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June 19th, 2013
Her age gives me complications, HELP!
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ixam123

ixam123

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Join Date: 08/01/2011 | Posts: 163

 

Hey guys whats up?

Me: 17
She: 23 (I think)

Well, I have these girl as a teacher, she is teaching me mathemathic so I can go and aprobe the final exam and finish high school and beggin College. Is the only subject I have to take an exam.
Now, she is really hot, a beautifull gir, realy beautifull.

I can hold eye contact perfectly (I didnt used to hold eye contact with beautifull girls) the class is fun thought , we laught a little bit but then we start with the subject. I dont know if she has a boyfriend, is not my concern right now, but I am worried about the age. I was thinking of saying something like these the day before I have exam "Hey, if I get passed these, we are going to get ice cream" with fun but serious (and take the cellphone number or the PIN. I truely believe that she will accept or maybe is my imagination haha. Anyway I have to try right?

And if she accept , when I see her I start breaking that role of student-teacher.

What do you suggest?

I dont feel nervous when i talk to her.. but if I hear "Hey you are too little" I am going to kill myself  I just prefer "I have a boyfriend" . Damn I cant stop thinking about her age, 
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Die Nutte

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Today I'm in posting mood, so here is some advice from me personally that may not be in accord with the general RSD philosophy:

Obviously, and that is by no means an insult, you are not capable of leading this situation in ways other RSD badass dominant don't-give-fuck alpha males would. That's quite naturally. When I was 17 I didn't even know I had a dick.

In my opinion, the way to play this is to start making it sexual from a non-dominant frame. Basically to put the idea of her seducing you into her mind as if you had no idea what you are doing.

You may still end up making the final moves, going that last inch physically, but she should be believing that it was her plot the whole time.

I hope you get what I mean (maybe others will who can express the idea better).

The only thing I'm certain about (judging from what you wrote) is that the general RSD tactics are not the solution. (Feel free to try them anyway, had I started with this at age 17 I'd be a fucking monster by now)

Final words: Action > no action.

Try, fail, learn, succeed. And while doing that: Have fun.
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MindFrame

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Have her impressing you and have her be the one worrying about her age.

Have her seduce you and have her make sweet love to you as you reluctantly submit to her sexual clutches.
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ixam123

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Die Nutte wrote:
Today I'm in posting mood, so here is some advice from me personally that may not be in accord with the general RSD philosophy:

Obviously, and that is by no means an insult, you are not capable of leading this situation in ways other RSD badass dominant don't-give-fuck alpha males would. That's quite naturally. When I was 17 I didn't even know I had a dick.

In my opinion, the way to play this is to start making it sexual from a non-dominant frame. Basically to put the idea of her seducing you into her mind as if you had no idea what you are doing.

You may still end up making the final moves, going that last inch physically, but she should be believing that it was her plot the whole time.

I hope you get what I mean (maybe others will who can express the idea better).

The only thing I'm certain about (judging from what you wrote) is that the general RSD tactics are not the solution. (Feel free to try them anyway, had I started with this at age 17 I'd be a fucking monster by now)

Final words: Action > no action.

Try, fail, learn, succeed. And while doing that: Have fun.
Thanks for the reply,

Well, I am not a big fan of RSD and I am not a follower of the articles that are over RSD. The only "PUA" that I agree, is Tim. Is the only guy that treats these pick up thing as something of being natural and not like a "player". And when I have to approach some random girl or just talk to someone, I dont use any "line" to generate attraction I think is stupid, and the mayority of times the people dont believe what you are saying or they notice that something is wrong.

And let me see if I understand what you wrote me. (Maybe I dont express myself right)

I dont memorise nothing, lines or whatever. With these girl, I thought about telling that (comes to my mind that idea suddenly) , I dont feel nervious with her, and I dont try to be "super mega alpha male dominant" and try to win her like a "PUA" . I just take only in account the eye contact and try to get the volume  of my voice up (I speak very low).

I dont know how is going to result these, I dont know if she has a boyfriend and her age. I am just going to say that and see what happens, if she has a boyfriend well I cant do anything, if she has more than 25 well I am fucked up, thats a big difference or maybe she will tell me "you are young". Or maybe she will accept at least the ice cream.

But I am not a "guyline" if you think that I am that guy who memorise everything or if I am a big follower of RSD , no I am not. The only thing I am concern is the age.

Is that what I make you think? or your point of view is other?
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Well, if you had any sort of game which no offense, i can tell by your writing and attitude you probably dont. There might be a chance here because she would deem you as sex worthy. You see this from teachers who have sex with there students, age does not always matter, attraction does. Whether natural or learned.

The chances are, and i could be wrong, she just views you as the young highschool kid who has no experience in dealing with `the real world` and PROBABLY would not want to have sex with you, let alone get ice cream. Again, she MIGHT make an exeption if she found you to be a cool sex worthy guy who was mature for your age, but even THAN she could very well say no because you are only 17 and she does not want to deal with the implications (including getting in trouble and losing her job).
 
If she is 23-25 like you say, and is beatiful, she probably has had and currently has MATURE sex worthy guys hitting on her all the time, so unless she has a fetish for young little dudes, i would not hold my breath.

With that said, you can always try, just realise if she says no it could make class very uncomfortable for you and like you said, the rejection might just be `to much`.
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Kingslayer

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 I hate to say it to you dude, but that shit ain't going to happen. It really has nothing to do with you, but she could lose her job for that shit and she probably doesn't think of you as a peer. If you are just getting into pick up, your teacher is not the place to start. Maybe if you want to practice talking, flirting, eye contact  or whatever then that's cool, but I don't reccamend trying to take her out. You should pay more attention to the girls around your own age. If I knew some of this shit i know now back in high school and college I would have destroyed worlds... but I didn't. Don't get real bent out of shape over this situation, because like I said it really doesn't reflect on you personally.
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ixam123

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Woow guys, she doesnt work for the school, for any. I dont know how to say these in english but is like a teacher support. You grab the phone you call someone who can teaches you , you take the class and you pay for the our. She doesnt work for any school like I said,

I dont have any "game" going, I just thought of saying that, the last day see her. I will not see her again probably in my hole life, I  will not  have anything to do with numbers again , just I need to give the fucking exam and start university.

The chances are.. lets say 2% fail, 98% succed. ?
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Do you have any general success with girls already?
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ixam123

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Yes I have.

Well I ask now.. but anyway the main problem was her age 
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Ok,

I have no experience with seducing a TEACHER, but its logical that its good to keep it casual and make her invest alot into you, rather then going ballsy, very sexual and very direct. MAke the hoe invest + sexual innuendos. Dont pressure her on sex. Focus on making her invest emotions into you. Frame yourself as forbidden fruit if she brings up the age thing or the stundent / teacher thing. Tell her its so wrong but keep making her invest. You can use this barrier to create sexual tension. What is forbidden is exciting.

Then again, she might be a slut with no moral that wants to bang a student just for the thrill that she might loose the job, but nothing to count on. The fact that she is your TEACHER is more of the issue then the age itself, btw.

And again, take this advice for what it is - i dont know about seducing a teacher, havent tried that one. But what i said works if a girl has a boyfriend for example.

My 2 cents.
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ixam123

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Yeah, I am just gonna say that, normal. If it goes it goes if it doesnt it doesnt.  If she bring the age out when I tell her, I am out "I have a boyfriend" I am out. If she tell me yes, I am in.

Nothing to loose anyway.

For me, I think these, and it is normal bro. Maybe I dont realise that is a big thing.
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