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The chick deletes me off skype the next day with her statues saying “ Suck my kiss ” LOL.
I guess I need to get her back in my team and show my trueself/emotions.
I guess I need to get her back in my team and show my trueself/emotions.
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Any tips ?
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LOL I have the exact same problem. All push, no pull. Just don't talk to her for a few days while she cools off then send her something nice. See if she opens up.
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I was thinking to send her something like this:
( her name ), you no longer my skype friend. I can understand whhy, I often tease you slightly over the edges. You an adorable girl and I care about you, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. On my way to Wing-Tsun ( sport ), I'll speak to you when I get back. /alex
What are your view on that ? what would you say ?
( her name ), you no longer my skype friend. I can understand whhy, I often tease you slightly over the edges. You an adorable girl and I care about you, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. On my way to Wing-Tsun ( sport ), I'll speak to you when I get back. /alex
What are your view on that ? what would you say ?
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Thats fucking needy dude, why would you say somthing like that"i can understand whhy, i often tease you slightly over the edges"
It sounds very cheesy but maybe its just me..
It sounds very cheesy but maybe its just me..
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sounds like a loser chick found a guy who plays game he learned on the internet. there needs to be a comedy show about u guys
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burn baby burn
Be real to yourself, you like this girl so go a bit easy on the push... i understand she isn't a bitch so why push that hard, it doesn't make it more easy... Just send a random text that doesn't need an answer.. definentelly not needy but just let her see a bit of the fact that you are attracted to herr ;)
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This is my first post so take this or leave it, I'm new to all this but my text game is probably my strongest point.
Personally, I cant see how you can respond without at least chasing her a little. She has deleted you so all you can do is react to that or leave it completely and see if she comes back but I doubt it cos you pushed too hard.
If you are going to contact her make sure that its something random like DutchArtist has come up with. I tried something recently and it seemed to work.
Me: Hey, just hatching a diabolical plan to take over the world. Do you wanna be pinky or the brain?
Her: Pinky of course.
Me: Really, I always saw you as the brain in this operation. [a slight compliment to bring her in without using youre beautiful etc]
Her:
so how are we going to take over the world? [see how she took on my idea and asked how are WE gonna take over the world]
I then rolled in to something about a plan and changed the subject to continue the flow. This then leaves me with a nice nick name to use on her later. IE Pinky. This creates a little in joke you can use in person etc.
Also I tried this and it worked but I'd already built some comfort with the girl.
Me: I think I've found my perfect woman.
Her: Go on? [This came back in seconds, probably a hint of jealousy on her part]
Me: It's OK to find Miss Piggy attractive, right? [Let her wait a little to build tension]
Her: Haha, each to their own.
Me: Well on that note I'm going out to find my Miss Piggy.
I left it there but the next morning she contacted me with.
Her: So did you find your Miss Piggy.
Me: To kiss and tell would make me a swine. [Cheesy but a little fun, it also uses the word kiss which implies I may have got something and that if I did I am trust worthy enough to keep it a secret]
Then roll in to something else.
I tend to keep things moving with text, keep it light, create something that you can share and use later if it goes cold. I also use a lot of innuendos and play on words to escalate. If gives you something you can use to fall back on, if it lands right escalte further if not just pull back and blame her for her dirty mind.
Like I say, Im new so I consider this a social experiment. Take it or leave it either way enjoy yourself and have fun with it.
Personally, I cant see how you can respond without at least chasing her a little. She has deleted you so all you can do is react to that or leave it completely and see if she comes back but I doubt it cos you pushed too hard.
If you are going to contact her make sure that its something random like DutchArtist has come up with. I tried something recently and it seemed to work.
Me: Hey, just hatching a diabolical plan to take over the world. Do you wanna be pinky or the brain?
Her: Pinky of course.
Me: Really, I always saw you as the brain in this operation. [a slight compliment to bring her in without using youre beautiful etc]
Her:
so how are we going to take over the world? [see how she took on my idea and asked how are WE gonna take over the world]I then rolled in to something about a plan and changed the subject to continue the flow. This then leaves me with a nice nick name to use on her later. IE Pinky. This creates a little in joke you can use in person etc.
Also I tried this and it worked but I'd already built some comfort with the girl.
Me: I think I've found my perfect woman.
Her: Go on? [This came back in seconds, probably a hint of jealousy on her part]
Me: It's OK to find Miss Piggy attractive, right? [Let her wait a little to build tension]
Her: Haha, each to their own.
Me: Well on that note I'm going out to find my Miss Piggy.
I left it there but the next morning she contacted me with.
Her: So did you find your Miss Piggy.
Me: To kiss and tell would make me a swine. [Cheesy but a little fun, it also uses the word kiss which implies I may have got something and that if I did I am trust worthy enough to keep it a secret]
Then roll in to something else.
I tend to keep things moving with text, keep it light, create something that you can share and use later if it goes cold. I also use a lot of innuendos and play on words to escalate. If gives you something you can use to fall back on, if it lands right escalte further if not just pull back and blame her for her dirty mind.
Like I say, Im new so I consider this a social experiment. Take it or leave it either way enjoy yourself and have fun with it.
I just text some random bullshit, mostely jokes of some kind, but they are pretty handy if u want to move the conversation or start a conversation.
They almost always respond on these kind of texts.
I don't really know why, but i think it is because the find it fun an have nothing to lose if they answer because im not being serious.
But the trick is to be creative and do the same as tafkag and make a ''serious'' point out of it, but playfull tho.
The more bullshit i type, or the less i think of what i type, if find the more easy it is to change to an other subject, a serious/sex or somkind of subject.
I also try not to continiue joking around but mixing it with the serious and most important ''teasing messages''.
They almost always respond on these kind of texts.
I don't really know why, but i think it is because the find it fun an have nothing to lose if they answer because im not being serious.
But the trick is to be creative and do the same as tafkag and make a ''serious'' point out of it, but playfull tho.
The more bullshit i type, or the less i think of what i type, if find the more easy it is to change to an other subject, a serious/sex or somkind of subject.
I also try not to continiue joking around but mixing it with the serious and most important ''teasing messages''.
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Life isn't waiting for the storm to pass guys.. It's about learning how to dance in the fucking rain !!!
PM me als je uit NL komt !!
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Girl gets butthurt from a conversation I had with her.
I kept playing frames and not being totally natural, I showed zero needyness but took it in a slight extreme. Where I would show almost zero interest.
Girl: im back around like 8th of april ( in town )
[2:22:12] Girl: dunno for how long im gna be in paris tho.
[2:23:39] Alexandre: cool
[2:23:44] Girl: I'll deffinetly get in touch with u when im in paris . deffinetly up for a beer
[2:24:36] Alexandre: damn, Ill have school LOL its only two days a week but its gona be funny/strange
[2:26:16] Girl: awww i wont be seeing my teddy bear while im in paris
[2:26:20] Girl: thats a shame.
[2:26:44] Girl: ur school shud be interesting
[2:28:03] Alexandre: depends on how lucky you are
[2:29:31] Alexandre: yeah, it will suit me Ill see how it goes, if its bad im getting the out of it
[2:30:21] Girl : i guess im unlucky then.
[2:30:28] Girl: its deffinetly my loss :P
[2:31:13] Girl i: no fuckathon with me
[2:31:17] Girl: for*
[2:33:06] Alexandre: oh thats for sure ( I killed it there )
[2:34:40] Girl: ur such a heartbreaker alex
[2:34:43] Alexandre: Im gona go to sleep in a few minutes sexy
[2:35:04] Alexandre: am I ?
[2:35:19] Alexandre: haha im teasing with you
[2:35:51] Alexandre: anyways Ill speak to you during the week or so
[2:36:00] Girl: gnite x ( she's pissed off )
[2:36:21] Alexandre: take care of yourself
[2:36:27] Alexandre: nightnight xx
Conclusion: I think I drive girl's fucking nuts.
I push HARD! And pull little.