THE FORUMS
Saturday night:
Fuck saturday was unreal.
I left for the club way too early per usual, gotta knock that off, its annoying to sit there and wait for the place to fill up. I got there at like tenfifteen and just sat there by myself for a half hour in some corner in a nice comfy chair fucking around on my phone. Several weeks ago this would have.bothered me, having to chill alone, but now i really couldnt give a shit to be honest. No one notices anyways and if they do it doesnt affect your value anyways. At about 10 45 i rouse myself get up and realize the place isnt going to get that busy or it would already be fuller. I vow to get some sets before i leave to find some place better so i open the first girl i see whos sitting down. Goes well but she aint hot, start to walk away and immediatly without even breaking stride walk right to a hot nine and open with your cute. Start screening real hard for her logistics, which end up sucking so i eject (sssstuupiiid btw should have tried for something she was hooot). Again without even pausing walk to another girl and open, quick convo she wasnt hot.
(Note to self i should always start like that, launches u right into state)
I venue change to another area of town and the lines are all incredibly long. #rattled. I go into a shit bar that doesnt have a line but its brutal. There isnt one girl i can even consider opening. Decision time, gut it out in one of those lines or go back to the orginal bar, but to top it off the stamp they put on my hand at.the first place washed off when i took a piss and washed my hands. Fuck it i say to myself i head back to the orgin bar and just storm up to the bouncer and declare i was already in there, he just nods and lets me in.
This bar still doesnt have too many turbos but whatever its got a sweet dfloor. I forget how i started it off but i open some girl amd wheel around, open another couple girls i cant even recall and i find myself completely and utterly in state. Full momentum. The dance floor is like the center point of this bar and its essentially a crowd of grls with a few select dudes in the middle and then a circle of immpenetrable chodes surrouning it, all facing the middle just watching the girlls in the middle. In my head im like how the fuck do o get in there.. i shark around the edge of it and spot a hot brazilian girl. Claaaaw! Fluff while simaltanously getting pyhsical and then makeout. Maybe takes a minute but unfortunatley shes a shitty kisser and 28. Too bad she was hot. I eject on the premise of getting a drink ( i walked around a night with an empty cup to make it easier and faster to eject on ugly girls lol).
At this point im so fucking icy its retarded and i know if i can find a girl i like i will pull. So i wheel around the entire place to find a girl to fuck, which the only legitt girl i can find is blonde hb9 from my warmie sets. I open hey your cute. Shes like you already used that one i tell her idc. She blows me out.. im 90% sure she realized i was just picking up girls, she watched me open a couple. Oh well.. if i had played it better i could have gotten her. Walk away and met a gir i had actually made out with several months ago at a different bar but she doesnt even remeber lol. I think i must have been dunk.. she wasnt that hot. Dammit cam! Haha. Wheel around some more and girls can just smell it on me. Several girls dancing with their bfs throw their friends at me, but none of them are cute. At one point i just stand stationary in the middle of the club just lording it as tim would say. Im so in state its not funny, i feel just plain icy. I need a decent girl to game. Place starts to empty out and im like nooo! This is a complete waste of how awesome my game is at this moment!! Lol. I chode around looking for a hottie but its no use. Cant find anything good. Walk out and see a really hot 40 year old women sitting down, she eyes me, i use my icy lazer eye contact but dont open shes like 40. Cab it home. Dam. That was unbelivably fun.
I have never been in state like that before. Its too bad that venue wasnt more forgiving with the amount of hotties. There really werent any. Poor logistical planning on my part, need to make better decisions with that stuff. I was so icy it wasnt funny. My eye contact wias completely unflinching and like lazer beams lol. Girls just crumbled under it... god so fun. I think that was the best part of my game tonight. Girls responded incredibly to it. It was like i was creating all this tension and just owning it. Great stuff.
Good stuff: state i reached was nuts, so fuuuun. Opened like a champ. Fast makeout. Way more physical. Great icy eye comtact.
Bad stuff: poor venue choice did not allow me to really put myself to the test like i would have liked. Still need more of the girl gaming me on some approahes.
Overall great learning experience. Great night
Fuck saturday was unreal.
I left for the club way too early per usual, gotta knock that off, its annoying to sit there and wait for the place to fill up. I got there at like tenfifteen and just sat there by myself for a half hour in some corner in a nice comfy chair fucking around on my phone. Several weeks ago this would have.bothered me, having to chill alone, but now i really couldnt give a shit to be honest. No one notices anyways and if they do it doesnt affect your value anyways. At about 10 45 i rouse myself get up and realize the place isnt going to get that busy or it would already be fuller. I vow to get some sets before i leave to find some place better so i open the first girl i see whos sitting down. Goes well but she aint hot, start to walk away and immediatly without even breaking stride walk right to a hot nine and open with your cute. Start screening real hard for her logistics, which end up sucking so i eject (sssstuupiiid btw should have tried for something she was hooot). Again without even pausing walk to another girl and open, quick convo she wasnt hot.
(Note to self i should always start like that, launches u right into state)
I venue change to another area of town and the lines are all incredibly long. #rattled. I go into a shit bar that doesnt have a line but its brutal. There isnt one girl i can even consider opening. Decision time, gut it out in one of those lines or go back to the orginal bar, but to top it off the stamp they put on my hand at.the first place washed off when i took a piss and washed my hands. Fuck it i say to myself i head back to the orgin bar and just storm up to the bouncer and declare i was already in there, he just nods and lets me in.
This bar still doesnt have too many turbos but whatever its got a sweet dfloor. I forget how i started it off but i open some girl amd wheel around, open another couple girls i cant even recall and i find myself completely and utterly in state. Full momentum. The dance floor is like the center point of this bar and its essentially a crowd of grls with a few select dudes in the middle and then a circle of immpenetrable chodes surrouning it, all facing the middle just watching the girlls in the middle. In my head im like how the fuck do o get in there.. i shark around the edge of it and spot a hot brazilian girl. Claaaaw! Fluff while simaltanously getting pyhsical and then makeout. Maybe takes a minute but unfortunatley shes a shitty kisser and 28. Too bad she was hot. I eject on the premise of getting a drink ( i walked around a night with an empty cup to make it easier and faster to eject on ugly girls lol).
At this point im so fucking icy its retarded and i know if i can find a girl i like i will pull. So i wheel around the entire place to find a girl to fuck, which the only legitt girl i can find is blonde hb9 from my warmie sets. I open hey your cute. Shes like you already used that one i tell her idc. She blows me out.. im 90% sure she realized i was just picking up girls, she watched me open a couple. Oh well.. if i had played it better i could have gotten her. Walk away and met a gir i had actually made out with several months ago at a different bar but she doesnt even remeber lol. I think i must have been dunk.. she wasnt that hot. Dammit cam! Haha. Wheel around some more and girls can just smell it on me. Several girls dancing with their bfs throw their friends at me, but none of them are cute. At one point i just stand stationary in the middle of the club just lording it as tim would say. Im so in state its not funny, i feel just plain icy. I need a decent girl to game. Place starts to empty out and im like nooo! This is a complete waste of how awesome my game is at this moment!! Lol. I chode around looking for a hottie but its no use. Cant find anything good. Walk out and see a really hot 40 year old women sitting down, she eyes me, i use my icy lazer eye contact but dont open shes like 40. Cab it home. Dam. That was unbelivably fun.
I have never been in state like that before. Its too bad that venue wasnt more forgiving with the amount of hotties. There really werent any. Poor logistical planning on my part, need to make better decisions with that stuff. I was so icy it wasnt funny. My eye contact wias completely unflinching and like lazer beams lol. Girls just crumbled under it... god so fun. I think that was the best part of my game tonight. Girls responded incredibly to it. It was like i was creating all this tension and just owning it. Great stuff.
Good stuff: state i reached was nuts, so fuuuun. Opened like a champ. Fast makeout. Way more physical. Great icy eye comtact.
Bad stuff: poor venue choice did not allow me to really put myself to the test like i would have liked. Still need more of the girl gaming me on some approahes.
Overall great learning experience. Great night
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Went to the casino tuesday night... in my head the casino is supermodels running around and vegas....... yeah in reality obviously not. Lol. Great time and epic adventure with the bro's but fuck i could have been gaming. Gonna have to make it up wiith a day game day.
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Tried to go to some club tonight. They claimed no cover and i got there and it was 30 bucks to see some dj. Chay right dudes. I dont have enough cash for that (i smell a sticking point $$$$). No opens.. its been since saturday since ive gamed.... not good enough. Chomping at the bit right now. Need to get some sets in. Daygame and nightgame tomorrow????
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Thursday night.
Hadnt gotten a single set in since saturday, biggest layoff since ive started this badboy, and to top it off got a haircut im not thrilled with. Ohhh noooo! Hahaha jk jk.
Well anyways i go out to a college bar solo and sober. Get there just before the line forms and its already crowded. Nice. Get in there and everybody knows everyone else. Its like im on enemy turf solo. I get that aa and im like fuuuck. Take about ten minutes amd get a beer then put myself out of misery and go to find a girl to talk to. See a cutie admist her friends point at her and im like "you! Your cute!" Super icy. She loves it and the friends scatter leaving me her. I chit chat with her and shes excited but i eject intending to find her again, need to get some more sets in. I wander around the bar looking for a cute girl. Its harder than i thought. Theres lot of dudes surrounding any of the actual hotties, not that it should stop me. I take too long to open again but then as im walking around i see the tallest and hottest girl in the place. I tell myself not to be a pussy so i open her with hey your cute. Hooks easily enough and i give her great heavy eye contact, she seems to like me but then tries to pawn me off onto her friend also cute, which i dont take tho for some reason (in hindsight why wouldnt i? Girl probably had bf there but thoguht i was a champ) so i tell the girl i opened nice meeting you. Walk away and get a text from one of my roommates. He and another one of teammates and his girl are going to a bar i heard is good. I could use some wingmates for once. I peace and go to that bar. Wait in line and eventually get in. This place is unreal. As soon as im in line i understand that its a different crowd than im used too. Much older and seems to be more exclusive, youngest girl is like 25 and the dudes are all like 30 with money... intimidating. I get in there and ive never seen so may real actual turbos before in my life. Theres at least three actual tens. Ahhh fuck im intimidated. My friends still havent arrived so im still solo per usual. Everybody is older than me and the girls are all gold diggjng or looking for blow from these older dudes. #outofmyelement. I grab a beer and dont approach. Eventually grab my sack and run an approach. Older girl. I opem with your cute and hey and the shit tests start flying. She wants me to fail them, i pass for just a second but eventually fail and im blown out.
(Even tho i do get blown out i can clearly envision how i could pass all of them.. just need practice). Chode around more and eventually open by one of the bars. Girls name is sam, and mines cam. I joke around teling her i cant be with her our names are too alike she likes it. I eject. (If i keep on ejecting on good sets im going to hit myself with a two by four). I almost leave but my friends show up. This gives me some good vibes. I grab beer with my one buddy, reeeally hot black girl tries to shove past me so i open her. Shes hot. Shes touching me. She can tell im a champ, but still she blows me out quick and i see her run back to some older dude whos like 35. I walk through the crowd, spot a reaally hot older girl, i open her. Doesnt even give me the time of day really. Chode around chode around. My roommate is dancing with my othr buddy and his gf and gets fools mate with some with some 33 year old. I should be happy for him but it just pisses me off and he gets all cocky about it. Grrr. Lol. I struggle to open again. Wander around almost time to go and im frustrated, i just grab some girl while shes dancing. She loves it and asks me what my name is. I look around like im tryin to be secretative and say its julio. Shes laughs. Nothing i say makes any kind of logical sense. Works great. I was just goofing around while being pyschical. Very much myself. My buddy gets me cause we're going to leave. I eject. We're waiting for my roommate whos still with 33 year old foolsmate. I go back to the hot girl i just grabbed and dance some more. Eventually she ejects. Place is emptyimg out. I still consider that one a win. Taxi home. Alright.
The second venue i went to was probally the most intimidating venue i could go to. Especialy when i was solo at first. My fearof rejection is being wittled away every time i go out. I give less and less of a shit and as i give less and less of a shit more of my actual awesome personality comes out. I catch glimpses of it every now and then like the last set were i was so fuckin money and self amused, but purely for me, not to impress her. It became apparent to me that i have sooo much fucking potential. Deep down, im soo much more awesome than any of those douchy guys with their blow and money and egos. I have no doubt that very soon i will surpase all those guys, regardless of how old i am. Girls love my natural personality, i just need to practice letting it out. I have so much potential, i can feel it, i catch glimpses, and sometimes i can just envision it. I have no doubt i will become unbeivelably great at this just gotta work it out. Reminds me of sports, its so exciting when you train and practice and you first start to see glimpses of how good you can be and you practice harder and go deeper. Its addicting and so exciting. Fuck im pumped up lol.
On the negative side however i need to cut out waitng around to get my first approach in. Once i get that first one done im good but i make myself wait around for it. Annoying. Also i should be entitled to those tens. Need to approach them more to get that. Stop ejecting on good interactions! If im going to get older girls who arent interested in dating me because of my age, not that i want to date them anyways, over the rich old dudes im going to need to be more awesome and give the girls value.. which for me would be sex and laughter. Thats it. Be sexual, pyschical, and my awesome laughing self. Booom.
Fuck so excited.
Hadnt gotten a single set in since saturday, biggest layoff since ive started this badboy, and to top it off got a haircut im not thrilled with. Ohhh noooo! Hahaha jk jk.
Well anyways i go out to a college bar solo and sober. Get there just before the line forms and its already crowded. Nice. Get in there and everybody knows everyone else. Its like im on enemy turf solo. I get that aa and im like fuuuck. Take about ten minutes amd get a beer then put myself out of misery and go to find a girl to talk to. See a cutie admist her friends point at her and im like "you! Your cute!" Super icy. She loves it and the friends scatter leaving me her. I chit chat with her and shes excited but i eject intending to find her again, need to get some more sets in. I wander around the bar looking for a cute girl. Its harder than i thought. Theres lot of dudes surrounding any of the actual hotties, not that it should stop me. I take too long to open again but then as im walking around i see the tallest and hottest girl in the place. I tell myself not to be a pussy so i open her with hey your cute. Hooks easily enough and i give her great heavy eye contact, she seems to like me but then tries to pawn me off onto her friend also cute, which i dont take tho for some reason (in hindsight why wouldnt i? Girl probably had bf there but thoguht i was a champ) so i tell the girl i opened nice meeting you. Walk away and get a text from one of my roommates. He and another one of teammates and his girl are going to a bar i heard is good. I could use some wingmates for once. I peace and go to that bar. Wait in line and eventually get in. This place is unreal. As soon as im in line i understand that its a different crowd than im used too. Much older and seems to be more exclusive, youngest girl is like 25 and the dudes are all like 30 with money... intimidating. I get in there and ive never seen so may real actual turbos before in my life. Theres at least three actual tens. Ahhh fuck im intimidated. My friends still havent arrived so im still solo per usual. Everybody is older than me and the girls are all gold diggjng or looking for blow from these older dudes. #outofmyelement. I grab a beer and dont approach. Eventually grab my sack and run an approach. Older girl. I opem with your cute and hey and the shit tests start flying. She wants me to fail them, i pass for just a second but eventually fail and im blown out.
(Even tho i do get blown out i can clearly envision how i could pass all of them.. just need practice). Chode around more and eventually open by one of the bars. Girls name is sam, and mines cam. I joke around teling her i cant be with her our names are too alike she likes it. I eject. (If i keep on ejecting on good sets im going to hit myself with a two by four). I almost leave but my friends show up. This gives me some good vibes. I grab beer with my one buddy, reeeally hot black girl tries to shove past me so i open her. Shes hot. Shes touching me. She can tell im a champ, but still she blows me out quick and i see her run back to some older dude whos like 35. I walk through the crowd, spot a reaally hot older girl, i open her. Doesnt even give me the time of day really. Chode around chode around. My roommate is dancing with my othr buddy and his gf and gets fools mate with some with some 33 year old. I should be happy for him but it just pisses me off and he gets all cocky about it. Grrr. Lol. I struggle to open again. Wander around almost time to go and im frustrated, i just grab some girl while shes dancing. She loves it and asks me what my name is. I look around like im tryin to be secretative and say its julio. Shes laughs. Nothing i say makes any kind of logical sense. Works great. I was just goofing around while being pyschical. Very much myself. My buddy gets me cause we're going to leave. I eject. We're waiting for my roommate whos still with 33 year old foolsmate. I go back to the hot girl i just grabbed and dance some more. Eventually she ejects. Place is emptyimg out. I still consider that one a win. Taxi home. Alright.
The second venue i went to was probally the most intimidating venue i could go to. Especialy when i was solo at first. My fearof rejection is being wittled away every time i go out. I give less and less of a shit and as i give less and less of a shit more of my actual awesome personality comes out. I catch glimpses of it every now and then like the last set were i was so fuckin money and self amused, but purely for me, not to impress her. It became apparent to me that i have sooo much fucking potential. Deep down, im soo much more awesome than any of those douchy guys with their blow and money and egos. I have no doubt that very soon i will surpase all those guys, regardless of how old i am. Girls love my natural personality, i just need to practice letting it out. I have so much potential, i can feel it, i catch glimpses, and sometimes i can just envision it. I have no doubt i will become unbeivelably great at this just gotta work it out. Reminds me of sports, its so exciting when you train and practice and you first start to see glimpses of how good you can be and you practice harder and go deeper. Its addicting and so exciting. Fuck im pumped up lol.
On the negative side however i need to cut out waitng around to get my first approach in. Once i get that first one done im good but i make myself wait around for it. Annoying. Also i should be entitled to those tens. Need to approach them more to get that. Stop ejecting on good interactions! If im going to get older girls who arent interested in dating me because of my age, not that i want to date them anyways, over the rich old dudes im going to need to be more awesome and give the girls value.. which for me would be sex and laughter. Thats it. Be sexual, pyschical, and my awesome laughing self. Booom.
Fuck so excited.
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ah shit... havent written a fr for the last couple outings.
its monday after the saint paddy's day parade weekend and shit was crazy, witnessed some gang violence and multiple fights. Everybody gets way to drunk and becomes a tough guy this single weekend out of the year, super annoying. Plus they've all got their "boys" with them so it makes 'em even tougher lol. Incredible time regardless. Just made gaming conditiions a little different. My best friend and ultimate wingman came down to visit for a couple days, great to see him (dude if you happen to read this... suck it).
Anywaaaays
Friday Night
My wing, kevin, and i go to a bar that i was hoping would be filled with hot young college girls. Its 11 and doesn't look promising, we peace and head over to whats quickly becoming my new favorite friday venue. Been there before in these field reports for friday. Sweet place with a dancefloor in the back that is the hub of the party, great dj's, and insane strob and stuff. Only negative is it makes it difficult to tell how hot the girl your approaching is on account of the lighting. We wait in line for a little to get in, wait in line a little for coat check, walk toward the dfloor and kevin pushes me into my first set (i like it... no pussying around for like ten minutes to get that first one in) I open. Goes well. Shes a little chunky i eject. Can't even remember what happens next, we both open a couple times and regroup back at the front bar after losing eachother for a while. Kevin is doing well, he seems pretty pumped to be actively cold approaching for once instead of his usual small college social circle game. I open a tall hottie, shes really tall, 5'11, too tall. I figure i'll push the interaction regardless and lead her to the dance floor. I really couldn't give a shit. We make out and i go to bite her ear a little and accidently take off her ear ring, hahahaha. oops. It falls onto the dancefloor and is gone. She tells me not to worry about it and continue to makeout. By this time i'm growing bored and really don't like her that much. Try to eject and shes clinging. Drain my beer so i can have an excuse to leave. Kevin meanwhile had opened her friend and although i can't remember exactly had her at the dance floor and i'm pretty sure got a makeout. We eventually eject from the respective girls and regroup and hide from them. More opens and stuff nothing really noteworthy. What was very noteworthy for me however was that i distinctly remember NOT ever really getting in state but i still forced myself to approach. I do remember approaching two or three real turbo's and getting blown out by them. GOOD! I wasn't having the best night, shit wasn't flowing great, but i still approached what i considered two reaaally hard 9's. I like it. My tonality wasn't great however on either and entitlement was presumeably low. Lots of approaches overall, a makeout and just general fun. I'm having a hard time remembering exactly how the night went, i'm writing this on monday but i distinctly remember never really getting in state and approaching those hotties. Regardless good for me.
Lessons: continue to approach the smokeshows, that was good. Eye contact is key. Escalation is key. Leading is key. Tonality is of the utmost importance. Remember what i hope will be the overarching theme of this journal, i am simply enough. I'm good enough for any girl ever exactly as i am today, although i will continue to move myself forward and constantly improve, and that in of itself is what makes me inheritidly enough. I am enough.
Great night. Lots of fun with some hilarious moments. Tall girl i made out with proceeded to stalk me the rest of the night and become super attached, and i gave her just enough attention to keep her hooked. She was really stalking the shit out of me. I need to not give a shit on that level with every girl i approach. I need to really not care. Every rejection or good interaction only takes me further and further to not giving a shit anymore.
its monday after the saint paddy's day parade weekend and shit was crazy, witnessed some gang violence and multiple fights. Everybody gets way to drunk and becomes a tough guy this single weekend out of the year, super annoying. Plus they've all got their "boys" with them so it makes 'em even tougher lol. Incredible time regardless. Just made gaming conditiions a little different. My best friend and ultimate wingman came down to visit for a couple days, great to see him (dude if you happen to read this... suck it).
Anywaaaays
Friday Night
My wing, kevin, and i go to a bar that i was hoping would be filled with hot young college girls. Its 11 and doesn't look promising, we peace and head over to whats quickly becoming my new favorite friday venue. Been there before in these field reports for friday. Sweet place with a dancefloor in the back that is the hub of the party, great dj's, and insane strob and stuff. Only negative is it makes it difficult to tell how hot the girl your approaching is on account of the lighting. We wait in line for a little to get in, wait in line a little for coat check, walk toward the dfloor and kevin pushes me into my first set (i like it... no pussying around for like ten minutes to get that first one in) I open. Goes well. Shes a little chunky i eject. Can't even remember what happens next, we both open a couple times and regroup back at the front bar after losing eachother for a while. Kevin is doing well, he seems pretty pumped to be actively cold approaching for once instead of his usual small college social circle game. I open a tall hottie, shes really tall, 5'11, too tall. I figure i'll push the interaction regardless and lead her to the dance floor. I really couldn't give a shit. We make out and i go to bite her ear a little and accidently take off her ear ring, hahahaha. oops. It falls onto the dancefloor and is gone. She tells me not to worry about it and continue to makeout. By this time i'm growing bored and really don't like her that much. Try to eject and shes clinging. Drain my beer so i can have an excuse to leave. Kevin meanwhile had opened her friend and although i can't remember exactly had her at the dance floor and i'm pretty sure got a makeout. We eventually eject from the respective girls and regroup and hide from them. More opens and stuff nothing really noteworthy. What was very noteworthy for me however was that i distinctly remember NOT ever really getting in state but i still forced myself to approach. I do remember approaching two or three real turbo's and getting blown out by them. GOOD! I wasn't having the best night, shit wasn't flowing great, but i still approached what i considered two reaaally hard 9's. I like it. My tonality wasn't great however on either and entitlement was presumeably low. Lots of approaches overall, a makeout and just general fun. I'm having a hard time remembering exactly how the night went, i'm writing this on monday but i distinctly remember never really getting in state and approaching those hotties. Regardless good for me.
Lessons: continue to approach the smokeshows, that was good. Eye contact is key. Escalation is key. Leading is key. Tonality is of the utmost importance. Remember what i hope will be the overarching theme of this journal, i am simply enough. I'm good enough for any girl ever exactly as i am today, although i will continue to move myself forward and constantly improve, and that in of itself is what makes me inheritidly enough. I am enough.
Great night. Lots of fun with some hilarious moments. Tall girl i made out with proceeded to stalk me the rest of the night and become super attached, and i gave her just enough attention to keep her hooked. She was really stalking the shit out of me. I need to not give a shit on that level with every girl i approach. I need to really not care. Every rejection or good interaction only takes me further and further to not giving a shit anymore.
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Saturday
Everybody was nuts all weekend on account of saint paddy's.
Kevin and I went downtown toward a string of bars were tons of people were already out by about five or six. Lines for bars were insane and the bars were demanding 20 or 30 dollar covers. I had to piss really bad so we walked around and struggled to find a bathroom for a while eventually do and after i can relax again and not pee my pants lol we decide to hit up some day game. Approach a couple sets each and do some good stuff. Kevin even filmed me in one set with his iphone (Yeaahhh doggy!!). I remember nothing being too stellar, but one noteworthy instance was when i saw a much older smokeshow, really really hot, and i made lazer eye contact with her as we were walking toward eachother. I thought i said hi on the way by but i don't think she heard it, but the eye contact was there, and she said "oh he was cute" as she walked away. (in hindsight... GO GET HER!). but... just goes to illustrate to me. I AM ENOUGH. even with those 28-29-30 year old 9,10's i seem to have entitlement issues with. Girls naturally find me attractive. I was just as high energy in the daygame as i was at night. Its literally the same just tougher to find sets and takes longer inbetween so its not as good. I think i approached maybe three times with some other kinda halfass eye contact bullshit and half opens were i just yelled at girls for no reason and they still positively responded. btw... the amount of stuff you can get away with is only limited to what you think you can get away with... i need to let more of my actual personality out.. its way more fun and ridiculous.
The set kevin filmed with his iphone was kinda cool to see. I got the girls number and she loved me and in my mind during that set i was doing a good job being pyschical, but on camera i got definitly have been more so. I think what will help me is standing closer to the girl when i talk, my proximity to her is not as close as what i thought it was. Maybe ill post it up here. It would be good to see to remind myself. I need to stand closer to her when i talk and open, makes it easier to get psychical and increases the tension, if she is uncomfortable just back out a little. Julien had some good material on this.
Everybody was nuts all weekend on account of saint paddy's.
Kevin and I went downtown toward a string of bars were tons of people were already out by about five or six. Lines for bars were insane and the bars were demanding 20 or 30 dollar covers. I had to piss really bad so we walked around and struggled to find a bathroom for a while eventually do and after i can relax again and not pee my pants lol we decide to hit up some day game. Approach a couple sets each and do some good stuff. Kevin even filmed me in one set with his iphone (Yeaahhh doggy!!). I remember nothing being too stellar, but one noteworthy instance was when i saw a much older smokeshow, really really hot, and i made lazer eye contact with her as we were walking toward eachother. I thought i said hi on the way by but i don't think she heard it, but the eye contact was there, and she said "oh he was cute" as she walked away. (in hindsight... GO GET HER!). but... just goes to illustrate to me. I AM ENOUGH. even with those 28-29-30 year old 9,10's i seem to have entitlement issues with. Girls naturally find me attractive. I was just as high energy in the daygame as i was at night. Its literally the same just tougher to find sets and takes longer inbetween so its not as good. I think i approached maybe three times with some other kinda halfass eye contact bullshit and half opens were i just yelled at girls for no reason and they still positively responded. btw... the amount of stuff you can get away with is only limited to what you think you can get away with... i need to let more of my actual personality out.. its way more fun and ridiculous.
The set kevin filmed with his iphone was kinda cool to see. I got the girls number and she loved me and in my mind during that set i was doing a good job being pyschical, but on camera i got definitly have been more so. I think what will help me is standing closer to the girl when i talk, my proximity to her is not as close as what i thought it was. Maybe ill post it up here. It would be good to see to remind myself. I need to stand closer to her when i talk and open, makes it easier to get psychical and increases the tension, if she is uncomfortable just back out a little. Julien had some good material on this.
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Saturday Night
Felt good after getting in some day game earlier. Kevin and I had planned to go to one of the sweetest clubs in the city, i know a girl who works there. We go, get there early assuming it will packed because of saint paddy's and the city is still in a state of chaos. Chill out in the back just sitting around talking waiting for it to fill up, but it never really does. Turns out to be a really bad night for the place and not many girls, and lots of guido type dudes. greeeaaat. We run a few approaches each anyways. My first set is a cutie on the dancefloor and i'm thinking just warm up. I open great tonality, stop her from dancing friends back off and leave me to her. I chit chat for a little but i'm not warm and its not flowing. (Ejecting on a good set?!? nah i've NEVER DONE THAT BEFORE!!! dammit). I eject. Kevin and i go back to chilling. Nothings really doing at the cluuub. We decide to leave but to get any approaches we can find on the way out in. I approached two more girls, a tall girl with a fattie friend who was literally leading her around. I open the tall friend and fatty friend just pulls her away. Somewhat hilarious the way it happened lol. She was really hot. Good for me for opening a real hottie. We can't find much else, i find what i think is the hottest girl there walking toward me on the way out try to open, tonality is weak, she just doesn't even acknowledge and keeps on walking. I could feel my tonality crumble at that uber hottie on the last approach. VOCAL TONALITY IS VERY IMPORTANT lol. I am extremely glad i tried tho, need to keep on approaching the hottest and most intimidating girls possible so they no longer scare me. It makes approaching regular cuties way easier.
We bounce to another area of the city, and its utter chaos. We watch two white dudes get jumped by about 10 black dudes, one guy gets stomped on repeatedly. unnacceptable behaivor. See another fight and then another. The bars have stopped letting people in and we suddenly change our minds on running street game lol. The entire city is in a drunken and violent delirium of some kind. Didn't like it. Goddam saint paddy's in beantown. Everybody thinks they're tough all of a sudden when they've got about ten friends with them. Oh well, at least we get a cab and get back to the apartment safely. Didn't run any more sets after leaving the club but i really think street game was fucked at that point (hopefully the only time i will be putting excuses up here like that... but really, it was getting pretty dangerous by about 1 a.m.).
Good stuff: stepped to the hottest girls i could find
bad stuff: wasn't entittled with the hottest girls i could find, tonality showed it, need to watch the vocal tonality when opening.
Felt good after getting in some day game earlier. Kevin and I had planned to go to one of the sweetest clubs in the city, i know a girl who works there. We go, get there early assuming it will packed because of saint paddy's and the city is still in a state of chaos. Chill out in the back just sitting around talking waiting for it to fill up, but it never really does. Turns out to be a really bad night for the place and not many girls, and lots of guido type dudes. greeeaaat. We run a few approaches each anyways. My first set is a cutie on the dancefloor and i'm thinking just warm up. I open great tonality, stop her from dancing friends back off and leave me to her. I chit chat for a little but i'm not warm and its not flowing. (Ejecting on a good set?!? nah i've NEVER DONE THAT BEFORE!!! dammit). I eject. Kevin and i go back to chilling. Nothings really doing at the cluuub. We decide to leave but to get any approaches we can find on the way out in. I approached two more girls, a tall girl with a fattie friend who was literally leading her around. I open the tall friend and fatty friend just pulls her away. Somewhat hilarious the way it happened lol. She was really hot. Good for me for opening a real hottie. We can't find much else, i find what i think is the hottest girl there walking toward me on the way out try to open, tonality is weak, she just doesn't even acknowledge and keeps on walking. I could feel my tonality crumble at that uber hottie on the last approach. VOCAL TONALITY IS VERY IMPORTANT lol. I am extremely glad i tried tho, need to keep on approaching the hottest and most intimidating girls possible so they no longer scare me. It makes approaching regular cuties way easier.
We bounce to another area of the city, and its utter chaos. We watch two white dudes get jumped by about 10 black dudes, one guy gets stomped on repeatedly. unnacceptable behaivor. See another fight and then another. The bars have stopped letting people in and we suddenly change our minds on running street game lol. The entire city is in a drunken and violent delirium of some kind. Didn't like it. Goddam saint paddy's in beantown. Everybody thinks they're tough all of a sudden when they've got about ten friends with them. Oh well, at least we get a cab and get back to the apartment safely. Didn't run any more sets after leaving the club but i really think street game was fucked at that point (hopefully the only time i will be putting excuses up here like that... but really, it was getting pretty dangerous by about 1 a.m.).
Good stuff: stepped to the hottest girls i could find
bad stuff: wasn't entittled with the hottest girls i could find, tonality showed it, need to watch the vocal tonality when opening.
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Sunday- parade day
Wandered around with my buddy for a while didn't approach much. Probably sets to be had but we were not in "game" mode. Meet some friends wander the parade more. Make heavy eye contact with a hb brunette and i just say "hi" as my group of friends is standing relatively close. She says "hi" back, she wants it. I chill and joke around with friends causing scenes. Our group goes to walk away to go further down the street the parade is on, i stop and open the hb brunette "hi your cute." goes great... i don't push the interaction and eject!!!! MOTHER FUCKER! I NEED TO STOP DOING THAT! lol. she looks sad when i walk away.
i am enough.
all i gotta do is show up, drop some eye contact, get pyshical, and DONT EJECT. nothing more than that really. Sometimes i run out of shit to talk about and thats why i eject. yeah don't... i think i'm going to try going non-logical a lot more, i think its very congruent to my goofy personality and how i love the fuuuun. It will give me more shit to talk about. Anything is good really... doesn't matter what the fuck i'm talking about.
but seriously... i really am enough. I just show up and look at her and i get attraction.
Wandered around with my buddy for a while didn't approach much. Probably sets to be had but we were not in "game" mode. Meet some friends wander the parade more. Make heavy eye contact with a hb brunette and i just say "hi" as my group of friends is standing relatively close. She says "hi" back, she wants it. I chill and joke around with friends causing scenes. Our group goes to walk away to go further down the street the parade is on, i stop and open the hb brunette "hi your cute." goes great... i don't push the interaction and eject!!!! MOTHER FUCKER! I NEED TO STOP DOING THAT! lol. she looks sad when i walk away.
i am enough.
all i gotta do is show up, drop some eye contact, get pyshical, and DONT EJECT. nothing more than that really. Sometimes i run out of shit to talk about and thats why i eject. yeah don't... i think i'm going to try going non-logical a lot more, i think its very congruent to my goofy personality and how i love the fuuuun. It will give me more shit to talk about. Anything is good really... doesn't matter what the fuck i'm talking about.
but seriously... i really am enough. I just show up and look at her and i get attraction.
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tuesday night:
Show up at a college bar i have to keep on going back to because i can't find anything else on tuesday's. dammmit. Before i even get there i'm rattled, and start to wonder if its going to be the same girls that i've already hit up, basically have i overfished this pond? I get there and in many respects i have... theres only about 5-6 sets, i think about two of which already have girls i had opened in previous weeks. this makes me not want to open those sets. I open once really cold, goes okay, get rattled and go home. never been so pissed at myself. I was worried about appearing "creepy" and being "that creepy guy who keeps on trying to talk to us." obviously not good and complete bs. that enviroment is tough for me when i go solo and everyone there already knows each other and is just hanging with their friends. Thats no excuse however, still need to open, especially because the girls want to talk to me anyways. grrrrrr. ups and downs. more motivation for when i go out TOONNIIIIIGHT!! so tonight... open open open open open. like a booossss. remember... i am enough! peace.
Show up at a college bar i have to keep on going back to because i can't find anything else on tuesday's. dammmit. Before i even get there i'm rattled, and start to wonder if its going to be the same girls that i've already hit up, basically have i overfished this pond? I get there and in many respects i have... theres only about 5-6 sets, i think about two of which already have girls i had opened in previous weeks. this makes me not want to open those sets. I open once really cold, goes okay, get rattled and go home. never been so pissed at myself. I was worried about appearing "creepy" and being "that creepy guy who keeps on trying to talk to us." obviously not good and complete bs. that enviroment is tough for me when i go solo and everyone there already knows each other and is just hanging with their friends. Thats no excuse however, still need to open, especially because the girls want to talk to me anyways. grrrrrr. ups and downs. more motivation for when i go out TOONNIIIIIGHT!! so tonight... open open open open open. like a booossss. remember... i am enough! peace.
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Friday continued
I leave the bar and catch th train to the other side of town to meet up with my roomie whos bouncing at another bar.
As im walking toward his bar a girl is sitting on the steps of a bar with a dude, she goes "oh hes cute" as i walk by. Shes hot but like thirty so i turn around andkeep on walking but face her and give a nice smile. She loves it, surprisingly dude yells come back. I realize hes gay and put two and two together in my head. Hes likes no really come back. Flattering... but weird. I keep on walking. Stop at a bar that lokks crowded.just down the street from my buddies. Its all old people dam. Wheel around the bar and spot one reeeally cute blonde girl. I open with thr usual shit, get her to hook, and again run out of steam. God lol. Try to find another target but theres nothing. Peace go to my buddies bar and as im walking in a 40 year old woman exclaims im hot. I tell her thanks. Chill with my brooo until the bar closes in a.couple minutes.
Conclusion: i consistently get attraction and then dont know what to do with it. I open like a fucking champion every time and then just fizzle out. Once i open i really dont know what to do. I feel like i have sooo muuuch poootential right now its not even funny. Girls find me attractive. Especially on a night likelast night were i thought of myslef as attractive... they inheritdly like me and find me attractive. I just need to give them more of my real personality so they can let it happen. Its kinda like the girls expect me to be just plain awesome and then i disapoint them a little when my game isnt that tight or congruent to how sweet of a dude i am. So once i open direct wtf do i do? Escalte probally i guess. Im noticing that i often fail to get pyshical.
Good stuff: i opened well and girs are generalky attracted to me.
Bad stuff: its like ricky bobby in an interview "what do i do with ny hands!?" Once i get attraction or open... now what?