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i read up until you said this...
"I too wasted my first few years of pick up on this horrendous horse shit, where the process of going out clubbing was more fun for me than getting laid, and I'd often sacrifice lays for cool stories"
i don't share that mindset in the least. I'd much rather have a fun story than a 'lay'. Usually the fun stories find you around girls anyway so it's a win-win. That's sorta that abundance mindset that you'll often hear around here. If u get laid..great. If not...great..but try to get a good story :P
"I too wasted my first few years of pick up on this horrendous horse shit, where the process of going out clubbing was more fun for me than getting laid, and I'd often sacrifice lays for cool stories"
i don't share that mindset in the least. I'd much rather have a fun story than a 'lay'. Usually the fun stories find you around girls anyway so it's a win-win. That's sorta that abundance mindset that you'll often hear around here. If u get laid..great. If not...great..but try to get a good story :P
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The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
I agree it is a little out of context or i didn't provide the right context. What I meant was I'd rather do something "pickup impressive" than actually get the result (i.e. going for the lay) or I would blow the lay to have a fun story when I coulda had both.
i read up until you said this...
"I too wasted my first few years of pick up on this horrendous horse shit, where the process of going out clubbing was more fun for me than getting laid, and I'd often sacrifice lays for cool stories"
i don't share that mindset in the least. I'd much rather have a fun story than a 'lay'
"I too wasted my first few years of pick up on this horrendous horse shit, where the process of going out clubbing was more fun for me than getting laid, and I'd often sacrifice lays for cool stories"
i don't share that mindset in the least. I'd much rather have a fun story than a 'lay'
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I agree it is a little out of context or i didn't provide the right context. What I meant was I'd rather do something "pickup impressive" than actually get the result (i.e. going for the lay) or I would blow the lay to have a fun story when I coulda had both.
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yup! it's that whole 'being bored' is where the humor arises from. credit: Alex. The whole abundance mindset is tricky and once found it kinda takes you directly to this fork in the road that I just touched on. You can go csucker way-of-the-dick route or you can kinda be curious about people and attempt to treat people with respect. (i know watching my video in my signature won't help my cause saying that :)). In abundance i feel that guys who go dick-sucker route are often times the ones being very try hard for other guys' approval whereas guys who are about a new journey or some other christopher columbus type shit are the guys who respect others/have a lot more to do than just pick-up. __________________
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Many people that decide to take the journey, I think it's when you realize that one day you are going to die. Realizing that you only have one life. Realizing that your greatest fear is not not of failure but the fear of success(this one is pretty big). When you realize that you can do whatever the fuck you want and achieve anything you want and that is fueled by your passion, nothing will fuckign stop you. That's where the iciness comes from like Tyler always saids. That's where the I don't give a fuck mindset comes from. When petty shit get in your way that's blocking your vision, you will do whatever takes to get that out of the way so you can get to your goal.
Many people get it twisted with the journey. They think they are taking the journey because they are "challenging" themselves. Go out like 5-7 nights a week but then come home and still do the regular bullshit that any chode does. Still lives with a mindset liek every other mediocrity person in society has. Naw man. Journey is about having a vision/dream and going for it. LITERALLY going for it. It's easy to talk about having dreams and going for it but when you actually make the sacrifices and change your whole entire route and thinking in life to get and chase after that dream, it takes you to a whole another level of thinking. You gotta burn the bridges like Tyler saids. You gotta really want it. Like to the point where there is no going back. You have to trap yourself away from negativity and bitches that will get in your way(family, friends, people who are lame/mediocrity). You got to develop a hustler mentality. If you're still living with your parents, you're not on a journey. if you're going to college to get a degree to land a job, you're not on a journey, you're playing it safe. Everythign RSD teaches here is universal. It applies to anything you want to succeed in life. But i think the biggest realization is that you'er going to get old... You don't wanna be 55 years old wishing you could of, would of done something to live a more exciting life. What, you're gonna work for coporate america and sell your soul for a 9-5 and pimp hoes on the weekend? Is that really your purpose and what you want out of life? hahha some do i guess but there are far more greater ppl out there who want the best and will not settle for less.
This video is pretty on point too
Many people get it twisted with the journey. They think they are taking the journey because they are "challenging" themselves. Go out like 5-7 nights a week but then come home and still do the regular bullshit that any chode does. Still lives with a mindset liek every other mediocrity person in society has. Naw man. Journey is about having a vision/dream and going for it. LITERALLY going for it. It's easy to talk about having dreams and going for it but when you actually make the sacrifices and change your whole entire route and thinking in life to get and chase after that dream, it takes you to a whole another level of thinking. You gotta burn the bridges like Tyler saids. You gotta really want it. Like to the point where there is no going back. You have to trap yourself away from negativity and bitches that will get in your way(family, friends, people who are lame/mediocrity). You got to develop a hustler mentality. If you're still living with your parents, you're not on a journey. if you're going to college to get a degree to land a job, you're not on a journey, you're playing it safe. Everythign RSD teaches here is universal. It applies to anything you want to succeed in life. But i think the biggest realization is that you'er going to get old... You don't wanna be 55 years old wishing you could of, would of done something to live a more exciting life. What, you're gonna work for coporate america and sell your soul for a 9-5 and pimp hoes on the weekend? Is that really your purpose and what you want out of life? hahha some do i guess but there are far more greater ppl out there who want the best and will not settle for less.
This video is pretty on point too
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Maybe this is really what Im missing. Ive been noticing a fuck tone of holes in my game. Congruency, consistancy, etc. Maybe instead of becoming a 'scumbag'. Maybe I should just do like you said, treat this as a light hearted journey, steering away from pushing for that street/forum cred, which while thinking about it, means diddly-squat.
Thanks man.
Thanks man.
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Maybe this is really what Im missing. Maybe instead of becoming a 'scumbag'. Maybe I should just do like you said, treat this as a light hearted journey, steering away from pushing for that street/forum cred, which while thinking about it, means diddly-squat.
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If you're still living with your parents, you're not on a journey. if you're going to college to get a degree to land a job, you're not on a journey, you're playing it safe.
furyx, fuck u, bro ;). I'm in my parents basement at the moment, man :) __________________
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