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People in general are drooling morons.
People will look up to you like some kind of mega genius, and you will be a leader. Then if you ever find a chick who is as smart as you, you will be able to have that shit no problem.
No doubt. Pickup is fucking hard work for the intellectual 1%. Wait, if we're so fucking smart, how come we didn't figure it all out sooner?&*^#%(*&@#$%^)@???People will look up to you like some kind of mega genius, and you will be a leader. Then if you ever find a chick who is as smart as you, you will be able to have that shit no problem.
I am so far past the point of judging women based soley on their looks and giving attractive women some kind of halo effect. I have standards, and I am constantly judging women based on those standards.I screen for intelligence, mainly because I don't want to get some retarded bitch pregnant and wind up being stuck with dumb kids and a dumb baby mama. The kinds of girls I usually date are Nurses, Lawyers, Doctors, Scientists, Therepists, Software Engineers, Business Professionals, or own their own businesses. These are the types of women I respect. Why? Well my mother is a VP at a national bank. She rakes in a shit load of money and makes the same money as my dad. She is also extremely smart, driven, and doesn't take shit from anyone. I think its true that every guy wants a woman who is just like his mom, I used to deny it but after seeing what is really out there I am pretty sure its true. I know full well that women are capable of allot of great things. The problem is, the VAST majority of the young hot girls I want to fuck, are stupid as fuck and annoy the shit out of me. I don't respect them at all, but I will fuck them because I enjoy it and I can do whatever I want and not give a shit. When I do meet an attractive and sucessfull woman, she has actually earned my respect. I can appreciate her hard work. I am not like every other low value fuck head who just wants these women for their bodies, and It is very simple for me to seduce these successfull women since I can engage them on an intellectual, physical, and emotional level. Not only that, but they might actually have a chance at me not fucking around with 4 other girls while I am seeing them.
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Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger

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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170650
Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger
How much do you approach JFM? Numerically, how many approaches per week do you make on average? Do not spend 30 minutes talking about the philosophy about why the amount of approaching you do doesn't matter, let's hear a straight answer and then you can wax poetically as much as you want. In return I'll let you know I hit up at the very least 30 girls per week.
RRPUA isn't important, but the mistake that there is no paradox is hugely important. Imagine a thread where the paradox is spelled out in real life. It's pretty clear that "the revenge of the chodes" isn't working ( spelled out in the thread), so why not evolve. Boundaries. Guys finally JUST focusing on themselves. Respect. Good relationships that have NOTHING to do with niceness. Nothing new since David Deida 20 years ago.
The nerd viewpoint sees no paradox. The important guy with women is ME. End of story. In the RRPUA disaster, the man isn't in second place, he's non-existent.
What's the win? Where could it go? How about more Blueprint stuff APPLIED. You know, evolve it. If a losing strategy with women is going
untouched...I mean free-fall...without anyone really noticing or caring, what in the flying fuck is going on? It gets a little stale at times, with the blisteringly obvious being "argued" and flamed...with sociopathic tendencies written all over it.
What about that goddam paradox? It often doesn't even MAKE it into the thread! I mean who cares right? Nothing really BAD could happen to a guy avoiding the paradox, right?
He doesn't approach. He has been here since 2007 and only has posted 1 brief field report. He is a keyboard guru and therefore nothing he says has any value as far as actually getting women is concerned. When ever somebody gives you advice, do a quick search to see their forum topics on the Field Reports Forum. If they don't have a Journal, or a bunch of field reports posted. don't listen to them. The guys that actually go out consistently enough to learn this shit ALL have field report journals. I'm enjoying this. JFM, you make great points; by the same token, to quote RRPUA, women ARE "stimulation junkies that just want to have cock shoved in them". It's not a paradox though it may seem like one. I can keep both realities in my head at the same time - no conflict. Just like someone said up-thread, are you guys married, why are you fighting this out?
RRPUA isn't important, but the mistake that there is no paradox is hugely important. Imagine a thread where the paradox is spelled out in real life. It's pretty clear that "the revenge of the chodes" isn't working ( spelled out in the thread), so why not evolve. Boundaries. Guys finally JUST focusing on themselves. Respect. Good relationships that have NOTHING to do with niceness. Nothing new since David Deida 20 years ago.
The nerd viewpoint sees no paradox. The important guy with women is ME. End of story. In the RRPUA disaster, the man isn't in second place, he's non-existent.
What's the win? Where could it go? How about more Blueprint stuff APPLIED. You know, evolve it. If a losing strategy with women is going
untouched...I mean free-fall...without anyone really noticing or caring, what in the flying fuck is going on? It gets a little stale at times, with the blisteringly obvious being "argued" and flamed...with sociopathic tendencies written all over it.
What about that goddam paradox? It often doesn't even MAKE it into the thread! I mean who cares right? Nothing really BAD could happen to a guy avoiding the paradox, right?
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Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger

My Field Reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/208534/forum
If you are a Newb READ THIS FIRST, THEN GO OUT:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170650
Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger
Dude. You're not getting women. That's the issue.
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You guys should just find a room or something.... There's so much sexual tension between you two.
Either way, Keep posting... I love reading all the outlandish shit you guys write... Fucking Hilarious.
Either way, Keep posting... I love reading all the outlandish shit you guys write... Fucking Hilarious.
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Dude. You're not getting women. That's the issue.
Thats weird. I could have sworn I fucked atleast 4 different girls this past month. Oh well. JFM has the ability to astral project so obviously I must be a liar. I'm a virgin and no woman will ever let me put my penis inside their vagina. I hate women and I go home and cry and slit my wrists. People on RSDNation are my only friends and the only people I can socialize with. __________________
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My Field Reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/208534/forum
If you are a Newb READ THIS FIRST, THEN GO OUT:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170650
Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger

My Field Reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/208534/forum
If you are a Newb READ THIS FIRST, THEN GO OUT:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170650
Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger
Dude. You're not getting women. That's the issue.
Thats wierd. I could have sworn I fucked atleast 4 different girls this past month. Oh well. JFM has the ability to astral project so obviously I must be a liar.A lot of people will buy what you sell because there's a lot of fear and scarcity out there. But not everyone. Plus, it's not even you dude. A chode is conditioned to build his self esteem from the outside in. Our whole society backs up a whole bunch of losing strategies.
I have some experiences with this. My personal trainer was getting LAID...but it ended up being a shit deal. Really shit. A hot blond dropped her pants and masturbated in front of him...in the evaluation room. He fucked an Argentine model and a cute Brasilian girl. And he sounds like you do. ALL the chodes thought this was cool. Four years later? I now see he attracted what he was. Severely screwed up women, drug problems and obsessive too. He is unable to be with women, but in our society the emotional chaos is so large, he could play out his deal and get laid all the time. His lays were all bad. I'm talking ALL. But to starving chodes ( his audience) he was a God.
You seem to be playing to get kudos from a starving chode set, and believing your own bullshit. Consider the OP and the post. What was he asking? It's a really good question, and you haven't answered it. It's a good thread to read, because it's putting reality out there...and where believing your own bullshit can lead. The lowest of the low self esteem. A superiority complex.
A lot of guys with absent fathers or alcoholic dads are going to fall into this.
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“When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.”
- African Proverb
- African Proverb
Dude. You're not getting women. That's the issue.
Thats wierd. I could have sworn I fucked atleast 4 different girls this past month. Oh well. JFM has the ability to astral project so obviously I must be a liar.A lot of people will buy what you sell because there's a lot of fear and scarcity out there. But not everyone. Plus, it's not even you dude. A chode is conditioned to build his self esteem from the outside in. Our whole society backs up a whole bunch of losing strategies.
I have some experiences with this. My personal trainer was getting LAID...but it ended up being a shit deal. Really shit. A hot blond dropped her pants and masturbated in front of him...in the evaluation room. He fucked an Argentine model and a cute Brasilian girl. And he sounds like you do. ALL the chodes thought this was cool. Four years later? I now see he attracted what he was. Severely screwed up women, drug problems and obsessive too. He is unable to be with women, but in our society the emotional chaos is so large, he could play out his deal and get laid all the time. His lays were all bad. I'm talking ALL. But to starving chodes ( his audience) he was a God.
You seem to be playing to get kudos from a starving chode set, and believing your own bullshit. Consider the OP and the post. What was he asking? It's a really good question, and you haven't answered it. It's a good thread to read, because it's putting reality out there...and where believing your own bullshit can lead. The lowest of the low self esteem. A superiority complex.
A lot of guys with absent fathers or alcoholic dads are going to fall into this.
This Guy:

-Governor
-World Champion Bodybuilder
-Biggest action movie star of all time.
-Womanizer
-God
-Chauvinist
-'Chode' (According to JFM's Definition)
Quotes:
"She's either Puerto Rican, or the same thing as Cuban, I mean they are all very hot. They have the, you know, part of the black blood in them and part of the Latino blood in them that together makes it." -on California Assemblywoman Bonnie Garcia, the lone Latina Republican in the Legislature
"After watching mulattas shake it, I can totally understand why Brazil is devoted to my favorite body part, the ass."
"I saw this toilet bowl. How many times do you get away with this, to take a woman, grab her upside down, and bury her face in a toilet bowl? I wanted to have something floating there ... The thing is, you can do it, because in the end, I didn't do it to a woman, she's a machine! We could get away with it without being crucified by who-knows-what group." - Arnold talking to "Entertainment Weekly" about shooting a scene in "Terminator 3" in which he pushes co-star Kristanna Loken into a toilet.
"As much as when you see a blonde with great tits and a great ass, you say to yourself, 'Hey, she must be stupid or must have nothing else to offer,' which maybe is the case many times. But then again there is the one that is as smart as her boobs look, great as her face looks, beautiful as her whole body looks gorgeous, you know, so people are shocked." - Schwarzenegger talking to Esquire magazine in July of 2003
"I can look at a chick who's a little out of shape and if she turns me on, I won't hesitate to date her. If she's a good fuck she can weigh 150 pounds, I don't care."
"Having chicks around is the kind of thing that breaks up the intense training. It gives you relief, and then afterward you go back to the serious stuff."
"Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger
"Eating isn't cheating" - Schwarzenegger when asked about giving oral sex to a woman other than his wife in his trailer
If being a chode means being like Arnold. Well then I guess I am a chode dude. Enjoy being an Alpha basement guru while I will be a chode acomplishing things in life and getting laid all the time. I hope everyone on this site listens to your advice and not mine. Less competition for me, since winning is all that is important to chodes like myself.
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Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger

My Field Reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/208534/forum
If you are a Newb READ THIS FIRST, THEN GO OUT:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170650
Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger
Well, it's absolutely no fun for you, but you sure are hammering home what the discussion is all about. Awesome.
Here's a famous video from all the way back in 1937. Remember reality is like this. A healthy woman ( with all her feminine defects) doesn't even see the curtain. She just sees YOU. This is a skill you're proving more than ever that you don't have.
A real woman sees you, no matter what you say or do. Why? She can FEEL. The sickness of narcissism is NO FEEL. Thus the life of masks and cover-ups and low ( or no ) unconditonal identity.
Here's how a powerless chode thinks he can get power:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWyCCJ6B2WE&feature=youtube_gdata_player
In other words you're just a guy like everyone else. Awesome. For none of the reasons or arguments you play out. Just for being a dude...you're cool. Get boundaries around that belief, and you don't HAVE to build a fake shell. That's the hard work.
Once you see that YOU are awesome for no reason, then it's one fuck of a lot easier to see how OTHERS are awesome for no reason. And your boundaries help you with all the imperfect bullshit inbetween.
Here's a famous video from all the way back in 1937. Remember reality is like this. A healthy woman ( with all her feminine defects) doesn't even see the curtain. She just sees YOU. This is a skill you're proving more than ever that you don't have.
A real woman sees you, no matter what you say or do. Why? She can FEEL. The sickness of narcissism is NO FEEL. Thus the life of masks and cover-ups and low ( or no ) unconditonal identity.
Here's how a powerless chode thinks he can get power:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWyCCJ6B2WE&feature=youtube_gdata_player
In other words you're just a guy like everyone else. Awesome. For none of the reasons or arguments you play out. Just for being a dude...you're cool. Get boundaries around that belief, and you don't HAVE to build a fake shell. That's the hard work.
Once you see that YOU are awesome for no reason, then it's one fuck of a lot easier to see how OTHERS are awesome for no reason. And your boundaries help you with all the imperfect bullshit inbetween.
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“When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.”
- African Proverb
- African Proverb
Well, it's absolutely no fun for you, but you sure are hammering home what the discussion is all about. Awesome.
Here's a famous video from all the way back in 1937. Remember reality is like this. A healthy woman ( with all her feminine defects) doesn't even see the curtain. She just sees YOU. This is a skill you're proving more than ever that you don't have.
A real woman sees you, no matter what you say or do. Why? She can FEEL. The sickness of narcissism is NO FEEL. Thus the life of masks and cover-ups and low ( or no ) unconditonal identity.
Here's how a powerless chode thinks he can get power:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWyCCJ6B2WE&feature=youtube_gdata_player
In other words you're just a guy like everyone else. Awesome. For none of the reasons or arguments you play out. Just for being a dude...you're cool. Get boundaries around that belief, and you don't HAVE to build a fake shell. That's the hard work.
Once you see that YOU are awesome for no reason, then it's one fuck of a lot easier to see how OTHERS are awesome for no reason. And your boundaries help you with all the imperfect bullshit inbetween.
The wizzard of OZ? Get real dude, that shit is a fucking movie. The fact that a movie is your best source of evidence to back up your points tell me that they have no basis and actual reality. What can be asserted without proof, can be dismissed without proof.Here's a famous video from all the way back in 1937. Remember reality is like this. A healthy woman ( with all her feminine defects) doesn't even see the curtain. She just sees YOU. This is a skill you're proving more than ever that you don't have.
A real woman sees you, no matter what you say or do. Why? She can FEEL. The sickness of narcissism is NO FEEL. Thus the life of masks and cover-ups and low ( or no ) unconditonal identity.
Here's how a powerless chode thinks he can get power:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWyCCJ6B2WE&feature=youtube_gdata_player
In other words you're just a guy like everyone else. Awesome. For none of the reasons or arguments you play out. Just for being a dude...you're cool. Get boundaries around that belief, and you don't HAVE to build a fake shell. That's the hard work.
Once you see that YOU are awesome for no reason, then it's one fuck of a lot easier to see how OTHERS are awesome for no reason. And your boundaries help you with all the imperfect bullshit inbetween.
My origional advice to the OP was spot on. To summarize: Don't worry if other people are interesting or not. Become interesting yourself and you will attract other interesting people. I still have no Idea what you are talking about, and I don't care. Why? Because I get results. Results are what is important to me, not esoteric theoretical nonsense and psychobable from reading too much inner game material on the internet.
What are results in my definition:
-Fucking hot girls
-Making lots of money
-Being healthy
-Doing what I want
-Being in a Bad Ass Metal Band
Unless you are doing all of the above, your advice has no value to me.
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My Field Reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/208534/forum
If you are a Newb READ THIS FIRST, THEN GO OUT:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170650
Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger

My Field Reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/208534/forum
If you are a Newb READ THIS FIRST, THEN GO OUT:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170650
Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger

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