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May 19th, 2013
To lie or not to lie about my age with girls older than me?
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#11

Magi

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Join Date: 01/07/2011 | Posts: 93

 Lying is being incongruent.  Incongruent = bad.  Plus it puts you into your head.  Her: "how old are you"             You: "(in your head) well she looks around 32, so she probably wants a dude like 27-32, so I'll say like 28, but what if she wants a young fuck buddy? or maybe an older sugar daddy? blah blah blah"  and your chattering away in your head, out of the moment....

Better to answer honestly and not give a flying fuck what she thinks.  Whatever age you are, your are...... The whole point is to be yourself!!

I'm much older than the girls in my college town (dating a girl 8 years younger) and honestly because I dont give a shit, neither do they...
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#12

pringles

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Join Date: 04/28/2009 | Posts: 1084

 i used to then stopped.....its great when you are fully authentic and fully irreverant about it. It something that may take time to get the hang of but when you do its more effective than lying

You inspire tests and are soooo indifferent to them that you pass them on automatic...so this question will solve itself.

My advice, don't lie and lose some girls (its a journey after all) out of necessity you will become indifferent, more icey and everything will be that much easier
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#13
UtopiaFive

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Join Date: 09/16/2008 | Posts: 4681

Try both.

Be "authentic and real as fuck" for a month.

Be a Fuckin scumbag hustler who lies thru his teeth pushing shit til the bitter end.

See what you like.
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