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May 19th, 2013
i'm mind fucking myself, how do i stop?
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almightyhashka

almightyhashka

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Join Date: 10/09/2010 | Posts: 65

 so yeah...    ... I met this girl. I'm 19 and live in Mongolia.( a lot of u probably dont know where that is, heh) 
so anyways, i started working for this newspaper, as a translator. and well she works with me.
smokin body, beautiful face,cool personality. probably the coolest girl i met in my life.
So Yeah I'm mind fucking myself into having a crush on her. Can't stop thinking about her. i try to treat her like any other girls, but its like IMPOSIBLE.
I dont want to fall into "scarcity mode" on her and get all needy and shit, i hate that
My question is: what would you do in if you were in my position?
and please try to keep the trolling to the minimum posible level







PS; at present, my..   .....umm so called "game plan " at this point is to just go with it, and see where it takes me
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NewDude

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Join Date: 05/12/2011 | Posts: 874

 Intent + freedom of outcome = your best chance. 

PS, is this what it's like there smile

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LucidDic

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Join Date: 02/14/2008 | Posts: 1390

 brother, i'd first try to observe that your oneits is just your brain auto-firing from learned responses. Once you've done that you can be more centered where your natural personality will flow from. it takes work...it's one of those meditation principles brought into real life. good luck.
p.s. - you guys speak russian there at all?
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Jack-Stripper

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MastahDeft

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Join Date: 04/08/2011 | Posts: 1192

 Holy Shit, Mongolia!, thats fucking awesome, Genghis Khan swagga yo!.

Peace.
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Chilly.

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Join Date: 04/02/2012 | Posts: 8

Get out the house and approach.  Seriously, thats the best remedy.  Shove your face in some boobies and you'll completely forget about this chick. 

On the other hand, you could stay home and think about her all day.  Then when you arrive to work, you're going to be all nervous and weird around her because you've been thinking about her so much. 

Yes, you are falling into scarcity.  You listed the tell tale signs.  The only reason you're sprung on a girl from work is because thats the only feminine energy present in your life.

Get out the house dude.
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Amazing1985

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Join Date: 06/26/2011 | Posts: 1182

wow this question is so general, bro. It's like you're all asking, "I like this girl what do I do?"

Do SOMETHING, bro.
I'll be honest I'm almost completely anti social at work, but I at least think about gaming at work.

Here's something that would be awesome. Let's say you guys are together in the same room. She says or does something sexy. You turn your head, look at her and say, "You're so fuckin hot"

Now who the FUCK has the BALLS to say THAT at WORK? Best case scanario is she thinks you have the most guts/biggest cajones in the whole world and wants to fuck your brains out ASAP.
Worst case scanario? Would you really give a shit?
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