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May 22nd, 2017
how to turn a fuck into a fuckbuddy??
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hkmt

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Recently I have been fucking alright (have fucked 19 girls since Jan11). For majority of them I can't even be bothered to meet them again as I can meet new chicks instead... With regards to Perfect10s I would like to bang them again and again. However I don't know how to behave after banging a chick.. For some reason I think I become reactive, thinking the best way to pull her again without looking needy...

For instance I banged a chick on saturday. She wanted to leave but I convinced her to sleep with me. Around 4am she suddenly woke up and left my place saying she wanted to sleep In her bed. This time I didn't insist much. The next day she texted me, "sorry for being rude, I just knew you wouldn't let me go". I waited 24 hours and replied her saying "yeah I was gonna chain you to the bed lucky escape lol...". Since then we haven't spoken yet...

What is the ideal mindset and suitable set of behaviours in order to turn a fuck into a fuck buddy? What is the right time to call the chick etc.. And how can I implement them into this latest case? Its always good to have a fuck buddy on boring sunday evenings lol...
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The Mack

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 call her over to watch a movie
commence to fucking
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Dont mean to judge you, honest question. Why would she want to see you again?

Also a quick overview of your game would help troubleshooting.
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 From my experience when you fuck the shit out of a girl she always wants to keep you around
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Article I wrote a couple of months ago on the matter. May answer some of your questions. Enjoy

Friends with Benefits: Key Elements

You have one-night stands. Then you have long-term relationships. And finally, you have fuck buddies, or the PG version, friends with benefits.

It’s a beautiful thing.

The positives of having a girl friend (well not all of them) without the negatives. Having your cake and eating it too. But my friends, it is a very delicate process and it’s very very easy to mess up the dynamic. And within this article, I will give you the knowledge that I have gained from my fuck ups to my successes. There are several key elements to keep in mind when trying to formulate this social dynamic. Several key mindsets as well, mindsets that will eventually, if expressed enough, will cause the girl to see the world through your eyes and start to believe that sex really just is sex. This is probably one of the most important ones.

SEX IS JUST SEX

It’s no big deal to you. You have it all the time. It’s fun, and you’re good at it. To succeed in this game, you have got to get the girl to categorize you as the “guy she loves to get off to” weather it be after a night of drinking at the bars or while she’s alone at her apartment/dorm and can’t help be a prisoner of her own primal urges. You want to be the guy that pops up in her headfirst. Why? Because she’s knows that to you, sex is just sex. A lot of women view sex as something you share with someone special, which is partly true. But at the same time, we are human beings with primal urges. Sometimes we just want to fuck!
A second element is simple, yet a lot of guys get it wrong.

BE GOOD IN THE SACK

This is no joke. If you’re awkward in bed, cum within 5 minutes of putting it in, or are just weird, they will never hit you up for a repeat. There are plenty of things to read about on the net when it comes to actually having sex, so I wont waste the time to tell you here. Or shit, maybe I’ll write an article on it in the near future?

THE FOLLOW UP PHONE CALL/TEXT

All right kiddos. This is huge. Lets say you bring a girl home/meet her at a party and end up hooking up with her. She leaves in the morning. Two weeks pass without any further communication from you. You text her at 2 am on a Friday asking her, “what’s up”. She will most likely ignore the text message and you will be left with your right hand.

Why? Well look, when setting up such a dynamic you have to be careful not to be explicit about it. The above scenario, the girl with immediately jump to the conclusion that you’re texting her solely for a fuck. That’s way to explicit. She will feel like a piece of meat and pretty much deny you. So one way to get around this is an easy follow up text message.

Couple of days pass after the initial hookup, send her this…

“hello dear. Just checking up on you”

And send it during the day. It’ll show her that you actually care, and you should. She’s a human being with feelings dudes! Not just a talking pocket pussy. It’s called “friends” with benefits for a reason.

THE ONCE A WEEK RULE

Ahh, another thing I’ve learned throughout my college days. Keep hookups at roughly around once a week with your. At most. Anything more, and one party will start to get emotionally attached. It might even be you! Unless this is what you want. But if you keep it under once a week, the dynamic of “he’s here for fun” stays strong. A lot of guys won’t follow this rule, cause yea sometimes it hard to do. And you will notice when she starts projecting future plans with you, getting overly affectionate when in public, etc.

HOW TO ACT WHEN OUT AT A BAR

Full fucking physical. Very important, if she’s there at the bar and she sees you with another girl, the dynamic may be shattered. If you happen to land one main friends with benefits, and you see her at a bar, you go home with her. Period. Unless you don’t give a fuck if the dynamic ends. Even though she may not be emotionally attached, it still sucks to see the person you’ve been fucking for a while, pull another girl home. We’re all only human beings. How to fix this problem? Go to another bar. Easy.

FIN
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Any other advice???
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shroomir wrote:
 My advice is to watch this. You don't have to thank me, just share it with others.


Kill yourself chode.  Stop spamming the forum with this gay video.
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yorro wrote:
Fuckbuddies
Yeahh Im reading it noww...
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Any other advices??
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Ur telling me you banged out 19 girls and none of them have become a fuck buddy? U drugging them?
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