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epishred

epishred

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Join Date: 10/21/2009 | Posts: 461

It's been a while since my last post. Anyways, I've been going out everyday and approaching for the past 3 weeks (as opposed to just on the weekends).  The first week I hit state twice. After that...nada.  Hell  this past saturday I did over 100 approaches and didn't notice any difference.  Anyone else experience this? Anyone solve it?
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#1

MOEMONEY

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Join Date: 02/21/2012 | Posts: 40

fuck state homie, but yeah, it's great when your in it. try macking less attractive women first. I also like to go on the d floor and grind on chicks, that helps me get in the zone
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#2

roadrally

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Join Date: 10/12/2009 | Posts: 2026

 dont take long breaks between sets. 
dont seek it just let it happen.
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epishred

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thanks for the responses dudes. let me clarify a lil more...in the past 20 consecutive days, I haven't had a single bad night; but I also haven't had a single good night either.  It seems like I'm firmly stuck in a platonic nich where people just want to be nice to me.  It's nice not being that guy that repels people, but it also sucks that no amount of pushing helps me to "climb the mountain"  ya know?
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Doge~

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It looks like you're ready for the next progression of game, "drawing state from within". This isn't an easy thing if you don't understand it but believe me when I say, this is the holy grail of pickup.

Read my latest FR on my thread for some better clarity on this issue.
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epishred

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Haze~ wrote:
It looks like you're ready for the next progression of game, "drawing state from within". This isn't an easy thing if you don't understand it but believe me when I say, this is the holy grail of pickup.

Read my latest FR on my thread for some better clarity on this issue.
yah man one thing that confuses me about "drawing state from within"  is whether you're getting into state from within.  emotional control and getting into state are two different things in my experience...i've been in super awesome moods on some of my worst nights.  also complete freedom from outcome is freedom from getting into state at all right? mind fuck
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#6
Doge~

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Yeah, actually you are. It'll still take a few approaches to warm yourself up but you'll know once you hit it.

Also I don't really understand your last sentence. Freedom from outcome is just freedom from outcome. The state is different. Much different than ego derived state.

I can't really explain it over text, it's just one of those things you'll have to experience yourself to understand. Believe me though, shit is amazing.
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epishred

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alright lemme ask you...how important is physical contact when trying to get into state.  the rsd instructors make a big deal of the crazy makeout shit they do, but they don't really talk about getting girls without doing anything.
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#8

WestWard

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Join Date: 05/21/2010 | Posts: 5

 State is just happiness. Just work on being in a happy state before you talk to girls.. Do this by good body language, focusing on positive shit, slow breathing, affirmations etc.. Whatever works for you, try different things and see what works.... Then talk to girls, and just focus on having fun with the girl. Fuck what happens. Try to make her smile and enjoy it. Don't want anything in return, just offer your awesome fuckin value.. This will get you into 'state'.
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epishred

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ok, two more weeks of going out daily and approaching like a madman, still haven't hit state.  this is really getting weird
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3-6 MONTHS FAGGOT
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