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May 18th, 2013
im dating a SUPER inexperienced girl, anyone done this?!
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DavisBloome

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when i say inexperienced, i mean really inexperienced. she's 20 and im the 2nd guy she's ever kissed!!! wtf

im not sure why she's really cool and pretty, i think it's a combination of her going to all girls university (seven sisters? im not sure she's american and im english, but shes come for a few semesters) and she's kinda studyish so i guess doesnt think boys are a priority.

first date went well, drove her back, fumbling in my car (like i was seventeen again lol) and she said she really wanted to go out with me, so i was like aight cool.

second date was... ehh went for a coffee then movie and i thought we'd do some shit in the dark (again like i was a teenager ahaha) but she was kinda stiff. she loosened up on the way home and i had my arm around her, joking and laughing and stuff.

then at the end of the night, i got off the bus first and was like "im trying to figure this out cos ive never dated a girl so inexperienced" (but in a nicer/not so blunt way) and shes like "slow and steady" and i go to kiss her and she gives me her cheek? i assumed cos we were in public she was shy?

im a little baffled, last week i met a girl who slept with me after knowing me for an hour and a half and now its like fifteen and trying to get my girlfriend to touch my weener.

except i cant tell if she's not interested in me, or whether she's really shy.

anyone got any xp with a girl like this? usually a girl is all over me if she likes me, and she acts like she isnt that interested, but then cos im the 2nd guys she;s ever kissed im not sure

thanks

Davis
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HalfEmpty

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You're seeing this chick exclusively? Because at the end of the first date, she said she really wanted to date you?

She's gonna be super needy, not know how to handle herself in a relationship, confuse infatuation with love, and suck in bed.

Just like anyone who's inexperienced in love.  Not sure what possesed you to agree to this with a girl you haven't slept with, have only gone on one date with, and barely know.

Maybe there's something I'm not getting (Is the "dating" non-exclusive?) but from where I'm sitting, looks like a train-wreck wrapped in a disaster surrounded by a catastrophe.

As far as how to move forward with this... it's all just reframing with inexperienced girls. When I was younger this shit would happen all the time.  You find out their fucked up beliefs, and reframe them with more mature beliefs... or just play into her fantasies and pretend you'll be her prince charming.  But that would make you an asshole.
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DavisBloome

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sorry,

no i meant we went out and she wasn't sure it was a date and really wanted it to be a date

im not dating her exclusively,
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the force has led her to you.
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DavisBloome

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Lotion wrote:
the force has led her to you.
thank you, i thought so too
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I just recently hooked up with a virgin.....let me give you a few tips I learned.

-Girls like this have their minds saying (you cant fk till you're married, it's wrong blah blah blah...) ON THE OTHER HAND their body is saying (omg I want this little man inside me so hard)
  They have a difficult thing going on inside of them when this happens, it doesn't mean she doesn't want to get stuffed by you.

-They will ALWAYS say they want to take it slow, we know better then this.  When I first kissed her I pulled her away from my friends and said "I like you" looked at her lips grabbed her whole fking head and stuck my toung in her mouth.  Normally I would say "I bet your lips taste as good as your neck does" or something more blunt but not for girls like this.

-When you invite them to your place its going to 1. take some fking time, they won't say yes right away.  and 2. you need to give her a rationalization "I don't want you walking home alone, just stay the night, but no touching me!  Eventually she will say "yes" and when she gets in the bedroom turn up your game.  Tell her how she is gonna get you in trouble because she has this "aroma (spelling) of estrogen" and that you can't help yourself.

-Forplay for a long time bro, girls like this need to be super hot, sweaty, and horney for them to let you take off their pants....you can tell when she's ready to go when she starts dry fking YOU. Stick your knee in between her legs and let her go to town on that shit.  Then stick your hand on the out side of her pants and when she's cool with that, take off the pants.....again you will probably have to give her another rationalization, I can't remember what I said but it was something like "I don't want to ruin your pants" and she was cool with it.

Have fun with it bro, she wants you I already know, but god be damned if she ever shows it.
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Ive dated unexperienced girls.My advice would be to eventually drop a hand,Believe me that will change things in your  relationship.
But make sure its at an appropriate intimate time,and accept  it if she says no or stop.
Thanks
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AlexV

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 i have done this


don't do this


it's not worth it


let some chodes housebreak her
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Here is the situation ...

I fucked this 20 year old virgin...

Had this bitch swallowing my loads on command...

Tight fucking body...

Basically beat that pussy up...

I tried my best to make it clear that a relationship was out if the question ...

Now she is emotionally damaged...

She claims she isn't...

But I can tell she is depressed...

She def thought we were gonna end up together...

So I eventually ended it completely...

You tread on fragile territory sir...

You can press it and take it to awesome places...

But you risk fucking this girl up...

Your call homie ...

I mean she is eventually going back to america right...

So you might as well leave her some good memories...

Like she prob don't got friends around to judge her...

I.d try and smash her...

Hopefully she stays sane...
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DavisBloome

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DamTon wrote:
I just recently hooked up with a virgin.....let me give you a few tips I learned.

-Girls like this have their minds saying (you cant fk till you're married, it's wrong blah blah blah...) ON THE OTHER HAND their body is saying (omg I want this little man inside me so hard)
  They have a difficult thing going on inside of them when this happens, it doesn't mean she doesn't want to get stuffed by you.

-They will ALWAYS say they want to take it slow, we know better then this.  When I first kissed her I pulled her away from my friends and said "I like you" looked at her lips grabbed her whole fking head and stuck my toung in her mouth.  Normally I would say "I bet your lips taste as good as your neck does" or something more blunt but not for girls like this.

-When you invite them to your place its going to 1. take some fking time, they won't say yes right away.  and 2. you need to give her a rationalization "I don't want you walking home alone, just stay the night, but no touching me!  Eventually she will say "yes" and when she gets in the bedroom turn up your game.  Tell her how she is gonna get you in trouble because she has this "aroma (spelling) of estrogen" and that you can't help yourself.

-Forplay for a long time bro, girls like this need to be super hot, sweaty, and horney for them to let you take off their pants....you can tell when she's ready to go when she starts dry fking YOU. Stick your knee in between her legs and let her go to town on that shit.  Then stick your hand on the out side of her pants and when she's cool with that, take off the pants.....again you will probably have to give her another rationalization, I can't remember what I said but it was something like "I don't want to ruin your pants" and she was cool with it.

Have fun with it bro, she wants you I already know, but god be damned if she ever shows it.
thanks really helpful,

to the other comments, im not an asshole, im a real gentleman :) im not going to hurt her
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 Beast mode
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