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i found david d when i was around your age, and though i didnt invest HEAVILY into it, it fucked up my entire social status, I USED TO BE THE COOL KID :P
na but in all seriousness i dont think learning about PU will help you out at your age, like everyone else said just be a student get good grades, play some sports,
go to house parties, etc... dont worry about this yet, the time will come soon just wait young grasshopper :)
na but in all seriousness i dont think learning about PU will help you out at your age, like everyone else said just be a student get good grades, play some sports,
go to house parties, etc... dont worry about this yet, the time will come soon just wait young grasshopper :)
Lol. At first it fucked me up but I've finally hit that point. People just like being around me now. People are attracted to me. I'm so outside of my head its ridiculous. I started when I first turned 16 and now (17) the payoff was definitely worth it. Don't worry as much about the pickup itself as much a the mastery type "be on your path" stuff. That shit made me. Girls litterally crowd around me and I don't even realize it half the time because i'm so used to it.
Basically this:
If you can break through that beginners obsessiveness and reach the point where you get the concepts on a deep level, it pays off. If you get stuck in that beginner 'cloud', it will fuck you up sooo bad. I lost way too many friends over that shit as a beginner.
Basically this:
If you can break through that beginners obsessiveness and reach the point where you get the concepts on a deep level, it pays off. If you get stuck in that beginner 'cloud', it will fuck you up sooo bad. I lost way too many friends over that shit as a beginner.
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Fuckin' right teens can mess with this stuff. Agreed when someone mentioned looking at it maturely and not all crazy. I found this when I was 19 and it's definitely easy to immerse yourself in this/lose touch with your life, your friends etc.
But, just accept it. There's bigger learning curve too probably since your experiences are still relatively narrow compared to guys who've been at it awhile who are older.
Definitely can't complain that you found it before college :-P
But, just accept it. There's bigger learning curve too probably since your experiences are still relatively narrow compared to guys who've been at it awhile who are older.
Definitely can't complain that you found it before college :-P
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I make it nasty. & keep it 'G
OK, my previous response was complete bullshit :P
No it´s not good...why?
Cuz you´re gonna get a 14yo girl pregers and be a father before 18 or end up in jail.
True story brah!
No it´s not good...why?
Cuz you´re gonna get a 14yo girl pregers and be a father before 18 or end up in jail.
True story brah!
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Its been nothing but good for me. Yeah there have been times where im like "Fuck, I wish I never read that stupid book!". And Ive had a bunch of people tell me I should focus on other things becuase Im a kid. But I love it, I live for that moment when you lock eyes with a girl and she has those huge anime eyes. When she looks at me like im an angel from the lord sent to fuck her. Theres been times when I think life sucks only becuase I failed in field, or even becuase my natural friend did 'better than me'. But I belive working through that is just growth and makes me into a better man. I love the game and I love what its done for me.
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Deploy banana game
Pick up these days is just about aligning your thoughts words and actions and eliminating any form of "shtick" or trying to impress and just being congruent to your current state and feelings
as well as not caring what other people think of you
Its never to early to start practising these behaviours
as well as not caring what other people think of you
Its never to early to start practising these behaviours
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I think it's for everyone and part of what it's all about is the cause behind your identification with an ordinary, stereotypical teenager. I've started listening to The Blueprint at age 14 and didn't get laid until I was 17, my current age. However, it's been a tremendous help at chipping away the layers of conditioning, grasping the concept of human change and realizing my potential. With all the hormones, we really don't know what the fuck we're doing until we turn 16, 18, 20 or even 30. I'd say that through being exposed to potent information and ideas on the Internet it won't take as long as with older generations, but even then it requires an incredible amount of effort and determination. However, just go out there and do it. It will scare the crap out of you, but it's worth it. Also, join a GYM immediately if you haven't already, download the Starting Strength program and follow it rigorously.
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I would just echo everyone else's words here. Yes it can help immensly if you just take the key concepts and APPLY them in your life. So the only thing extra I'd like to add from all this is ACTUALLY APPLY this stuff!!!
You said your kind of obessed with reading and watching the videos. Watching the videos is fine but do you apply the rule of thumb 10 hours of in field to 1 hour of theory? Probably not. 10 hours of socializing then one hour of videos or acticles. Just socialize as much as you can. At lunch, in class, after class, join sports or clubs, organize shit on the weekends. All those videos won't make you super awesome, but they can help.
You said your kind of obessed with reading and watching the videos. Watching the videos is fine but do you apply the rule of thumb 10 hours of in field to 1 hour of theory? Probably not. 10 hours of socializing then one hour of videos or acticles. Just socialize as much as you can. At lunch, in class, after class, join sports or clubs, organize shit on the weekends. All those videos won't make you super awesome, but they can help.
You're 16. You're still in school. Um YES you CAN take more action than all of us who aren't in school anymore.
The point of RSD is that it comes from a place of RELAX, FUN, BE YOURSELF, and all the other stuff autocorrects the more approaches and interactions you do.
I'd say instead of throwing away what you've been obsessing over, try applying it to your interactions at school. Talk to that one girl you've been looking at all year.. Live life dude!
You don't have many friends and you rarely go out? What the fuck do you have to lose by standing out as a direct, congruent, outspoken man who takes what he wants?
The point of RSD is that it comes from a place of RELAX, FUN, BE YOURSELF, and all the other stuff autocorrects the more approaches and interactions you do.
I'd say instead of throwing away what you've been obsessing over, try applying it to your interactions at school. Talk to that one girl you've been looking at all year.. Live life dude!
You don't have many friends and you rarely go out? What the fuck do you have to lose by standing out as a direct, congruent, outspoken man who takes what he wants?
I found RSD about 6 months ago and since then i've been obsessed with it , watching videos , reading blogs / forum.
But i'm only 16 and don't have a huge amount of friends , so to be honest I rarely go out.
So since I cant really take much ACTION I think a lot of this is starting to mess with my head.
Example - When i go out with my mates, Im actually a lot more awkward than I was before finding RSD , because i'm always thinking about different things.
Should I just forget about RSD and all of the concepts , until i'm old enough to hit the clubs ?
But i'm only 16 and don't have a huge amount of friends , so to be honest I rarely go out.
So since I cant really take much ACTION I think a lot of this is starting to mess with my head.
Example - When i go out with my mates, Im actually a lot more awkward than I was before finding RSD , because i'm always thinking about different things.
Should I just forget about RSD and all of the concepts , until i'm old enough to hit the clubs ?
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It had some bad influences on me (especially blueprint)...which made me just even more in my head, etc.
But at your age I´d recommend:
Just playing sports, maybe gym, healthy diet, having OK grades (so you get into college), having/finding hobbies.
If you really wanna meet women then just go to the mall, there should be plenty of 14-17 yo girls.