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May 25th, 2013
My initial Texts. Thoughts??
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hkmt

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 Usually I get at least 3-4 numbers a week. However I am shit about texting. No matter what I do (How good I interact with the girl till the number exchange) I have a huge flake rate. I feel the most difficult part is the initial text after number exchange. Roughly a 30 min - 1 hour later I text girl smthing like "get home safe, hkmt". After Hot Seat JEffy told me that he usually gives a statement about his day so some of my convo starter texts;

" This job is killing me. I bet I could have been a more productive employee, if I had a manager like Jennifer Aniston from "Horrible Bosses" (ps: in case that you havent seen the movie, Jennifer Aniston acts as a nympho who always wants to fuck her assistant)

"Its always good to have a pub next door for the lunch breaks"

" How is your day going? I spent whole morning looking for a document, or actually I just pretend to. I dont mind making money like that lol"

"I wanna invent a medicine which would give me the ultimate energy to survive after I party till 6am"

"Hmm this  M&S food is amazing. I guess I am kinda addicted to anything delicious..." (ps: M&S produces one of the top quality foods etc in the UK)

or time to time just saying; "How is your day going? I have a afternoon off so just enjoying it..."

Those are some of my initial texts that I used recently. No matter how good my first interaction is (even with the girls I arranged instant date and had great fun) and no matter what I write I just cant drop my flake rate. Should I blame my texts? Any thoughts??
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scottsdale

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These are the VERY first texts? You mean not even a "Get home safe - hkmt" type text first?
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hkmt

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scottsdale wrote:
These are the VERY first texts? You mean not even a "Get home safe - hkmt" type text first?


No. These are the first texts after get home safe etc... :))
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MrCreepGuy

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ever tried "hi, what up" ?

you shouldnt blame the texts in the first place eventhough they are pretty lame but your interaction. a solid hook wouldt flake on texts.
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hkmt

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MrCreepGuy wrote:
ever tried "hi, what up" ?

you shouldnt blame the texts in the first place eventhough they are pretty lame but your interaction. a solid hook wouldt flake on texts.


So what would you text a girl to start a convo? Give me a non lame text example...
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hkmt

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Any advices???
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THREAAAT

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I kinda agree with MrCreepGuy.

Just be normal. You don't have to text or do anything fancy man. “Girls like you just for you” like Tyler says.

Chill. Easy in to it. Make no effort at all, and ease in to it. Let go...

It's not like you come in to these forums to ask how are you going to talk to your friends and what I should text to my friends? What happened to normal human to human interaction...

Come from a place of NO OUTCOME AT ALL, and just offer value. If you are here asking advice on what to text to girl which you don't even know yet very goodly, you have a huge outcome dependency. And that for sure is a huge problem also.

AND again - just be nnnnooorrrrrmmmaaaaalllll. That's my advice mate!
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Something that you talked about at the time of the set, that hooked her in. Make fun of that point and bring her back to how she felt about you.  
Or you can use some canned line. like "you're punished"
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NOLA wrote:
Something that you talked about at the time of the set, that hooked her in. Make fun of that point and bring her back to how she felt about you.  
Or you can use some canned line. like "you're punished"


FYI  my text game is not 100% but i do get responces 75% of the time.
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FoodBuddha~

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Fuck the "hope you got home safe" text.  Don't send that.

This is the best of the lot you posted:

"Its always good to have a pub next door for the lunch breaks"

The rest are currying favor, subtly and not so subtly.  Stop that.  For your next-day texts: use something random, casual, funny, SHORT and easy for her to bite into.  Her response to the above can range from: "Yeah, LOL" to something long and involved. IOW, not a lot of investment on your part or hers.   Your follow-up response to it?

"Meet me there tonight at 9"

If she posts an objection, you say,

"Then after that"

and again objects, you go:

"after THAT"

don't stop until she agrees to come out.  You're persistent as FUCK but there's nothing creepy because you're just giving directions on how to get out and meet you.  If you are doing this to the 3 to 5 numbers you got the night before, by numbers alone you'll be striking gold.

Or you could just take one home to fuck that night instead of dicking around with all these fucking numbers.
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hkmt

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FoodBuddha~ wrote:
Fuck the "hope you got home safe" text.  Don't send that.

This is the best of the lot you posted:

"Its always good to have a pub next door for the lunch breaks"

The rest are currying favor, subtly and not so subtly.  Stop that.  For your next-day texts: use something random, casual, funny, SHORT and easy for her to bite into.  Her response to the above can range from: "Yeah, LOL" to something long and involved. IOW, not a lot of investment on your part or hers.   Your follow-up response to it?

"Meet me there tonight at 9"

If she posts an objection, you say,

"Then after that"

and again objects, you go:

"after THAT"

don't stop until she agrees to come out.  You're persistent as FUCK but there's nothing creepy because you're just giving directions on how to get out and meet you.  If you are doing this to the 3 to 5 numbers you got the night before, by numbers alone you'll be striking gold.

Or you could just take one home to fuck that night instead of dicking around with all these fucking numbers.
so you think brad's texting strategy is shit?
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