THE FORUMS
Well.. the horrible truth is a lot of the sexual boundaries in society were put in place to keep society functioning. If there were removed over night, it's very likely society itself would collapse. So it's kind of cool most people still live in the matrix, but were allowed to step outside of it with very little consequence ( a few annoying run ins with dudes aside).
The two basic primal emotions that drive primates are anger and sex. To get power you need to control both. Religion ( born when there were no schools), allows a cultural package ( legit) and throws in shaming as a sauce ( not legit). So you SELF regulate.
Goes like this: "I'm a piece of crap...well maybe the woman will validate me with sex and make me whole".
Still works even with religion in decline, the shame( the main event) stays.
When this reality is ignored and shame avoided? The social dynamic has to be a wounded ego POWER play with god ( the woman). SOMEONE has to be god.
The porn explosion is a "perfect storm" shame-play. Image over reality ( narcissism). Compulsion to cover self-loathing. Fucking right the fake "knights in shining armor" jump to "protect" ( get validation from the girl-mom). Their shame based world of no-feel super stimulation is ALL about power.
They HAND power to women. Notice how all of advertising is urging us to do that? A lonely, self-hating, connection-starved, father-hating little boy will JUMP to the "defence" of the woman once the power play social dynamics start. They know "the game".
If the guy only wanted to FUCK the woman as a man, with a non-hyper stimulated brain ( just regular alpha) there would be no problem. Then again, most social environments are prudish. That's the vibe. The woman is trained to live among little compulsive boys.
Interesting thing. Women NEVER change really. They just reflect the male. It's the men that are driving everything in society. I guess it's just simple biology.
Goes like this: "I'm a piece of crap...well maybe the woman will validate me with sex and make me whole".
Still works even with religion in decline, the shame( the main event) stays.
When this reality is ignored and shame avoided? The social dynamic has to be a wounded ego POWER play with god ( the woman). SOMEONE has to be god.
The porn explosion is a "perfect storm" shame-play. Image over reality ( narcissism). Compulsion to cover self-loathing. Fucking right the fake "knights in shining armor" jump to "protect" ( get validation from the girl-mom). Their shame based world of no-feel super stimulation is ALL about power.
They HAND power to women. Notice how all of advertising is urging us to do that? A lonely, self-hating, connection-starved, father-hating little boy will JUMP to the "defence" of the woman once the power play social dynamics start. They know "the game".
If the guy only wanted to FUCK the woman as a man, with a non-hyper stimulated brain ( just regular alpha) there would be no problem. Then again, most social environments are prudish. That's the vibe. The woman is trained to live among little compulsive boys.
Interesting thing. Women NEVER change really. They just reflect the male. It's the men that are driving everything in society. I guess it's just simple biology.
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yeah good observation. Once you do go out and do this stuff, you see things differently. Sometimes you forget that most people are stuck up in the matrix, but for them that shit is very real
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The 3 commandments of rsdn
Thou shall read The Tolle.
Thou shall eat only Paleo approved food.
Thou shall not jerk off to porn.
My FR Journal:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/201240
'I'm willing to be happy doing anything, even if it sucks, as long as the overall picture is leading me towards an outcome I believe in.
But if it ain't getting me to where I want to go, I'm willing to do ANYTHING to extract myself from that situation. If I have to bloody myself and risk KILLING myself I'll get out of that damned situation and into one that I like.'
The 3 commandments of rsdn
Thou shall read The Tolle.
Thou shall eat only Paleo approved food.
Thou shall not jerk off to porn.
My FR Journal:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/201240
'I'm willing to be happy doing anything, even if it sucks, as long as the overall picture is leading me towards an outcome I believe in.
But if it ain't getting me to where I want to go, I'm willing to do ANYTHING to extract myself from that situation. If I have to bloody myself and risk KILLING myself I'll get out of that damned situation and into one that I like.'
Those rules don't really apply to you as you go out more.
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best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
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FR's detailing my progression
critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression
Those rules don't really apply to you as you go out more.
What do you mean? That less people will come in and fuck your set up as you appear more congruent? 
The same sexual boundaries and limiting mentalities that cause that kind of behaviour, are the ones who cause the massive amount of porn you see on the internet. Because people just can't be who they are and follow their instincts, they turn into porn fucking addicts and wan't to prevent everybody from being who they are, reinforcing the loop. "If I don't get laid, nobody get's laid"
why did you back down ?
tell those dudes to mind their own fuckin business
tell those dudes to mind their own fuckin business
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Check out "Satisfaction" from the Stones back in '65, yo. It still applies today.
This is not so much a rant as it is an observation. It struck me this morning, looking back on last night out. As a society we are bombarded with sex in the media let alone the hundreds of porn sites out there. Yet when it comes to attempting to get some (aka pick up) it's a huge taboo. Last night I'm talking to a girl she is smiling, giggeling, but not really attracted yet, which was cool. All of a sudden 4 guys come up all like 'Hey easy bro, easy! Let her go brah'. It didn't even seem as if they were interested in her, but just on some quest to keep her from talking to people. I managed to deescalate it comepletly, but that's not the point as the set was ruined. The guys of SimplePickup are called rapists and every single one of their videos get flagged. Imagine RSD took one of those TV offers one. The nation would go ape shit.
This contrast weirds me out. It's as if everyone is trying to keep sex something on a screen as opposed to something real. Any thoughts?
This contrast weirds me out. It's as if everyone is trying to keep sex something on a screen as opposed to something real. Any thoughts?
Your observation tripped me out... you would think a culture saturated in sex ideas and images would approve of something as harmless as cold approach.
I guess pickup is new and unfamiliar to people, but its exciting for girls who are sick of the boring chode stuff.
its ironic how chodes are trying to 'save' girls from something better.
I guess pickup is new and unfamiliar to people, but its exciting for girls who are sick of the boring chode stuff.
its ironic how chodes are trying to 'save' girls from something better.
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why did you back down ?
tell those dudes to mind their own fuckin business
Something similar happened a couple weeks ago in the same club. That time I told the guys to fuck off and after like a 10 second heated argument we all got kicked out. So I guess I wanted to avoid getting kicked out at all cost. Also the girl skipped off somewhere into the night and lastly a lack of will power. tell those dudes to mind their own fuckin business
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This contrast weirds me out. It's as if everyone is trying to keep sex something on a screen as opposed to something real. Any thoughts?