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May 18th, 2013
I'm a 26 year old virgin and fucked an escort.
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#11

Kyng7

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Great that you got your label off, but I'm sorry you had to go about it that way.  Keep trying and you'll get the real thing.  And know what it is you want.  The fact that you realized it was intimicay may allow you to shift your focus to seek and find that and de-emphasize the "OMG, I NEED to have sex" attitude. 

Intimacy is so important.  Ironically, I broke up with my ex because there was NO intimacy.  And now, when I have missed her, the thing I have missed the most is just the little way she was always there and close by to rub my shoulder or give me a hug just because she wanted one.  You'll find that....we all will.
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#12
ChinaBoy~

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 Your writing skills are really good!

Agreed. Intimacy not sex.
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#13

rogerhelms

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 FUCK THAT SLUT
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#14
dave7

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I respectfully disagree. 
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Ur still a virgin fucking nasty hookers don't count
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spirit8ball

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her saynig "me too" was totally routine.
i did this exactly and found out that i just wanted to cuddle with her aka intimacy.
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Serpicoo

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 Don't you find it funny how big of a deal being a virgin is to some people, yet it's just in their head? If you do feel free after losing your virgin label, it is only because you are giving yourself permission to be free. You have been free all along. 
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#17

Kyng7

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Serpicoo wrote:
 Don't you find it funny how big of a deal being a virgin is to some people, yet it's just in their head? If you do feel free after losing your virgin label, it is only because you are giving yourself permission to be free. You have been free all along. 
This is a great point.  I lost mine at a fraternity party with some drunk girl who just sort of laid there and didn't know what to do either.  I wasn't even that into her, and today she wouldn't even be my type.  Of all the times I had sex, it was the worst time, and I didn't feel a damn bit different afterward.  It's really a goofy label that people shouldn't stress about.  You'll have sex at some point, and once you start, you work to get better, and frankly, it's really not that hard to get really good.  We shouldn't sweat it so much.
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#18

clover

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Join Date: 12/13/2011 | Posts: 4

You drove your car STONED? What would your mother think?
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#19
Pree

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theoneandonly1 wrote:


But all this time I thought I wanted sex, but in truth, it was intimacy that I had been searching for and will continue to search for

I wouldn't speak too soon bro. This was your first time, not too mention with a hooker.  Fuck 10 more girls (not paid for) and see if you feel the same way.

Even if One night stands are meaningless they can still be intimate. The build up to the root, the pillow talking and all that shit.
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#20
zippykremlin

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DAMNIT!!! MAN UP!
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