THE FORUMS

Monday - Feb 27, 2012

*No girl action in this report, just inner game ramblings.

Went and worked out for the first time in a month and a half. When working out I’m pretty damn focused and just do my own thing regardless if it looks stupid or not. For example, I do these neck exercises that looks like I’m practicing to suck a dick. A few others, but the neck exercises are the most extreme. Anyway, back on point; regardless of the gym I’m at I always notice what guys are there to get more fit/stronger (are truly focused) and those who are in it just for how their muscles look (not focused).

Nothing against body builders, but these guys don’t even compare to them. It’s like when these guys do their exercises you can see on their face “does this exercise make me look tough? Does it win me strength points?” Almost like these guys don’t know why they are at the gym. I noticed this before I got into RSD, but my improved social intuition really makes this stuff stand out. I see how absurd & funny this is then realize how awesome I am and will become. I can feel people noticing my centeredness when I’m just doing my own thing.

Bottom Line: Being a person who knows what they want and is willing to go through pain to get there is awesome. The process of building momentum in any area seems similar: resistance
> step up and do it (no excuses) > keep doing it > there is
minimal resistance and even excitment to do it again > step up ....
etc. I like working out and am going to maintain it. It energized me, makes me more centered, balanced, allows you to get ripped, and increases sex drive. 

Sat – March 3, 2012

Overview: Met up with RockNRoll and tflane3 (Tf). Chill at a place while we wait for Rock. Tf goes to get a cola and starts chatting with a cutie, awesome. Rock is going to meet up with a girl from Okcupid so he is kind of doing his own thing. The three of us hit up a few sets then Tf and I hit some other venues. Tf and I meet Rock again at the best venue in downtown and I start hitting stuff up hard. This is pretty much how the rest of my night goes: first being chill and building some momentum (solid hooks, a few early ejections), keep hitting up girls and taking things a bit further (claw, grinding), then hitting things up hard and going for almost every opportunity I have. I am still working on hitting up everything, but I’d say tonight was the closest I’ve been so far. I pry hit up about 80% of the opportunities I had and approached 25-30 girls. I didn’t have any harsh blowouts, everything seemed to hook well. Very fun night.

Some Good Sets: (throughout the night)
First set of the night. Open two girls and just chilled and chatted. One has a pretty strong personality but I’m still able to lead things a bit. We chat a bit more, then a bunch of her friends come in (like 5/6). She actually introduces me to all of her friends. I’m like “yea, I’m the random guy from the bar”. I’m overwhelmed and tell them I’m hanging with my buddies, they bounce.
Open a girl in a very loud club. Start dancing/spinning immediately. It’s her birthday (30) and she is pretty cute. I claw her in a few times and grind a bit. It seems on and I chat with the friends a bit, they are having fun with me. Rock txts me that another spot is good, so I puss out and Tf and I bounce.
On the dance floor I hand of god a short cutie who is dancing crazy. We look at each other and she is totally down with me. We dance, grind, and chat for a good 10 min. I don’t try for a makeout and eventually tell her I’m going to find my friend. Aka Puss out.
Stop a cutie hustling by. Get her to stop because I’m having fun and am attracted. This is expressed in the intense EC we have when I approach her. She is playing hard to get, but I’m close to her and bullshit with her about this while keeping the vibe going. It seems on, but we are in a busy part of the club and she goes to find her friends.
Street game! See these 2 gorgeous girls walking past Tf and I. I hustle and catch up to them.
   o Me: “excuse me, I thought you were adorable and had to meet you” (while we’re walking)
   o Her: …. (massive eye contact, seriously this is where it all goes down)
   o Me: “Hi I’m newstuff” (hold out hand)
   o Her: (she takes it and stops walking, she tells her super sexy friend to stop but she doesn’t hear)
At this point Tf must go in and stop her friend, unfortunately he hesitates too long (tflane3!). She tells me she is going to xyz venue and scurries off with her friend.
See the girl I opened on the dance floor with “hand of god”, she’s excited to see me. We hug or something and I bring her close, we chat a bit. They are bouncing to another place and she invites me. This is midway through the night and I decide to keep pushing Tf (but part of it was me pussing out).
I high five girls as I walk through the club/street. I open a girl with a high five, hooks hard and she is investing allot in the interaction. I don’t get physical and chat for a few more minutes than bounce.
Street Game! The three of us are walking at the end of the night. A big cutie is 50 feet ahead of us, alone. I’m like “who’s going for that girl?!”, it doesn’t matter. I jog up to her and it hooks well. She stop for a sec, but says she is working early (9am, it’s 2am… damn). I hold my ground but she says she must go and walks off. Massive EC on both sides. Immediately hit up a big group of girls walking by. They are walking across the street. I go for the high five, but they end up calling me gay or something. I act pissed (in a funny way) and grab two of the girls as they walk across the street. The fattie stays behind as the friend yell at her to cross. No fatties. I immediately try another girl walking by. I chat with her as I walk, but she won’t stop.
Hand of god a cutie. She is like “I’m name” and walks off. I re-open her a few minutes later. She is eating fries and shakes my hand. My hand is all greasy now, I give her shit about this. There is some chemistry between us. After a few minutes I get the number and head to my friends. They are like 10 feet away and it seems a bit awkward being this close as opposed to staying in and interacting with the girl.

Some Good Blowouts:
None to speak of. There weren’t really any blowouts in the traditional sense. It was more me ejecting early or the girls not stopping.

Bottom Line: I was able to push myself partly because I kept hitting things up and I was helping create the party with the Rock and Tf. This was definitely an “on” night but what’s funny is I was only comfortable executing the stuff (claw, hand of god, etc) I had been working on. It wasn’t like I turned into a complete pimp. This means I wasn’t pushing to failure on my sets, I was more caught up in having fun and pushing in the areas I had been focused on (claw, getting close to a girl, etc). Nothing terribly wrong with this, just an interesting reflection. Also, the intensity, anxiety, and tension from the previous night no doubt made a “regular night” so much easier.

Side Note:
-Tflane3 tells me about this bootcamp going on tonight, while we were out we see their crew. I thought that was funny.
-While in state I don’t really care that much about what people are saying. It’s more the energy behind it, as long as it’s positive I add to it. I noticed this with Rock/Tf and everyone else I interacted with.

Got a cold. Not going out this weekend.  Pretty lame.  I'll do some good reading though; physical game, 7 Habits, pick up a copy of mastery.  Lol the only books I've been reading are from RSD, this might not be healthy.

Fri - March 23, 2012

Still recovering from my cold/bronchitis and am pretty sure I'm on the up-swing. Didn't go out last weekend (23-25) and passed up an opportunity to hit up the Chicago nightlife because of it. No worries though, I'm going to have loads more opportunities to hit up the night life in Chicago, in the meantime it's downtown Cleveland.

One the last chapter of "the physical game" but am having trouble remembering to finish it.