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make it fun for yourself. come up with random challenges. ask a friend to give me a line to open with. or tell him to cockblock you 1 minute in. shit like that will help you switch your attitude.
i liked what tim said in FN.. how can i make it fun (for me) instead how to get her.
i liked what tim said in FN.. how can i make it fun (for me) instead how to get her.
By having a passion for it
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Yea, thats just a decision you'll have to make. Everyone is different. I fucking LOVE this shit. Like really bad. If I had the ability to go out 7 nights a week (which with my schedule & the fact that venues here suck ass Mon-Wed) I would. I litterally look forward to it and enjoy every minute of it, even the next day, I'm thinking of the shit I said, the shit females said, and I crack myself up all throughout the day. And the pulls are just like the icing on the cake. I'm hoping to get like 6 to 10 months free in the near future and move up, onto Hollywood Blvd so I can go pimp 7 nights a week straight while I'm up there. But yea if you feel like you need to stop, then stop. It really all comes down to what you feel you should do.
haha in your first post you talk about not making excuses and now your saying you want to go 7 nights a week but making excuses as to why you cant. You only need one set mate. __________________
Alexander~ Bootcamp -January 2010
I would define chore as a process from which you get no fulfillment.
A more physical explanation is that your dopamine system is not triggered by this chore, your body cant connect the results/reward of the chore to something important for you.
What you need to do is GET RESULTS until your body can connect the chore with the results.
For example:
Going to the club to PU - If in your reality your body knows that you can never get girls that way it will make "clubbing" feel like a chore, a waste of time.
In order to change this you need to overload clubbing WITH results, and with time your body can connect the process (clubbing) with results that is important for you (fucking hot girls).
You simply need to build up a self-made addiction
This goes for everything, the gym can feel like a chore, but when you see results it will become more and more fun until it becomes and addiction.
I usually say that it takes at least 6 months to a year of CONSTANT everyday action to make a strong connection between a process and a result. I would say it takes up to 2 years to create something resembling an addiction. When this is done you will feel terrible for NOT doing what previously was a "chore", your body will punish you for not clubbing, working out, making money etc.
The main reason people fail is they don't persevere during the addiction building period.
A more physical explanation is that your dopamine system is not triggered by this chore, your body cant connect the results/reward of the chore to something important for you.
What you need to do is GET RESULTS until your body can connect the chore with the results.
For example:
Going to the club to PU - If in your reality your body knows that you can never get girls that way it will make "clubbing" feel like a chore, a waste of time.
In order to change this you need to overload clubbing WITH results, and with time your body can connect the process (clubbing) with results that is important for you (fucking hot girls).
You simply need to build up a self-made addiction
This goes for everything, the gym can feel like a chore, but when you see results it will become more and more fun until it becomes and addiction.
I usually say that it takes at least 6 months to a year of CONSTANT everyday action to make a strong connection between a process and a result. I would say it takes up to 2 years to create something resembling an addiction. When this is done you will feel terrible for NOT doing what previously was a "chore", your body will punish you for not clubbing, working out, making money etc.
The main reason people fail is they don't persevere during the addiction building period.
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Its like working out. For the first few months it really sucks....you're tired and don't want to go, you're not seeing huge results, etc. Then you notice your body changing, becoming more lean and toned, and you're like I'M SEXY AND I KNOW IT, FUCK YEAH MY PECS LOOK AWESOME! Same thing with pickup, you endure the hard times and when you start getting laid on a regular basis, you're like I'M SEXY AND I KNOW IT, FUCK YEAH I'M GONNA FUCK TONIGHT! Then its no longer a chore, its what you came to do and you love it.
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The point of going out is to have sex with hot girls. If you're going out that hard all the time, you should have a decent amount of #s/fbs that can occupy your time the days you don't feel like going out and gaming sluts.
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"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." - Proverbs 27:17
If you aren't getting laid regularly through your efforts, might be time to inject other forms of getting pussy into your lifestyle. Work ALL angles. When you're getting laid regularly, there is no such thing as a feeling of it being a chore.
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The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.
-Kerouac
The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.
-Kerouac
If you aren't getting laid regularly through your efforts, might be time to inject other forms of getting pussy into your lifestyle. Work ALL angles. When you're getting laid regularly, there is no such thing as a feeling of it being a chore.
I got laid on friday __________________
DavePower
Draw state from within.
Draw state from within.
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Yea, thats just a decision you'll have to make. Everyone is different. I fucking LOVE this shit. Like really bad. If I had the ability to go out 7 nights a week (which with my schedule & the fact that venues here suck ass Mon-Wed) I would. I litterally look forward to it and enjoy every minute of it, even the next day, I'm thinking of the shit I said, the shit females said, and I crack myself up all throughout the day. And the pulls are just like the icing on the cake. I'm hoping to get like 6 to 10 months free in the near future and move up, onto Hollywood Blvd so I can go pimp 7 nights a week straight while I'm up there. But yea if you feel like you need to stop, then stop. It really all comes down to what you feel you should do.
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