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September 17th, 2014
Girls lied to security to get me kicked out of the mall. Could I have done something?
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Buddikaman

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If they thought you were trying to snuggle with them they probably wouldnt have reacted that way. Even if they didnt like you they would atleast know what you wanted and on some level respected that. Maybe they just couldnt figure you out cause you werent pushing hard enough and also failed there shit test (being married), or maybe they walked away and were subconciously disgusted with your lack of intent, so wanted to punish you for being weak about it? Like "Oh man, was that guy just trying to hit on us? That was weak game, lets punk his ass and tell security" Just a thought.
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Amazing1985

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Yea they were weirded out. Haters too, but able to act normal in social situations.

Oh well. I reall think making friends with security will be most helpful.
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Amazing1985

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i can text her and ask for pussy, but a cop called earlier saying they can charge me with harrasment if i call or text her again.
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LeftHand

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hahahaha yes I just choked on my buritto from this comment.
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I love this new trend...banned from the mall is the new tolle
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#15

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Amazing1985 wrote:
i can text her and ask for pussy, but a cop called earlier saying they can charge me with harrasment if i call or text her again.

They called the cops on you, they don't want you.
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Amazing1985

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I'm not worried about that. I mean do cops favor what a girl says more than guy's now or what? Could I have reasoned withthe cop?

Seriously fuck tyose bitches.
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yorro

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hahah your social intuition was off. ideally you should feel how you make them feel in real time all the time. i don't buy that shit that girls were all nice and happy towards you only to call cops to get your ass. no no no. there must have been something in their behaviour that you should have been able to notice. remember that people most of the time behave how they behave toward you because they react to your personality/vibe. in most cases they're not bitches, they're bitches to you.

yes you could have combated this shit and any other shit. pay attention to girls reactions and act accordingly. engage girls that actualy want to engage. don't tag along if they seem or disinterested.

to me it looks like this..
throw a comment or something casual. check how the react and how they want to engage. if they say something back convo starts. that's the social cue. if not excuse yourself and move on. don't cling. nothing is more needy and dumb then a guy who's blind to social feedback and tries to force a social situation. this is not holding frame baby, this is being delusional.


PS. what the hell is going on with the latest trend of kicking out/blacklisting guys from different places? that's some serious calibration issues right there
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UtopiaFive

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HAHAHA
Turok wrote:
I love this new trend...banned from the mall is the new tolle
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UtopiaFive

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Dude the truth is WHO CARES? 

If you embodied WHO CARES then these hos wouldn't even find it funny to fuck with you like this.  

Think about this: these women are guaranteed 100% ghetto hos.  I know this because I know the mall.  You know this. 

Now tell me this: what does it say about you as a person, that 100% grade-A ghetto hos can fuck with you, and get a reaction this big out of you?  (Hint: answer this, for real.)  
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#20
UtopiaFive

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LOL

The reason it was creepy is that you DIDN'T make it sexual.  If deep down you want to fuck them but verbally you're saying "Hi want to be my friend?!?!" with a huge smile, they smell some weirdness.  

AWKWARDNESS PARADOX -- if you think its going to be WEIRD, then ironically its NOT going to be WEIRD.  
And if you think its going to be LESS WEIRD then when you do it its going to be EXTREMELY FUCKING WEIRD.  
Amazing1985 wrote:
DUDE, I didn't get all sexual. I thought that would get creepy. And i try to keep plowin till I get negative vives. I suppose they don't get approached much? They mentioned bein married so I thought I'd just stick around and be friendly. I just can't believe they'd call the cops on me lol

And yea I want to make friends with security now.
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