THE FORUMS
So today i went out.
Saw this girl i had approached earlier. She's kinda cute, and we had a good conversation for what seemed like 20-25 mins.
But she wouldn't give me her number. I pushed for it. But then i just gave up at one point cause i didn't want to push anymore.
Though i was really playful when i was pushing for her number.
She has my number, and she told me she'll call me. Balls.
Anyways that was it for the day.
I did all the other things on the list. I'm gonna update this journal with only what i'm doing in-field and nothing else.
I read a good suggestion somewhere else in this forum to aim to improve 1% everyday.
Great.
Tomorrow's goal > Hit a timer for 30 minutes and keep approaching and take any set that hooks as far as i can even if it gets awkward.
It's been a long time since i went out alone, but it feels nice now.
Saw this girl i had approached earlier. She's kinda cute, and we had a good conversation for what seemed like 20-25 mins.
But she wouldn't give me her number. I pushed for it. But then i just gave up at one point cause i didn't want to push anymore.
Though i was really playful when i was pushing for her number.
She has my number, and she told me she'll call me. Balls.
Anyways that was it for the day.
I did all the other things on the list. I'm gonna update this journal with only what i'm doing in-field and nothing else.
I read a good suggestion somewhere else in this forum to aim to improve 1% everyday.
Great.
Tomorrow's goal > Hit a timer for 30 minutes and keep approaching and take any set that hooks as far as i can even if it gets awkward.
It's been a long time since i went out alone, but it feels nice now.
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Went out today.
CLose to 6-8 approaches.
Had a good energy. Got a Number close and a bb-pin close.
Called the umber jsut a while ago, she was a really cool girl. Picked the phone up and asked me to call her tomorrow. All good.
Calling her tomorrow, after i go and meet some more new girls.
;)
This wasn't exactly 1% but more like a 500% better day.
But hey, this shit keeps happening.
I want to make tomorrow better than today, so i'll from now on include warm up sets.
3 warm ups and then approaching more and more girls.
Hope everyone's having a great time.
:)
CLose to 6-8 approaches.
Had a good energy. Got a Number close and a bb-pin close.
Called the umber jsut a while ago, she was a really cool girl. Picked the phone up and asked me to call her tomorrow. All good.
Calling her tomorrow, after i go and meet some more new girls.
;)
This wasn't exactly 1% but more like a 500% better day.
But hey, this shit keeps happening.
I want to make tomorrow better than today, so i'll from now on include warm up sets.
3 warm ups and then approaching more and more girls.
Hope everyone's having a great time.
:)
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Went out today.
Approached a girl and a 2 set and another girl.
The good part about today was i almost immediately approached the second set after i did the first set.
Like say within 30 secons of the first approach.
Now both of these did not go anywhere really.
I really pushed with the first set of the day though and that gave me a bit of momentum.
Anyways, i realise a simple thing now.
If i can approach the second set then i can do the third in a line and then a fourth.
Just a matter of approaching the next set as soon as the current one is done. Unless my current set takes me to a lay, ofcourse.
Also with the third set, the girl was an UG. But i was like what the hell.
I just wanted to kill time with this girl and nothing else.
Went upto her with the intention to bug her brains out, lol. And started talking about random shit like rabbits and all.
I got caught up with my wing after the second set. Though it's all my problem to have stopped approaching.
I did appraoch with him, like a few sets. Like just casually walked into sets with him and talked to the girls.
So 3 sets for the day today.
Doing well yo. Approached three woohoo.
Was out for like an hour or so. As in i did all my approaches within 1 hour time frame.
And after that just chilled with my buddies and got some food.
Tomorrow am gonna hit it super hard. The target is to go out for like 3 hours or so.
Time to watch some videos from Foundations.
Is there anyone reading this journal? Any vets?
Any suggestions on how you start a day better? And stay committed to what you are going to do for that day?
I find that i'm really excited every night when i sleep due to the regret i feel for not pushing myself the hardest i could.
I'm excited about what i'll be doing the next day, but then i lose all that energy as soon as i wake up.
It's like all of it gets flushed down the drain.
I'd like it if anyone can suggest how i should go about gaming for like a long period. Daygaming.
3 hours or so. I'm going to set a timer of 30 minutes and keep approaching girl after girl for that period tomorrow. Mainly the first half hour so that i get a kick in my mental ass(lol) and enter a social state easily.
Though that'll be a result of massively pushing myself for those 30 minutes.
Though who knows i might hook the first set itself. Heh.
Approached a girl and a 2 set and another girl.
The good part about today was i almost immediately approached the second set after i did the first set.
Like say within 30 secons of the first approach.
Now both of these did not go anywhere really.
I really pushed with the first set of the day though and that gave me a bit of momentum.
Anyways, i realise a simple thing now.
If i can approach the second set then i can do the third in a line and then a fourth.
Just a matter of approaching the next set as soon as the current one is done. Unless my current set takes me to a lay, ofcourse.
Also with the third set, the girl was an UG. But i was like what the hell.
I just wanted to kill time with this girl and nothing else.
Went upto her with the intention to bug her brains out, lol. And started talking about random shit like rabbits and all.
I got caught up with my wing after the second set. Though it's all my problem to have stopped approaching.
I did appraoch with him, like a few sets. Like just casually walked into sets with him and talked to the girls.
So 3 sets for the day today.
Doing well yo. Approached three woohoo.
Was out for like an hour or so. As in i did all my approaches within 1 hour time frame.
And after that just chilled with my buddies and got some food.
Tomorrow am gonna hit it super hard. The target is to go out for like 3 hours or so.
Time to watch some videos from Foundations.
Is there anyone reading this journal? Any vets?
Any suggestions on how you start a day better? And stay committed to what you are going to do for that day?
I find that i'm really excited every night when i sleep due to the regret i feel for not pushing myself the hardest i could.
I'm excited about what i'll be doing the next day, but then i lose all that energy as soon as i wake up.
It's like all of it gets flushed down the drain.
I'd like it if anyone can suggest how i should go about gaming for like a long period. Daygaming.
3 hours or so. I'm going to set a timer of 30 minutes and keep approaching girl after girl for that period tomorrow. Mainly the first half hour so that i get a kick in my mental ass(lol) and enter a social state easily.
Though that'll be a result of massively pushing myself for those 30 minutes.
Though who knows i might hook the first set itself. Heh.
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Day 4:
Went out and met these two dudes from the local lair.
Hung out with them and did like 5 approaches.
I'm at a much better place with AA than these dudes.
Anyways, got a number close.
Another good 2 set that i had talked to that didn't go anywhere.
Good part about this day: I Re-initiated both the good sets after telling them "Nice talking to you"
I was basically trying to avoid social awkwardness but now that i re-initiated and saw them go awesome, i'm proud that i went back to them and put myself on the line.
Other sets were jsut warm ups and stuff like that.
Asking chicks if am cute.
Lol.
Went out and met these two dudes from the local lair.
Hung out with them and did like 5 approaches.
I'm at a much better place with AA than these dudes.
Anyways, got a number close.
Another good 2 set that i had talked to that didn't go anywhere.
Good part about this day: I Re-initiated both the good sets after telling them "Nice talking to you"
I was basically trying to avoid social awkwardness but now that i re-initiated and saw them go awesome, i'm proud that i went back to them and put myself on the line.
Other sets were jsut warm ups and stuff like that.
Asking chicks if am cute.
Lol.
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Day 5:
Hung out with my buddy.
Approached this one hottie i knew i wouldn't in the past just cause i'd be scared.
WAY TO GO!
More sets!
1 is not enough.
She walked away, but hey, that was the first set of the day.
Hung out with my buddy.
Approached this one hottie i knew i wouldn't in the past just cause i'd be scared.
WAY TO GO!
More sets!
1 is not enough.
She walked away, but hey, that was the first set of the day.
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Day 6 : Went out and approached 3 girls or so within 15 minutes.
I don't know how i was so in the momentum. I jsut felt like i had a fire in my ass and had to do those approaches.
The 3rd one was really receptive but i ejected out asap.
I had opened the second one with "I saw you checking me out. How much do i rate on your scale" And the third chick was watching this happen.
She said "5 or 6"
Am like "Hah"
And moved on to the 3rd one.
LULZ
xD
But i still didn't push the 3rd one too far.
I was scared.
But hey, i approached. Now i gotta focus on going far with the conversations.
I don't know how i was so in the momentum. I jsut felt like i had a fire in my ass and had to do those approaches.
The 3rd one was really receptive but i ejected out asap.
I had opened the second one with "I saw you checking me out. How much do i rate on your scale" And the third chick was watching this happen.
She said "5 or 6"
Am like "Hah"
And moved on to the 3rd one.
LULZ
xD
But i still didn't push the 3rd one too far.
I was scared.
But hey, i approached. Now i gotta focus on going far with the conversations.
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Day 7:
No approaches.
Lol.
Sucks. REALLY SUCKED.
No approaches.
Lol.
Sucks. REALLY SUCKED.
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Day 8:
Went out today.
Met my friends.
Started approaching. Saw this girl and went upto her direct.
Told her she was cute and suddenly something from the back of my mind says "Go for the girl, not skill"
And i suddenly change the way i was standing and there's a sort of interesting change in my voice tone.
She's also changed her stance but hey, she still walked away within 10 seconds.
She worked in the mall and she was sorta shy.
I should've stopped her by standing right in front of her after opening her.
Second girl was this good looking chick who was carrying tons of bags.
I go upto her, tell her she's attractive.
Tell her it seems like she had a long day at the mall. She's like yeah.
And i sort of lose my awesome vibe and go full chode mode silence. Inexpressive as fuck.
I'd say that happened cause i wasn't in the momentum. But i could've pushed this one as well.
By standing in fronta her and talking. Gawd am so getting used to the blow out. SO MUCH that they don't hurt anymore.
Not as hard atleast.
:D
There was no third 4th of 5th. I had decided to do 5 approaches.
But didn't.
I still did 2 approaches. Gotta focus more on executing what i've planned.
I'll come up with the updates tomorrow.
Having a good time.'
:)
Oh and btw, the number close is responding well, but i don't feel like hanging with her cause she looks okay at best. Really.
I want to get laid man. Seriously. Hah.
So i've set this goal.
10 days. Get laid or get laid.
That's the only option i have.
So going out tomorrow, day after and the day after day after tomorrow WITH absolutely no shame.
It's time TO GET LAIIID!!
PS: I didn't go out for a day since i spent time with my parents.
Convinced them to buy me a guitar.
Woohoo!
Went out today.
Met my friends.
Started approaching. Saw this girl and went upto her direct.
Told her she was cute and suddenly something from the back of my mind says "Go for the girl, not skill"
And i suddenly change the way i was standing and there's a sort of interesting change in my voice tone.
She's also changed her stance but hey, she still walked away within 10 seconds.
She worked in the mall and she was sorta shy.
I should've stopped her by standing right in front of her after opening her.
Second girl was this good looking chick who was carrying tons of bags.
I go upto her, tell her she's attractive.
Tell her it seems like she had a long day at the mall. She's like yeah.
And i sort of lose my awesome vibe and go full chode mode silence. Inexpressive as fuck.
I'd say that happened cause i wasn't in the momentum. But i could've pushed this one as well.
By standing in fronta her and talking. Gawd am so getting used to the blow out. SO MUCH that they don't hurt anymore.
Not as hard atleast.
:D
There was no third 4th of 5th. I had decided to do 5 approaches.
But didn't.
I still did 2 approaches. Gotta focus more on executing what i've planned.
I'll come up with the updates tomorrow.
Having a good time.'
:)
Oh and btw, the number close is responding well, but i don't feel like hanging with her cause she looks okay at best. Really.
I want to get laid man. Seriously. Hah.
So i've set this goal.
10 days. Get laid or get laid.
That's the only option i have.
So going out tomorrow, day after and the day after day after tomorrow WITH absolutely no shame.
It's time TO GET LAIIID!!
PS: I didn't go out for a day since i spent time with my parents.
Convinced them to buy me a guitar.
Woohoo!
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Day 9 :
Went out really really late.
Now it's Saturday, but damn i don't have any money to go anywhere.
Not even to travel.
:/
Stuck to going to the mall.
In the bookshop i saw this really cute girl who i approached after quite a bit of positive self-talk and telling myself "You're the man. You're the best bro, jsut go!" Haha
And then i talked to her. I honestly couldn't think of stuff to say and funnily enough i started talking about THAT.
And she was sort of backing away as i was talking which i noticed.
And by the time i was 30 seconds into conversation with her she was far enough to not even be in my arm's length multiplied by 2.
And she told me she was married. Now i was shocked, honestly.
25 and married? THat's too young.
But hey, whatever. So i eject and that was it for the day.
Saved up some money today that dad gave me. I hate being dependent so working a bit on doing some online keyword research in a bit from now.
Gotta take control.
Not been meditating. So that's something i'll make sure i do before sleeping today.
Bought the greens from the amrket today.
Focus. Focus. Focus.
Went out really really late.
Now it's Saturday, but damn i don't have any money to go anywhere.
Not even to travel.
:/
Stuck to going to the mall.
In the bookshop i saw this really cute girl who i approached after quite a bit of positive self-talk and telling myself "You're the man. You're the best bro, jsut go!" Haha
And then i talked to her. I honestly couldn't think of stuff to say and funnily enough i started talking about THAT.
And she was sort of backing away as i was talking which i noticed.
And by the time i was 30 seconds into conversation with her she was far enough to not even be in my arm's length multiplied by 2.
And she told me she was married. Now i was shocked, honestly.
25 and married? THat's too young.
But hey, whatever. So i eject and that was it for the day.
Saved up some money today that dad gave me. I hate being dependent so working a bit on doing some online keyword research in a bit from now.
Gotta take control.
Not been meditating. So that's something i'll make sure i do before sleeping today.
Bought the greens from the amrket today.
Focus. Focus. Focus.
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Skipped three days.
I'll still call it Day 11. I don't want to skip days. I'm going out more than 3 days a week so that's something positive!
:)
I know how stupid and unreasonable it is though to not stick to the commitment.
I have to take my commitments seriously or al of them will fall apart. It's like that, things have momentum.
My Not-Sticking-To-My-Commitments tendency also has a momentum sort of thing going on on it's side. Like Tyler pointed out in a video, your brain loves being the way it is.
Since changing requires quite a lot of effort. You have to set things into motion, and then keep the ball rolling.
All that stuff.
So anyways, i went out today, and i had decided actually to not approach and just grab a bite at McDonaalds
I'm on my way, and again i remember the rule Tyler was talking about "When i leer at a girl, i make myself approach her even if she has caught me looking at her like a pervert"
Awesome stuff Tyler, i love you. I was going "No. I'M NOT DOING THAT. NO THAT'S TYLER NOT ME" inside my head.
And something inside me was sorta excited. I walk near her, another excuse(She's on the phone) comes up.
I make that one bite the dust so hard by keeping on walking regardless of what came up from inside my little mind.
Now this was, i don't know chode or whatever[The conversation i mean. I loved whatever part of it i got to experience]. I tell her to get off the phone for a minute.
"Hey, hi.[Sorta grinning shyly. Not really strong with my voice tone and shit, but i was beng who the fuck i was feeling like in that exact nanosecond] It's only gonna take a minute. Can you just get off the phone for a bit?"
She tells the dude on the phone to talk to her later.
I tell her, look i have this rule i picked up from somewhere that if i catch myself oggling at a girl i'll just go tell her she's pretty.
And she was pretty. Hah!
She starts blushing. Well maybe partly cause i was sorta excited myself and that vibe rubbed off on her. She starts laughing and says "well, thank you"
I'm not at a loss of words. I'm just enjoying the fucking good emotions so much. Hahahaha!
I EJECT! I tell her "nice to meet you" ask her what's her name and tell her i'll see her around.
DAFAQQQ DID I DO!
This could've EASILY gone somewhere!
Hahaha. I AM so dumb man. I mean so dumb. But i'm just so fucking cool!
Half of my life, or maybe more i beat myself up for not being good. And then comes an opportunity that's CRYSTAL CLEAR and i walk away from it.
Anyways, i go to MickyD's. And i sit and have my foodd.
And i overheard this group of 2 dudes and 1 girl talking about some psycho chick who asked on a public forum sorta thing if she's crazy if she thinks she's a vampires and drinks her own blood and shit.
And i literally said "Dude that's YUCK! The fuck?"
And he starts laughing.
I sort of break into a conversation with this group of 3. We talk a bit, and then i get back to my food.
And while leaving one of the guys comes up to me and says nice meeting you man and leaves.
I'm surprised.
I mean, how far can i go if i literaly don't fuck myself up and jsut stay outside of my head and enjoy shit?
There was some conscious effort in the approach that i made. Some conscious effort in the group that i talked to, yes.
I'm not really gifted socially. But i'm coming to believe that i am the more i talk to people.
Anyways, it's time to stick to this commitment and make it a better day tomorrow. Or maybe just sort of not TRY TO make it a better day but jsut live it.
Hope everyone's having a good time.
:D
I'll still call it Day 11. I don't want to skip days. I'm going out more than 3 days a week so that's something positive!
:)
I know how stupid and unreasonable it is though to not stick to the commitment.
I have to take my commitments seriously or al of them will fall apart. It's like that, things have momentum.
My Not-Sticking-To-My-Commitments tendency also has a momentum sort of thing going on on it's side. Like Tyler pointed out in a video, your brain loves being the way it is.
Since changing requires quite a lot of effort. You have to set things into motion, and then keep the ball rolling.
All that stuff.
So anyways, i went out today, and i had decided actually to not approach and just grab a bite at McDonaalds
I'm on my way, and again i remember the rule Tyler was talking about "When i leer at a girl, i make myself approach her even if she has caught me looking at her like a pervert"
Awesome stuff Tyler, i love you. I was going "No. I'M NOT DOING THAT. NO THAT'S TYLER NOT ME" inside my head.
And something inside me was sorta excited. I walk near her, another excuse(She's on the phone) comes up.
I make that one bite the dust so hard by keeping on walking regardless of what came up from inside my little mind.
Now this was, i don't know chode or whatever[The conversation i mean. I loved whatever part of it i got to experience]. I tell her to get off the phone for a minute.
"Hey, hi.[Sorta grinning shyly. Not really strong with my voice tone and shit, but i was beng who the fuck i was feeling like in that exact nanosecond] It's only gonna take a minute. Can you just get off the phone for a bit?"
She tells the dude on the phone to talk to her later.
I tell her, look i have this rule i picked up from somewhere that if i catch myself oggling at a girl i'll just go tell her she's pretty.
And she was pretty. Hah!
She starts blushing. Well maybe partly cause i was sorta excited myself and that vibe rubbed off on her. She starts laughing and says "well, thank you"
I'm not at a loss of words. I'm just enjoying the fucking good emotions so much. Hahahaha!
I EJECT! I tell her "nice to meet you" ask her what's her name and tell her i'll see her around.
DAFAQQQ DID I DO!
This could've EASILY gone somewhere!
Hahaha. I AM so dumb man. I mean so dumb. But i'm just so fucking cool!
Half of my life, or maybe more i beat myself up for not being good. And then comes an opportunity that's CRYSTAL CLEAR and i walk away from it.
Anyways, i go to MickyD's. And i sit and have my foodd.
And i overheard this group of 2 dudes and 1 girl talking about some psycho chick who asked on a public forum sorta thing if she's crazy if she thinks she's a vampires and drinks her own blood and shit.
And i literally said "Dude that's YUCK! The fuck?"
And he starts laughing.
I sort of break into a conversation with this group of 3. We talk a bit, and then i get back to my food.
And while leaving one of the guys comes up to me and says nice meeting you man and leaves.
I'm surprised.
I mean, how far can i go if i literaly don't fuck myself up and jsut stay outside of my head and enjoy shit?
There was some conscious effort in the approach that i made. Some conscious effort in the group that i talked to, yes.
I'm not really gifted socially. But i'm coming to believe that i am the more i talk to people.
Anyways, it's time to stick to this commitment and make it a better day tomorrow. Or maybe just sort of not TRY TO make it a better day but jsut live it.
Hope everyone's having a good time.
:D
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CoolAsPhuck
Member
Join Date: 04/01/2012 | Posts: 77
ALL MINE.
It's gonna run for 90 days. The show i'm putting up out here. This show is really important to me guys. It's my fucking life. I want to live it large.
So here's the thing. I'd love to get comments from the veterans.I'd love comments from chodes who're inspired to do their own shit because of me.Heck i'd love anyone commenting on the stuff i'm doing.
I'm 20. I'm impatient as fuck and usually dumb and cool(Like SERIOUSLY cool). And here's the thing, i want chicks. I do have a few in my life, but i want MOARR.
My focus is on a few things. I don't want to scatter my energies too much on a lot of tasks because that tends to fuck with actually getting good at ANYTHING.
So i have three priorities:
Music, Money and chicks.
Music: I'm a singer. I love singing. I'd love to die doing this.
Money: I'm looking at Internet Marketing and this online traning called the The Challenge.
Chicks: BangBangBang. That's what i want RIGHT NOW.
So i have set a few tasks that i'll be going through every single day, and make them habits:
-Meditate every morning for 20 minutes.
-Practice Singing 5-6 times a week. With 1-2 days recovery for each week.
-Go heavy on the greens(I have seen such a MASSIVE CHANGE in the way i see things when i'm on a diet which is heavy on greens. Tyler, I LOVE YOU)
-Give 2-3 hours everyday to Internet Marketing. Like set a timer and get my ass glued to the fucking place and just keep at it.
-Read 1-2 books a week.
-Go out and meet girls everyday. I'll be going out for 3 hours or more.
I had been adviced on the general forum that this would massively help my game. I mean approaching 10 girls or so a day.
So i thought what the hell, i'd like to push for my own version 2.0
I mean i'm really excited about seeing how i can be a different, better version of me.
So i'll start putting stuff in here from tomorrow. It would basicaly be FRs mixed up with how i did with my tasklist.
Now like Robbins says, Decision is what creates action.
Somehow i just know i've absolutely decided to burn shit up in my life. I'm gonna change it all.
Tomorrow morning as son as i wake up i'm gonna write down all of this on a paper and stick it on something i look at everyday. I'll be going through this every SINGLE FUCKING DAY NO MATTER WHAT.
Watch out for this space brothers.
I hope you're having a good time.
:)