THE FORUMS
Day 12 :
I ended up doing much more than i had thought i would.
Really sweet when you set expectations damn low and the results come out soaring high.
Went to the mall, and opened this mixed set that i talked to.
Chilled out with them for a while.
And REALLY ENJOYED myself after quite some time.
So, yeah that was it. Both of them took my number and wanted to add me on fb.
They were cool people, not what i would want to see in my day to day life, but cool.
Tomorrow's goal is a bit higher.
Go out at 530. Approach 5 sets.
That's for tomorrow. Start with 5 direction opens and then move to opening 5 sets.
I want to throw myself into challenging situations. So let's see how this turns out.
I ended up doing much more than i had thought i would.
Really sweet when you set expectations damn low and the results come out soaring high.
Went to the mall, and opened this mixed set that i talked to.
Chilled out with them for a while.
And REALLY ENJOYED myself after quite some time.
So, yeah that was it. Both of them took my number and wanted to add me on fb.
They were cool people, not what i would want to see in my day to day life, but cool.
Tomorrow's goal is a bit higher.
Go out at 530. Approach 5 sets.
That's for tomorrow. Start with 5 direction opens and then move to opening 5 sets.
I want to throw myself into challenging situations. So let's see how this turns out.
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Day 13:
Didn't hang out today.
Was home, so stoned that i couldn't even get up.
Anyways, finally woke up at night and my brother told me to join him and our mutual buddy.
So right now, here i am on the lappy at my budddy's place reporting this thing down.
Nothing extraordinary today. Nothing in the results front atleast.
Neither in the approach a girl front.
Not a bad day though.
I had a good time.
Didn't hang out today.
Was home, so stoned that i couldn't even get up.
Anyways, finally woke up at night and my brother told me to join him and our mutual buddy.
So right now, here i am on the lappy at my budddy's place reporting this thing down.
Nothing extraordinary today. Nothing in the results front atleast.
Neither in the approach a girl front.
Not a bad day though.
I had a good time.
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Day 14:
Didn't go out.
And already missing out.
Because i'm at this friend's place partying, drinking and just smoking hard.
Vacation times.
But hey, gotta get back to the court and play.
Didn't go out.
And already missing out.
Because i'm at this friend's place partying, drinking and just smoking hard.
Vacation times.
But hey, gotta get back to the court and play.
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Day 15(30/5/2012) :
Had no wings around so i thought fuck it.
Went out and stalked a girl for quite some time before fucking stepping up.
Did it.
Made it. Got blown out. There was too much hindrance from the mental chatter.
Anyways, waited around for a while before i did the 2nd one.
The 3rd one went on for a bit, before the girl left because of some shitty reason she gave me.
Couldn't number close this one, there wasn't enough time and the vibe was different from what it should've been.
I did ask for her number though. Anyways, i guess it's because i'm still a faggot when it comes to opening hard.
Not in this one, though.
Anyways, did quite a few more approaches.
Let's say around 7-8 or maybe more.
I do not remember. But i felt good.
Not my fullest. But no point beating myself up over that.
I'm over that shit.
I'm taking action, and this adventure is only going to go up from the 'take action' point of view.
Overall a good day. Not from the result point of view, but then i did get a few interactions.
No sweat.
Gotta catch some sleep now. Did well today infield.
It's time to step this up. Got clear with my goals today thanks to my buddy probing a bit into why i was frustrated and shit.
Yeah i was frustrated. FUCK. WHAT IS THIS?
NO GIRLS.
Faggy life.
I'm like fuck it man, time to change.
Oh btw, just saw Entourage first season all episodes back to back.
What a show.
Wow.
PS: On a long enough timeline, the mortality rate of my AA drops to zero. Fucking sweet.
I love myself so much.
EDIT: Detail on the sets that i remember.
I want to feel like a champ when i look back and see if i took action, so here goes:
G1 : Complimented the chick, my voice was strong but there was hesitation in my intention.
What the fuck did i want? Completely clouded is what my head felt, but there was clarity in one of the fronts.
I MUST APPROACH. And i got the work done.
G2: After quite some time of walking around, i did another direct approach that didn't go anywhere.
Here was the deal in this one too, i wasn't hard enough.
G3: This time i was like so fucking chilled out after the two blowouts.
I always make it a point to NOT SAY ANYTHING i don't want to in a set.
Now i don't know if that's bad for plowing or not. But i usually like to stand in the set and take the social pressure instead of mumbling words out.
So, i saw this girl walking somehwere. And she was so damn pretty. Like, REALLY. Nice bod.
So i walked to the opposite side of the lane(hahaha! I was literally laughing at how calculated i was being here xD )
Looked at her and pretended as if i had seen her right then and there.
The "OH MY GAWD" look on my face, and i cross the road and step right in front of her.
In an even voice i tell her she's beautiful. And this girl said like 500 times times "This is strange" but DAYYYM i'm such an alpha i just fucking overtalked.
I mean it's kinda like, i was listening to waht she said, but i wasn't reacting. Instead i RESPONDED.
And it went quite well until she had a genuine excuse to walk away. Well, i did push for the number as i mentioned earlier, but to no avail.
And this girl was throwing all the IOI's at me, and i was trying to play around the whole "How people get to know each other normally" thing by NOT ANSWERING HER QUESTIONS and shooting back a "Why" at her sometimes. Well ofcourse it wasn't taking the conversation towards the sexual front.
I had steady eye contact and all. Good job there, mister.
G4: Some girl. Walked away. DOn't remember her face or how she walked away.
Fuck, bad memory maybe?
G5: This tall gorgeous bitch.
Tell her "You're gorgeous"
Now you know what happens more often than not when i approach? THE INTENT doesn't get conveyed with the "magic direct opener"
It's NOT DIRECT until the intention can be felt by me and seen by her. And i can tell you guys GIRLS SEE IT WHEN YOU FEEL IT.
How they're gonna respond is upto them.
So, she takes her phone out after i'm done with my "opening line" and starts walking away.
Next time, MORE DOMINANCE.
G6: A little cutie. I opened her, she was not really the kind of girl i would date since she was waay too young.
So as soon as i saw her, i sort of stopped midway with my sentence.
G7: This little petite and cute woman. I approached her, i went direct. AND SHE WALKED AWAY.
There's something terribly wrong with how i'm opening.
And i know what it is. It is the nervousness. It is that indecisiveness about whether i should allow myself to be myself.
But it was all good, i APPROACHED.
G8: This girl i saw, now i was with two of my wings now.
So it turns out that my wing had approached her earlier.
I came to know that from her first when she said "I've heard this for the second time today"
I'm like "Really?" Lol
What a chode response right?
WHO GIVES A FUCK? I WANT YOU.
But hey, this didn't come out when it was supposed to. This intent !
xD
Fuck that shit anyways.
Only means more action and less of talk.
And there were more approaches, real short ones.
Let's just say, today was a volley of pussy approaches thrown by me at chicks, except the third one.
Others, i was just unsure in some sort of way when i approached these girls.
More dominance.
I guess, the positives for this day that were GLARINGLY OBVIOUS and i can't overlook were:
1) I'm finally getting used to going out alone, and fuck i'm actually doing a good number of approaches.
2) I am pretty conscious of what i'm doing infield so instead of coming home and then writing down on a paper, i can actually improvise infield.
Thanks to all the meditation, greenies and the good feeling attitude i have i don;t take shit personally and just let it go. But on another level, it helps me look at things objectively and change what i want to change.
3) I'm getting more consistent.
Had no wings around so i thought fuck it.
Went out and stalked a girl for quite some time before fucking stepping up.
Did it.
Made it. Got blown out. There was too much hindrance from the mental chatter.
Anyways, waited around for a while before i did the 2nd one.
The 3rd one went on for a bit, before the girl left because of some shitty reason she gave me.
Couldn't number close this one, there wasn't enough time and the vibe was different from what it should've been.
I did ask for her number though. Anyways, i guess it's because i'm still a faggot when it comes to opening hard.
Not in this one, though.
Anyways, did quite a few more approaches.
Let's say around 7-8 or maybe more.
I do not remember. But i felt good.
Not my fullest. But no point beating myself up over that.
I'm over that shit.
I'm taking action, and this adventure is only going to go up from the 'take action' point of view.
Overall a good day. Not from the result point of view, but then i did get a few interactions.
No sweat.
Gotta catch some sleep now. Did well today infield.
It's time to step this up. Got clear with my goals today thanks to my buddy probing a bit into why i was frustrated and shit.
Yeah i was frustrated. FUCK. WHAT IS THIS?
NO GIRLS.
Faggy life.
I'm like fuck it man, time to change.
Oh btw, just saw Entourage first season all episodes back to back.
What a show.
Wow.
PS: On a long enough timeline, the mortality rate of my AA drops to zero. Fucking sweet.
I love myself so much.
EDIT: Detail on the sets that i remember.
I want to feel like a champ when i look back and see if i took action, so here goes:
G1 : Complimented the chick, my voice was strong but there was hesitation in my intention.
What the fuck did i want? Completely clouded is what my head felt, but there was clarity in one of the fronts.
I MUST APPROACH. And i got the work done.
G2: After quite some time of walking around, i did another direct approach that didn't go anywhere.
Here was the deal in this one too, i wasn't hard enough.
G3: This time i was like so fucking chilled out after the two blowouts.
I always make it a point to NOT SAY ANYTHING i don't want to in a set.
Now i don't know if that's bad for plowing or not. But i usually like to stand in the set and take the social pressure instead of mumbling words out.
So, i saw this girl walking somehwere. And she was so damn pretty. Like, REALLY. Nice bod.
So i walked to the opposite side of the lane(hahaha! I was literally laughing at how calculated i was being here xD )
Looked at her and pretended as if i had seen her right then and there.
The "OH MY GAWD" look on my face, and i cross the road and step right in front of her.
In an even voice i tell her she's beautiful. And this girl said like 500 times times "This is strange" but DAYYYM i'm such an alpha i just fucking overtalked.
I mean it's kinda like, i was listening to waht she said, but i wasn't reacting. Instead i RESPONDED.
And it went quite well until she had a genuine excuse to walk away. Well, i did push for the number as i mentioned earlier, but to no avail.
And this girl was throwing all the IOI's at me, and i was trying to play around the whole "How people get to know each other normally" thing by NOT ANSWERING HER QUESTIONS and shooting back a "Why" at her sometimes. Well ofcourse it wasn't taking the conversation towards the sexual front.
I had steady eye contact and all. Good job there, mister.
G4: Some girl. Walked away. DOn't remember her face or how she walked away.
Fuck, bad memory maybe?
G5: This tall gorgeous bitch.
Tell her "You're gorgeous"
Now you know what happens more often than not when i approach? THE INTENT doesn't get conveyed with the "magic direct opener"
It's NOT DIRECT until the intention can be felt by me and seen by her. And i can tell you guys GIRLS SEE IT WHEN YOU FEEL IT.
How they're gonna respond is upto them.
So, she takes her phone out after i'm done with my "opening line" and starts walking away.
Next time, MORE DOMINANCE.
G6: A little cutie. I opened her, she was not really the kind of girl i would date since she was waay too young.
So as soon as i saw her, i sort of stopped midway with my sentence.
G7: This little petite and cute woman. I approached her, i went direct. AND SHE WALKED AWAY.
There's something terribly wrong with how i'm opening.
And i know what it is. It is the nervousness. It is that indecisiveness about whether i should allow myself to be myself.
But it was all good, i APPROACHED.
G8: This girl i saw, now i was with two of my wings now.
So it turns out that my wing had approached her earlier.
I came to know that from her first when she said "I've heard this for the second time today"
I'm like "Really?" Lol
What a chode response right?
WHO GIVES A FUCK? I WANT YOU.
But hey, this didn't come out when it was supposed to. This intent !
xD
Fuck that shit anyways.
Only means more action and less of talk.
And there were more approaches, real short ones.
Let's just say, today was a volley of pussy approaches thrown by me at chicks, except the third one.
Others, i was just unsure in some sort of way when i approached these girls.
More dominance.
I guess, the positives for this day that were GLARINGLY OBVIOUS and i can't overlook were:
1) I'm finally getting used to going out alone, and fuck i'm actually doing a good number of approaches.
2) I am pretty conscious of what i'm doing infield so instead of coming home and then writing down on a paper, i can actually improvise infield.
Thanks to all the meditation, greenies and the good feeling attitude i have i don;t take shit personally and just let it go. But on another level, it helps me look at things objectively and change what i want to change.
3) I'm getting more consistent.
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Day 16 :
Mostly stayed home and practiced my singing.
I went out quite late in the night, and there were sets but i didn't approach.
Mostly mixed sets, which is not really one of my strengths yet.
I don't do night game when i go out alone. It's mostly about daygame when i go out alone.
Anyways, that's changing tomorrow.
I set up a lot of plans for tomorrow to make sure it's gonna be a blast.
I'm going to play a game with this buddy of mine.
We're gonna go to some expo tomorrow, LOTS of chicks.
So here's the deal. He's gonna dare me to do shit.
And i'm going to do it regardless of whatever happens.
I'm excited.
Really.
Night time i'm going out with this dude who's my new friend.
Gonna be awesome after i generate the momentum in the daytime at the expo thing.
WEEEHOOO!!!
PS: From now on, i'll make all the updates in here more detailed. Including a bit of what was going on in the conversations and stuff like how i was feeling when i went in for the approaches, and what were the key points according to me and how and where i could've done better.
Also, from Day 17 onwards there's a new condition i'm placing on myself.
Whenever i go out, i WILL approach AT LEAST 5 chicks.
Simple.
EDIT:
So i just went over all the previous days and saw if there were any patterns, and yes there are.
The first one being that, i write down the goal for the next day beforehand and then fail to deliver it the next day or get stoned *SOMEHOW*
Hmm, i'm going to tone my goals down a bit and accomplish less BUT DO WHAT I SAY from now on.
Next, there's days i stay home because of some excuses. There have only been a few days like that.
I'm usually in a feel good mood all the time, but the point is to convey this to chicks and bring them into my life.
That's the whole point of the 100 day thing. I mean i'm not outcome oriented, it's more like i have to become aware of what's happening and direct it to where i want it to go.
So in simple words, here's what i'm going to do about it:
Tomorrow when i wake up, i'll tie this to a particular time of the day. THAT time of the day when i go out.
I will set a goal for the number of approaches. And it will be in the context of my current perceived skill level.
Let's see how this goes.
Good luck to me.
:)
Mostly stayed home and practiced my singing.
I went out quite late in the night, and there were sets but i didn't approach.
Mostly mixed sets, which is not really one of my strengths yet.
I don't do night game when i go out alone. It's mostly about daygame when i go out alone.
Anyways, that's changing tomorrow.
I set up a lot of plans for tomorrow to make sure it's gonna be a blast.
I'm going to play a game with this buddy of mine.
We're gonna go to some expo tomorrow, LOTS of chicks.
So here's the deal. He's gonna dare me to do shit.
And i'm going to do it regardless of whatever happens.
I'm excited.
Really.
Night time i'm going out with this dude who's my new friend.
Gonna be awesome after i generate the momentum in the daytime at the expo thing.
WEEEHOOO!!!
PS: From now on, i'll make all the updates in here more detailed. Including a bit of what was going on in the conversations and stuff like how i was feeling when i went in for the approaches, and what were the key points according to me and how and where i could've done better.
Also, from Day 17 onwards there's a new condition i'm placing on myself.
Whenever i go out, i WILL approach AT LEAST 5 chicks.
Simple.
EDIT:
So i just went over all the previous days and saw if there were any patterns, and yes there are.
The first one being that, i write down the goal for the next day beforehand and then fail to deliver it the next day or get stoned *SOMEHOW*
Hmm, i'm going to tone my goals down a bit and accomplish less BUT DO WHAT I SAY from now on.
Next, there's days i stay home because of some excuses. There have only been a few days like that.
I'm usually in a feel good mood all the time, but the point is to convey this to chicks and bring them into my life.
That's the whole point of the 100 day thing. I mean i'm not outcome oriented, it's more like i have to become aware of what's happening and direct it to where i want it to go.
So in simple words, here's what i'm going to do about it:
Tomorrow when i wake up, i'll tie this to a particular time of the day. THAT time of the day when i go out.
I will set a goal for the number of approaches. And it will be in the context of my current perceived skill level.
Let's see how this goes.
Good luck to me.
:)
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Day 17 :
Smooth sailing bros.
The challenge so far is going good, and slow i guess?
I think it's just a matter of a few days that it will pick up more speed as i gather more momentum and REALLY START HITTING IT SUPER HARD.
Yesterday, ie Day 17, i was out with my friends.
So, as i had told myself, i had told myself to appraoch 10 girls. OR, go for atleast 5 approaches.
So, the 10 approaches didn't happen, but guess what? I made it to 5. No sweat.
I mean even though it's probably in my comfort zone, 5 is more than 3 and soon it'll be 7. I'm gradually stepping it up.
Here's how the approaches went down:
1st :
Had to make an approach to just get started. So i saw this little girl walking, i wouldn't really say she was my age. I mean she looked like she was 16-17 or something.
Just talked to her for a bit and this little girl BB-Pin closed ME! Haha! Alright, i guess. Good for me. A good start to the day?
I think the good start happened right when i approached infact, but her bb-pin closing me only added to the effect.
After that, 2nd :
This beautiful girl standing near a car. She was playing around with her phone probably waiting for someone(My major excuse before i approached her), inside the shop in front of her, to come out.
And then i just walked upto her, and told her that i had to talk to her. She was genuinely beautiful.
Talked to her for a bit before she walked away into the shop all nervous and back to her folks.
3rd, :
These two girls inside McDonalds.
I have NEVER opened in this sort of a scenario, but i just opened her and started talking about the song playing. Got back to my buddies, but i felt like i wanted to re-initiate.
So i went back in, and started talking to the two of these girls. Complimented the first one on her hair, i really liked her hair. But then my "Appreciate the good thing in others" thought process caught bit too much of speed. Lol. I told the second one she had a cute smile. And damn the shit tests from the first one were FUCKING INSANE. Just SO MANY. I kind of broke down under the pressure but then i laughed it off.
Haha, silly thing !
How can a girl make me think that she's influencing my thoughts? That was funny.
xD
But i guess it's still something unconscious. No matter how much i deny it, i was reacting to her shit tests by going inside my head.
Interesting.
4th,
Was this girl i talked to.
For a bit. And then it got over, just like that.
:/
Oh, i just realised, there was no 5th.
Hmm. I convinced myself yesterday that it was 5 sets i approached yesterday i guess.
Anyways, i'll see that this doesn't happen today.
Infact i'll see to it that the bar has been raised from minimum of 3 to minimum of 6 approaches a day. Consecutive.
I'll hit it hard from today, even if it's for short durations.
Overall i was out for an hour or so today.
Good day.
Smooth sailing bros.
The challenge so far is going good, and slow i guess?
I think it's just a matter of a few days that it will pick up more speed as i gather more momentum and REALLY START HITTING IT SUPER HARD.
Yesterday, ie Day 17, i was out with my friends.
So, as i had told myself, i had told myself to appraoch 10 girls. OR, go for atleast 5 approaches.
So, the 10 approaches didn't happen, but guess what? I made it to 5. No sweat.
I mean even though it's probably in my comfort zone, 5 is more than 3 and soon it'll be 7. I'm gradually stepping it up.
Here's how the approaches went down:
1st :
Had to make an approach to just get started. So i saw this little girl walking, i wouldn't really say she was my age. I mean she looked like she was 16-17 or something.
Just talked to her for a bit and this little girl BB-Pin closed ME! Haha! Alright, i guess. Good for me. A good start to the day?
I think the good start happened right when i approached infact, but her bb-pin closing me only added to the effect.
After that, 2nd :
This beautiful girl standing near a car. She was playing around with her phone probably waiting for someone(My major excuse before i approached her), inside the shop in front of her, to come out.
And then i just walked upto her, and told her that i had to talk to her. She was genuinely beautiful.
Talked to her for a bit before she walked away into the shop all nervous and back to her folks.
3rd, :
These two girls inside McDonalds.
I have NEVER opened in this sort of a scenario, but i just opened her and started talking about the song playing. Got back to my buddies, but i felt like i wanted to re-initiate.
So i went back in, and started talking to the two of these girls. Complimented the first one on her hair, i really liked her hair. But then my "Appreciate the good thing in others" thought process caught bit too much of speed. Lol. I told the second one she had a cute smile. And damn the shit tests from the first one were FUCKING INSANE. Just SO MANY. I kind of broke down under the pressure but then i laughed it off.
Haha, silly thing !
How can a girl make me think that she's influencing my thoughts? That was funny.
xD
But i guess it's still something unconscious. No matter how much i deny it, i was reacting to her shit tests by going inside my head.
Interesting.
4th,
Was this girl i talked to.
For a bit. And then it got over, just like that.
:/
Oh, i just realised, there was no 5th.
Hmm. I convinced myself yesterday that it was 5 sets i approached yesterday i guess.
Anyways, i'll see that this doesn't happen today.
Infact i'll see to it that the bar has been raised from minimum of 3 to minimum of 6 approaches a day. Consecutive.
I'll hit it hard from today, even if it's for short durations.
Overall i was out for an hour or so today.
Good day.
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Day 18:
Went out yesterday, and got into my head after walking around in the mall for quite a bit.
It wasn't good AT ALL.
It's a lesson i gave myself yesterday. Never fuck it up when you get into the venue.
Open quickly and make sure that you're out of your head right when you're out.
So i didn't open and got really into my head progressively.
After that, i mean after walking around for like an hour without a single approach.
I said fuck it, got a ciggrette and started smoking. Not really the kind of thing i do, but it kind of relaxed me for the time being.
The nicotine high is always followed by a really awful low, which is one of the reasons i never appreciated the high much.
Anyways, so i saw this 2 set. These 2 girls, and found one of 'em cute.
Walked upto them on the street and approached them.
Told her she was cute. Didn't go anywhere. I approached them from the behind and didn't really stop them, that might be the reason.
Or maybe a the legit reason which she mentioned when she said "I am engaged"
But one thing i noticed dduring this nicotine high was that i wasn't really too keen to get a response from them, and funnily enough, for the first time in my life i had a group of girls turn back when they heard the booming hard voice that came at them from the behind.
I saw them walking away cracking jokes between themselves about whatever. What i kept in mind was the fact that i approached atleast one set today.
Today, i took the day off.
I'm only feeling like i can do a lot more.
After watching one of Tyler's videos, i really realized that i am kind of addicted to going out and cussing on myself for not approaching when i'm out alone.
And between my wings i'm used to being this dude who likes taking challenges.
Two different mindsets, and they really do make insane differences. But the problem is, i'm addicted to one of them.
God help me out.
Went out yesterday, and got into my head after walking around in the mall for quite a bit.
It wasn't good AT ALL.
It's a lesson i gave myself yesterday. Never fuck it up when you get into the venue.
Open quickly and make sure that you're out of your head right when you're out.
So i didn't open and got really into my head progressively.
After that, i mean after walking around for like an hour without a single approach.
I said fuck it, got a ciggrette and started smoking. Not really the kind of thing i do, but it kind of relaxed me for the time being.
The nicotine high is always followed by a really awful low, which is one of the reasons i never appreciated the high much.
Anyways, so i saw this 2 set. These 2 girls, and found one of 'em cute.
Walked upto them on the street and approached them.
Told her she was cute. Didn't go anywhere. I approached them from the behind and didn't really stop them, that might be the reason.
Or maybe a the legit reason which she mentioned when she said "I am engaged"
But one thing i noticed dduring this nicotine high was that i wasn't really too keen to get a response from them, and funnily enough, for the first time in my life i had a group of girls turn back when they heard the booming hard voice that came at them from the behind.
I saw them walking away cracking jokes between themselves about whatever. What i kept in mind was the fact that i approached atleast one set today.
Today, i took the day off.
I'm only feeling like i can do a lot more.
After watching one of Tyler's videos, i really realized that i am kind of addicted to going out and cussing on myself for not approaching when i'm out alone.
And between my wings i'm used to being this dude who likes taking challenges.
Two different mindsets, and they really do make insane differences. But the problem is, i'm addicted to one of them.
God help me out.
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Day 19:
4 approaches.
G1:
Married hot chick.
She was just wow.
I met her at a grocery shop. She looked great and all but the fact that she was married kind of became a hurdle inside my own brain.
After the grocery shop thing, i went home to get ready to go out.
Went out, and approached three sets in total today.
The first one was cold. Straight up, no response.
I was quite chill myself though, like superfuckinchill. No issues.
Second, this girl i asked for direction, and suddenly transitioned after laughing at knowing the bovious fact that i was more sure of the directions than she was.
Transitioned well, but she wasn't really buying my shit i guess.
I should stop trying to sell as well.
:D
3rd, this hot bod gorgeous chick.
Wow. Opened really well, i jsut walked up and told her she was beautiful.
She was. What a chick. So she starts walking away cracking under the pressure, but i stand right where i was standing, and slowly start walking towards their direction and tell them to stop.
Bantered with her for a bit, she was damn hot. Her friend loved me, infact.
The friend at one point was gonna leave her with me, but my target was just too nervous. I even called her out on this a few times.
Anyways, this is what happened later. They left, but the girl came into my proximity even after knowing i was standing at this certain spot.
She wanted me to reopen. CLEARLY.
But hey, i choded out there.
Just had to preserve my "Cool" image.
It's okay. No beating myself up over it. Next time.
Good day.
4 approaches.
G1:
Married hot chick.
She was just wow.
I met her at a grocery shop. She looked great and all but the fact that she was married kind of became a hurdle inside my own brain.
After the grocery shop thing, i went home to get ready to go out.
Went out, and approached three sets in total today.
The first one was cold. Straight up, no response.
I was quite chill myself though, like superfuckinchill. No issues.
Second, this girl i asked for direction, and suddenly transitioned after laughing at knowing the bovious fact that i was more sure of the directions than she was.
Transitioned well, but she wasn't really buying my shit i guess.
I should stop trying to sell as well.
:D
3rd, this hot bod gorgeous chick.
Wow. Opened really well, i jsut walked up and told her she was beautiful.
She was. What a chick. So she starts walking away cracking under the pressure, but i stand right where i was standing, and slowly start walking towards their direction and tell them to stop.
Bantered with her for a bit, she was damn hot. Her friend loved me, infact.
The friend at one point was gonna leave her with me, but my target was just too nervous. I even called her out on this a few times.
Anyways, this is what happened later. They left, but the girl came into my proximity even after knowing i was standing at this certain spot.
She wanted me to reopen. CLEARLY.
But hey, i choded out there.
Just had to preserve my "Cool" image.
It's okay. No beating myself up over it. Next time.
Good day.
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Day 20(20% complete) :
Take me down to the paradise city where the grass is green and the gerls are prettay..oh wontchu plees take meee hooooommee!
So yeah, head out with my buddies today.
Had a good day!
Approached a few chicks.
No closes. A few interactions.
But i felt awesome for no fucking reason. Even right now i am!
3 Approaches!
1 :
These two girls at this bar.
Pretty cool dressed people these two.
I just went in and asked "Which one of the 3 of us looks the most beautiful"
Girl says something my mind couldn't understand, so i laugh and say yes.
Whatever.
I talk to them, or atleast try to. But getting their attention seemed just so different.
I mean i wasn't really trying, but sort of trying to draw them back to me whenever their minds would wander off.
Finally, i got bored and told them i was leaving.
I think i did pretty rad in there. Staying between these two chicks. It seemed like the dude to the left of the girl to the left of me was feeling left out and wanted me to leave so he left them to me to make me leave them so he could lift himself back into his group.
2nd was this girl i started teasing after she couldn't tell me the directions to this place.
I kept calling her out whenever she said "Maybe" when giving me the directions, and then i introduce myself.
Talk to her for a bit and ask her where she was going while she was walking away.
General stores. "Condoms?" i asked, she giggles and walks away.
3rd, This 2 set which i open.
And i go direct on one of the girls.
I guess the intent wasn't there, but i was feeling quite playful today.
It's their loss if they didn't talk to me really. I mean if the number of 2 sets or sets i'm comfortable opening was more, there's no fucking Goddamn force in the world that could stop me from getting a close.
I feel just so cool.
Anyways, was all good.
This was today.
Let's do 1 little thing. From now on, i approach 1 girl more than i did the last day.
And try for a new situation where i haven't opened earlier.
Simple!
Take me down to the paradise city where the grass is green and the gerls are prettay..oh wontchu plees take meee hooooommee!
So yeah, head out with my buddies today.
Had a good day!
Approached a few chicks.
No closes. A few interactions.
But i felt awesome for no fucking reason. Even right now i am!
3 Approaches!
1 :
These two girls at this bar.
Pretty cool dressed people these two.
I just went in and asked "Which one of the 3 of us looks the most beautiful"
Girl says something my mind couldn't understand, so i laugh and say yes.
Whatever.
I talk to them, or atleast try to. But getting their attention seemed just so different.
I mean i wasn't really trying, but sort of trying to draw them back to me whenever their minds would wander off.
Finally, i got bored and told them i was leaving.
I think i did pretty rad in there. Staying between these two chicks. It seemed like the dude to the left of the girl to the left of me was feeling left out and wanted me to leave so he left them to me to make me leave them so he could lift himself back into his group.
2nd was this girl i started teasing after she couldn't tell me the directions to this place.
I kept calling her out whenever she said "Maybe" when giving me the directions, and then i introduce myself.
Talk to her for a bit and ask her where she was going while she was walking away.
General stores. "Condoms?" i asked, she giggles and walks away.
3rd, This 2 set which i open.
And i go direct on one of the girls.
I guess the intent wasn't there, but i was feeling quite playful today.
It's their loss if they didn't talk to me really. I mean if the number of 2 sets or sets i'm comfortable opening was more, there's no fucking Goddamn force in the world that could stop me from getting a close.
I feel just so cool.
Anyways, was all good.
This was today.
Let's do 1 little thing. From now on, i approach 1 girl more than i did the last day.
And try for a new situation where i haven't opened earlier.
Simple!
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CoolAsPhuck
Member
Join Date: 04/01/2012 | Posts: 77
I was going to meet up with my wing, but then i was way too late today to the station.
The train ride would've taken damn fucking long for me to get to the venue on time and it was 12 o clock within half an hour already, so really no chances since a lot of the places shut.
So i decided to take a different direction and headed out to a new place all by myself today.
Called a friend in that area and met up with him, he was with a few chicks so hung out and joked around with these people.
Asked one of these chicks for her blackberry Pin but that didn't work. I couldn't really care.
And then on my way back home, i met these two dudes in the train who offered me a ride back home.
So here's the pattern i've seen myself go through everyday.
When i go out i wait for things to happen to me.
Tomorrow, i want to hack this system in a different way.
Let's say, i'm going to do 5 direction opens and then follow up with one open where i go in and introduce myself.
Well, since i'm this afraid i guess i should devise a plan that's more action oriented than inspiration oriented.
One that works with cold hard instructions instead of fluffy make-you-feel-good-for-the-next-10-minutes videos.
So, here's what i'm going to do tomorrow when i'll be out at 530 in the evening. I'll go upto 5 random persons and just ask for directions.
Just to get that decision muscle warmed up. And then i'll go upto a girl and open with an intro.
THAT'S IT for tomorrow.
Anything extra will be a bonus. Like, literally. I won't beat myself up over anything after i'm done with this little plan.
If it works out well, then i'll make a new plan for day after.
But let's just say i've had some sort of divine consciousness enter me and say, handle it carefully and make it happen yourself now.
So.
Cheers to me!
Finally taking responsibility.
:D