THE FORUMS
Saturday 3rd of March
I had a light flu this day, but felt like going out anyway. I drank a bottle of wine at home and went out alone to a nearby bar feeling pretty upbeat and positive.
Outside the bar there was a long queue. Eventually a group of girls showed up, but I did not engage them immediately. This was my first error for the night. I later opened them, but it was not as smooth as it should have been.
After getting inside, I sat down at a table. Briefly talked to the girl there, but not much to speak of. After a while, another girl showed up which I engaged in conversation, but she was there with a potential boyfriend so it was mostly friendly.
Not much to speak of, but I went out alone, had fun and small talked with a few people feeling fairly comfortable. I will step it up next time. One step at a time. The venue was also fairly poor for gaming and there were not many girls to speak of.
Lessons and reminders from the night:
- Be a player, not a spectator. Always engage girls immediately and do not wait. Have the confidence to introduce yourself quickly and know that they will love you only for telling your name and having that spark in the eye. In particular, I`m thinking about the girls who suddenly stood behind me in the queue.
- Be proactive and take action, instead of waiting for things to happen.
I had a light flu this day, but felt like going out anyway. I drank a bottle of wine at home and went out alone to a nearby bar feeling pretty upbeat and positive.
Outside the bar there was a long queue. Eventually a group of girls showed up, but I did not engage them immediately. This was my first error for the night. I later opened them, but it was not as smooth as it should have been.
After getting inside, I sat down at a table. Briefly talked to the girl there, but not much to speak of. After a while, another girl showed up which I engaged in conversation, but she was there with a potential boyfriend so it was mostly friendly.
Not much to speak of, but I went out alone, had fun and small talked with a few people feeling fairly comfortable. I will step it up next time. One step at a time. The venue was also fairly poor for gaming and there were not many girls to speak of.
Lessons and reminders from the night:
- Be a player, not a spectator. Always engage girls immediately and do not wait. Have the confidence to introduce yourself quickly and know that they will love you only for telling your name and having that spark in the eye. In particular, I`m thinking about the girls who suddenly stood behind me in the queue.
- Be proactive and take action, instead of waiting for things to happen.
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"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
Action Plan & Focus
- I will go out two nights per week at clubs or bars. More when I can, but I will start with something realistic.
- I will visualize my ideal self and visualize positive interactions every night prior to going to bed.
- I will continue doing affirmations every morning and throughout the day.
- I will resume the practice of grounding whenever I have the opportunity. I believe this practice helped me in the past.
- I will say yes to every opportunity and yes to life in general!
- I will remain positive, enthusiastic and thankful for life!
- I will try to make something out of every interaction with girls in my daily life, even if she`s not sexually attractive. I want to be fun, giving, dangerous and outrageous and make a difference.
- I will be friendly and open towards people, both guys and girls, taking the initiative since many people are inhibited before you open them up.
- I will study my old role models: Brent, Zan and Razorjack. All these have a very natural approach with the focus on the inner work.
- I will focus on developing a powerful presence, aura and charisma. The kind of state where you walk down the street and people notice you. Or you walk into a room and it feels like the air got sucked out. This will be my focus, not so much the outer game.
- I will study Daniel Rose, David Shade, etc.
- I will go out two nights per week at clubs or bars. More when I can, but I will start with something realistic.
- I will visualize my ideal self and visualize positive interactions every night prior to going to bed.
- I will continue doing affirmations every morning and throughout the day.
- I will resume the practice of grounding whenever I have the opportunity. I believe this practice helped me in the past.
- I will say yes to every opportunity and yes to life in general!
- I will remain positive, enthusiastic and thankful for life!
- I will try to make something out of every interaction with girls in my daily life, even if she`s not sexually attractive. I want to be fun, giving, dangerous and outrageous and make a difference.
- I will be friendly and open towards people, both guys and girls, taking the initiative since many people are inhibited before you open them up.
- I will study my old role models: Brent, Zan and Razorjack. All these have a very natural approach with the focus on the inner work.
- I will focus on developing a powerful presence, aura and charisma. The kind of state where you walk down the street and people notice you. Or you walk into a room and it feels like the air got sucked out. This will be my focus, not so much the outer game.
- I will study Daniel Rose, David Shade, etc.
sounds good :)
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I have no experience with online dating, nor do I have any desire to put any effort into it, but I registered a free account at one of those sites a few weeks ago. Just put up a photo, wrote out a very basic questionaire and essentially did not write anything about myself. I`ve been talking to a few girls, but most of them were not from my area, so I did not bother putting any effort into it.
Yesterday I noticed that a girl had visited my profile for the 3rd or 4th time without doing anything. She looks kind of like a rock chick, loves beer and works at a bar. Not my typical first pick, but looking at her pictures she looks very cute and sweet. I immediately sent the following message:
"Don`t you know that it`s rude to keep stopping by without saying hello? =)
Where do you work and when do you want to meet up?"
After some back and forth messaging, nothing stellar, I told her that I was tired and had to got to bed. I then gave her my full name and said she could add me to Facebook if she`s interested and maybe we could continue the conversation online or in real life over a beer one day.
Sure enough, a friend request popped up and a little message from her.
Seems like I might be seeing this girl sometimes this weekend if I feel up to it. Still got a light flu and not really horny, but what the hell. Have to take every opportunity, right? I wonder if I can get here to come over to my place without meeting her outside first, as I`m kind of lazy today.
Regards,
Yoda
Yesterday I noticed that a girl had visited my profile for the 3rd or 4th time without doing anything. She looks kind of like a rock chick, loves beer and works at a bar. Not my typical first pick, but looking at her pictures she looks very cute and sweet. I immediately sent the following message:
"Don`t you know that it`s rude to keep stopping by without saying hello? =)
Where do you work and when do you want to meet up?"
After some back and forth messaging, nothing stellar, I told her that I was tired and had to got to bed. I then gave her my full name and said she could add me to Facebook if she`s interested and maybe we could continue the conversation online or in real life over a beer one day.
Sure enough, a friend request popped up and a little message from her.
Seems like I might be seeing this girl sometimes this weekend if I feel up to it. Still got a light flu and not really horny, but what the hell. Have to take every opportunity, right? I wonder if I can get here to come over to my place without meeting her outside first, as I`m kind of lazy today.
Regards,
Yoda
__________________
"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
Remember what I said about not going out to pick up girls, but meeting them naturally in my day to day life when the opportunity presents itself?
Well, one of these rare perfect opportunities presented themselves today, but I did not capitalize on it. I blame it on being slightly sick, but mostly because this behavior is not in my current repertoire or conditioned as natural if you will.
Me and a friend were out to get some food and entered a very small and crowded bar. At the bar, just where we entered and facing us, sat a fairly beautiful girl drinking wine and she gave both of us a warm smile and good eyecontact when we entered. Now, having a girl smile to me and give me good eyecontact is is fairly normal, so my natural response was to smile back before we found us a table. A little later after we got seated, she passed me on the way to the toilet and we exchanged eyecontact and a smile once again.
Then, when we left the bar, this very same girl sat outside on a table with a glass of wine. Smoking, I assume, but giving us once again a very warm smile and eye contact. What did I do? Nothing. I smiled back as we left the bar behind us.
Now, I immediately realized that I had just passed on a golden opportunity to approach this girl with a very simple hello. Not for the sake of picking her up, but just for the sake of saying hello. She was alone, invited us over and we said politely no with our body language. What happened to being a yes man? She asked me very clearly to come over and I said no. What`s wrong with me?
Simply the fact that this is not conditioned behavior for me and during the split second where I should just have gone over, I hesitated. I can honestly say that I did not feel any nervousness or fear in my body at all.
This may seem like a small thing, but really, these small things can make a whole lot of difference and they do add up. Tonight and in the days to come, I will add this and similar scenarios to my visualization in order to help me condition this as normal behavior such that it is simply something I do without thinking about it. Just like smiling and making eye contact once was un-natural to me.
I wonder if having a friend with me prevented me from taking action as well, but that is not a valid excuse regardless.
Well, one of these rare perfect opportunities presented themselves today, but I did not capitalize on it. I blame it on being slightly sick, but mostly because this behavior is not in my current repertoire or conditioned as natural if you will.
Me and a friend were out to get some food and entered a very small and crowded bar. At the bar, just where we entered and facing us, sat a fairly beautiful girl drinking wine and she gave both of us a warm smile and good eyecontact when we entered. Now, having a girl smile to me and give me good eyecontact is is fairly normal, so my natural response was to smile back before we found us a table. A little later after we got seated, she passed me on the way to the toilet and we exchanged eyecontact and a smile once again.
Then, when we left the bar, this very same girl sat outside on a table with a glass of wine. Smoking, I assume, but giving us once again a very warm smile and eye contact. What did I do? Nothing. I smiled back as we left the bar behind us.
Now, I immediately realized that I had just passed on a golden opportunity to approach this girl with a very simple hello. Not for the sake of picking her up, but just for the sake of saying hello. She was alone, invited us over and we said politely no with our body language. What happened to being a yes man? She asked me very clearly to come over and I said no. What`s wrong with me?
Simply the fact that this is not conditioned behavior for me and during the split second where I should just have gone over, I hesitated. I can honestly say that I did not feel any nervousness or fear in my body at all.
This may seem like a small thing, but really, these small things can make a whole lot of difference and they do add up. Tonight and in the days to come, I will add this and similar scenarios to my visualization in order to help me condition this as normal behavior such that it is simply something I do without thinking about it. Just like smiling and making eye contact once was un-natural to me.
I wonder if having a friend with me prevented me from taking action as well, but that is not a valid excuse regardless.
__________________
"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Why are you so cute?"
"The answer to your question is yes. I would love to XYZ with you."
XYZ being whatever I feel like saying, make out, go on a date, take you home, follow you home, etc.
Two fun lines that I have been using in the past and which helps create and frame a playful and fun interaction. Remembered them in my sleep. Hope to put them to practice tonight. ;)
"The answer to your question is yes. I would love to XYZ with you."
XYZ being whatever I feel like saying, make out, go on a date, take you home, follow you home, etc.
Two fun lines that I have been using in the past and which helps create and frame a playful and fun interaction. Remembered them in my sleep. Hope to put them to practice tonight. ;)
__________________
"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
Had a little get-together at my place yesterday with a few male and female friends of mine. Had a pretty fucking awesome night, but I also got pretty fucking drunk. I opened pretty much every female in town and had a blast, but nothing really hooked and I can`t say I met any girls that I was really interested in, except for one girl and she left me rather quickly.
I notice that when I get drunk and go out with friends, I`m more interested in raising hell and shaking things up than I am in actually picking up a girl.
Not much to report in terms of the venusian arts, except that I had zero issues with opening and lording, but that if I want to actually pick up girls, I would be wise to drink less. :)
I notice that when I get drunk and go out with friends, I`m more interested in raising hell and shaking things up than I am in actually picking up a girl.
Not much to report in terms of the venusian arts, except that I had zero issues with opening and lording, but that if I want to actually pick up girls, I would be wise to drink less. :)
__________________
"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
Spontaneous conversation and number close with a sales clerk:
No going out this weekend, since my sister and my 3-year old nephew have been visiting me, but I surprised myself with a spontaneous number close in a woman`s clothing store. Yesterday, me and the little man was following my sister around while she was shopping. This meant that we and the little man spent a lot of time just wandering around in the woman`s store, looking at stuff and people, while she did her stuff. Suddenly, my nephew thought playing hide & seek inside the store was a good idea. With me going fast in his direction and trying not to lose sight of his little head, I suddenly hear him say "Hey, hey!" to a real cute sales clerk who`s taking out clothes of some boxes. After the little man had hidden himself underneath some clothes nearby, I arrived and the conversation started naturally thanks to the little man:
Girl: *laughing* He was so funny and outgoing, saying, "Hey, hey!" to me.
Yoda: Yeah, he`s very outgoing and funny, especially with cute girls like yourself. Would you mind watching him for an hour?
Girl: *laughing* Sure.
Yoda: I`ll leave you to it then.
Girl: Haha.
Yoda: So, what`s your name and what are you doing tomorrow night? ;)
Girl: *laughs* Why are you asking? My name is Lisa. What is yours?
Yoda: My name is Yoda and the reason I`m asking is that I think you and I should get together and get to know each other.
Girl: *blushes and seems a little nervous* Wow, you`re pretty direct, but why not. I don`t want my employer to see me taking up my phone, but I can give you my number.
Yoda: Sure.
Girl: *recites number quickly*
Yoda: Cool. I`ll send you a message later, stay near the phone. See you later, Lisa. :)
Then I pulled little man out beneath the clothes and left the store.
Booyah!
This is by far the smoothest thing I`ve ever done in the day time and this is exactly how I want to be meeting girls. Naturally and almost on auto-pilot. I have been in similar small-talk situations earlier with flirting and bantering, but I have never stepped up like this. Up until now, this type of behavior have not been a part of my repertoire, since I mostly pick up girls at clubs. But I have to say, after walking around in certain parts of Oslo yesterday, I`m seriously considering to start actively gaming during the day. The amount of beautiful girls is overwhelming and it would be nice not having to go out mostly to clubs to meet them.
I drunk messaged the girl I met online. Got a reply that was fairly positive, although she could not meet up that night. I then sent her a reply the same night, but did not get a response on that one. She later liked a few of my pictures on Facebook, but no contact from her. Maybe she is waiting for me to make a move sober and wants to know that she is more than a booty call? Anyway, she is incredibly cute and special in the face, but I suspect that her body is so-so after a few pictures that showed up. On the other hand, she looks pretty hot on a few others. I`ve decided to not pursue her though, but I`m open for meeting up if SHE takes contact with me. Reason being that I have options, really don`t like pursuing girls and I fear that she is not hot enough. If she were, I would probably have put up a little more effort, even if I`m lazy. :)
I think I will send the sales clerk a message a little later tonight. Now, I will start rewriting my story with women and life and post it here later tonight. I have started dabbbling with visualizations and affirmations, but I want to get very serious about it, just like I am serious about training and brushing my teeth. Every day.
No going out this weekend, since my sister and my 3-year old nephew have been visiting me, but I surprised myself with a spontaneous number close in a woman`s clothing store. Yesterday, me and the little man was following my sister around while she was shopping. This meant that we and the little man spent a lot of time just wandering around in the woman`s store, looking at stuff and people, while she did her stuff. Suddenly, my nephew thought playing hide & seek inside the store was a good idea. With me going fast in his direction and trying not to lose sight of his little head, I suddenly hear him say "Hey, hey!" to a real cute sales clerk who`s taking out clothes of some boxes. After the little man had hidden himself underneath some clothes nearby, I arrived and the conversation started naturally thanks to the little man:
Girl: *laughing* He was so funny and outgoing, saying, "Hey, hey!" to me.
Yoda: Yeah, he`s very outgoing and funny, especially with cute girls like yourself. Would you mind watching him for an hour?
Girl: *laughing* Sure.
Yoda: I`ll leave you to it then.
Girl: Haha.
Yoda: So, what`s your name and what are you doing tomorrow night? ;)
Girl: *laughs* Why are you asking? My name is Lisa. What is yours?
Yoda: My name is Yoda and the reason I`m asking is that I think you and I should get together and get to know each other.
Girl: *blushes and seems a little nervous* Wow, you`re pretty direct, but why not. I don`t want my employer to see me taking up my phone, but I can give you my number.
Yoda: Sure.
Girl: *recites number quickly*
Yoda: Cool. I`ll send you a message later, stay near the phone. See you later, Lisa. :)
Then I pulled little man out beneath the clothes and left the store.
Booyah!
This is by far the smoothest thing I`ve ever done in the day time and this is exactly how I want to be meeting girls. Naturally and almost on auto-pilot. I have been in similar small-talk situations earlier with flirting and bantering, but I have never stepped up like this. Up until now, this type of behavior have not been a part of my repertoire, since I mostly pick up girls at clubs. But I have to say, after walking around in certain parts of Oslo yesterday, I`m seriously considering to start actively gaming during the day. The amount of beautiful girls is overwhelming and it would be nice not having to go out mostly to clubs to meet them.
I drunk messaged the girl I met online. Got a reply that was fairly positive, although she could not meet up that night. I then sent her a reply the same night, but did not get a response on that one. She later liked a few of my pictures on Facebook, but no contact from her. Maybe she is waiting for me to make a move sober and wants to know that she is more than a booty call? Anyway, she is incredibly cute and special in the face, but I suspect that her body is so-so after a few pictures that showed up. On the other hand, she looks pretty hot on a few others. I`ve decided to not pursue her though, but I`m open for meeting up if SHE takes contact with me. Reason being that I have options, really don`t like pursuing girls and I fear that she is not hot enough. If she were, I would probably have put up a little more effort, even if I`m lazy. :)
I think I will send the sales clerk a message a little later tonight. Now, I will start rewriting my story with women and life and post it here later tonight. I have started dabbbling with visualizations and affirmations, but I want to get very serious about it, just like I am serious about training and brushing my teeth. Every day.
__________________
"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
The Story Of My Life
I`m carefree, happy, energetic, full of sexual energy and always in a good mood. I`m a giving person and I don`t want anything from anyone. I truly have and deserve abundance in all areas of my life.
I`m sexy, attractive, confident, non-judgmental, friendly, outgoing and people love it when I`m around. I talk to all people that I meet in my daily life whenever it feels natural. Even if people are shy, they love it when I greet and talk to them.
I`m a sexy and attractive guy and whenever I talk to women, they want to be with me. They find me super interesting and they really want to be with a rare man like me. They ask for my phone number and text me constantly.
Girls are already thinking about having sex with me when they first see me and they are thinking about ways to seduce me. Actually, girls want the satisfaction of seducing me and since I`m the prize, they are the ones who have to convince me. When I talk to new girls, I am the one qualifying them and seeing if I like them. I just show up and let things happen naturally. What I have and who I am is so unique that I don`t need to sell it.
When I walk out my front door, things just start happening. Simply by walking down the street, beautiful girls are checking me out, smiling to me and giving me eye contact. All girls I meet are incredibly cute, friendly and open to my energy. A lot of girls approach me first and they are usually the ones who try to take things to the next level. Meeting girls in my daily life is even easier than meeting them at clubs and bars.
Going out alone is incredibly fun, easy and often more fun than going out with friends. People love it when they find out I`m alone, girls find it easier to approach me, they want to party with me, take me to parties and take me home.
I truly deserve beautiful women and I find that the hotter they are, the more attracted they are and the more they pursue me.
Either way, I`m fine if any random girl is interested in someone else or up to something else.
I`m carefree, happy, energetic, full of sexual energy and always in a good mood. I`m a giving person and I don`t want anything from anyone. I truly have and deserve abundance in all areas of my life.
I`m sexy, attractive, confident, non-judgmental, friendly, outgoing and people love it when I`m around. I talk to all people that I meet in my daily life whenever it feels natural. Even if people are shy, they love it when I greet and talk to them.
I`m a sexy and attractive guy and whenever I talk to women, they want to be with me. They find me super interesting and they really want to be with a rare man like me. They ask for my phone number and text me constantly.
Girls are already thinking about having sex with me when they first see me and they are thinking about ways to seduce me. Actually, girls want the satisfaction of seducing me and since I`m the prize, they are the ones who have to convince me. When I talk to new girls, I am the one qualifying them and seeing if I like them. I just show up and let things happen naturally. What I have and who I am is so unique that I don`t need to sell it.
When I walk out my front door, things just start happening. Simply by walking down the street, beautiful girls are checking me out, smiling to me and giving me eye contact. All girls I meet are incredibly cute, friendly and open to my energy. A lot of girls approach me first and they are usually the ones who try to take things to the next level. Meeting girls in my daily life is even easier than meeting them at clubs and bars.
Going out alone is incredibly fun, easy and often more fun than going out with friends. People love it when they find out I`m alone, girls find it easier to approach me, they want to party with me, take me to parties and take me home.
I truly deserve beautiful women and I find that the hotter they are, the more attracted they are and the more they pursue me.
Either way, I`m fine if any random girl is interested in someone else or up to something else.
__________________
"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
First draft of the story of my life.
Game plan for the next weeks is massive visualization and affirmations. Whenever I have time in the day, grounding whenever I have time and always visualizing prior to sleeping. This week I will keep listening to some old Brent interviews and look at a few notes from a certain Marcus.I will also see if I can figure out what hobby or thing I should start doing in my daily life that includes meeting a lot of people, but women in particular.
I`m on a roll now. :)
Game plan for the next weeks is massive visualization and affirmations. Whenever I have time in the day, grounding whenever I have time and always visualizing prior to sleeping. This week I will keep listening to some old Brent interviews and look at a few notes from a certain Marcus.I will also see if I can figure out what hobby or thing I should start doing in my daily life that includes meeting a lot of people, but women in particular.
I`m on a roll now. :)
__________________
"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
I also made a super nice vision board tonight, but it`s private, so I`m not posting it up here.
I basically googled "beautiful smiling girls" and some other variations and now have 10 beautiful girls smiling to me at my computer background and looking completely dazzled in my presence. I may make more of these to change up things. Made it in Powerpoint. Super easy and fast.
Since work a lot on the computer, I will keep these girls open on my second screen. I`m noticing the effects already.
Nothing like a beautiful girl smiling to you, right? :)
I basically googled "beautiful smiling girls" and some other variations and now have 10 beautiful girls smiling to me at my computer background and looking completely dazzled in my presence. I may make more of these to change up things. Made it in Powerpoint. Super easy and fast.
Since work a lot on the computer, I will keep these girls open on my second screen. I`m noticing the effects already.
Nothing like a beautiful girl smiling to you, right? :)
__________________
"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
Yoda
Respected Member
Join Date: 03/22/2008 | Posts: 919
After a fairly long break from the land of women and fun in general, I`m ready to resume my adventures and have some fun again. I am a firm believer in learning from my mistakes, successes and auto-correcting my behavior for the better, so that will be the main objective of this journal, along with sharing my thoughts about seduction in general. Constructive feedback is welcome, but not necessary. I simply think this is a good format for journaling and there is also less chance that my relatives or friends will find my diary here after I`m dead.
The reason for my break is that I`ve been working very much the last years on my business and the last year in particular. For a long time, I worked two jobs and did not do much beyond that other than sleeping, which again I did way less than I should. Because of this pressure and lack of sleep, I`ve also struggled with some health issues including chronic fatigue, lack of energy and libido. Combine that with living in a rural area and I have not been getting much action the last years, nor been having much desire to go out and meet women. I`m ready to change that now and my health is steadily improving.
I am not new to seduction and prior to the break I was at an acceptable level and usually did very well meeting girls in nightclubs and bars, which was my area of expertise. My close rate was not very high, but I always had fun with girls and messed around with quite a few. I was at a powerful inner place with solid confidence and I was fairly unattached to any outcome. I never did any extensive day game, nor do I see myself going out to pick up girls today, but I do want to start capitalizing on situations when they present themselves in my daily life.
Current status is a little rusty and un-calibrated, although my confidence and ease around women is surprisingly good still. I don`t have any noticeable anxiety or nervousness. I know that I will very quickly regain my former glory and go beyond that. Now is my time. I can feel it.
Here is a field report I once posted here. At this time of my life I was at top of the game and it is a good illustration of how I want to seduce girls. The game of no-game. I will be inspired by my former self here.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/125751
Short Term Goals:
- I want to initiate a lasting sexual relationship with at least one beautiful and sexy girl. Preferrably nothing serious right now, but I`m open to the possibility of getting a girlfriend if I meet the right girl.
- Building on the previous goal, I want to put in practical and theoretical efforts towards becoming a better lover. I am already decent, but it is a year since the last time, so I almost feel like a virgin again. I firmly believe that sexual mastery translates into raw confidence and sub-communicates high value. If you know that you have something most girls would almost kill to experience, a gift if you will, that translates into your interactions with girls in ways that words will not.
- I want to have and meet more women naturally in my daily life without effort. I`m self-employed and work from home, so I`m limited to meeting girls at the gym, nightclubs, bars, social circle or other random events. This is not enough for me. I love girls and I love being around them. I want more girls in my life. Actualy, I want to meet guys and have a better social life as well. I don`t know yet how to accomplish this, but I`m considering picking up a social hobby of sorts that attracts a lot of women. Volunteer work have crossed my mind (for personal reasons as well). Perhaps dance lessons.
Action Plan & Focus
- I will go out two nights per week at clubs or bars. More when I can, but I will start with something realistic.
- I will visualize my ideal self and visualize positive interactions every night prior to going to bed.
- I will continue doing affirmations every morning and throughout the day.
- I will resume the practice of grounding whenever I have the opportunity. I believe this practice helped me in the past.
- I will say yes to every opportunity and yes to life in general!
- I will remain positive, enthusiastic and thankful for life!
- I will try to make something out of every interaction with girls in my daily life, even if she`s not sexually attractive. I want to be fun, giving, dangerous and outrageous and make a difference.
- I will be friendly and open towards people, both guys and girls, taking the initiative since many people are inhibited before you open them up.
- I will study my old role models: Brent, Zan and Razorjack. All these have a very natural approach with the focus on the inner work.
- I will focus on developing a powerful presence, aura and charisma. The kind of state where you walk down the street and people notice you. Or you walk into a room and it feels like the air got sucked out. This will be my focus, not so much the outer game.
- I will study Daniel Rose, David Shade, etc.
- Gym work is mandatory and already taken care of, but I thought I could mention it.
I think this pretty much summarizes what`s on my mind right now.
Regards,
Yoda
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."