THE FORUMS
it is often just a collusion of frames. who falls in whose frame. mine is stronger!
i just DO NOT LET GO OF MY GIRL. the girlfriend has no chance whatsoever to drag her away. if she is able to drag her away you have to claw harder.
while i have the girl it is really just texbook shit. try everything, from befriending the friend:
do it with a smirk and if the friend falls in your frame you talk to her
a few minutes to get cool with her, then turn around and talk again to
your girl, the cockblock is then often times just a spectator and does
nothing.
invite her then into the conversation but do not let go of
your girl! the frame is: you are a cool guy and you have a cool
conversation with the girls, friend to friend with the CB and somewhat
sexual with your girl. smooth sailing!
to just saying " go get your own friends. you are on your own now. go go go!" (like tyler in his video: you're done in this town, get the fuck out of here!)
false time constraining is mostly a good option. "two minutes. i'm trustworthy and sober. 2 minutes. give love a chance!" if she comes back after than just repeat it and pull your girl away from her.
if you are lucky your wing is near you at this time so you can throw the cockblock friend onto him. if not the only chance available is to exchance numbers, secretly (!!) and let her go.
i just DO NOT LET GO OF MY GIRL. the girlfriend has no chance whatsoever to drag her away. if she is able to drag her away you have to claw harder.
while i have the girl it is really just texbook shit. try everything, from befriending the friend:
do it with a smirk and if the friend falls in your frame you talk to her
a few minutes to get cool with her, then turn around and talk again to
your girl, the cockblock is then often times just a spectator and does
nothing.
invite her then into the conversation but do not let go of
your girl! the frame is: you are a cool guy and you have a cool
conversation with the girls, friend to friend with the CB and somewhat
sexual with your girl. smooth sailing!
to just saying " go get your own friends. you are on your own now. go go go!" (like tyler in his video: you're done in this town, get the fuck out of here!)
false time constraining is mostly a good option. "two minutes. i'm trustworthy and sober. 2 minutes. give love a chance!" if she comes back after than just repeat it and pull your girl away from her.
if you are lucky your wing is near you at this time so you can throw the cockblock friend onto him. if not the only chance available is to exchance numbers, secretly (!!) and let her go.
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25.04.12 - launching the rocket
wooow. was hard yesterday. drove right after work to my FB. did my thang and then fall asleep at hers. woke up at about 11 and was damaged as fuck. whatever. got in the venue at about 1215 getting the motor started. standing at the bar then met a friend with her boyfriend, chit chat for a bit and danced for a while.
little girl walks behind me. she is so tiny i just insult her for not being 18. she shows me her ID. she's 22, good for her, chat a bit, then let her go.
dance some more. loving my life to the fullest. i feel happy.
hot ass girl with her crew walks in the venue. i cut in:
"it's boring here tonight. GO HOME!" haha. she is in love.
claw her in and tell her she has to go because it's boring. her girlfriends look angry and she goes to the wardrobe to get rid of her jacket. never to be seen again.
hot blonde. i think about going in but whatever. hustlers gonna hustle.
go in. introduce. claw. then talk about how shitty it is today. she is not feeling it, neither do i. she has to go.
older women stands in front of me. she opens me with some dance stuff. i tell her she is not gangster enough. accuse her on not being gangster enough. she stars to crip walk (WTF?!) accuse her on being too gangster. haha. it's not going anywhere so i just have fun.
leave at about 2am.
things i did right:
+got my kino pretty good down
+i do "harder" sets now with more hot girls
+i launched the rocket and got somewhat in the zone
+i did go out approaching
things i did wrong:
+somethimes i did not feel it
+should have persisted more with the girls
+should have not lt the jacket girl go. she was pretty cute and felt attracted pretty much.
things i've learned:
+even after feeling FUCKED UP i can fell happy and relaxed after a few minutes in the club
+i fucking love pimpin. i mean what else should i do?!
+i fucking love my life
+just be congruent but kino is necessary. withoug it is not going anywhere.
got 8 hours of work ahead of me. my eyes are red and i look like a herion addicted drug zombie.
going to meet the rich porsche girl in the evening, then pimping afterwards. live is good.
wooow. was hard yesterday. drove right after work to my FB. did my thang and then fall asleep at hers. woke up at about 11 and was damaged as fuck. whatever. got in the venue at about 1215 getting the motor started. standing at the bar then met a friend with her boyfriend, chit chat for a bit and danced for a while.
little girl walks behind me. she is so tiny i just insult her for not being 18. she shows me her ID. she's 22, good for her, chat a bit, then let her go.
dance some more. loving my life to the fullest. i feel happy.
hot ass girl with her crew walks in the venue. i cut in:
"it's boring here tonight. GO HOME!" haha. she is in love.
claw her in and tell her she has to go because it's boring. her girlfriends look angry and she goes to the wardrobe to get rid of her jacket. never to be seen again.
hot blonde. i think about going in but whatever. hustlers gonna hustle.
go in. introduce. claw. then talk about how shitty it is today. she is not feeling it, neither do i. she has to go.
older women stands in front of me. she opens me with some dance stuff. i tell her she is not gangster enough. accuse her on not being gangster enough. she stars to crip walk (WTF?!) accuse her on being too gangster. haha. it's not going anywhere so i just have fun.
leave at about 2am.
things i did right:
+got my kino pretty good down
+i do "harder" sets now with more hot girls
+i launched the rocket and got somewhat in the zone
+i did go out approaching
things i did wrong:
+somethimes i did not feel it
+should have persisted more with the girls
+should have not lt the jacket girl go. she was pretty cute and felt attracted pretty much.
things i've learned:
+even after feeling FUCKED UP i can fell happy and relaxed after a few minutes in the club
+i fucking love pimpin. i mean what else should i do?!
+i fucking love my life
+just be congruent but kino is necessary. withoug it is not going anywhere.
got 8 hours of work ahead of me. my eyes are red and i look like a herion addicted drug zombie.
going to meet the rich porsche girl in the evening, then pimping afterwards. live is good.
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26.04.2012 - good girls vs. LMR
club was pretty empty. beasted with my wing on all them good girls but nothing hooked.
was pretty strange. received major attraction after my opening. did it like brad explained in his new video on the frontpage. works pretty nicely. did claw in and talked in the girls ear the last months but focused on strong EC at the beginning and then clawed in and talked in the ear directly. whatever. got good attraction but after like 30 sec it was gone and the girls wanted to go. pretty strange. guess it was not calibrated enough since they where with friends and stuff. should have backed up after clawing first in and go for some normal convo or so. try it today, at least i calibrate a bit better.
the girl i number closed in the street last wednesday was there. i had a day2 with her on thursday but didnt closed her. it was pretty on in the club, she was drunk and at some point she shows up and says if i want to drive her home to sleep at hers.
no problemo i thought. lol. silly me.
was at hers and received major LMR and stuff. worked trough for at least 2 hours or so. even after putting my dick into her she says that we cant have sex. WTF?!
is it just my girls or is it normally that the pant is more willing to take off than the shirt?!
things i did right:
+even in this empty environment in beasted on ALL them hot girls
+had no "fear" or whatever of hot girls
+opened strong and pretty good
things i did wrong:
+should have more calibrated to "hold" the girls
things i've learned:
+be persistent with them LMR girls!
+hot girls are also just humans
yeeeh. had 1 hour of sleep tonight. my shirt is full of make up and i'm sitting with fucked up hair at work. lol. still feel good. looking forward to tonight!
club was pretty empty. beasted with my wing on all them good girls but nothing hooked.
was pretty strange. received major attraction after my opening. did it like brad explained in his new video on the frontpage. works pretty nicely. did claw in and talked in the girls ear the last months but focused on strong EC at the beginning and then clawed in and talked in the ear directly. whatever. got good attraction but after like 30 sec it was gone and the girls wanted to go. pretty strange. guess it was not calibrated enough since they where with friends and stuff. should have backed up after clawing first in and go for some normal convo or so. try it today, at least i calibrate a bit better.
the girl i number closed in the street last wednesday was there. i had a day2 with her on thursday but didnt closed her. it was pretty on in the club, she was drunk and at some point she shows up and says if i want to drive her home to sleep at hers.
no problemo i thought. lol. silly me.
was at hers and received major LMR and stuff. worked trough for at least 2 hours or so. even after putting my dick into her she says that we cant have sex. WTF?!
is it just my girls or is it normally that the pant is more willing to take off than the shirt?!
things i did right:
+even in this empty environment in beasted on ALL them hot girls
+had no "fear" or whatever of hot girls
+opened strong and pretty good
things i did wrong:
+should have more calibrated to "hold" the girls
things i've learned:
+be persistent with them LMR girls!
+hot girls are also just humans
yeeeh. had 1 hour of sleep tonight. my shirt is full of make up and i'm sitting with fucked up hair at work. lol. still feel good. looking forward to tonight!
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friday 27.04.2012 - juiceheads and white knights on roids
first of all i found out why i received this major LMR last night. because the girl has a boyfriend. lol. THERE IS NO LOVE IN THIS WORLD! was at hers again and had good times. maybe she's going into my rotation. we'll see.
wanted to go to a new venue but turns out it is empty and will get full at about 3am or so, so decided to go to my regular venue *sad*. roll up with my buddy and meet 2girlfriends of ours. do some chit chat with my favorite barkeeper girl as usual and then walk in. it's a fucking disaster. either the girls are old and ugly or i beasted them nights ago. lol. for real a few girls even waved at me and stuff.
this city is too damn small. had some fun and danced. talked to a few girls but it was not going anywhere because of my lack of attraction. then this blonde one with her girlfriend shows up. blonde one is kinda cute but older than me, like 30 or so. she's from lithuania and loves me after some deep eye contact. gives me some shit like "i'm too old for you" and stuff. i grab her and say that we going to dance now. it's totally stuffed on the the dancefloor so it is not going anywhere. some dude shows up, girlfriend is not amused of me. i let her go.
some chit chat in between. i get some kind of pissed because of all this ugly people in the club. then see this tall, tight blonde one with her girlfriend. i tap her on the shoulder. hand of god. claw her in and give her some deep eye contact. then i just talk about how pissed i am because of all this ugly people in here, how i'm the only attractive one in this club, that it's way too hot, that i want to go home and have some sleep, that i have a headache because of my major lack of sleep and so on. she loves it and qualifies her in a major way. SHE IS A FUCKING MODEL FOR ADIDAS and stuff. after like 10 mins in this warm bubble of love a dude shows up, says he has to talk to her for a minute. i ask her if she knows him. she says it's a friend. i say "you can have her in two minutes" but he draggs her away. i follow but then this steroid gang shows up. 5 really big dudes who just love to inject some roids. the even get phisical, pushing me away and stuff. i tap the girl on the shoulder and like julien i say "really, this? come on. really?! this?! haha, no. come. go." one of the white knights grabbs my arm and says if i talk to her again he is going to break it. lol. i don't even look at him. tap my girl again and try to pull her out of this mess. nogo. white knights are not amused. pushing me away and stuff. finally the girl makes her way trough the boys. says if i'm really interested in her i have to come tomorrow to this and this venue. she will be there without the dudes. bla bla. i say "gimme your number real quick, nobody is going to see this, i give you a call" nogo. she repeats that i have to come to this venue. then she is dragged away again from the steroid boys.
then i see the blonde lithuanian girl again. she is also with a steroid guy. then i get even more pissed. then i chill at the bar and give this venue a closer look. there are only juiceheads this day. like the zoo has opened his gates. lol. i get pissed because there is no cute girl in sight. i get pissed because the model girl was dragged away from white knights who won't even fuck her because of their lack of game. i get pissed because i know everybody. chill some more with my friends. then call it a night at about 3am.
received a booty call. fucked my pain away and had some good sleep. finally.
things i did right:
+ i persisted like a pit bull
+ i opened strong and did not let go
+ laser eye staredown
+ freedom from outcome
+ had fun
+ had ICE
things i did wrong:
+ got somewhat pissed and did not open sets because of that
things i've learned:
+ this city is too small. like for real.
+ congruency to your feelings, compared with clawing and laser eye staredown is the king.
+ i have to move away from here ASAP!
first of all i found out why i received this major LMR last night. because the girl has a boyfriend. lol. THERE IS NO LOVE IN THIS WORLD! was at hers again and had good times. maybe she's going into my rotation. we'll see.
wanted to go to a new venue but turns out it is empty and will get full at about 3am or so, so decided to go to my regular venue *sad*. roll up with my buddy and meet 2girlfriends of ours. do some chit chat with my favorite barkeeper girl as usual and then walk in. it's a fucking disaster. either the girls are old and ugly or i beasted them nights ago. lol. for real a few girls even waved at me and stuff.
this city is too damn small. had some fun and danced. talked to a few girls but it was not going anywhere because of my lack of attraction. then this blonde one with her girlfriend shows up. blonde one is kinda cute but older than me, like 30 or so. she's from lithuania and loves me after some deep eye contact. gives me some shit like "i'm too old for you" and stuff. i grab her and say that we going to dance now. it's totally stuffed on the the dancefloor so it is not going anywhere. some dude shows up, girlfriend is not amused of me. i let her go.
some chit chat in between. i get some kind of pissed because of all this ugly people in the club. then see this tall, tight blonde one with her girlfriend. i tap her on the shoulder. hand of god. claw her in and give her some deep eye contact. then i just talk about how pissed i am because of all this ugly people in here, how i'm the only attractive one in this club, that it's way too hot, that i want to go home and have some sleep, that i have a headache because of my major lack of sleep and so on. she loves it and qualifies her in a major way. SHE IS A FUCKING MODEL FOR ADIDAS and stuff. after like 10 mins in this warm bubble of love a dude shows up, says he has to talk to her for a minute. i ask her if she knows him. she says it's a friend. i say "you can have her in two minutes" but he draggs her away. i follow but then this steroid gang shows up. 5 really big dudes who just love to inject some roids. the even get phisical, pushing me away and stuff. i tap the girl on the shoulder and like julien i say "really, this? come on. really?! this?! haha, no. come. go." one of the white knights grabbs my arm and says if i talk to her again he is going to break it. lol. i don't even look at him. tap my girl again and try to pull her out of this mess. nogo. white knights are not amused. pushing me away and stuff. finally the girl makes her way trough the boys. says if i'm really interested in her i have to come tomorrow to this and this venue. she will be there without the dudes. bla bla. i say "gimme your number real quick, nobody is going to see this, i give you a call" nogo. she repeats that i have to come to this venue. then she is dragged away again from the steroid boys.
then i see the blonde lithuanian girl again. she is also with a steroid guy. then i get even more pissed. then i chill at the bar and give this venue a closer look. there are only juiceheads this day. like the zoo has opened his gates. lol. i get pissed because there is no cute girl in sight. i get pissed because the model girl was dragged away from white knights who won't even fuck her because of their lack of game. i get pissed because i know everybody. chill some more with my friends. then call it a night at about 3am.
received a booty call. fucked my pain away and had some good sleep. finally.
things i did right:
+ i persisted like a pit bull
+ i opened strong and did not let go
+ laser eye staredown
+ freedom from outcome
+ had fun
+ had ICE
things i did wrong:
+ got somewhat pissed and did not open sets because of that
things i've learned:
+ this city is too small. like for real.
+ congruency to your feelings, compared with clawing and laser eye staredown is the king.
+ i have to move away from here ASAP!
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Adidas girl: I hate it when shit like that happens! This is why it's good to take the number early, just to be on the save side logistically (all to the contrary to what Julien says "only take number if pull is impossible!").
Huge props for the balls you showed in that situation!
Huge props for the balls you showed in that situation!
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"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
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naww i would not recommend on takin the number that early, it would destroy the natural way of the conversation.
either it happens or not. you cant controll the way the world works and this fact is just beautiful.
i only got pissed because of the fact that there where no other girls in sight.
thanks for the props. i was proud of myself too. pushing the comfort zone and gaining reference points is all that matters!
either it happens or not. you cant controll the way the world works and this fact is just beautiful.
i only got pissed because of the fact that there where no other girls in sight.
thanks for the props. i was proud of myself too. pushing the comfort zone and gaining reference points is all that matters!
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monday 30.04.12 - bitches be hatin
went to this small venue with r'n'b n stuff. met a few girlfriends but was tired as fuck.had a headache and did not wanted to approach or so. after 1.5 hous of choding around and dancin i stood at the balcony, this girl with a cell walked by and i just yelled in the phone that the other participant should not come due the fact that it is too hot and stuff. girl loves it. we talk a bit. i found out that she is a bit "larger" and lost interest.
second set this 2 set with my wing. he goes in. i after him. BAM BAM. double blowout. haha. my girl just puts her finger up in front and says "no". i do the same and continue but nogo. bitches be hatin.
third set this older girl, black haired. put out the hand of god. does not work so i just stand there for like 2 mins with my hand in the air. frame control. haha. then we talk but nogo. she goes. dafugggg bitches be hatin again.
third set this blonde stunner i go with the "DEMAND OF GOD" something i have invented and works for 99% . she comes to me, i say hi, she says hi, then she feels awkward, she left. i follow. haha. nogo.
bitches be hatin AGAIN!
fourth set this 2 set with my wing again. i tap her on the shoulder and she just goes away. i do not follow. enough of this hatin stuff.
fifth set is this girl who accidently rans into me, she says sorry i say this is not enough, we talk, she has a ring, i take it and say now we're even. she wants it back. we marry. she goes. i say DAFUGGG. wing says DAFUGGG i say you're right. pull her back in take her number. we leave the venue to do some street stuff.
approached 3 sets in the street but it was not going anywhere.
drove home.
things i did right:
+did approached even if a was fucked up
+persisted like a pit bull
+approached only 9+ girls (except for the street)
+followed the new "3times rule" where you go in 3 times even if you were blown out at the first time
things i did wrong:
+was sometimes reaction seeking
things i've learned:
+something is different with 9+ girls. my game works good on 7s and SOMETIMES a 9 or a 10 but not consistently. need to figur that out. guess the answer is the 2hour alex video combined with the new tyler video (youtube->rsdfreetour)
yeah. summer in germany. going to chill now in the park.
went to this small venue with r'n'b n stuff. met a few girlfriends but was tired as fuck.had a headache and did not wanted to approach or so. after 1.5 hous of choding around and dancin i stood at the balcony, this girl with a cell walked by and i just yelled in the phone that the other participant should not come due the fact that it is too hot and stuff. girl loves it. we talk a bit. i found out that she is a bit "larger" and lost interest.
second set this 2 set with my wing. he goes in. i after him. BAM BAM. double blowout. haha. my girl just puts her finger up in front and says "no". i do the same and continue but nogo. bitches be hatin.
third set this older girl, black haired. put out the hand of god. does not work so i just stand there for like 2 mins with my hand in the air. frame control. haha. then we talk but nogo. she goes. dafugggg bitches be hatin again.
third set this blonde stunner i go with the "DEMAND OF GOD" something i have invented and works for 99% . she comes to me, i say hi, she says hi, then she feels awkward, she left. i follow. haha. nogo.
bitches be hatin AGAIN!
fourth set this 2 set with my wing again. i tap her on the shoulder and she just goes away. i do not follow. enough of this hatin stuff.
fifth set is this girl who accidently rans into me, she says sorry i say this is not enough, we talk, she has a ring, i take it and say now we're even. she wants it back. we marry. she goes. i say DAFUGGG. wing says DAFUGGG i say you're right. pull her back in take her number. we leave the venue to do some street stuff.
approached 3 sets in the street but it was not going anywhere.
drove home.
things i did right:
+did approached even if a was fucked up
+persisted like a pit bull
+approached only 9+ girls (except for the street)
+followed the new "3times rule" where you go in 3 times even if you were blown out at the first time
things i did wrong:
+was sometimes reaction seeking
things i've learned:
+something is different with 9+ girls. my game works good on 7s and SOMETIMES a 9 or a 10 but not consistently. need to figur that out. guess the answer is the 2hour alex video combined with the new tyler video (youtube->rsdfreetour)
yeah. summer in germany. going to chill now in the park.
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wednesday 02.05.12 - being sad
went to the club. the club was empty. did see 3 good girls. did 3 approaches. #1 had a boyfriend who was behind her. #2 got dragged away from her girlfriend. #3 turned out to be ugly when i was in front of her. went home.
the end.
went to the club. the club was empty. did see 3 good girls. did 3 approaches. #1 had a boyfriend who was behind her. #2 got dragged away from her girlfriend. #3 turned out to be ugly when i was in front of her. went home.
the end.
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Can you go into details? How would you react in which situation?
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