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May 21st, 2013
Damn Tyler, not speaking took my game to the next level
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RSDNationer

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 In a post a few weeks back, Tyler said that not speaking until the makeout took his game to the next level. I've been trying not speaking for a few weeks now and, WOW, jesus christ, my game improved so much.

When you stop verbalizing, your forced to game with only non-verbals (eye contact and physicality). I thought I was good at non-verbals but not speaking took it to the next level.

Your sense of entitlement increases because, she expects you to react and say something but no, your not gonna say shit. Its great when you see a hottie going on a monologue to win you over when all you have done is just stand there. lol.

The biggest thing it did for me was get rid of this little need to "do something." Like, I'm in a set and I feel that I need to "do something" to get the girl to the next level. Like, be more gamie. But, now I just don't act and just give her solid EC. No actions, just EC. Works great cuz she sees how comfortable I am.
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imnashitfool

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 really? that sounds awesome lol.. i wanna try it.
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Yup. I have done this more often now. And that shit really works. Honestly. Girls just assume you are the shit and have higher status than most people there. But honestly like i feel like this only works because i really do feel like that inside. I really really do believe i am the shit lol. And probably i get that careless pimp attitude because i have a hotass girl back home waiting for me every night so i just feel like i dont give a shit. Not to brag at all. Really. Its just the truth of why i feel good inside most of the time.
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aztecnation619

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 what do you mean by not speaking until the makeout? you approach a set and you wait for the girl to talk to you, just standing there? explain please im confused 
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seekerm

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that's awesome! i want to try this out too. how would this work on approaching a girl in a group?
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RSDNationer

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... you don't just walk up to her and stand there.

You walk up to her and engage her physically and with Eye contact.

If you don't get it, your not there yet.
aztecnation619 wrote:
 what do you mean by not speaking until the makeout? you approach a set and you wait for the girl to talk to you, just standing there? explain please im confused 
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Andre~

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Work on your physical game first before doing this - gotta be fearless with both that and your eye contact.

I've done this sporadically, i might make a commitment to do it vigorously for the next couple of weeks just to really feel comfortable with it. I do like the moment when the hottie invests in you more by speaking - it kinda makes sense how they say the person talking the most is the one who's qualifying their selves. That's paradoxical though, cause we're also told to spit game and talk nonstop with the million dollar mouthpiece. The key is, is just to experiment and see what yields the most profits for you.
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Tyler

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You got it,  Perfect.

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Andre~ wrote:
Work on your physical game first before doing this - gotta be fearless with both that and your eye contact.

I've done this sporadically, i might make a commitment to do it vigorously for the next couple of weeks just to really feel comfortable with it. I do like the moment when the hottie invests in you more by speaking - it kinda makes sense how they say the person talking the most is the one who's qualifying their selves. That's paradoxical though, cause we're also told to spit game and talk nonstop with the million dollar mouthpiece. The key is, is just to experiment and see what yields the most profits for you.

Great post!
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Sounds awesome, dude.
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not speaking ALWAYS creates a stupid amount of sexual tension....thats why it works
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