THE FORUMS

 I have some cool few things I almost always do on dates to help escalate physically, build attraction and make them more fun.

I always greet the girl with a hug followed by me holding their hand and saying “Allright, let me get a look” and ill spin them around and check them out. This one is money because it’s a great way to break any awkwardness, set the frame that you’re the buyer not the seller, and get her giggling. I had a few post-date chats where girls said they loved how I spinned them and how it made them feel comfortable (I meet a lot of girls from the internet *creepy man face* so this is more important. )

I try to avoid dinner only dates, and never do movies on the first few dates - instead I’ll do food and some kind of activity. In a restaurant setting i’m handcuffed because not only am I limited on touching, all the focus is on talking, and it’s too “dateish”

Before eating i’ll normally say “You know what sucks about this place...they once refused to sell me alcohol....yeah! they said my ID did not look like me” - then i’ll show them my fake-ID with a 40 year old black dude high on pot, it’s cheezy but i always get explosive reactions - more importantly I launch into a story or two where I used the ID to get into clubs.

To fill in time while we eat I normally go through a few photos & videos on my phone...cool stuff like places ive been, me playing with my niece, and other cool stuff.

I have a bunch of random crap i’ll do (finger length routine, thumb wars) but lately my favorite has been if we’re walking somewhere together ill jump in front of her and squat and say “hop on” and give the girl a piggy back ride. Then i’ll jog with them on my back. I’ll sometimes tease how they need to drop a few, or how that’s the most exercice ive had in years because i’m an outa shape computer guy - in either case it’s fun.

Sometimes in the middle of talking i’ll just slowly squat and pick the girl up in the air and walk a few feet...say “This spot is better” and make it look nothing happened. I did this to a girl recently and the other night she said “I loved how you randomly picked me up and carried me...it was fun and I kinda got turned on...I felt like a doll or something”

KISSING

In general I’m always going for the kiss on the first date, and my only rule is I won’t go for the kiss at the end. If I have not kissed the girl at all and i’m driving her home, or taking her to her car I’m never going for. I’ll hug em goodbye. The main reason is if Ive not kissed her by then it’s because I tried already and got a cheek turn or something, not because i’m “waiting for the moment”

I try to defuse awkwardness with humor and with the kiss being rejected is only weird if you give a shit - so don’t give a shit - but here’s a few things i’ll do before going for it

If i’m talking to her a girl and listening to her, i’ll not say anything and just look at her and if she says “what??” and ill “I’m just wondering which cheek you’ll slap when I try to kiss you” how they respond to that will guide me on whether to go for it...If it’s too soon ill joke about how I love my left cheek being slapped then switch subjects

If I think the moment is right ill whisper in her ear “hey, by the way there’s a 90% chance i’ll try to kiss you in the next 5 minutes, so prepare yourself” - The last girl I said this to say “Whats the 10% for?” and in my head I was like “holy shit it’s on” and came back with “10% is if you fart” haha.

The first kiss i’ll make short and sweet, and I will be the one who breaks contact - and my money line that i say 100% of the time is “That’s all you get” - hahah so cocky.

Do you guys have any cool day 2 "routines" that help the cause & make things fun for both of you?