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December 5th, 2016
RAS, how it applies to game and how this understanding will make you progress at a faster rate
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pringles

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pringles

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I'm kind of just flowing off the dome here but can you see how presences comes into this? Especially game wise?.....Take a second, re read what i just wrote and think about it before you read on.....




Well it comes in like this: If you are in the moment, where is ALL your focus? On whatever you are doing.

Presence and certainty are two sides of the same coin combing this with understanding and.....

Creativity is the result. Think of some of the funniest shit you've (remember humour is subjective) said in set, it comes from refrence experiences of humour you built up over the years combined with being completely immeresed in what you were doing.
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Paris Boum Boum

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Hey man, I relate a lot to what you write usually, but this is a really quality post. 

If I were you, I would add a description of what your path was like at the beginning, to put things in perspective, and make your post even more meaningful. 
What did you do to turn from chode to sexy boy ? How long did it take ? etc

That said, you're fucking on point. It's exactly what Leonard describes as Intent in Mastery. You do something but you have a focus as you do it. 

As for me it makes me realize that I don't know really what I am doing. 
I am just approaching mechanically, and escalating hard when I feel it, and sometimes boom it works and it's fireworks everywhere, sometimes it doesn't and I am super chode. I'm not in full control yet.

Great post. 
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Inspired by his words.

I learned that even if I'm in a bad state, the best choice is not lose my way, my RAS, always going and never escaping the fight

always following goals
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Paris Boum Boum wrote:
Hey man, I relate a lot to what you write usually, but this is a really quality post. 

If I were you, I would add a description of what your path was like at the beginning, to put things in perspective, and make your post even more meaningful. 
What did you do to turn from chode to sexy boy ? How long did it take ? etc

That said, you're fucking on point. It's exactly what Leonard describes as Intent in Mastery. You do something but you have a focus as you do it. 

As for me it makes me realize that I don't know really what I am doing. 
I am just approaching mechanically, and escalating hard when I feel it, and sometimes boom it works and it's fireworks everywhere, sometimes it doesn't and I am super chode. I'm not in full control yet.

Great post. 
Dude come on you have been in this game, you have pulled ass already....acknowledge that you know everything you need to know to pull a lot and consistently in this game....give yourself some trust....go into  your sets from now really believing that you've got ALL the info you need and that the right thing to do or say will happen on automatic.

Paris mate how the fuck do you not know what you are doing? Fucking focus on the fundamentals, go out an execute them.....that is winning in the game. The results are inevitable.

But for your sake i'll give you background info. Started pimping at about 16, i remember my first couple of sets, i was stifled as it was miles out of my comfort but i applied the mystrey method tactics i knew anyway, taking right action despite my emotional headspace made me feel awesome. I read adam lyons's shit. Applied that too with the mystrey method bits that worked for me and boom i started getting numbers and dates, and was fucking excited about the possibilities. Can you see how my RAS was being shifted? It was on the process, it wasn't like i was getting every girls number...but i knew if i kept at it it would improve, i was at perfect peace with where i was and fully excited about improving. Soon i ended up bumping into RSD material.... it opened my eyes to the world of social dynamics....i had been dodging it previously because of everyone bashing it. But i wanted to get good at this and ended up finding the material that was closest to reality.

From here it got a bit crazy, my results went good incredibly fast. I hadn't fully worked out the mechanics of pulling because i had no where to pull to. But the interactions i was having were ridiculous.....i'd go in and say some stupid shits and girls would be completely all over, i still had issues approaching the super hotties. But this was taken care of in the same way as everything else was....through focusing my RAS. The whole 'ohh she so hot thing' is a socially conditioned mindset anyway...the fact that she is hot should only make it easier for you to get horny and thats it. 

I got a lot of handjobs in clubs, three way makeouts, four way makeous, fingered a lot of chicks, started getting laid on the street a bit, guys following me around in clubs etc. The most fun was pimping in the night though because my RAS would be completely focused then and it was when i'd be having the most fun....it was approaching for the process's sake, and the process was fucking fun....as fun was one of the main parts of the process. I'd love to approach not knowing what i was about to say because thats when my best shit came out. I was gettign into stte by like the 2nd or 3rd set of the night and running around macking on the hottest chicks no matter where they were, i learned skill of difusing fights really easily and apart from that i knew how to fight and so was unconcrned if they happened (they NEVER DID).

With the super hotties sometimes there was the odd bit of AA, because my RAS was still not full focused on the process, the super hotties were why i was in this after all? so it only made sense they'd be harder to get.....bull fuckign shit. Oh yhh i forgot to add i really really worked on my indifference and from there started reveling in high social pressure situations, people would project shit on to me and i'd enjoy it because i knew that my indifference would make girls even more into me. Apart from that getting everyones RAS on you and still following the process is probably the easiest way to be high value ever, its one of those glitches (next time ure out go to the biggest set shout 'OOOOIIII' get everyones focus and do the first fun positive thing that comes to your head, all the girls will eat up your shit) .

Anyway back to the point went to summit saw the hottest girls i'd seen all in a big place, i was fucing excited went out hit on all the hottest girls and they loved my shit all the time, like huge beaming smiles and fawning all over, these are the 9's and 10's im talking about. But then they'd bounce shortly after we'd make out or something. This was because my RAS was more focused on their hotness than my own fun.....i was stil having a shit ton of fun, but sometimes i let it slip and it fucked shit up, if i went back now it would be a different story. Anyway i ended up pulling a load of ass at summit and having the sickets time i'd had in my life. The last couple of days were disgusting my RAS was fully focused on me, it was that 'ultimate man' shit owen describes. Anyway i came back here and it became a joke im a young dude and finally got my own place...and the lays rolled in to the point of over kill, so idecided to take a month and a half off talking to girls just to tone it back a bit. 

After that it was back to pimping while trying to sort out other areas of my life...i got the hot girls but now my friends who were freaked out by my transformation and anyone who knew of me was projecting qualities on to me of some super playa or whatever....it lead to a fucking year funk that ive sorted out but still. It stopped me from approaching as people would come up and be like lets see you get that girl. It should have made me step up more, and become even more indifferent and pull even easier but i got lost in my ego and my shit stalled slightly. Its all good now though.

Paris start expecting good results by following the process, they will happen its a full proof game plan....keep improvign yourself and removing blind spots....trim the fat of your expression (validation seeking behaviours, just remove them all) Find out why you do stuff you do,find out who you are etc, all the self help stuff helps. Then go into any social situation and just let your mind go....(unless you need to actively practice certain skills)
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Colt

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this is what i got from this
trust the fundamentals develop that mental discipline to focus on the process. like you said full control / owning yourself and owning the process. and dont.be.the durr guy in life.
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BTW THE OLD FASHIONED NAME FOR RAS IS "ATTENTION".........nobody uses such silly old words nowadays though... :)
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Awesome post man. Thank you.
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Colt

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pringles just laid out what game is right there:


What was crazy was there was nothing that would stop me from executing these
principles. My RAS was FULLY FOCUSED ON: Approaching hard, Having Breaking
rapport tonality, Relaxing, being expressive, strong eyecontact, calibrating, being
loud, being non-judgemental, self amusing (and embracing illogicality), having
the frame she will end up loving me, Leading, Escalating, Closing, sorting logistics,
making strong decisions, Physically and mentally dominating the chick, not taking
yourself seriously, placing yourself as already chosen by all girls and of course
pushing for the close.
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good shit pringaling (rhymes w dingaling)
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