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March 23rd, 2017
2 months, 300 approaches, 2 instant dates, many phone numbers but no score, I started to get worried
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oduman

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Join Date: 02/09/2009 | Posts: 198

Hi guys,

I have been consistently in the game for 2 months. I approached nearly 300 women. I got nearly 20 phone numbers. 5-6 of them returned back to my texts and calls. I could not score yet. I started to worry about going nowhere. I spent 1 hour every day for study material and I go out 2-3 nights a week and lots of daygame. I guess I am doing my best but the result does not say so? What do you guys think, I am really worried that "Although I spent such much energy, I am going nowhere".

Thanks,
Onur
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#1

Mayhem

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 530

 Stop counting. That would probably help. Just keep approaching and REALISE that this is supposed to be fun, so have fun with it. If you aren't having fun, speaking to women, and you're just looking to 'score', you NEED to change your mindset.

Trust that if you keep going, it will happen. Trust that whatever you say to anyone is gold :)

That's all I can say. And one more thing, don't place too much importance on approaches, it's whatever. It's just something you do, that's all.

Oh yeah, one more thing lol. Set realistic goals for yourself. And don't move on to the next goal until you've mastered the ones before it.

Goal 1: Get comfortable with approaching (even 10's)
Goal 2: Learn to hold a conversation
Goal 3: Learn to add flirtation into the conversation
Goal 4: Get comfortable with physical game. Get comfortable with being physically close to girl, hugging them etc.
Goal 5: Get comfortable going for makeouts and further escalating.

Don't think about getting laid yet (as difficult as that may sound). Not everyone can make a huge jump from 'absolutely nothing' to 'regular sex' in a couple of months. Just have fun talking to beautiful women for now.
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#2

ScooWoop

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Join Date: 01/21/2012 | Posts: 193

Make sure your lifestyle is awesome...

Cuz if it is not then there is incongruency...

Let me actually rephrase that...

Dont change your lifestyle to seem "cool"...

Actively pursue the most awesome version of yourself that you can possibly conceive of...

Own yourself...

Be about you...

Be about the betterment of you...

Now approach these women with an understanding of your own awesomeness...

Coupled with the intent to fuck...

You might be approaching with a half ass, confused attempt...

But hey youz on the path...

Eat the rejections...

Go for the close...

Live...

Learn...

Less study, more active embodiment of awesomeness...
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#3

ScooWoop

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Join Date: 01/21/2012 | Posts: 193

Fucking bitches should be a by product of your awesomeness...

Not your awesomeness being a by product of fucking bitches...

Does that make sense?...
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alienantfarm

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Join Date: 01/21/2011 | Posts: 1353

300 for a noob is nothing.

Figuring some noobs can rack up like 20+ approaches a night because their itneractions are short.

If you've done 20~ approaches each time oyu've gone out, that means you've only done it like 15 times which is nottttthing.

Keep at it mate.
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My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.

"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
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iRyan

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Join Date: 03/06/2012 | Posts: 626

 2 months!!LOL

Come back in 2 years....

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Trojan-

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Give it another month or two.
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#7

oduman

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Join Date: 02/09/2009 | Posts: 198

So how can I be sure that I am not going nowhere, I have motivation , I can do 3000 before end of this year but I do not want to be going nowhere
alienantfarm wrote:
300 for a noob is nothing.

Figuring some noobs can rack up like 20+ approaches a night because their itneractions are short.

If you've done 20~ approaches each time oyu've gone out, that means you've only done it like 15 times which is nottttthing.

Keep at it mate.
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Doge~

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lol... sigh...
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   Wow.
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                              So amaze.
                 Wow.
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alienantfarm

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You can't be sure, you're just going to have to put in the time. Kinda like the gym, can take months to see results.
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Read my review of Get Laid or Die Trying

My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.

"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
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#10

supersaiyan3

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Join Date: 03/20/2011 | Posts: 174

Break 1000+ approaches and then your dick starts to get real wet. Be careful though you'll get what you want and even more like herpes :)
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