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Very cool post.
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I have no clue of it or anything about this.
I will check over this when I have more time.
I love Alex's videos especially the infield or 2010 infield one.
Absolutely brilliant.
I will check over this when I have more time.
I love Alex's videos especially the infield or 2010 infield one.
Absolutely brilliant.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Golden. 5 stars.
Thanks for reminding me :)
Thanks for reminding me :)
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finally something decent on the main forum.
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"Cowards die many times before their deaths. The valiant never taste of death but once". Julius Caesar, by Shakespeare.
I read this and I want to say it is a great post.
I do not think too much stock should be put into each pull or pick up or approach.
Everyone is different but, game goes back to being an art, a form of self expression, originality, and being unique.
With all that you learn, Alex having inspired you, you can express all this but, through yourself interest, desire, and in what you find fun.
I've never met Alex and the concepts of this method are fairly new to me so, I appreciate you sharing.
I find Alex to be quite awesome, very enthusiastic, and positive which is great.
I do not think too much stock should be put into each pull or pick up or approach.
Everyone is different but, game goes back to being an art, a form of self expression, originality, and being unique.
With all that you learn, Alex having inspired you, you can express all this but, through yourself interest, desire, and in what you find fun.
I've never met Alex and the concepts of this method are fairly new to me so, I appreciate you sharing.
I find Alex to be quite awesome, very enthusiastic, and positive which is great.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
I actually dont think it would be possible for me to rationalize taking another bootcamp with any instructor because after my second one i have reazlied there is nothing to really learn, sure you can do what Tyler does and get SUPER HARD attraction right off the bat but you would be much better building that up over time and creating a stronger connection along with trust and comfort. This is what will make you able to choose any of those girls to become your girlfriend and have little romances for the weekend. Be the cool social guy not cool player guy. Theres no need to warm up anymore on fatties and mingers. Why spend time talking to a fucking ugly girl your not going to fuck, if your going to spend your time not fucking someone it may aswell be a hottie. The goal should always be to get them to an after party not to have sex with them, only once your alone in a place where its possible should sex be your goal.
You cant get blown out. The girl is just nervous and under immense social pressure when you approach.
www.alexattitude.com
His new post came up and the same time i posted this basically and should explain further what i have been trying to explain.
You cant get blown out. The girl is just nervous and under immense social pressure when you approach.
www.alexattitude.com
His new post came up and the same time i posted this basically and should explain further what i have been trying to explain.
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Alexander~ Bootcamp -January 2010
I actually dont think it would be possible for me to rationalize taking another bootcamp with any instructor because after my second one i have reazlied there is nothing to really learn, sure you can do what Tyler does and get SUPER HARD attraction right off the bat but you would be much better building that up over time and creating a stronger connection along with trust and comfort. This is what will make you able to choose any of those girls to become your girlfriend and have little romances for the weekend. Be the cool social guy not cool player guy. Theres no need to warm up anymore on fatties and mingers. Why spend time talking to a fucking ugly girl your not going to fuck, if your going to spend your time not fucking someone it may aswell be a hottie. The goal should always be to get them to an after party not to have sex with them, only once your alone in a place where its possible should sex be your goal.
You cant get blown out. The girl is just nervous and under immense social pressure when you approach.
www.alexattitude.com
His new post came up and the same time i posted this basically and should explain further what i have been trying to explain.
Right on mate. This comes back to game being unique, being a form of art, a means of self expression, and originality.You cant get blown out. The girl is just nervous and under immense social pressure when you approach.
www.alexattitude.com
His new post came up and the same time i posted this basically and should explain further what i have been trying to explain.
To be a carbon copy removes the you from the situation, shifts power or assumed strength in what is being said as oppose to you and where it originates from.
Jeffy or Tyler can say, "GTFO of here, she is my girl," or "YOUR DONE IN THIS TOWN!." and do so with authenticity since, they know what that is about.
Others emulate it or tell girls to kill themselves and over do it inauthentically, in a manner that is aggressive and even confrontational.
Alex amazes me cause, everything he brings is so opposite of what I see on rsd and it is quite refreshing.
Tyler is very forward while, Jeffy is too but, even absurd yet, brilliant. Alex just seems so cool, so chill, and yet, in a way that if most attempted to portray or emulate would come off chode.
I feel the same way. If she is not stunning, if she is not a SMOKE SHOW like myself, what is the point?
Through cold apporach pick up and game, I have cultivated a way of life that speaks to me as well as others. I still learn as I go and it does not change.
Pulling a random or a stunner that you recognize your counter balance amounts to what? It depends on what you seek and want?
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
I actually dont think it would be possible for me to rationalize taking another bootcamp with any instructor because after my second one i have reazlied there is nothing to really learn, sure you can do what Tyler does and get SUPER HARD attraction right off the bat but you would be much better building that up over time and creating a stronger connection along with trust and comfort. This is what will make you able to choose any of those girls to become your girlfriend and have little romances for the weekend. Be the cool social guy not cool player guy. Theres no need to warm up anymore on fatties and mingers. Why spend time talking to a fucking ugly girl your not going to fuck, if your going to spend your time not fucking someone it may aswell be a hottie. The goal should always be to get them to an after party not to have sex with them, only once your alone in a place where its possible should sex be your goal.
You cant get blown out. The girl is just nervous and under immense social pressure when you approach.
www.alexattitude.com
His new post came up and the same time i posted this basically and should explain further what i have been trying to explain.
Right on mate. This comes back to game being unique, being a form of art, a means of self expression, and originality.You cant get blown out. The girl is just nervous and under immense social pressure when you approach.
www.alexattitude.com
His new post came up and the same time i posted this basically and should explain further what i have been trying to explain.
To be a carbon copy removes the you from the situation, shifts power or assumed strength in what is being said as oppose to you and where it originates from.
Jeffy or Tyler can say, "GTFO of here, she is my girl," or "YOUR DONE IN THIS TOWN!." and do so with authenticity since, they know what that is about.
Others emulate it or tell girls to kill themselves and over do it inauthentically, in a manner that is aggressive and even confrontational.
Alex amazes me cause, everything he brings is so opposite of what I see on rsd and it is quite refreshing.
Tyler is very forward while, Jeffy is too but, even absurd yet, brilliant. Alex just seems so cool, so chill, and yet, in a way that if most attempted to portray or emulate would come off chode.
I feel the same way. If she is not stunning, if she is not a SMOKE SHOW like myself, what is the point?
Through cold apporach pick up and game, I have cultivated a way of life that speaks to me as well as others. I still learn as I go and it does not change.
Pulling a random or a stunner that you recognize your counter balance amounts to what? It depends on what you seek and want?
Exactly. Tyler can do some amazing shit like smash glasses out of the girls hands then still pick them up and shit like that. Totally awesome yet totally pointless. The way Alex teaches his game is basically that ANY girl has the potential to like you, she just needs enough time and when your with an absolute stunning girl and you are relaxed yourself, game tends to take care of itself, you escalate simply because shes fucking hot and you want to touch her, none of this because i have to bullshit.
I just had an amazing realization right now.
Hot girls are generally nicer and wont blow guys off straight away and will actually talk to them, so if you follow the time rule that means your more likely to have sex with the hotter girls because they will allow you to spend more time with them!
Haha fuck i cant see how that can fail, it doesnt matter if shes just being nice for the sake of it because over time you'll still charm her just make sure your doing the right things. I just blew my own mind hahaha
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Alexander~ Bootcamp -January 2010
I'm 11 years into this, so you can assume I'm aggressive when it's best, chill when it's best. There's no "method" -- you just do what's best.
I have pulls where I barely spoke and the girl lead the entire thing. Other times I do everything or even fight with them from start to end. I'm not invested into a style of game I just do whatever I feel in the moment.
Tyler
Tyler is very forward while, Jeffy is too but, even absurd yet, brilliant. Alex just seems so cool, so chill, and yet, in a way that if most attempted to portray or emulate would come off chode.
I have pulls where I barely spoke and the girl lead the entire thing. Other times I do everything or even fight with them from start to end. I'm not invested into a style of game I just do whatever I feel in the moment.
Tyler
Tyler is very forward while, Jeffy is too but, even absurd yet, brilliant. Alex just seems so cool, so chill, and yet, in a way that if most attempted to portray or emulate would come off chode.
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Great post. Made me realize a lot. Feel like I will have some fast progress now
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Join Date: 01/15/2010 | Posts: 229
The Natural Instinct Method
Mindsets
- You are enough. There are no limitations except for the ones you place on yourself.
- Control your own emotions and you will gain consistency
- Consistency is a game of willpower
- Be arousing not attractive. That means a range of negative and positive emotions too much of one without the other creates loss in arousal and a good ole "nice to meet you"
- Quiet and Attentive. When the girl is quiet and attentive that means she is nervous and likes you or is deciding whether or not she likes you, its your job to notice this and make her feel comfortable and aroused. You will start to notice that when you approach and the girl is really hot and super super friendly they quite often have a boyfriend hence the reason they dont shit test you etc because they are not screening you.
Skills
- Create initiative. This just means take action basically. I found that when Alexander~ tells me to approach i dont even feel better for doing it because it wasnt my initiative it was his.
- Endure tests. Just ignore them, give the girl shit back. You remember in high school how girls and guys would tease each other relentlessly and then end up dating a few weeks later? Most people give shit to people they like not people they hate. Think how you act with your best mates.
- Be physical. Anything goes. High fives, inspect their jewellrey, grab their hand and lead them, brush hair out of their face (hollywood style), push them away a bit if they say something silly/mean, sit next to her and just sit close enough that you are touching in some way, hug her, kiss her etc. IT DOES NOT MATTER JUST DO SOMETHING. If/when you can ramp up the escalation.
- Time is your ally. Holy shit if i have ever seen a magic pill this would be it, atleast for me it is. Stay with the girl for as long as fucking possible. The girl will become more and more attracted over time once you see it and understand it you will be having success randomly and without any effort really.
Those are the main concepts i took away from bootcamp and dont look at it and think you need to know it all before you will get laid. I dont do all of them consistently but i still get laid, if i was to follow them 100% i could get laid multiple times every week. You just need to get out there and do it. I did my bootcamp in December and its been exactly 2 months since then that im posting this. I got laid 5 times in those 2 months, some really hot girls, some reasonably attractive girls and a super hot model girl that im banging at the moment, ive spent 30 hours with her in just 3 days mainly because i wanted to make it so dam hard for her to not keep coming back to me because 30 hours is a fucking long time to spend with someone and especially since its been very sexual and fun the whole time, im not going to be forgotten anytime soon i dont think. Australia Day was on the 25th of january and i got laid by a new girl on the 26th, 27th and 28th simple by following the mindsets and skills that are laid out for you.
Its pretty funny actually as my reality is getting fucked with quite hard at the moment. The model girl im seeing at the moment is super confident, outgoing and social and when we are out im kinda like "fuck shes out there talking to all these guys, getting hit on constantly" and btw im a scrawny bloke i have smaller wrists than her and she gets hit on by huge ripped muscley guys, guys with perfect bodys/faces and she comes to me hahahahahaha. I just have to remind myself that i am enough because if i get needy or weird/protective of her ill lose her quicker than a fat kid throws away his lettuce. This is why she likes me because i dont care, i dont judge her and i let her do what she wants because we are both still single.
You might also think im dominant as fuck because im skinny and think i have to be. Not true, i suck at being really dominant, one of the girls i slept with told me im an extremely gentle guy.......just after i fucked her at the time i was like "fuck im a fag" but in reality shes still chasing me and i dont want to see her anymore because im seeing her best friend whose much hotter:). I am gentle its not really in my nature to be aggressive, but on the other hand that doesnt mean im a pussy, i will stand up for myself.
This whole game has become quite simple in my mind now. Once you get a bit of experience and become a fun person to be around it becomes really easy. For the last 2 years i have watched so much comedy stuff that it makes me say funny shit all the time and because of that i spend time with girls purely because they enjoy my company and then its really hard not to sleep with them when you get them alone. Some girls i spend 5 minutes alone before we are having sex then the others such as model girl i spent about 6 hours with her in a social setting then she stayed at my house in my bed and i spent 8 hours with her before i even kissed her ( some of that sleeping ) then we hooked up for like 3 hours still no sex and then i fucked her the next night. I was physical and didnt try to do anything i just lay there being awesome for hours on end having a great time and because shes so attractive its just awesome to be there with her because it makes you feel really good. It was also slightly strategic not sleeping with her straight away because she knew i fucked 3 girls a couple weeks earlier and one of them is a good friend of hers. I wanted to set it up as more of a long term thing so i was basically showing her that im not a player. I would like to spend more time with her and perhaps make her my girlfriend but only time will tell.
The game is about you, no one else. You get on your path make your life awesome, BE AWESOME and the girls will come. I think its important to have a cool group of guy mates that you can invite girls around for like a board game night and just all have fun together which is something i currently have going every week and its basically 5 hours of laughing our asses off with hot girls.
Having goals is really important as it motivates you in your life and when girls are your lifes motivation it seems to make it harder to get them. One of my many goals is to aquire 500 skydives over the next 3 - 7 years and become a skydive instructor. I want to be a bartender part time also in the near future and just recently got accepted by an agency to do modelling (clothes on....until i get muscles :p) and im currently following Primal Blueprint and Stronglifts 5x5 program with some cool results, primal blueprint makes body fat fall off while also gaining lean muscle its pretty dam awesome and easy as fuck to follow.
I cant thank Alexander~ enough. He hammered these concepts into me extremely hard and was probably frustrated as fuck at me during program at the start but he persisted and i can now say i understand these principles and im internalizing them more and more every day. Believing you are enough will not come over night but as you keep reinforcing it you believe it more and more. The natural instincts method takes all the bullshit about showing value and trying to be attractive and throws them out the window, a good example is on bootcamp he told me to approach 2 girls sitting down and i asked
Aj - "should i stand and talk or sit next to them".
Alexander~ - "does it matter? you are enough"
Basically dont over think things.
I am enough and if it can be done i can do it. Why not? Why the fuck not try and get what you want out of life, honestly why the fuck not? These concepts apply to much much more than just getting girls.
Its all on his blog www.alexattitude.com