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May 21st, 2013
Number Close then Called Next Day and Said She Would Call Back
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Fresh Prince

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Join Date: 02/01/2012 | Posts: 24

So I number closed this pretty hot blonde chick at the bar. She was with her brother, and I did a great job winning over the brother and then subsequently winning her over. She just moved here, and I think she wants some dick. I texted her that night back and forth a bit, then asked her if she wanted to come over that night at like 2 am (drunk text haha). No response. Then I called her the next day, she picked up, I chatted with her for a minute, asked if she wanted to chill this weekend. She said she was down, but that she was eating lunch. She said that she would call me back and figure out a time when we could hang out. Never called back. Is she blowing me off? Should I keep trying or give it up? If I should keep trying, text or call? Please let me know your honest thoughts. If I fucked up, feel free to tell me. Thanks.
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NewDude

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Join Date: 05/12/2011 | Posts: 874

 Yes she's blowing you off. Go meet more girls.
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Firewater

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 What's the harm in continuing to try?  Worst case, you'll look like a fool, but who cares and you'll learn a lot.  Best case, she'll hang with you, then you have more opportunities to screw it up and learn from it.
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Tyler wrote:


Most of them just look like silly retards having a fun time -- which strangely, is ultimately what girls are attracted to.

Tyler
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PowerMan

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 i wouldnt chase
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 It's time to call & sing "All out of love" by air supply.
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Firewater

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PowerMan wrote:
 i wouldnt chase
You wouldn't do a lot of things, but it's obvious  by him asking this question that he needs a lot more experience.  So fuck up  now while you're young and able.
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Tyler wrote:


Most of them just look like silly retards having a fun time -- which strangely, is ultimately what girls are attracted to.

Tyler
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alienantfarm

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Isn't that obnoxious?

Well, she either forgot, is nervous, or is blowing you off. If it's the first two, no harm in texting her again to confirm - if it's the 3rd one, text anyways but shes not interested.
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rogerhelms

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 She found a better looking guy than you while she was eating lunch. Obviously
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rogerhelms

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 She found a better looking guy than you while she was eating lunch. Obviously
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Haze~

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It doesn't seem like this will go anywhere. Sure, burn it to the ground but don't place any value on it. If it works out it works out, if not just move on.
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Turok

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Join Date: 06/08/2010 | Posts: 487

I'd give it another call after which probably forget about it because you have new leads taking the place of this one...because you're going out and getting new leads consistently so shit like this doesn't matter
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