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Wut up Julien. I have questions about comfort and humor and frame control. Hopefully some of them make the cut. Have you ever worked on your sense of humor for Pick up? If you have, what books do you reccomend. Or is there a comedian who you think has a comedy style that works in pick up? Have you ever taken improv or stand up classes? How does what a girl find funny differ than what a guy finds funny and what type of humor do girls love? Like do they love humor at the expense of others or other style of humor? For example I've made a girl laugh hysterically just for making a guy "jump into a small hoop". A guy tol dme me "Can you call him for me" . I instantaniously (Im starting to really notice how timing has a certain effect) said "What's his name?" and the girl went crazy "What's his name HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HAHA" Why did she laugh like crazy??? Another when I made a face at a guy for saying a DLV which was humor at expense of others. Girls went histerical with laughter and these were hot girls HB8.5's. Do you have any exercises, or anything you do to get unstiffled before going out?
Do you believe that a sexual relationship revolves around a girls "attraction" for a guy and vice versa? If a guy goes back to being "low value" or a chode and being needy and a girl's attraction for him dies will she end the relationship? Is attraction the glue that holds the relationship together ?
Another topic Id like to know more about would be what helps create an emotional connection with a girl? Do you think commonalities help create a connection? Do you think liking the same things help create an emotional connection? Do you think commonalities help chemistry/comfort or help pull? What epiphanies or insights do you have on creating a good emotional connection with a girl? Do venue changes help create an emotional connection or not? Does giving her a "roller coaster ride of emotions" help create an emotional connection? Being able to talk non stop?
How do you make the girl feel like she isn't just some meatsock that you just wanna jack off into as Tyler says lol?
Can you talk about frame control in Picking up girls. Like flipping the script and her becoming a part of your movie. In "Julien's movie" what roles does the girl play? Is she the girl chasing you? What are constant frames you set in the interaction and how do they come together or flow?
Have you ever pulled a girl that at one point in the interaction gets very bitchy or mad at you? Or do you think that if a girl gets very mad at you for whatever reason it's very hard to turn the interaction around? Were you able to have sex with her?
Do you believe that a sexual relationship with a girl revolves around attraction and how do you make the girl feel like she isn't just some meatsock that you just wanna jack off into OR DOES ATTRACTION/RELATING AS MAN TO WOMAN (or as Alex says "being arousing" or as Brad would say "being high value") MATTER MORE THAN THAT AND EVERYTHING ELSE?
Hopefully that wasn't too many questions he he. I think the best thing about your mastermind will be hearing about PUA concepts from your unique point of view and your unique way of breaking things down. Thanks alot I'm sure your mastermind is gonna be very good and help alot people.
Do you believe that a sexual relationship revolves around a girls "attraction" for a guy and vice versa? If a guy goes back to being "low value" or a chode and being needy and a girl's attraction for him dies will she end the relationship? Is attraction the glue that holds the relationship together ?
Another topic Id like to know more about would be what helps create an emotional connection with a girl? Do you think commonalities help create a connection? Do you think liking the same things help create an emotional connection? Do you think commonalities help chemistry/comfort or help pull? What epiphanies or insights do you have on creating a good emotional connection with a girl? Do venue changes help create an emotional connection or not? Does giving her a "roller coaster ride of emotions" help create an emotional connection? Being able to talk non stop?
How do you make the girl feel like she isn't just some meatsock that you just wanna jack off into as Tyler says lol?
Can you talk about frame control in Picking up girls. Like flipping the script and her becoming a part of your movie. In "Julien's movie" what roles does the girl play? Is she the girl chasing you? What are constant frames you set in the interaction and how do they come together or flow?
Have you ever pulled a girl that at one point in the interaction gets very bitchy or mad at you? Or do you think that if a girl gets very mad at you for whatever reason it's very hard to turn the interaction around? Were you able to have sex with her?
Do you believe that a sexual relationship with a girl revolves around attraction and how do you make the girl feel like she isn't just some meatsock that you just wanna jack off into OR DOES ATTRACTION/RELATING AS MAN TO WOMAN (or as Alex says "being arousing" or as Brad would say "being high value") MATTER MORE THAN THAT AND EVERYTHING ELSE?
Hopefully that wasn't too many questions he he. I think the best thing about your mastermind will be hearing about PUA concepts from your unique point of view and your unique way of breaking things down. Thanks alot I'm sure your mastermind is gonna be very good and help alot people.
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"No one can be told what the matrix is you have to see it for yourself.....There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path."
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting
." I think this is true
"A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting
." I think this is true "A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
This has been asked for ages but not really answered: How to get the girl to invest?
Also, girls tend to become avoidant after I makeout with them, this is when I'm normally pushing for the makeout and then finally get it. Any advice?
Thanks Julien
Also, girls tend to become avoidant after I makeout with them, this is when I'm normally pushing for the makeout and then finally get it. Any advice?
Thanks Julien
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to be honest, just videos of you in action are better than any topics to discuss :)
tell more how you create attraction and connection :)
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Answering questions = WASTE OF TIME
Sharing your journey with your epiphanies and the lessons learned alomg the way = making the most of your and your listener's time!
Do you seriously want to adress questions such as 'how should I approch at the mall? How do i get attraction? How do i get physical? How do i make girls laugh man? How do i open? How do i get in state? How do i self amuse? How do i get a life?!?'
This shit has already been covered endlessly by EVERY single instructor, through articles, books, videos and audios.
Gimme a break guys, the only answers to your stupid little ass bitch questions is and has always been the same:
- Go out
- Take a bootcamp
- Find out what works yourself
Julien did you get good by asking 1000 questions? FUCK NO!
Because the guys who are experienced at this know that for every answer leads to new questions. This shit goeson forever.
What most people here need is 'inspiration' not 'answers'.
Dude just tell us about how you went from chode to champ! Tell us how your forced yourself to step up, how you trained yourself night after night. Tell us about your worst failures to the most amazing successes. Etc.
Inspire us to go into the field to find out our OWN answers to our questions!
It's of absolute no use to feed thumb sucking babied with answers to questions they wouldn't ask in the first place if they were going out.
Some people are paying for this shit and it's a cool opportuniy to have you do a mastermind.
Don't waste this occasion.
PS: if you are to use questions then at least use the type of questions alex used to interview derek, that was kinda cool
Sharing your journey with your epiphanies and the lessons learned alomg the way = making the most of your and your listener's time!
Do you seriously want to adress questions such as 'how should I approch at the mall? How do i get attraction? How do i get physical? How do i make girls laugh man? How do i open? How do i get in state? How do i self amuse? How do i get a life?!?'
This shit has already been covered endlessly by EVERY single instructor, through articles, books, videos and audios.
Gimme a break guys, the only answers to your stupid little ass bitch questions is and has always been the same:
- Go out
- Take a bootcamp
- Find out what works yourself
Julien did you get good by asking 1000 questions? FUCK NO!
Because the guys who are experienced at this know that for every answer leads to new questions. This shit goeson forever.
What most people here need is 'inspiration' not 'answers'.
Dude just tell us about how you went from chode to champ! Tell us how your forced yourself to step up, how you trained yourself night after night. Tell us about your worst failures to the most amazing successes. Etc.
Inspire us to go into the field to find out our OWN answers to our questions!
It's of absolute no use to feed thumb sucking babied with answers to questions they wouldn't ask in the first place if they were going out.
Some people are paying for this shit and it's a cool opportuniy to have you do a mastermind.
Don't waste this occasion.
PS: if you are to use questions then at least use the type of questions alex used to interview derek, that was kinda cool
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Hey Julien
I'd be interested in your story as far as it's not getting to personal because it is understandable if you do not want to share your whole life publicly
so question:
What's your story :)
?
I'd be interested in your story as far as it's not getting to personal because it is understandable if you do not want to share your whole life publicly
so question:
What's your story :)
?
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And you know that imma ride with my motherfuckin niggas,
Most likely imma die with my finger on the trigga,
Don't worry bout mine, imma grind till I get it
And tell all of my niggas that the sky is the limit,
Most likely imma die with my finger on the trigga,
Don't worry bout mine, imma grind till I get it
And tell all of my niggas that the sky is the limit,
How do you get yourself in pure expression mode? is there literally no internal chatter? Btw love the smart winter peacoat, where can I get one ;-) ?
Text and day 2 game
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What do you do If the girl does something that legitamatelly pisses you off?
How do you handle the REALLY Hard Shit tests without getting sucked into it?
Sometimes even when I'm in the zone a girl will say or do something that I find unacceptable. She will either act like she is better than me, talk down to me, try to give me advice about how I should treat women since they were offended by something I said, which is total bullshit.. I realize these are shit tests and I usually just ignore it, but sometimes a girl will really get under my skin.
Especially when they try to give me advice about picking up girls, which has started happening allot lately, because I don't give a shit and say whatever I feel like. My mind starts going: "Bitch I have fucked so many girls so much hotter than you, I have been working at this shit for 8 fucking years, you are a snobby little bitch I'll show you who is the fucking boss."
I'm getting pissed right now just thinking about it. I fully believe 100% I am the highest value guy in any situation, and my natural response is never to back down when somebody challenges my authority. My natural response is to get fucking pissed, break the vibe, and put her in her place by being an asshole for real, verbally destroying her, making her cry, or she throws a drink in my face and trys to punch me in the dick, LITERALLY. Later I feel bad because the girl was probably a really nice person and I could have turned it around if I didn't get sucked into negativity and passed the shit test. I know I could have had these girls loving me, but my desire to punish them was higher than my desire to pick them up. I still have some resentment over some ex-girlfriends that burned me bad in the past and I fought with them allot and destroyed some pretty good relationships from this type of trigger response when they nag at me. I don't wanna be that asshole verbally abusive guy that treats girls like shit. Any insights you can give on how to overcome this would help me allot.
BTW, loved Hotseat. I look forward to meeting you again someday.
How do you handle the REALLY Hard Shit tests without getting sucked into it?
Sometimes even when I'm in the zone a girl will say or do something that I find unacceptable. She will either act like she is better than me, talk down to me, try to give me advice about how I should treat women since they were offended by something I said, which is total bullshit.. I realize these are shit tests and I usually just ignore it, but sometimes a girl will really get under my skin.
Especially when they try to give me advice about picking up girls, which has started happening allot lately, because I don't give a shit and say whatever I feel like. My mind starts going: "Bitch I have fucked so many girls so much hotter than you, I have been working at this shit for 8 fucking years, you are a snobby little bitch I'll show you who is the fucking boss."
I'm getting pissed right now just thinking about it. I fully believe 100% I am the highest value guy in any situation, and my natural response is never to back down when somebody challenges my authority. My natural response is to get fucking pissed, break the vibe, and put her in her place by being an asshole for real, verbally destroying her, making her cry, or she throws a drink in my face and trys to punch me in the dick, LITERALLY. Later I feel bad because the girl was probably a really nice person and I could have turned it around if I didn't get sucked into negativity and passed the shit test. I know I could have had these girls loving me, but my desire to punish them was higher than my desire to pick them up. I still have some resentment over some ex-girlfriends that burned me bad in the past and I fought with them allot and destroyed some pretty good relationships from this type of trigger response when they nag at me. I don't wanna be that asshole verbally abusive guy that treats girls like shit. Any insights you can give on how to overcome this would help me allot.
BTW, loved Hotseat. I look forward to meeting you again someday.
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My Field Reports:
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If you are a Newb READ THIS FIRST, THEN GO OUT:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170650
Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger
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