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May 25th, 2017
LEGGO - Gravity's NOW 6 MONTH CHALLENGE
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Gravity

Gravity

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Join Date: 07/06/2011 | Posts: 1681

 went out, circumstances left me in a REALLY shitty mood
trolled my mall for 20, felt like i was gonna come home and say i opened nothing,
see some girl whose friend ive previously opened, game her, shes got a friend, game her
they go to the bathroom, i game a black chick outside, shes creeped out, whatever
dip.
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Angry Dave

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Join Date: 09/09/2011 | Posts: 218

what are you talking about? you did great today =)
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Gravity

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 your right, i did do great :)
yesterday after i was rolling solo i bumped into a girl, i made out with said girl, and her husband caught us making out. he started crying and asking how could she do that to him blahblah.
so she runs over trying to calm him down, hes freaking the fuck out, i just dip before the situation escalates. as i was walking i started freaking out understanding i just ended their relationship,
they may have had kids, she told me she was married and i did not listen. i felt guilty that i hurt someone like that. i considered leaving the game permanently because of what i had done.
shoutout to mstar for pulling me out of that state, LOVEYABRO. he helped me realize that the situation wouldve occured regardless of my existence, there was something missing in the relationship
the dude wasnt on top of shit, they werent happy together. i may have saved them YEARS of misery and bullshit. i was totally shaken up from it but now i feel A okay, gonna go out today :)
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Angry Dave

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Join Date: 09/09/2011 | Posts: 218

Man I'm pretty sure someone already said this to you, but marriage isn't alway harmonious. It's sometimes plagued by friction and fragility. You bumped into her, had no understanding of the circumstances, and did what you normally do. It's really no fault of your own because whether not you approached her or not THEIR marriage wasn't working out. And at least you didn't pull her (it might've very well happened if the husband wasn't there). So yeah, keep going at it and don't pay much attention to these distractions.
Gravity wrote:
 your right, i did do great :)
yesterday after i was rolling solo i bumped into a girl, i made out with said girl, and her husband caught us making out. he started crying and asking how could she do that to him blahblah.
so she runs over trying to calm him down, hes freaking the fuck out, i just dip before the situation escalates. as i was walking i started freaking out understanding i just ended their relationship,
they may have had kids, she told me she was married and i did not listen. i felt guilty that i hurt someone like that. i considered leaving the game permanently because of what i had done.
shoutout to mstar for pulling me out of that state, LOVEYABRO. he helped me realize that the situation wouldve occured regardless of my existence, there was something missing in the relationship
the dude wasnt on top of shit, they werent happy together. i may have saved them YEARS of misery and bullshit. i was totally shaken up from it but now i feel A okay, gonna go out today :)
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Gravity

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 Observation: (totally stole this way of posting from distant light, SORRY BRO :))
Lately i've become very outcome dependant, frustratingly so. Yesterday i went out, i opened one set with a cute little brown girl, she loved me. Got her number, sent her some texts whatever.
Every other i set i went in was like BLOWOUT BLOWOUT BLOWOUT BLOWOUT. Now in that regard i was feeling uncomfortable because all the sexy little girls on king street with their
tight little dresses do intimidate the fuck outta me, so i barely went in, and when i did the girls could see something was off. Why was I uncomfortable? Because i was focusing on the validation
instead of the possibility. I've gotten WAYYYYY too used to girls telling me: your ballsy, your cute, your so smooth, your very good, blahblahblahblah. Most of the time even when they blow me out
they say this sort of stuff to me. But not yesterday, they all just gave me a funny look and continued walking. I went home mad at the world and i couldnt pinpoint why until now. So how does one counter
this? Simple, one must go out to said scary place, and beast more cuties. I noticed that because the sun is down and all the girls are looking for fun, I need to bring up the energy level by about
10x. In daygame i can be chill and mellowed out and the bitches will love me, but nighttime i gotta at the very least open in a very stimulating way if im ever gonna  pull away from the party street to
a nearby bathroom :)
oh and i couldve gotten laid yesterday, but i forgot.... LOL
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 im very proud of myself today.
after the complete DESTRUCTION that happened to me last night, as well as working another 8.5 hour shift, i went out COMPLETELY outcome dependent today.
Went to my local mall, couldve approached a few but the outcome dependence was still strong. i go to bus terminal and see a brown 9. HOLYYYYY SHIT.
walk past her, decide ive been beaten by my own fears, then decide im not a pussy. roll up. nothing. no hook, no interest, no nothing. Girl gave me no sorts of IOIs,
no validation, no nothing. She spits out "i have a bf" to which i respond "me too" and tell her about mars being black :). keep ploughing. NO IOIs wtfffffffffffffff.
shes not saying a damn thing! Finally i look at her and say in the most high pitched voice ever "i wonder if i just sit here and dont say anything will his confidence get destroyed and walk away?"
she cracked a smile. im in. yet i didnt have the energy or desire to continue on my ploughing. 

didnt matter though. Why? my goal was to beat my outcome dependence, and i did :)

Lesson:
the girl (ESPECIALLY IF VERY HOT) will not always give you an IOI, or validation, or a confidence boost, regardless of how awesome your game is. That's why its important to never attach
meaning to the interaction.

LEVEL UPP!
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 LR:
worked a 13.5 hour shift :(
didnt wanna go out, so naturally i did.
mall is closed, no cuties be anywhere, im saddddddddddddddddddd :(.
Then i see a cutie that i once chopped before and OMG I REMEMBERED HER! +1 GRAVITY
anyways roll up, say hi, spit my shit, turns out she just got off a long day as well, i ask her if shes down to watch a movie, she is but cant cuz some dude from
work is driving her home.... FUCKKKK THATTT. Dude tries to CB saying he doesnt wanna watch one, so i tell her i'll drive her home. SEE YA CHUMP!
we go and begin watching promethius (however you spell it lol). i get in the theatre and i start escalating on her. i start feeling her tits, and i get under her bra.
next thing i know we're making out. shes on top of me. i pull away and smile she asks me whats up, i tell her that girls never go after what they really want.. and put her hand on hercules <3
she says its uncomfortable and i agree. i pull her to the bathroom. in the stall shes jerking me off, but someone walks in. we walk out and i pull to the car.
once i open the doors i sit her down in the back seat and pull my dick out. she starts sucking it. i push her deeper into the car, pull out a condom from the glove compartment and SHAG.
after i gave her a ride home, she gave me her digits and told me to call her :).
i think i could make her a fb :)
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Gravity

Gravity

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 Observation:
I realized yesterday that when I am "out of state" I run on autopilot responses based on the last 1300 approaches worth of reference experiences. Gotta be more
"natural". So I will look for OTHER things to say to girls besides going full blown direct "ay cutie" approaches. Not that they don't work, or that they limit me, but I've
become totally reliant on going direct that even girls I reopen after not seeing them know that I use it as my "script". Gonna get out of that. :)
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