THE FORUMS
Full Expression Mode, how to calibrate it?
Plow OVER the intial resistance, the reason girls are blowing you out is because you're pausing with uncertainty after you say these things. You're saying: "Check out my Moustache!" then pausing and waiting for their reaction. Instead you want to be like: "Check out my Sexy Stache! Bla Bla Bla Bla......" It has nothing to do with toning down your "Expression", because you can literally say ANYTHING as long as you keep talking and don't pause for a reaction.
Heres what you're doing (Reaction Seeking)
You: I wanna fuck your face!
Girl: WTF!!! (Blow Out)
How you Should Do It (Shifting Sands)
You: I wanna fuck your face! I love feeding my dog bananas! It loves them for some reason, but really hates popcorn! When I first got it I wanted to name him Garfield, that would've been awesome!
Girl: Ha ha Ha! What type of dog do you have?
See what happened? Because you kept talking over the "Obnoxious Comment" you dropped, she completely forgot about what you just said and instead latched onto the new thread. Women only emotionally feel what is currently presented to them, so if you keep transitioning she won't process the last thing you said. This is how you can "Self Amuse" yourself with extremely offensive shit and not get blown out because you pissed her off. You want to be "Dynamic" with your verbal game, constantly leading the conversation and making her chase you by trying to keep up. Be the "Cause" not the "Effect".
Heres what you're doing (Reaction Seeking)
You: I wanna fuck your face!
Girl: WTF!!! (Blow Out)
How you Should Do It (Shifting Sands)
You: I wanna fuck your face! I love feeding my dog bananas! It loves them for some reason, but really hates popcorn! When I first got it I wanted to name him Garfield, that would've been awesome!
Girl: Ha ha Ha! What type of dog do you have?
See what happened? Because you kept talking over the "Obnoxious Comment" you dropped, she completely forgot about what you just said and instead latched onto the new thread. Women only emotionally feel what is currently presented to them, so if you keep transitioning she won't process the last thing you said. This is how you can "Self Amuse" yourself with extremely offensive shit and not get blown out because you pissed her off. You want to be "Dynamic" with your verbal game, constantly leading the conversation and making her chase you by trying to keep up. Be the "Cause" not the "Effect".
Jeffy being a nerd & explaining things:
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so do you feel like you're a fat man whose eating right but still fat?
if you're actually eating right, keep eating right, and your fat will go away
no kidding, it takes a while for the outside world to catch up to your new behaviors in most cases
however, if you are eating whole grain muffins, you should be aware that that shit ain't gonna help you lose fat homie...
if you're actually eating right, keep eating right, and your fat will go away
no kidding, it takes a while for the outside world to catch up to your new behaviors in most cases
however, if you are eating whole grain muffins, you should be aware that that shit ain't gonna help you lose fat homie...
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RSD Misinterpreted: A Series of Posts on Popular RSD Ideas and How I Used to Misunderstand Them
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Plow OVER the intial resistance, the reason girls are blowing you out is because you're pausing with uncertainty after you say these things. You're saying: "Check out my Moustache!" then pausing and waiting for their reaction. Instead you want to be like: "Check out my Sexy Stache! Bla Bla Bla Bla......" It has nothing to do with toning down your "Expression", because you can literally say ANYTHING as long as you keep talking and don't pause for a reaction.
Heres what you're doing (Reaction Seeking)
You: I wanna fuck your face!
Girl: WTF!!! (Blow Out)
You are right. because I started with self amusement a few weeks ago and it is a new behavior for me and I check the reaction of the girl because it i s a new way of behaving. I have to self amuse and let it go! thanks :) Heres what you're doing (Reaction Seeking)
You: I wanna fuck your face!
Girl: WTF!!! (Blow Out)
so do you feel like you're a fat man whose eating right but still fat?
if you're actually eating right, keep eating right, and your fat will go away
no kidding, it takes a while for the outside world to catch up to your new behaviors in most cases
however, if you are eating whole grain muffins, you should be aware that that shit ain't gonna help you lose fat homie...
Yes a new world is opening! The fat will go away! thanks if you're actually eating right, keep eating right, and your fat will go away
no kidding, it takes a while for the outside world to catch up to your new behaviors in most cases
however, if you are eating whole grain muffins, you should be aware that that shit ain't gonna help you lose fat homie...
Misteral
Junior Member
Join Date: 08/03/2009 | Posts: 26
One week ago, i started working on the self amusement and 100% expression concept. I go in a bar and say what pump me up, what amuses me and express it 100% illogical like " Oi, my moustache match your hair, who are you? Are you real? bla bla"
Saying this kind of things really pumps me up and my state becomes very good because i find it very funny for me. BUT The girl is almost giving me " the look" and she blows me out.
is it possible that it is too far outisde of the girl reality and she blows me out? If yes, you have to adapt your expression to the situation and the girl? But then it becomes impression no? Do you have similar experiences?
Thanks for your help