is so damn shy she won't even look at me. I go up and sit between the third girl and the second girl. I demand she tells me her name. She kind of shy's away. I'm intimidating this girl way too much. Slowly more players slip in. Near the end we had Rich #1/2, Alessandro, and I trying to figure out which girl for who. Anyways, the girl(Courtney) Rich #2 was originally hitting on turns to me and says "Hey, I'll talk to you" with a smile on. She's obviously turned on and NOT intimated by my booming voice and personality. I start talking to her and move things along pretty quickly. I try to pull her off the bench but she won't come so I sit on her lap. I tell her I have a story for her. I say in breaking rapport about how kangaroos have pouches to smuggle tiny Mexicans across the border. lol She laughs but her friends pull her away.
I talk to a bunch of girls but most of them are quick blowouts as I demanded girls make me sandwiches.
I'm slipping out of state but it's not like normal. Normally I'll go into my head. I'm aware of what's happening and start to chill out and center myself. Loosens me up a bit, I accept what's happening and move on...if that makes sense.
Open a set with Rich #1. Two cuties. There's a girl with long blonde hair, short tight pants, and a pink shirt that shows off those curves just right. The other girl is a rocker girl who's wearing an Avenged Sevenfold tee. I open the blonde first. Start talking to her in a loud voice and demand her attention when it's slipping by yelling "Listen." Rich #1 was on the girl but I switch to her to get her name. I ask her what her favorite song is by Avenged and she says some new shitty song. Give her a "wtf" look and she starts saying "What! What! I know it's new but...it's still good." lol I switch back to the other girl. I wonder if Rich #1 was wondering wtf was going on. We switch one more time. The rocker girl is down but they bolt off when a third friend comes in. I didn't really try to stop this. Should of watched this situation better with the peripherals. This would of been an EASY number close. Don't see this pair of girls again.
Gotta get that physicality going. I open a bigger girl and dance with her. She's got a cute face so she passes my rule. Anyways. Easy shit obviously. Isolate her. Tell her about armadillos. Get her to do a sexy dance on my dick. Kind of force a kiss. Number close. Moving on.
Open a few more sets and have a couple funny blowouts. I'm starting to realize my physicality is REALLY WEAK tonight. I see Rich #1 again and want to have some fun. I see a HUGE sea whale of a lady with a tiny lil cutie. I say..."let's have some fun!" I open the huge lady and say "Girl! Glasses! Trade! NOW!" She starts giggling and we switch glasses. I lean in and her eyes start to widen a bit. I start thinking of the different ways I could have fun with this girl. I lean in and give her a short kiss. The other girl is getting sucked in and keeps turning her head to me. Keep in mind I'm being VERY loud and saying things with A LOT of personality to this girl. Time to motorboat. I take off my glasses and slowly shift my head down to her massive tits. Rich #1 looks over and starts wondering what's going on as she's gasping for air. Rich #1's girl is so damn shocked at this point that I open her real quick. She starts asking "Who are you" and other questions I ignore. I spin her and pull her in. She says "I'm her best friend." Rich #1 is now in close with the huge girl. Trying to steal my catch. ;) I say "YOU NEED A DOUBLE MOTORBOAT" and push Rich #1's head down as I take off my glasses and motor boat her other tit. Hilarious. She mentions she's got a tattoo on her ass of a 4 leaf clover. I rip her pants down and look at it. I decide this is a perfect time to kiss it and start saying "SHIT! I kissed the blarney stone!" I jump on Rich's back and ride we ride around while I scream. lol We're fucked up dudes. ;) We disengage from this.
I walk upstairs and see Courtney again. This time I'm going harder. I grab her and start to dance. She keeps looking back at her friend so I demand her attention by shifting her body and yelling "Focus, Girl!" Tell her to dance sexy on me. She drops some porn star moves. I tell her "Girl! You like ice cream." She smiles and excitedly says "LOVE IT!" I say "give me your number" I tell her to leave something interesting in the notes about herself. While she's putting in her number her annoying friends are trying to drag her away. I turn to them and bellow out "CHILL GIRLY." They back off and she hands me her phone back. Went for the goodbye kiss but it felt pretty forced and wasn't received well. It was something that I wanted out of the way tho.
Open a girl on the bench outside. She's being very unreceptive. I force my way in between the two girls on the right of the three set. I start trying to tell the girl in the middle about kangaroos. Even though my voice is loud as shit she won't shift her focus off her friend. I say fuck it and turn to the friend. This girl has long dark hair, tight booty shorts with a huge ass to back it, and a gorgeous face. She's into me and I can tell right away. I start going into how she's going to make a sandwich for me. I tell her to cut the edges like my mom does and other various parts that are a necessity for a proper sandwich. ;) This whole time she's smiling and saying "Fuck that I'm not making you a sandwich" I don't mind any of her objections and just keep talking. Move in a bit and her eyes widen. Make out. Slide my hand up her leg. She actually had her legs crossed and uncrosses them for me. This is obviously a signal she wants something in her vagina so I start fingering her. I don't have a great angle and her friends are sitting RIGHT beside me so I try to make it discrete as possible. Stop this after a minute or so. Grab her number with the ice cream line from before. I make her massage my back and then say "I'm going to reward you by calling and giving you my number." She keeps laughing and goes on about the sandwich and how she's not making it. I make it very clear that when we go for ice cream she's going to make me a sandwich after. Her friends tell her to stay here while they find another friend. I turn to the friends and say "We'll stay here." Hoping to strike a common ground with then. These bitches completely dismiss me and just talk to her. Lame. Oh well. They leave. We make out a bit more. Debating on if I should try to make her leave with me. I start with the baby step of getting her up. She gives me some serious resistance so I grab her and pick her up. I think this may of come off as try hard as I didn't drag her up right away. I did some weak pulls which she resisted. Once she was up I slam her against a tree. I shove my hand between her legs and push it up against her pussy while I hold my hand behind her neck. It wasn't the best move as I think she was too tall to do it. We make out and a friend comes in screaming "WERE LEAVING NOW" and rips her away by the arm.
The girl beside her opens me and won't stop going on about my voice and how I must be in theatre or some shit. She's very attracted but also very ugly. I ditch the set.
The rest of the night I mostly got blowouts. Nothing really sticks. Take off around 2:00 AM.
Positives
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Physicality is coming back. Fingering girls again. :D
Had some serious fun tonight
Becoming more grounded in myself. Not slipping way out of state that much anymore. I just accept the blow outs and where I'm at before moving on.
Kissed the BLARNEY STONE
Lessons
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A lot of personality in your voice can get some strong attraction. It can also get you blown the fuck out quickly. :D
Need to consciously push my physicality until I slip into the sweet spot where I can escalate seamlessly when the time is right. (Maybe start executing the physical escalation stack again)
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Thurs June 21st - Rokbar and Sizzle - Turbo hottie troubles and Lemmings
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Go out with my boy Rich #1 tonight. We get down to Hess around 10:45. The first stop is the Flamingo as my buddies band is playing and one of my favorite scenes is a live band with a drink. Chat about funny shit for a bit...Fuck the bartender that banned me from the bar a year ago shows up! We stealth down to the lower level patio and finish our beers quickly. No way I'm familiarizing the new bouncers with my ban. Time to move on!
Both Sizzle and Rokbar are free till 12:00. It's 11:35 so we check out Sizzle first. Only a group of old ladies in here. They start trying to maul by lifting my shirt up and touching my nipples. I'm using strong breaking rapport with them and they're loving it. Grab one and start dancing with her. Dip her..thankfully didn't throw her back. ;) They're all not that attractive and it's 11:45 rolls around and it's time to leave.
I see a MONSTER of a set. Bunch of cuties at a table with some big dudes. I walk around and don't approach it for 3 minutes. Snap myself out of it and approach a girl in a pink dress. I'm using a very LOUD booming voice that almost seems out of place on the quiet patio. I say "You're cute, what's your name." She mutters something so I say "Girl! Stand up so I can hear you." She stands and chats with me on the side...I realize when she stands up she's fat as hell. The difference between this girl sitting and standing is like Mary Kate Olsen and Rosie O'Donnell. Ekk! No time to waste...I already listen to Rosie every night on mix tapes. ;) We run down to Rokbar.
They mention we have to pay. I say "Fuck that Sizzle is free till 12:00." She's smiling and says "Nope gotta pay" I say loudly "I want to speak to your manager." They all laugh and point to a security camera. it was really weird, after that they just ignored me and didn't ask me to pay. I walked right in. Fun times.
Roll in and own it. There's 3 sets here. Parading around the floor like I own it and say to Rich "Hottest group in here, let's go!" By this I mean, open the two 9's in the middle. Ones in a SEXY ass flower dress. So tight it makes her curves look scrumptious. I GRAB mine and rip her in. I yell "What's your name girl!" She's got a massive grin on her face and says "I'm not telling you." I respond by flipping her the other way so her ass is against me and say into her ear "Dance sexy for me, girl!" She starts dropping porn star moves. Unfortunately her friend drags her away while she smiles.
Not many girls left. Rich and I kind of split the opening of different girls. Nothing sticks. One extremely funny set was a two set in the corner. They were some busted older ladies. Rich goes in and starts talking about his dog. I come in a bit later and start projecting at the friend in a booming voice. I tell her "Girl! Let me tell you about lemmings. They run off cliffs but the real reason is INSANE. This shit is crazy! The reason is to hit trampolines so they bounce up into the side of the mountain and stop the mole people. It doesn't make sense? How the fuck! Would lemmings get to the mole people without trampolines? She starts dying of laughter and drawing the attention of her friend. They blow us out but it was so damn funny. Love it.
See the hottie again. Grab her she's super giggly again. Her friend tries to block me so I pick her up and drag her to a corner. I say with loud breaking rapport "What's your name girl" She tells me and I say "Thanks" as I slap her on the butt while her friend pulls her away.
Rich and I take a break and chat outside for a bit. I planned to reopen the hottie but they left while we were talking. :( I've had the same situation happen with a turbo hottie where I open with hard breaking rapport and they're having the time of their lives but the friends pull away. I reopen a few times but the attraction eventually slips away. Maybe I should pick her up cave man style and run away.(Further than a corner)
It's 1:00 and it's time to go home. No one left to hit on. Great night to keep the momentum.
Positives
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Live band chilling - Personal favorite
Pushed comfort zone on a set
Lessons
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Gotta go balls to the wall with the turbo hotties to get them away from the damn friends
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Go out with my boy Rich #1 tonight. We get down to Hess around 10:45. The first stop is the Flamingo as my buddies band is playing and one of my favorite scenes is a live band with a drink. Chat about funny shit for a bit...Fuck the bartender that banned me from the bar a year ago shows up! We stealth down to the lower level patio and finish our beers quickly. No way I'm familiarizing the new bouncers with my ban. Time to move on!
Both Sizzle and Rokbar are free till 12:00. It's 11:35 so we check out Sizzle first. Only a group of old ladies in here. They start trying to maul by lifting my shirt up and touching my nipples. I'm using strong breaking rapport with them and they're loving it. Grab one and start dancing with her. Dip her..thankfully didn't throw her back. ;) They're all not that attractive and it's 11:45 rolls around and it's time to leave.
I see a MONSTER of a set. Bunch of cuties at a table with some big dudes. I walk around and don't approach it for 3 minutes. Snap myself out of it and approach a girl in a pink dress. I'm using a very LOUD booming voice that almost seems out of place on the quiet patio. I say "You're cute, what's your name." She mutters something so I say "Girl! Stand up so I can hear you." She stands and chats with me on the side...I realize when she stands up she's fat as hell. The difference between this girl sitting and standing is like Mary Kate Olsen and Rosie O'Donnell. Ekk! No time to waste...I already listen to Rosie every night on mix tapes. ;) We run down to Rokbar.
They mention we have to pay. I say "Fuck that Sizzle is free till 12:00." She's smiling and says "Nope gotta pay" I say loudly "I want to speak to your manager." They all laugh and point to a security camera. it was really weird, after that they just ignored me and didn't ask me to pay. I walked right in. Fun times.
Roll in and own it. There's 3 sets here. Parading around the floor like I own it and say to Rich "Hottest group in here, let's go!" By this I mean, open the two 9's in the middle. Ones in a SEXY ass flower dress. So tight it makes her curves look scrumptious. I GRAB mine and rip her in. I yell "What's your name girl!" She's got a massive grin on her face and says "I'm not telling you." I respond by flipping her the other way so her ass is against me and say into her ear "Dance sexy for me, girl!" She starts dropping porn star moves. Unfortunately her friend drags her away while she smiles.
Not many girls left. Rich and I kind of split the opening of different girls. Nothing sticks. One extremely funny set was a two set in the corner. They were some busted older ladies. Rich goes in and starts talking about his dog. I come in a bit later and start projecting at the friend in a booming voice. I tell her "Girl! Let me tell you about lemmings. They run off cliffs but the real reason is INSANE. This shit is crazy! The reason is to hit trampolines so they bounce up into the side of the mountain and stop the mole people. It doesn't make sense? How the fuck! Would lemmings get to the mole people without trampolines? She starts dying of laughter and drawing the attention of her friend. They blow us out but it was so damn funny. Love it.
See the hottie again. Grab her she's super giggly again. Her friend tries to block me so I pick her up and drag her to a corner. I say with loud breaking rapport "What's your name girl" She tells me and I say "Thanks" as I slap her on the butt while her friend pulls her away.
Rich and I take a break and chat outside for a bit. I planned to reopen the hottie but they left while we were talking. :( I've had the same situation happen with a turbo hottie where I open with hard breaking rapport and they're having the time of their lives but the friends pull away. I reopen a few times but the attraction eventually slips away. Maybe I should pick her up cave man style and run away.(Further than a corner)
It's 1:00 and it's time to go home. No one left to hit on. Great night to keep the momentum.
Positives
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Live band chilling - Personal favorite
Pushed comfort zone on a set
Lessons
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Gotta go balls to the wall with the turbo hotties to get them away from the damn friends
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Sat June 23rd - Gown and Gavel - Crushed all night but ROCK it on the LAST three girls on the street.
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Hey dudes. This was an interesting night as I ate about 20 blowouts in a row. In terms of my life right now. I'm implementing a shit load of habits to try and improve my outer game. I've been in a bit of a rut the last week but will continue to slam it out until I blow past it. I also have some news I am fucking pumped about! I purchased a bootcamp the other day with Julien. CAN'T FUCKING WAIT. I really want to take this shit to the next level and am looking for the tools to do so. I'm confident I'm going to get a shit load of value out of this. I've also started looking for a 2 month sublet in T.O to get a feel for the scene. I plan on partially living up there in September. So the current plan to push myself further:
-Bootcamp
-Hotseat
-Outer game drills
-Moving to T.O(Bigger city, hotter girls, more opportunity for reference points)
Night starts off with Ales and I going to Hush. We got free entry and drinks so it was pretty cool. Opened the first few sets and got blown the fuck out. Mostly because I was being a faggot. I noticed when I don't have an amazing night it's a little different than before. A few months ago I would be completely destroyed after a SHIT load of blowouts. Now, I just notice my intent gets thrown off and I'll stick it out until the end of the night. After we have our free drinks we ditch to go to Gown.
I head to Gown and Gavel. As per the last night, we don't want to get stuck in a situation where Gown is the only good place but we didn't get in on time. We wait in line for a good 10 minutes and go in. My patio game is weak as shit. It's something I really need to adjust too. It's mostly due to the fact that I'm still not FULL comfortable going through tables one by one and sitting down. Now this isn't the WHOLE place but it's selling point is a patio bar so there are LOTS of cuties sitting with friends.
We approach a good 8 sets and get blown out by all of them. The next one is a two set with a petite blonde and a girl with a silk pink dress. I open the blonde and find out very quickly she's married and has no interest in me being that guy. Ales locks the other girl in hard and the friends can't pull her away. Now I'm in a situation where I'm solo and have slipped back into shitty default behavior patterns. I open 5 more girls and get blown out. Fury starts building as I can't stand when girls say some dude is their boyfriend when he's obvious some beta faggot friend. Interestingly enough this only happens when I'm being a beta faggot. ;)
In the middle of Gown there's a redbull car with speakers. It's pretty damn sweet. I start telling girls a story about how we're going to steal that car and drive to Cambodia to get proper Egyptian bed sheets. lol Things start going better. Girl gets pulled away by her friend to go to the bathroom.
I go up to the dance floor in the top and pull a girl wearing all pink in. She's got short hair and has to be about 29 or so. I go in commanding and spin her asking her "Who are you" She laughs and we start grinding. We see some people dancing in the window from the club across the street and I say "They just want to party with me." I lift her up and continue to grind. Start getting the vibe I'm not pushing the set. Attraction slowly starts dying and I leave the set.
Go downstairs and try to find Ales. In this sense it's because I'm choding around and want to chill with a buddy. I'm backward rationalizing not to approach sets at this point. Haven't been in this zone in a long time. Even better is I KNOW how to snap out of this but I CHOSE not to. (READ: Make it about myself) I leave Gown and head to Rokbar solo.
Walk in to find that the place doesn't have too many girls to work with. I open 3 or 4 and get blown out. I bump into Ales and we head upstairs to hit some new girls up. See a total hottie in a blue dress, an overweight girl, and a lil short cute girl who looks like a punk rocker. I open the sexy girl in a blue dress...OH SHIT she looks like she's got something going on around her mouth. Pretty sure this girl had the herp. Def not making out with this chick. I open her hard anyways and slip back into some commanding mannerisms. I shortly switch to the sister. She loves me but she's a bubbly air head. Turns out she's the youngest of the three. Escalate a couple times but she keeps running away laughing. Thinking back on it I can't remember why I left this set. If I tried to isolate this lil girl I probably could of fucked her as long as I handled the older sister playing the protector card.
Opened a couple more sets and got blown out.
Left Rokbar to do some street game. Rich #1 and 2 show up so I greet their asses. I realize how much of a faggot I've been this night and tell them "I'm going to approach every hottie I see" Granted I'm not feeling like shit it's just I haven't really snapped in that intent. On top of this I've noticed I've backward rationalized not approaching A LOT of hot girls. Time to fix this. ;)
What comes next is pretty awesome. I'm walking up and down the street trying to stop absolute stunners by standing right in front of them and saying "Who are you!" Most of this results in them pushing me aside. I start just accepting where I'm at and tell girls up front "Have you ever felt like you were off one night." Interestingly enough because I was being authentic sets start going well. Have a chill conversation with a blonde girl, her friend, and Rich #2. Snag her number telling her were getting ice-cream. I see a Brazilian stunner walk by. Rich #2 watches my eyes follow her and I say "I said every fucking girl" and open her.
I start getting that commanding tone back. I tell her how she's going to do my laundry. Although she's resisting full physical she's slowly relaxing more after she finds out how cool I am. :D Talk about ice cream and other stuff. She has one friend and some other Brazilian friend. I go for the pull but she won't leave her friends. I think I should of just picked her up and went for it HARD on this one. Take her facebook instead.
It's 3:00 at this point and there really isn't much on the street. Around 20 people or so. The best place this last is the poutine shop. I find Ales. We stick to the rule that no matter HOW BAD the night or HOW FEW people are left, we don't leave until there are NO GIRLS left. It's just me and Ales walking up and down the streets now. We open a few stragglers but get blown off. Walk back to the poutine shop and see three girls.
One's a huge girl with a cute face, the other has curly hair, glasses, and an interesting "boob pocket" on her shirt. The third is a complete girl next store who really seems shy. I open by just walking up the steps and saying "Hey! I like your glasses" as I really thought they were cute. Opens perfectly. She feels my face and gets stuck on how soft my beard is. Ales comes into the set and talks with the big girl. They walk away to see their other friends and she remarks how cute I am as she walks away. Ales is like, "Steve, you cannot leave dis, fuck dis girl." in his thick Italian accent. I love having friends on nights I'm off. We storm back into this set and hit this shit up. My other buddy in a white suit has joined in the set. We're all talking and I steal my girls glasses. She tells me how cute I am. Mostly this is just really chill game by me and Ales. They're in love with Ales' accent. The big girl is all over his dick. My buddy in the white suit tries to tool me twice. Not sure why but I obviously don't take it sitting down. I make what he said funnier and slam him back into place. Handles that and he takes off. I'm starting to wonder if I can pull these girls at 4:00 in the morning. We start walking to their car. I've got her arm locked with mine. We get to the car and start having a bit more fun. I heat it up a bit and start being much more physical with my girl. The big girl is full out in love with Ales and I finally just laugh at her and tell her "You must be so wet right now." in a chill voice. She starts laughing and gives me that look like I get it and says "If I didn't have a boyfriend, I would ride his ..." she doesn't finish the sentence and bursts into laughter.
Some random homeless angry bum comes around starts annoying us. Screaming and kicking cans and shit. It's funny at the start but then he starts getting annoying. My girl starts getting mad at him asking him to leave. I step in and ask him to leave. He's still sticking around. I could of handled this better. Thinking my tonality was a little fucked here. Either way what ends up happening is Ales, two girls, and the bum go to Timmy's. I keep my girl close and push her against the car. Make out. I go for the finger but she pushes me away. She says she can't stay long as they don't normally allow each other to separate off with boys. Bleh 21 year olds. We chill and make out a bit more until the three come back. They ditched the bum. We have some more fun. I push my girl's body over the car and get my face in her grill. Pull her shirt up and bite her stomach. Everyone's getting cold so I suggest we go to another Timmy's.(The one right there was closed) We hop in their car and drive to Timmy's. On the way over I've got my hand sliding up and down her leg. Get some green tea and have a seat. At some point they all go into the bathroom together. They come out and we sit down and talk for another 30 minutes or so. Poke fun at the big girl a bit by saying how bad she needs her vibrator right now. She loudly says "I KNOOOOOOW!" and grunts a little. We find out that two of the girls have to work at 9:00 AM and since it's 5:00 they're ready to get moving. We drive back and they drop us off. Make out with my girl while we leave.
Postitives
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Burned it to the ground
Rewarded with a SOLID number close at the end of the night
Lessons
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Must implement my techniques to make it more about myself earlier when I'm having an off night.
-Push comfort zone
-Do a string of hard approaches
Being authentic when out of it will help to not have girls blow out IMMEDIATELY as opposed to faking a different state
Anyways guys, I know that I'm in the midst of blowing through a serious sticking point. I'm going to get slamming these nights out and having fun until I blast past it. Stay tuned!
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Hey dudes. This was an interesting night as I ate about 20 blowouts in a row. In terms of my life right now. I'm implementing a shit load of habits to try and improve my outer game. I've been in a bit of a rut the last week but will continue to slam it out until I blow past it. I also have some news I am fucking pumped about! I purchased a bootcamp the other day with Julien. CAN'T FUCKING WAIT. I really want to take this shit to the next level and am looking for the tools to do so. I'm confident I'm going to get a shit load of value out of this. I've also started looking for a 2 month sublet in T.O to get a feel for the scene. I plan on partially living up there in September. So the current plan to push myself further:
-Bootcamp
-Hotseat
-Outer game drills
-Moving to T.O(Bigger city, hotter girls, more opportunity for reference points)
Night starts off with Ales and I going to Hush. We got free entry and drinks so it was pretty cool. Opened the first few sets and got blown the fuck out. Mostly because I was being a faggot. I noticed when I don't have an amazing night it's a little different than before. A few months ago I would be completely destroyed after a SHIT load of blowouts. Now, I just notice my intent gets thrown off and I'll stick it out until the end of the night. After we have our free drinks we ditch to go to Gown.
I head to Gown and Gavel. As per the last night, we don't want to get stuck in a situation where Gown is the only good place but we didn't get in on time. We wait in line for a good 10 minutes and go in. My patio game is weak as shit. It's something I really need to adjust too. It's mostly due to the fact that I'm still not FULL comfortable going through tables one by one and sitting down. Now this isn't the WHOLE place but it's selling point is a patio bar so there are LOTS of cuties sitting with friends.
We approach a good 8 sets and get blown out by all of them. The next one is a two set with a petite blonde and a girl with a silk pink dress. I open the blonde and find out very quickly she's married and has no interest in me being that guy. Ales locks the other girl in hard and the friends can't pull her away. Now I'm in a situation where I'm solo and have slipped back into shitty default behavior patterns. I open 5 more girls and get blown out. Fury starts building as I can't stand when girls say some dude is their boyfriend when he's obvious some beta faggot friend. Interestingly enough this only happens when I'm being a beta faggot. ;)
In the middle of Gown there's a redbull car with speakers. It's pretty damn sweet. I start telling girls a story about how we're going to steal that car and drive to Cambodia to get proper Egyptian bed sheets. lol Things start going better. Girl gets pulled away by her friend to go to the bathroom.
I go up to the dance floor in the top and pull a girl wearing all pink in. She's got short hair and has to be about 29 or so. I go in commanding and spin her asking her "Who are you" She laughs and we start grinding. We see some people dancing in the window from the club across the street and I say "They just want to party with me." I lift her up and continue to grind. Start getting the vibe I'm not pushing the set. Attraction slowly starts dying and I leave the set.
Go downstairs and try to find Ales. In this sense it's because I'm choding around and want to chill with a buddy. I'm backward rationalizing not to approach sets at this point. Haven't been in this zone in a long time. Even better is I KNOW how to snap out of this but I CHOSE not to. (READ: Make it about myself) I leave Gown and head to Rokbar solo.
Walk in to find that the place doesn't have too many girls to work with. I open 3 or 4 and get blown out. I bump into Ales and we head upstairs to hit some new girls up. See a total hottie in a blue dress, an overweight girl, and a lil short cute girl who looks like a punk rocker. I open the sexy girl in a blue dress...OH SHIT she looks like she's got something going on around her mouth. Pretty sure this girl had the herp. Def not making out with this chick. I open her hard anyways and slip back into some commanding mannerisms. I shortly switch to the sister. She loves me but she's a bubbly air head. Turns out she's the youngest of the three. Escalate a couple times but she keeps running away laughing. Thinking back on it I can't remember why I left this set. If I tried to isolate this lil girl I probably could of fucked her as long as I handled the older sister playing the protector card.
Opened a couple more sets and got blown out.
Left Rokbar to do some street game. Rich #1 and 2 show up so I greet their asses. I realize how much of a faggot I've been this night and tell them "I'm going to approach every hottie I see" Granted I'm not feeling like shit it's just I haven't really snapped in that intent. On top of this I've noticed I've backward rationalized not approaching A LOT of hot girls. Time to fix this. ;)
What comes next is pretty awesome. I'm walking up and down the street trying to stop absolute stunners by standing right in front of them and saying "Who are you!" Most of this results in them pushing me aside. I start just accepting where I'm at and tell girls up front "Have you ever felt like you were off one night." Interestingly enough because I was being authentic sets start going well. Have a chill conversation with a blonde girl, her friend, and Rich #2. Snag her number telling her were getting ice-cream. I see a Brazilian stunner walk by. Rich #2 watches my eyes follow her and I say "I said every fucking girl" and open her.
I start getting that commanding tone back. I tell her how she's going to do my laundry. Although she's resisting full physical she's slowly relaxing more after she finds out how cool I am. :D Talk about ice cream and other stuff. She has one friend and some other Brazilian friend. I go for the pull but she won't leave her friends. I think I should of just picked her up and went for it HARD on this one. Take her facebook instead.
It's 3:00 at this point and there really isn't much on the street. Around 20 people or so. The best place this last is the poutine shop. I find Ales. We stick to the rule that no matter HOW BAD the night or HOW FEW people are left, we don't leave until there are NO GIRLS left. It's just me and Ales walking up and down the streets now. We open a few stragglers but get blown off. Walk back to the poutine shop and see three girls.
One's a huge girl with a cute face, the other has curly hair, glasses, and an interesting "boob pocket" on her shirt. The third is a complete girl next store who really seems shy. I open by just walking up the steps and saying "Hey! I like your glasses" as I really thought they were cute. Opens perfectly. She feels my face and gets stuck on how soft my beard is. Ales comes into the set and talks with the big girl. They walk away to see their other friends and she remarks how cute I am as she walks away. Ales is like, "Steve, you cannot leave dis, fuck dis girl." in his thick Italian accent. I love having friends on nights I'm off. We storm back into this set and hit this shit up. My other buddy in a white suit has joined in the set. We're all talking and I steal my girls glasses. She tells me how cute I am. Mostly this is just really chill game by me and Ales. They're in love with Ales' accent. The big girl is all over his dick. My buddy in the white suit tries to tool me twice. Not sure why but I obviously don't take it sitting down. I make what he said funnier and slam him back into place. Handles that and he takes off. I'm starting to wonder if I can pull these girls at 4:00 in the morning. We start walking to their car. I've got her arm locked with mine. We get to the car and start having a bit more fun. I heat it up a bit and start being much more physical with my girl. The big girl is full out in love with Ales and I finally just laugh at her and tell her "You must be so wet right now." in a chill voice. She starts laughing and gives me that look like I get it and says "If I didn't have a boyfriend, I would ride his ..." she doesn't finish the sentence and bursts into laughter.
Some random homeless angry bum comes around starts annoying us. Screaming and kicking cans and shit. It's funny at the start but then he starts getting annoying. My girl starts getting mad at him asking him to leave. I step in and ask him to leave. He's still sticking around. I could of handled this better. Thinking my tonality was a little fucked here. Either way what ends up happening is Ales, two girls, and the bum go to Timmy's. I keep my girl close and push her against the car. Make out. I go for the finger but she pushes me away. She says she can't stay long as they don't normally allow each other to separate off with boys. Bleh 21 year olds. We chill and make out a bit more until the three come back. They ditched the bum. We have some more fun. I push my girl's body over the car and get my face in her grill. Pull her shirt up and bite her stomach. Everyone's getting cold so I suggest we go to another Timmy's.(The one right there was closed) We hop in their car and drive to Timmy's. On the way over I've got my hand sliding up and down her leg. Get some green tea and have a seat. At some point they all go into the bathroom together. They come out and we sit down and talk for another 30 minutes or so. Poke fun at the big girl a bit by saying how bad she needs her vibrator right now. She loudly says "I KNOOOOOOW!" and grunts a little. We find out that two of the girls have to work at 9:00 AM and since it's 5:00 they're ready to get moving. We drive back and they drop us off. Make out with my girl while we leave.
Postitives
----------
Burned it to the ground
Rewarded with a SOLID number close at the end of the night
Lessons
-------
Must implement my techniques to make it more about myself earlier when I'm having an off night.
-Push comfort zone
-Do a string of hard approaches
Being authentic when out of it will help to not have girls blow out IMMEDIATELY as opposed to faking a different state
Anyways guys, I know that I'm in the midst of blowing through a serious sticking point. I'm going to get slamming these nights out and having fun until I blast past it. Stay tuned!
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Here's a hilarious fuck up of a meet-up. Full text
Her: Hey look, it's Godzilla penis <--put a note in her phone saying godzilla penis...I can't lie to girls. :D
Me: picture of sushi(was out at a restaurant) Breathed fire on all the Japanese girls. Currently eating Tokyo.
Her: Lmfao ew sushii
Me: I'm going to tie you to the bed and feed you sushi <--bit direct but I wanted to set the vibe early
Her: Ahh that's a nightmare lmaoo <--Never got back to this...I have a fucking CRAZY adventure with two other girls n some wine.
Next day
Me: Well, no nightmare. Did dream of dinosaurs tho.
Her: That's pretty sweet, I'm kinda jealous haha
Me: How's ur day going muffinbottom, crusin through training this week <--I start to bring it back to reality here
Her: It's going fantastic lmao how's your day! What do you mean crusin through training?
Me: Rocking it on 3 hours of sleep. Crazy wine adventure last nite.
Her: Oh man, sounds like my weekend haha. Wine is the best though!
Me: Does terrible things to me. Puts me in the mood for sex. ;)
Her: Hahaha uh oh, your gonna get yourself in trouble ;p
Me: I kno, I might scrape my knee at volleyball tn
Me: Bring a rugrats bandage!
Her: You're a volleyball player eh! Is that what you mean by training?
Her: Omg I remember those! Cutest things ever.
Me: No, learning cool new stuff at work. I spike harder than reptar.
Me: You can be my cheer leader. You like the beach rite.
Her: Ahh oh! And yeah I bet, got mad jumps don't you ;)
Her: I love the beach, who does't!
Her; You should come hangout tonight! <-- 3 hours later
Me: My mom says I'm the best jumper on the block ;p <--4 hours later I was out having serious chats with kangaroo girl and later banged her twice. Gawd damn this girl is good in bed dude.
Me: lil late let's chill tmmr. I'll bring the beer, you bring the ice cream.
Her: Lmao yeah almighty then, ice cream it is ;)
The next day:
Her: Hello m8!
Me: GIRL! You better pick some good ice cream! I'd hate to have to start out by putting you on timeout!!
Her: BOY! good ice cream to me is some dairy queen stuff! ;)
Her: Btw which one is you on Facebook! Me and Tasha were trying to find you haha <--3 hours later
Me: The hot one. Let's kick it off at tj's. Maybe adventure after. 9:30 work.
Her: You work at 9:30 tonight? Lmao or tomorrow morning
Her: And it would be me and Tasha that came to tj's you should invite Alessandro ahahha
Me: Hmm? You've never been out with a boy before. It's ok I don't bite. :p
Her: No, it's cause I'm with her already lmfao we could all go! I don't wanna ditch. :( or me and you can hang out tomorrow night! Deal? (Tomorrow night is for beasting no chance)
Me: Naw, I understand. I don't like ditching either.
Me: Bring her to slaintees for 9:30. Ales mite drop by. (This is the closest spot to Ales house so I can pull them back there and fuck her. No logistics otherwise)
Me: Dress hot so we match
Her: Hmmmmm, we should go to Boston Pizza ;) It's karaoke night lmao! <--Fun but no logistics for the fuck
Me: Awwww I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to hear you sing to me either. Slaintee's is the spot tho.
Her: You don't wanna hear me sing trust me haha I know but um we look too slack for slaintees hhaha
Me: Lol what's with all the objections? You banned for causing trouble in Slaintees. ;p
Her: Haha. no way, me? Trouble? ;p I'll talk to her and see if I can change her mind ;) she doesn't feel like going to a bar
Her: Who's all going to slaintees?
Me: Me n Ales are going, you two can tag along if ya bring candy.
Her: Hahah omg is that the Italian dude!
Me: Yes ;)
Her: Omg that guys jokkkess!
Her: Tasha said come to turtle jacks haha
I call her here. Tell her Ales and I are AT Slaintees and having the time of our life. Really I'm sitting at home and am getting ready to go to bed. Lack of sleep is killing me. She makes plans with me to hang out on Monday. Cool! Then I get this 10 minutes later.
Her: Now Tasha wants to go to Slainteessss lamo <--I don't respond to this as I have no plans to talk to these girls about plans tn anymore and don't believe she's serious
40 minutes later she phones me. I don't pick up. Call her back 5 minutes later. Tell her we left to go to Ales' place. She says they've been driving around for an hour looking for Slaintees. (It's an Irish pub hidden in an alley) I change my mind on going to bed. She says they're at Timmys. I say fuck that meet us at Slaintee's for drinks, it was bumpin and the live band is awesome. She doesn't want to go looking again and tells us to meet them at TImmy's. I naturally give her perfect directions. My final mistake lol.
I lose my wallet and go to pick Alessandro up at 10:55...supposed to be there at 11:00 and it's a 20 min drive. I get a text..
Her: Really... It's Tasha..It's closed ! Thanks!
OPPS! lol. I call her while I'm driving. Dodge and reframe. :D I talk to them for a bit and tell them to come to London Taphouse. It's where it's at tonight. In a VERY convincing tone. On the phone I'm very firm on it not being a big deal and that we're going to have an amazing night at Taphouse. (She's screaming at me. ;) )I eventually talk her in to agreeing to come but then get this text 10 minutes later.
Her: We're starving so were going to Boston Pizza <-- Bleh no logistics here
Me and Ales go out and pimp what lil is out on Tuesday. I send her
Me: Cool, We're going to grab some drinks at Slaintee's
LOL!
I plan on calling her on Monday and trying to fuck her. I will succeed!
Her: Hey look, it's Godzilla penis <--put a note in her phone saying godzilla penis...I can't lie to girls. :D
Me: picture of sushi(was out at a restaurant) Breathed fire on all the Japanese girls. Currently eating Tokyo.
Her: Lmfao ew sushii
Me: I'm going to tie you to the bed and feed you sushi <--bit direct but I wanted to set the vibe early
Her: Ahh that's a nightmare lmaoo <--Never got back to this...I have a fucking CRAZY adventure with two other girls n some wine.
Next day
Me: Well, no nightmare. Did dream of dinosaurs tho.
Her: That's pretty sweet, I'm kinda jealous haha
Me: How's ur day going muffinbottom, crusin through training this week <--I start to bring it back to reality here
Her: It's going fantastic lmao how's your day! What do you mean crusin through training?
Me: Rocking it on 3 hours of sleep. Crazy wine adventure last nite.
Her: Oh man, sounds like my weekend haha. Wine is the best though!
Me: Does terrible things to me. Puts me in the mood for sex. ;)
Her: Hahaha uh oh, your gonna get yourself in trouble ;p
Me: I kno, I might scrape my knee at volleyball tn
Me: Bring a rugrats bandage!
Her: You're a volleyball player eh! Is that what you mean by training?
Her: Omg I remember those! Cutest things ever.
Me: No, learning cool new stuff at work. I spike harder than reptar.
Me: You can be my cheer leader. You like the beach rite.
Her: Ahh oh! And yeah I bet, got mad jumps don't you ;)
Her: I love the beach, who does't!
Her; You should come hangout tonight! <-- 3 hours later
Me: My mom says I'm the best jumper on the block ;p <--4 hours later I was out having serious chats with kangaroo girl and later banged her twice. Gawd damn this girl is good in bed dude.
Me: lil late let's chill tmmr. I'll bring the beer, you bring the ice cream.
Her: Lmao yeah almighty then, ice cream it is ;)
The next day:
Her: Hello m8!
Me: GIRL! You better pick some good ice cream! I'd hate to have to start out by putting you on timeout!!
Her: BOY! good ice cream to me is some dairy queen stuff! ;)
Her: Btw which one is you on Facebook! Me and Tasha were trying to find you haha <--3 hours later
Me: The hot one. Let's kick it off at tj's. Maybe adventure after. 9:30 work.
Her: You work at 9:30 tonight? Lmao or tomorrow morning
Her: And it would be me and Tasha that came to tj's you should invite Alessandro ahahha
Me: Hmm? You've never been out with a boy before. It's ok I don't bite. :p
Her: No, it's cause I'm with her already lmfao we could all go! I don't wanna ditch. :( or me and you can hang out tomorrow night! Deal? (Tomorrow night is for beasting no chance)
Me: Naw, I understand. I don't like ditching either.
Me: Bring her to slaintees for 9:30. Ales mite drop by. (This is the closest spot to Ales house so I can pull them back there and fuck her. No logistics otherwise)
Me: Dress hot so we match
Her: Hmmmmm, we should go to Boston Pizza ;) It's karaoke night lmao! <--Fun but no logistics for the fuck
Me: Awwww I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to hear you sing to me either. Slaintee's is the spot tho.
Her: You don't wanna hear me sing trust me haha I know but um we look too slack for slaintees hhaha
Me: Lol what's with all the objections? You banned for causing trouble in Slaintees. ;p
Her: Haha. no way, me? Trouble? ;p I'll talk to her and see if I can change her mind ;) she doesn't feel like going to a bar
Her: Who's all going to slaintees?
Me: Me n Ales are going, you two can tag along if ya bring candy.
Her: Hahah omg is that the Italian dude!
Me: Yes ;)
Her: Omg that guys jokkkess!
Her: Tasha said come to turtle jacks haha
I call her here. Tell her Ales and I are AT Slaintees and having the time of our life. Really I'm sitting at home and am getting ready to go to bed. Lack of sleep is killing me. She makes plans with me to hang out on Monday. Cool! Then I get this 10 minutes later.
Her: Now Tasha wants to go to Slainteessss lamo <--I don't respond to this as I have no plans to talk to these girls about plans tn anymore and don't believe she's serious
40 minutes later she phones me. I don't pick up. Call her back 5 minutes later. Tell her we left to go to Ales' place. She says they've been driving around for an hour looking for Slaintees. (It's an Irish pub hidden in an alley) I change my mind on going to bed. She says they're at Timmys. I say fuck that meet us at Slaintee's for drinks, it was bumpin and the live band is awesome. She doesn't want to go looking again and tells us to meet them at TImmy's. I naturally give her perfect directions. My final mistake lol.
I lose my wallet and go to pick Alessandro up at 10:55...supposed to be there at 11:00 and it's a 20 min drive. I get a text..
Her: Really... It's Tasha..It's closed ! Thanks!
OPPS! lol. I call her while I'm driving. Dodge and reframe. :D I talk to them for a bit and tell them to come to London Taphouse. It's where it's at tonight. In a VERY convincing tone. On the phone I'm very firm on it not being a big deal and that we're going to have an amazing night at Taphouse. (She's screaming at me. ;) )I eventually talk her in to agreeing to come but then get this text 10 minutes later.
Her: We're starving so were going to Boston Pizza <-- Bleh no logistics here
Me and Ales go out and pimp what lil is out on Tuesday. I send her
Me: Cool, We're going to grab some drinks at Slaintee's
LOL!
I plan on calling her on Monday and trying to fuck her. I will succeed!
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Wed June 27th - Motown - Chrismas decorations, Satanism, and an angry Latina woman
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Fuck..Getting sick again. I've been pushing myself a bit too hard. Staying up too late when I need to wake up early for work. Took my buddy to a girl's dog's birthday party. Turned it into a twisted sex party so we ended up all having some crazy sexual experience on her bed at the same time...sex dice are evil. ;) Anyways, It's Wed! No town like Motown. Show up early and am the first there.
Walk in and see a girl with amazing glasses. They are incredibly oversized. I walk up and tell them how cool they are and that I HAVE to try them. Stroll around in these suckers for a bit before giving them back.
Open the first set of two blonde girls. One's in tight blonde pants while the other has tiny booty shorts. I see her make some diva move and roll up saying "Girl! Those your diva moves." They laugh the set goes great. Casually talking and slipping in sexual innuendo here and there.
Boys show up so I say hi to them. This point I'm really feeling sick. Can't breathe and I'm spitting up crap. Not the best place to be when you need to project your voice. Good thing I'm awesome and can burn past this shit. :D
While talking to the two Rich's I see a group walk in that are wearing Christmas decorations. I run over and introduce myself. I tell one of the girls to give me her tinsel sash. She gives it up and I run off pretty damn happy. For the rest of the night I play around with it.
Open a girl in a sexy red dress. She's hooked. Pull her in close as she smiles. We're chatting until out of nowhere BITCH friend strolls in saying this conversation is over and that she's her girlfriend. I say "She's my wife." I look at her and say "You cheating on me?" My girl laughs while the bitch starts pushing me away saying she has a boyfriend. uggg Fuck that. I storm back over and talk to this bitch for a minute. Tell her "Her boyfriend can get us all coffee and put extra sugar in it to sweeten you up." She starts smirking. Ask her "who she is" she says "It's not important." I say "I don't really care" and re-engage my girl. Pull her in. She's still loving me. Tell her a story about kangaroos. Tell her I was in a squad that stopped kangaroos from invading Canada. I get her to waltz with me. Try to get her to come dance but she's not budging. Turn my back to greet Ales for ONE SECOND and she's gone with the group. Ghosts do exist.
Talked to a Motown regular. It was a really interesting discussion. Not really pickup related but she was a Satanist. I always found that weird so we vibed about a whole bunch of crazy shit. Different religions, nutrition, squirrels..ect. Thinking back on it, it was pretty awesome as I was wearing Christmas decorations. :D I maintained some INSANE eye contact on this girl. Shit was blowing up around us(bottle dropped) and we still maintained perfect eye contact.
Approach a blonde cutie while Rich talks to the friend. Open by walking up to the group and looking at her. Say "You're cute. Who are you!" while I put my hand out slightly. She grabs my hand and I pull her in. I tell her I'm from Miami and some other crazy funny shit. Hit her with my Christmas decorations. Grab her number before her friend goes to get a drink with her friend. She invited me to come but I declined. Not sure why...seemed like a perfect setup.
Decide it would be funny to hold up my decoration and go for a kiss on the opener. Of course I pick a mean ol Latina girl. I don't even lean in, just put it above her head and she SHOVES me away. Not just once but twice. Guess she had some flees in her bra.
Go to the dancefloor and see and Asian girl. I yell "Who are you!" rip her in. She's giggling and we grind for a bit. I feel like the whole time I'm pulling her in and holding her close. If I let go she strays. Maybe this is some bad sub communication of being needy. Might need to adjust this in the future. It's too loud in here so I grab her and say "I need to talk to you outside now" We stroll outside. I start asking her questions like what she does. I tell her to "sell herself." She gets confused and can't think of how to do it. Maybe this is where I went wrong and she started getting the "I want to go back to my friends look." I told her about my buddy who had to sell a pencil to get his job. She tries to sell me a pencil and isn't very good. I show her how it's done and school her. "Girl you see this smooth pink top..it's for mistakes..like last year's teen pregnancy." I say "Let's go dance." She ditches me on the dance floor. Says "I'll find you later." in a blowing me off way so I tell her "You never were good at selling things." and smack her ass.
Go home to get some sleep around 12:30.
Positives
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Angry Latina left my face intact :D
Went out even tho I'm sick
Lessons
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Angry Latina's can't hurt me
Take things physical faster
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Fuck..Getting sick again. I've been pushing myself a bit too hard. Staying up too late when I need to wake up early for work. Took my buddy to a girl's dog's birthday party. Turned it into a twisted sex party so we ended up all having some crazy sexual experience on her bed at the same time...sex dice are evil. ;) Anyways, It's Wed! No town like Motown. Show up early and am the first there.
Walk in and see a girl with amazing glasses. They are incredibly oversized. I walk up and tell them how cool they are and that I HAVE to try them. Stroll around in these suckers for a bit before giving them back.
Open the first set of two blonde girls. One's in tight blonde pants while the other has tiny booty shorts. I see her make some diva move and roll up saying "Girl! Those your diva moves." They laugh the set goes great. Casually talking and slipping in sexual innuendo here and there.
Boys show up so I say hi to them. This point I'm really feeling sick. Can't breathe and I'm spitting up crap. Not the best place to be when you need to project your voice. Good thing I'm awesome and can burn past this shit. :D
While talking to the two Rich's I see a group walk in that are wearing Christmas decorations. I run over and introduce myself. I tell one of the girls to give me her tinsel sash. She gives it up and I run off pretty damn happy. For the rest of the night I play around with it.
Open a girl in a sexy red dress. She's hooked. Pull her in close as she smiles. We're chatting until out of nowhere BITCH friend strolls in saying this conversation is over and that she's her girlfriend. I say "She's my wife." I look at her and say "You cheating on me?" My girl laughs while the bitch starts pushing me away saying she has a boyfriend. uggg Fuck that. I storm back over and talk to this bitch for a minute. Tell her "Her boyfriend can get us all coffee and put extra sugar in it to sweeten you up." She starts smirking. Ask her "who she is" she says "It's not important." I say "I don't really care" and re-engage my girl. Pull her in. She's still loving me. Tell her a story about kangaroos. Tell her I was in a squad that stopped kangaroos from invading Canada. I get her to waltz with me. Try to get her to come dance but she's not budging. Turn my back to greet Ales for ONE SECOND and she's gone with the group. Ghosts do exist.
Talked to a Motown regular. It was a really interesting discussion. Not really pickup related but she was a Satanist. I always found that weird so we vibed about a whole bunch of crazy shit. Different religions, nutrition, squirrels..ect. Thinking back on it, it was pretty awesome as I was wearing Christmas decorations. :D I maintained some INSANE eye contact on this girl. Shit was blowing up around us(bottle dropped) and we still maintained perfect eye contact.
Approach a blonde cutie while Rich talks to the friend. Open by walking up to the group and looking at her. Say "You're cute. Who are you!" while I put my hand out slightly. She grabs my hand and I pull her in. I tell her I'm from Miami and some other crazy funny shit. Hit her with my Christmas decorations. Grab her number before her friend goes to get a drink with her friend. She invited me to come but I declined. Not sure why...seemed like a perfect setup.
Decide it would be funny to hold up my decoration and go for a kiss on the opener. Of course I pick a mean ol Latina girl. I don't even lean in, just put it above her head and she SHOVES me away. Not just once but twice. Guess she had some flees in her bra.
Go to the dancefloor and see and Asian girl. I yell "Who are you!" rip her in. She's giggling and we grind for a bit. I feel like the whole time I'm pulling her in and holding her close. If I let go she strays. Maybe this is some bad sub communication of being needy. Might need to adjust this in the future. It's too loud in here so I grab her and say "I need to talk to you outside now" We stroll outside. I start asking her questions like what she does. I tell her to "sell herself." She gets confused and can't think of how to do it. Maybe this is where I went wrong and she started getting the "I want to go back to my friends look." I told her about my buddy who had to sell a pencil to get his job. She tries to sell me a pencil and isn't very good. I show her how it's done and school her. "Girl you see this smooth pink top..it's for mistakes..like last year's teen pregnancy." I say "Let's go dance." She ditches me on the dance floor. Says "I'll find you later." in a blowing me off way so I tell her "You never were good at selling things." and smack her ass.
Go home to get some sleep around 12:30.
Positives
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Angry Latina left my face intact :D
Went out even tho I'm sick
Lessons
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Angry Latina's can't hurt me
Take things physical faster
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Fairy chilled out tonight. I added in a new habit of listening to eckart tollee's the power of now on audio home from work. Really helps me center myself. Motown tonight!
First set I open a girl I know and pull her up..OPPS..her Iphone drops and smashes on the ground. I stick in the set with Ales and smooth it over by saying they'll replace that, don't worry. No big deal. Act chill for a bit and she says "I'm over it" Yay! See the Rich's and a new dude Victor show up via cab. Greet them across the wall. I point to Alessandro to leave the set. I can start to feel myself getting sucked in my own self generated awkwardness from breaking the phone. I don't want to risk her freaking out so I bail.
Tell the boys about a hilarious story. I was hitting up 7 numbers from last week's motown. Usually I get girls to leave a note in the phone so I remember them. Not this time tho. I set up a day 2 with one girlie for Tuesday. I invite her to my favorite place for drinks. I have a big retarded look on my face when I see that it's the rather large one I fucked on my first bathroom pull. Joy. I grab her by the arm and say "nope! we're not going in." We get into my car drive to a park. Bang her on a swing and take her home. 35 minute day 2...I put a do not as her last name so this doesn't happen again. lol
Start owning the club. Pull in a tiny girl with glasses. She's cute as hell and I take her glasses and try them on. She's blind as a bat. I can't see shit. I lean in close to her as she blushes and turns away. Take the glasses off and give them back. Shoot the shit with this girl before she goes to get drinks.
Tell Rich #1 to open a hilarious set. 5 dudes and 1 girl. Goes in like a champ. Didn't watch what happened because I got distracted. I just assume awesome.
Take Victor who's a bit new and open a set of fatties. We chat and I motorboat them off the bat. Hilarity ensues. Get bored and walk off.
Open a set with a cute blondie. Get in her grill. She loves it but at the same time wants me to back off. I think Rich #1 opens one of the other girls. They all love me and think I'm hilarious. I'm spouting some incredible shit tonight. This girl won't let me isolate or escalate so I say fuck this and signal to Rich #1 that I'm leaving.
Open a girl by the door. Really nice tits and long red hair. I get in her grill and she's laughing. She slowly gets less comfortable with the physicality so I scale it back. This guy in her group tells her to go sit on his lap. I respond by walking over and saying loudly "Ok" and start shoving my ass into his chest. Get back up and isolate to the dance floor. I've led her to a place where she can be a little more free. She starts grinding on me. We fuck around for a bit before she wants to go find her friends. I grab her number.
Rich #1 and 2 have opened the girls with the one who broke my phone. I'm chatting with some other chick when the girl who's phone I broke gives me the "save me" look when Rich #1 picks her up. Hilarious. I walk over and say "What the fuck was that? Why are you girl coding me?" She bursts into laughter. I say "I don't even know what the fuck to do...like did you want me to come over here and say were going to the bathroom or something" They all start laughing and I walk off and leave the boys to finish up.
See my old buddies from high school. Chat with them. Stunner with long dark hair walks to the entrance. I grab her and tell her "You're too hot to be walking around...if you have a boyfriend I'm going to have to kill him" Really authentic so she digs me. She's smiling and staring right at me while I drag her around. Her friend is trying to pull her away but I lift her up. She says pretty chill that she needs a drink so I let her go.
Head upstairs. See Rich #1 and Victor. I see a JUICY hard set. 1 Girl scrunched between two bigger dudes. I tell Rich "go that one" He says "Fuck no, you never do these sets." Pussy! haha I approach them and grab the girl. Get her to leave with me to dance downstairs in 5 minutes. Give dick in mouth hand gestures to rich #1 while walking down the stairs with her. ;) To be fair I always give him the most retarded sets to go in on. She rocks some pornstar dance moves on me. Move her outside. She sits down and says "I'm tired" blah blah. I ask her what she's on as she looks a lil fucked up. She says E and MDM. Cool easy fuck haha. I try to escalate hard to get things moving because it's 12 and I need to leave. Her friends show up and the tension dies. ;/ NEXT!
See my buddies from high school again. They already have a set open. I pull one of the girls in and drag her outside of the circle. It's on. Deadly eye contact. I position her arms where I want them. She says "You're so smooth." as I slide my hands down to her ass. Find out she's starting her own business. Really cool chick. She keeps giving hints for me to scale back the physicality so I lay off a bit. Just joking and get to know her. She isolates me by taking me inside. We dance for a bit. I meet her friend and take a couple pics. I always take one of myself first in these situations. Grab her number.
See Rich #2 outside and decide to do one more run of the place. We open two dark haired hotties by the atm but it doesn't stick. Open the girl with glasses again at the top but she's gone cold. Rich #2 has the most hilarious open of the night. He jumps into this girl and she starts SWINGING at him. I'm like holy fuck dude. Oh well, crazy bitches be crazy. We run downstairs and find nothing else. Go back outside and I see one more girl. Open her saying last set of the night. She gives me a disgusted look and walks off. :D
Positives
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Smashed a girls phone with no negative consequences :D
Relaxed and chilled while still owning it
Approached a really challenging set. I need to push myself to do these more. They just break your comfort zone and rock you into state so easily. It's almost like a cheat to get into state.
Lessons
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Don't react to a situation and the person won't react that bad. With the phone I could of ran and she probably would of flipped out. Since I just stayed there and held the frame that it wasn't THAT bad she chilled out FAST
When I'm doing relaxed approaches I think I need to make a mental note to find the girls when they walk off to do something else. I have awesome sexually charged interactions but once they leave I don't see them again.
Sorry for the lack of updates guys. I went up to North Carolina on the weekend. I have an FR for the Saturday and will work on throwing it up in two weeks. I'm off to another trip and won't be back for a week. Look forward to some crazy FR's when I get back.
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