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May 21st, 2013
If a girl cancels on you a day before, what do you text her?
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#11
Smash Adams

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 why is your day2 being setup so early in the day? Too much pressure on the girl to meet you during the day. If you're too young to meet up for drinks at night, come up with another night option. A lot less flakes after the sun goes down

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#12

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lol if she text you at 12.20am then she's full of shit. probably more in an uncomfortable way rather then not liking you way
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tasty-treat

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It's been an on and off thing. Honestly I'm better off without her. I feel better when I don't have to deal with her BS.

PS: She's young but I can do better.
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On and off as in you've banged her? Or just been messaging on and off?
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tasty-treat

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Messaging.

PS: It was PM not AM but its still BS. Im done. Even if its actually legit excuse.
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#16
oner

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who cares if she flaked you.     Maybe to make things either, why not try texting the girl randomly and being like, what are you doing right now this second?  if she says nothing just be like perfect, sandwhich party time!  i do it all the time.   It will make it feel less pressured as a DATE, be a different vibe...or you could do wahtever. I hate setting plans for shit, i rather just do shit spur of the moment...it's pretty much how i live my life. 
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cyrax86

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 "No biggie"

then a few days later txt her something you're doing alone without inviting her, see if she gets excited or shows envy and say "you can tag along if you want"

If a girl flakes on me the third time i'm going to tease shes a flake & how I want to be frost on her...that or i'll torture her a little with "haha, man my friend mentioned you today" and she'll txt back begging to know what he said and ignore it or say "busy, 1 sec" and treat her like some annoying ass co-worker who wants to borrow $20 all the time.
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#18
player1975

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Join Date: 05/27/2011 | Posts: 257

What he said
alienantfarm wrote:
Not rude IMO.

Play it cool, and just schedule for another time.

Did she counter offer for another day?

When a girl does flake, and she flakes a second time, same thing. Third time...then I'll put her on the slow burner and maybe text her when I have time.
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agentdoublej

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 I would text ok cool and then hit up some more girls
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ambiguity

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tasty-treat wrote:
If a girl cancels on you a day before, what do you text her? Assume its a somewhat of a legitimate reason.
I feel like just not replying at all.

What would you do? I hate askign a stupid question liek this but I just want to see what my best option would be. I don't wanna seem like I care too much, I guess.

I don't chase. I replace.



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