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December 3rd, 2016
Master Guitarists, RSD Executive Coaches, Fundamentals - Advice for Newbs
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RockNRollPUA

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Hahaha The Game lol. I can't believe all the dumb shit that I used to do because of that book. Silly magic tricks and wearing trinkets lol. I can cold read like a motherfucker now, do the cube, read palms, and all that other dumb stuff that I used to think was necessary. How fucking rediculouse is it? I love running into pickup noobs that just read The Game and think its some mindblowing shit that is going to turn anybody that reads it into a fucking pimp. I was there until Blueprint Came out, then I actually started getting laid, ALOT. I think that routine shit is so silly, its like watching highschool kids that don't know jack shit about girls trying to be pimps. That shit worked for those guys in the book though, because it was their own personalities. The harsh reality of what being a pimp really looks like is totally different, and way more awesome.


Guys who just read the game and try to do pickup are like teenagers who just got their first $100 electric guitar and think they are going to be Yngwie Malmsteen in a few months. I would let any girl read that shit, because she wouldn't even understand what the fuck it was probably. I make girls read 9 Ball because its just a fucking awesome book and isn't wierd like the Game. I mean common, NLP? What the fuck, who do you know who is actually gettin laid uses NLP? I could make it work, cuz I can make anything work, and so could any of the RSD Coaches and other advanced guys. Its like if you are Van Halen you can shred on a shitty beat up guitar and it still sounds awesome, just not as good as when you shredding with real gear. You are still Van Halen, the skill is within yourself not the tools. Some noob ass guitar player with $20,000 of gear still plays like shit, they can't even wield it properly and just fuck it up.


*Paul Gilbert from Racer X

When I went to Hotseat, it was like going to see Yngwie Malmsteen and Paul Gilbert give a fucking guitar clinic. I'm pretty advanced at guitar and pickup but Tyler, Julien, and Jeff are on another level, and I assume the other instructors are as well but I haven't seen it on camera yet. That shit is their fucking craft. If you wanna be a shred master at guitar, learn from the best, practice, and after 5 years of work, you can blow the average musician out of the water, but you will still look up to the true masters and actually understand the depth of what they doing.  Thats what this shit is, mastering complicated awesome shit and making it a part of you.

You should have no more emotional attatchment to learning game than learning any other skillset.  You learn it because it is cool in an of itself.  Not for some ego bullshit, or to impress your friends.  Does Paul Gilbert look like he gives a fuck?  Do you think he got that good just to impress his friends or to impress some chick?  Do you think he practiced hours and hours and hours day after day year after year to stroke his own fucking ego? FUCK NO.  He got that good because he fucking loves playing guitar because playing guitar is awesome.  If you wanna be an advanced guy you just have to love doing pickup for the sake of doing it.  The same goes with getting good at anything be it sports, martial arts, body building, building a company, or anything else.  If you can get good at one thing, you can get good at another thing with basically the same exact principals.  Learn from the best to get an idea of what you are supposed to do so you don't have to reinvent everything from scratch, and PRACTICE YOUR FUCKING ASS OFF, INOVATE, AND MAKE IT YOUR OWN STYLE!

Practice the fundamentals.  Guitar fundamentals are 90% of guitar playing, which is about the same as pickup fundamentals.  If you don't have the basics like playing scales, power chords, basic rythm patterns, etc,  how the fuck are you going to do sweep arpeggios, pinch harmonics, dive bombs, and crazy string skipping patterns?  Even if you only learned the flashy guitar tricks and ignored the fundamentals, you still couldn't play guitar for shit.  99% of the guys working on this skillset haven't mastered the basics.  100% of the guys that are really fucking owning in any field are MASTERS OF THE BASICS.

Where should you be focusing as a newb?
1. Go out, and approach, every single fucking day atleast once.  Learn to open until you don't even think about it.  Don't even worry about anything else untill this is handled.  Until you can atleast walk up to a girl and start a normal conversation as easy as brushing your teeth, don't worry about esoteric mental masterbation bullshit..  What you can do in the Field is all that matters, not what you can memorise from the internet, books,  or how many times you watch Blueprint.

2.  Learn to talk without thinking about it.  Don't run out of shit to say, just say ANYTHING.  Talk about what you love, even if it is World of Fucking Warcraft if that is all you know.  Talk about whatever the fuck it is that you are interested in and don't even give a shit if the girl cares or knows anything about it.  Suck her into your fucking universe, and don't fall into hers.

3.  Learn to ping off of yourself.  Amuse yourself. Be the doer and the cause of everything.  Lead the interaction. Say and do things because you want to do them without even thinking for a split second what other people will think about it.  This is not a license to be an asshole or be a dumbass.  Use common sense.  But don't be afraid to break a few eggs to make an omlet.  I have had girls literally try to punch me in the fucking face for being an asshole only to have them sucking my cock 2 hours later.

4.  Learn not to give up against any odds and persist through any shit test until the interaction is burned to the fucking ground.  Don't eject at the first shit test, because if you are doing things right, and you are dealing with a hot socially experienced girl, you will fucking get shit tested. 

Nothing is impossible.  I wouldn't even be here if it wasn't for my dad being a badass fucking pimp back in his hayday.  My dad first met my mom after pulling her roomate back to her place and walking out to take a piss butt ass naked at the very moment my mom stumbled home from the bar.  My mom was engaged to another dude and my dad approached her on the fucking dance floor and tried to make out with her.  My mom punched him in the face (my mom is a fucking badass who doesn't take shit from anyone) and told him never to fucking touch her again.  Few hours later, she was banging my dad back at the Navy Base in the Barracks.  They have been married for 27 years and I was conceived on the honey moon and born 9 months later in Hawaii.  Actually they got divorced for 3 years and got remarried when I was little.  They told me this story when I was 20 when they both got drunk lol.

5.  Momentum is probably the most important discovery in pickup.  It just fucking works, period. Learn to build momentum, the steps are laid out perfectly, you just have to do it.  Watch Tylers videos on momentum building from the front page articals, and follow them to the letter.  This was the most important thing I learned this weekend.  This is the fastest and most conistent way to get into state that I have ever seen.  It is the fastest way to get results that I have ever encountered.  Do it until you get it right, period.

There are more fundamentals, but these are the most important ones that I have learned that apply to the widest variety of situations.  If you are missing any of these peices, it is like having a car without an engine.  There are still other things that are needed, but these are the core of everything.  Feel free to add any important fundamentals that you think need to be added in the thread below.
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Yes there definatelly are lessons you can take from it.  I would say for the vast majority of guys that read it, they take all of the wrong stuff from it because they don't have the reference experiences to put it into context.  They get an unrealistic view of what pickup looks like and if they don't snap out of it, then it probably does more harm than good.  I know, cuz I was one of those wierdo's for like 2 years.   The best thing the book does is it will atleast get dudes to try SOMETHING and probably help them find better resources to learn from.
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Thank you. Very clear...very motivating.
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Very nice post. 
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Fantastic post dude! So true. 

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Awesome post bro
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