December 13th, 2018
RSD Free Tour in Paris with Julien
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Paris Boum Boum

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Join Date: 04/02/2009 | Posts: 3609

Hello, I am French. I like fromage. 

I attended the Free Tour. Julien was the speaker.

IMO the event was a total success. 

*****************THE EVENT************************

Julien decided to do his speaking in french although he hasn't spoken french for years, and he did a very good job at it. 

The event in itself was very cool, and packed with valuable content. It's not some kind of infomercial thing, it's really full of value, with only a quick mention of hot seat and rsd at the end. So if you want to learn, you won't be disappointed. As for me, I wasn't. 

Basically he asked questions to everybody at the beginning of the event, ie "what do you want to know ?" and managed to address them in depth in the course of the event (which lasted 1 hour more than originally scheduled I think).

The stuff he talked about is half what you already saw on the front page article, but also half new perspectives, very precise examples from his own journey, and often detailed breakdowns of how to handle certain situations. So if you know already the front page, you can still learn a bunch of very interesting things. It was very valuable to hear him talk in detail about stuff he found to work, for example what he does in the interaction to make the number more solid, or some ways he manages to force shit tests. 

*****************THINGS I LEARNED*****************

If I had to mention 3 key things he talked about, that would help me a lot, it would be:

1-His breakdown of what authenticity is, what it means to be authentic, and how authenticity is related to value and attraction. Being authentic is rare, you are instantly valuable therefore attractive when you speak from an authentic place. It enables you to have genuine interactions that actually go somewhere. He explained what it means and how to get there. 

2-The "Try another new angle" perspective: instead of losing state because you failed ot get an outcome, get pumped up and try to find how the situation can work to your advantage -  temporary failure means you must get more resourceful, not more negative

3-How he became good, ie how to focus on the process to improve, his take on willpower and doing the right thing


My advice to other people would be:

-Go to the event. If you're a noob, it's a goldmine to start on the right track. 
If you're intermediate you can get answers on how to overcome your issues. 
If you're advanced you can find or ask for new perspectives to get better. 
Plus it's free. 

-If you go to the event, write down a few questions you really need to be answered beforehand. Read your reports or think about your last nights out, and determine what would help you the most at your level. You'll have an opportunity to get help from an expert.


I may write a more detailed breakdown of the event later,  but I wanted to slam this before going to bed, so for now let's say I enjoyed the event a lot, and I still learned many things although I'm already an active forum member who reads the front page all the time.

If you wonder whether to attend - well don't, you'll be amazed at the amount of new ideas and perspective you'll get from it. 

Thanks Julien, and see you at the Hot Seat.

Also, baguette, fromage, Tour Eiffel. 
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Join Date: 01/21/2011 | Posts: 1353

Julien speaks French? Is he canadian?
Read my review of Get Laid or Die Trying

My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.

"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
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Join Date: 10/12/2009 | Posts: 1922

He's swiss
I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.

My adventures in Dallas - 2013
 My adventures in Austin - 2012 
  Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011 Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012) Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
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