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May 22nd, 2013
Dealing with fags who try to outmuscle you for chicks
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PowerMan

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Like role plays ive noticed that a lot of dudes try to out strong arm you for chicks. its some monkey shit. When you let them, you feel like shit. Ive found that if you are willing to fight, it is a lot easier to deal with these types. Being unreactive and playing your game is probably key, you dont have to play the ape game.
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Jack of Hearts

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 yeah you gave the answer yourself. 
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I wear heavy steel toe motercycle boots, thick big metal rings on my fingers, and a leather wrist strap that has hard protruding metal on it,  to the club.  These are inconspicuous weapons that give me an edge while also looking cool. If some guy tries to start some shit I just "accodentally" give him a quick kick in the shin out of nowhere, which hurts like hell, then I point an laugh.  Some times I just "accidentally" stomp on their foot like Bruce Lee" or accidentally trip them.  If a dude grabs me I "accidentally" get wrist control, twist his arm, slam his face into the ground, and put my boot on his neck.  Sometimes I "accidentally" choke them out until their face turns blue, or "accidentally" knee them in the nuts as hard as I can.

Don't do what I do.  I'm 230lbs, muscular and trained in Krav Maga.  I'm also a dickhead.  I'm just letting you know some things that I do, copy my behavior at your own risk.  Lift weights, train in self defense, roll with friends who do the same, and you won't worry about it..  Stay out of shady places where people carry weapons.

I NEVER use force just to stop some dickface from stealing a random girl I'm picking up.  I DO use force when some dude tries to put his hands on me, my friends, or my girlfriends. 

If some big dude and his buddies are threatening you over a girl, let the girl go.  There are tons of girls, and not one of them is worth getting beat up, arrested, or killed over.  There is only 1 you and your own wellbeing must be your main concern.  If you can diffuse the situation verbally, do that.  Only use force if you are attacked, or to protect your people and property.
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ambiguity

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Basically, you frame it, "mate, your not trying to impress these girls now are you?"

Instead way to change the frame. I've seen my mates, guys much smaller then me, blokes to be considered manlets pull on alpha male types.

You really need to test yourself and even if you fail to pull, you take something away from the situaiton, and gain through experience.

It comes down to conditioning yourself.
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MindFrame

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Don't try to fight back with steel toe boots or whatever little toys, eventually someone will pull out their little toys and shoot you in the face with a 38 special. No matter how much you weigh, getting shot in the head will ruin your day.

I just never acknowledge them, one guy did touch me, I sued and got $15k from it and used that money to travel and fuck girls.
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MindFrame wrote:
Don't try to fight back with steel toe boots or whatever little toys, eventually someone will pull out their little toys and shoot you in the face with a 38 special. No matter how much you weigh, getting show will ruin your day.

I just never acknowledge them, one guy did touch me, I sued and got $15k from it and used that money to travel and fuck girls.
Lucky but, understand, actualy gangsters, not black guys pretending to be hard, the sort of man that will just shank you or knock you the fuck out without a single thought.

Fortunately, I am not the sort of black man that would do such a thing. And even some get angry and accuse my being sophisiticated as a way it being my way of selling out or white washed.

What?
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ambiguity wrote:
Basically, you frame it, "mate, your not trying to impress these girls now are you?"

Instead way to change the frame. I've seen my mates, guys much smaller then me, blokes to be considered manlets pull on alpha male types.

You really need to test yourself and even if you fail to pull, you take something away from the situaiton, and gain through experience.

It comes down to conditioning yourself.


I like this answer, being able to kick somebody's ass with just sheer force is nice and all but if you've got physical problems like me (brittle bones and arthritis) then you've got to learn other ways to deal with this type of shit.
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MindFrame wrote:
Don't try to fight back with steel toe boots or whatever little toys, eventually someone will pull out their little toys and shoot you in the face with a 38 special. No matter how much you weigh, getting shot in the head will ruin your day.

I just never acknowledge them, one guy did touch me, I sued and got $15k from it and used that money to travel and fuck girls.
Oh, yah I forgot to mention, I live in Ohio where you are allowed to conceal firearms inside bars with a permit as long as you don't drink.  Never seen anyone pull a gun at a bar in the 8 years of going out almost every night.  I have seen people get the shit beat out of them and put in the hospital. Also, I don't hang out in the ghetto where people shoot eachother.  You really think some rich preppy faggot from the suburbs is going to risk having his little meaningless life ruined by pulling a fucking gun in a bar?  No, he isn't.   You have better odds of getting hit by a car on the way to the club.  Needless to say, violence is a last resort and you don't go around looking for trouble, but some times you don't have a choice so you better be prepared just incase.  Mitigate your risk with situational awareness, not drinking, and avoiding shady places.

Once you already in a fight, better defend yourself by any means necessary.  Don't listen to this pussy, he doesn't know what the hell he is talking about and sounds like he is full of shit or a personal injury lawyer.
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MindFrame

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It's way too easy to get you angry isn't it?

Relax I'm just sharing my experience of 15 years of going out
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MindFrame wrote:
It's way too easy to get you angry isn't it?

Relax I'm just sharing my experience of 15 years of going out
I'm not angry, your advice is just horrible and I'm correcting it.
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Starting fights is bad advice, enjoy paying me
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