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May 19th, 2013
Damn Tyler, not speaking took my game to the next level
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Busking for Pussy

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Level_Up wrote:
 Man... I did this today. I can paraphrase this type of approach in one way....STEEL.  Really, because it so awkward when you first do it.... 

I literally had a few sets ignore me, but just for fun I stood there while keeping centered.. It's very meditative. It's obviously they walked off and got weirded out.  But I still stayed there for another 5 minutes after the left with my eyes closed

LMAO... holly shit, bro, hahahaha
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I didn't do it myself, i only did the stare opener, and fom what i can tell by experience, is you just gotta keep a smile on your face, Hold eye contact,  And you gotta trust on the law of state transfer, whilst of course being physical.

i will probably try it next time out sounds funny
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#23

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Awesome man. It's really cool to see how far you've come.
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Did it work in the first time or you had to try over and over to build confidence? if yes, how many?
SirKonstantine wrote:
 In a post a few weeks back, Tyler said that not speaking until the makeout took his game to the next level. I've been trying not speaking for a few weeks now and, WOW, jesus christ, my game improved so much.

When you stop verbalizing, your forced to game with only non-verbals (eye contact and physicality). I thought I was good at non-verbals but not speaking took it to the next level.

Your sense of entitlement increases because, she expects you to react and say something but no, your not gonna say shit. Its great when you see a hottie going on a monologue to win you over when all you have done is just stand there. lol.

The biggest thing it did for me was get rid of this little need to "do something." Like, I'm in a set and I feel that I need to "do something" to get the girl to the next level. Like, be more gamie. But, now I just don't act and just give her solid EC. No actions, just EC. Works great cuz she sees how comfortable I am.
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Ahhh ya I forgot.. I have to try this.
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LOL

"I just stood there"

Dude- this isn't something that feels awkward. In fact, since Tyler's article I consciously did it a few times in nightclubs for a few reasons:

1. Nightclubs are fucking LOUD- especially fuckin marque in nyc- loudest nightclub I've personally ever been to (hate it actually) so talking can, at times, be pointless anyway and I've had girls just be like, "what?" "what" "WHAT?!?!" and then just give up cause they couldn't hear. And were talking im like 2 inches away from their ear just like SCREAMING as loud as I can and I'm a pretty loud dude lmao
2. It leads into REAL TIGHT physical escalation
3. It's just kinda funny

lmao- my game isn't THAT tight so I think I got like 2 makeouts in all the times I did this but it's fun and different and kinda cool.

The point is to be ACTIVELY engaged with her. Like it'd be cool if Tyler or Sirkonstantine posted video of them doing it in-field cause it's something where if you saw it, you'd instantly be like OHHHHH I GET IT!

You're physically escalating and using a fuckton of eye contact, smiling, letting her talk- Basically you can do push/pull WITHOUT verbals... just ACTIVELY use your physical escalation in a way that expresses what you want and how you're feeling. Like you can bring her in real close, hold eye contact andt hen push her away and then pull her back playfully with a little noogie or something...
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 I have always let girls do all the talking.Girls have even told me i dont talk much and i still end up getting them.I have had long conversations with girls where i say is stuff like....o,really?,cool,yeah,

Its this natural guy that teaches that out talking girls is gay.He says women are supposed to do all the talking.I really believe this.
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well yeah i did that shit during day game in the middle of a quite mall.
I will evolve that shit. Whatever its still hilarious...
Buddhagames wrote:
LOL

"I just stood there"

Dude- this isn't something that feels awkward. In fact, since Tyler's article I consciously did it a few times in nightclubs for a few reasons:

1. Nightclubs are fucking LOUD- especially fuckin marque in nyc- loudest nightclub I've personally ever been to (hate it actually) so talking can, at times, be pointless anyway and I've had girls just be like, "what?" "what" "WHAT?!?!" and then just give up cause they couldn't hear. And were talking im like 2 inches away from their ear just like SCREAMING as loud as I can and I'm a pretty loud dude lmao
2. It leads into REAL TIGHT physical escalation
3. It's just kinda funny

lmao- my game isn't THAT tight so I think I got like 2 makeouts in all the times I did this but it's fun and different and kinda cool.

The point is to be ACTIVELY engaged with her. Like it'd be cool if Tyler or Sirkonstantine posted video of them doing it in-field cause it's something where if you saw it, you'd instantly be like OHHHHH I GET IT!

You're physically escalating and using a fuckton of eye contact, smiling, letting her talk- Basically you can do push/pull WITHOUT verbals... just ACTIVELY use your physical escalation in a way that expresses what you want and how you're feeling. Like you can bring her in real close, hold eye contact andt hen push her away and then pull her back playfully with a little noogie or something...
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Buddhagames wrote:
The point is to be ACTIVELY engaged with her. Like it'd be cool if Tyler or Sirkonstantine posted video of them doing it in-field cause it's something where if you saw it, you'd instantly be like OHHHHH I GET IT!

You're physically escalating and using a fuckton of eye contact, smiling, letting her talk- Basically you can do push/pull WITHOUT verbals... just ACTIVELY use your physical escalation in a way that expresses what you want and how you're feeling. Like you can bring her in real close, hold eye contact andt hen push her away and then pull her back playfully with a little noogie or something...

Yup!

Julian showed us how he does it on the Free Tour/ Hotseat, and suddenly it was clear - strong eyecontact, smile, and being really expressive, almost like a mime!
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 where is the link to the article. id love to read it
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