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How to "advance" effectively
Trust the auto-correction process.
I figured that my whole learning process was mostly me doing stuff outside my comfort zone, feeling uncomfortable with it, fucking it up most of the time, but once in a while get a good reaction or even a good night, and then accumulated those reference experiences and suddenly felt comfortable in those situations. Then results came.
I didnt choose to be comfortable, it became so because "i got it" that it is OK or even good to act like that.
Like for example looking a girl in the eye and shutting the fuck up ;)
So if you want to know how to move things forward effectively...
Just try to advance in a way that you think it works, use RSD guidlines, feel uncomfortable, gain reference experiences, see what works, get comfortable by repetition, get results, push next level.
levels: opening, attraction, comfort, escalation, leading, pulling, dating, ONS, ..........
along the way your confidence and self trust rises, too and lot of issues disappear automatically without your notice.
And finally, dont micromanage the process. It is so automatic that you can just go out and approach tons of chicks and learn the RSD stuff. With time it should slowly build itself together.
cheers
I figured that my whole learning process was mostly me doing stuff outside my comfort zone, feeling uncomfortable with it, fucking it up most of the time, but once in a while get a good reaction or even a good night, and then accumulated those reference experiences and suddenly felt comfortable in those situations. Then results came.
I didnt choose to be comfortable, it became so because "i got it" that it is OK or even good to act like that.
Like for example looking a girl in the eye and shutting the fuck up ;)
So if you want to know how to move things forward effectively...
Just try to advance in a way that you think it works, use RSD guidlines, feel uncomfortable, gain reference experiences, see what works, get comfortable by repetition, get results, push next level.
levels: opening, attraction, comfort, escalation, leading, pulling, dating, ONS, ..........
along the way your confidence and self trust rises, too and lot of issues disappear automatically without your notice.
And finally, dont micromanage the process. It is so automatic that you can just go out and approach tons of chicks and learn the RSD stuff. With time it should slowly build itself together.
cheers
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VictoriousSwede
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Join Date: 01/13/2012 | Posts: 26
So I've been going out now fridays and saturdays three weeks in a row to socialise. But, the thing is, I don't know how to move things forward effectively.
You guys who go out a lot, do you like have differnt goals for every day, week? Do you focus on this today and that tomarrow etc...?
===> Are there stuff you can do that would help the "process" of becoming awesome? :D