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I agree. When you change your beliefs you change your reality, because reality is only a reflection of you, of what you believe most strongly.
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I agree that if you believe you are good with women, you get good with women. But changing a belief is not as simple by just thinking that you are good with women.
To change your beliefs, you have to overcome resistance from your current beliefs that contradict your desired beliefs. This is why meditation and being in the present is important because it helps detach from negative thoughts, and give less power to them. Over time you will find you have alot less resistance, and thats when your subconcious can let the new beliefs come through
To change your beliefs, you have to overcome resistance from your current beliefs that contradict your desired beliefs. This is why meditation and being in the present is important because it helps detach from negative thoughts, and give less power to them. Over time you will find you have alot less resistance, and thats when your subconcious can let the new beliefs come through
Yea it is hard to change a belief, as i mentioned you will at first reject it until there is enough suport backing it up. Meditation and being present would definatly help, Power of now is a great book.
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Yea it is hard to change a belief, as i mentioned you will at first reject it until there is enough suport backing it up. Meditation and being present would definatly help, Power of now is a great book.
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But even the idea of "It is hard to change a belief" is still a belief. ;)
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It's really important to remember that your beliefs are actually coming from the subconscious. Your identity is coming from that place, and most of it ( especially the self-defeating stuff) is survival based. Most people are victims because that role allowed them survival when kids.
When you simplify the change of subconsious beliefs ( as per Robbins and a ton of others), that's known as "delusion". What's worse, most deluded people start feeling a LOT better, and build a "new reality" that crashes down 20 years later in a totally unexpected way.
It's better IMO to stay in the game long-term and go with "easy does it"...humble...progressing. The subconsious changes when it wants to, after a shit ton of work, process, luck and timing.
When you simplify the change of subconsious beliefs ( as per Robbins and a ton of others), that's known as "delusion". What's worse, most deluded people start feeling a LOT better, and build a "new reality" that crashes down 20 years later in a totally unexpected way.
It's better IMO to stay in the game long-term and go with "easy does it"...humble...progressing. The subconsious changes when it wants to, after a shit ton of work, process, luck and timing.
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Wouldnt the fastest and easiest way to become great with women and yourself be to simly change your beliefs?
Currently Im reading: Awaken the giant within by Anthony Robbins, and just finished the chapter about belief systems and it made me realise something.
Beliefs are the guidelines by which we live, if someone strongly believes in god and is deeply religious then would live a certain way right?
If someone believed he was ugly/ horrible with women then this will greatly effect his life, how he lives and percieves his world.
Beliefs and your RAS are tied in, if your believe something your RAS will seek to find more proof or references to support this belief
So if you were to change it, create a belief such as "I am confident and women love me" Your RAS would start finding evidence, therefore you would instantly attract more women.
Seems simple doesnt it?
"Wait your trying to tell me that all I have to do is change my beliefs and I will automatically attract more women and whatever I want in life?"
YES thats what im saying.
So how do you go about getting rid of a "disempowering belief" as A.R. calls it, and create a new "empowering belief"?
First, a belief is only as strong as the legs or support that holds it up, so if you cut off even one of its legs it will start to become fragile and will topple easily (i love metaphors btw lol)
Creating an apposing and empowering belief can also destroy the old ones, simply one leg at a time, start looking for references to hold up the belief that you are confident, remember the time that you were confident or felt attractive.
Actually, the funny thing is the mind easily believes bullshit, you can imagine and fake experiences and trick the mind into believing its real
At first you may reject the new belief, you may try to fight agasint it, but with enough support it will be accepted and become your new reality.
Always remember "The paradox of reality is that it is merely an illusion created by the mind, what you believe becomes your reality" - Me!!! dam im a genius
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