THE FORUMS

Wednesday:

City deserted, freeze a good hour walking from venue to venue before I hit a spot with exchange students. Check out the crowd - Nothing too special. Start talking to 2 Swedish girls. Realize none of them are hot, move on to another girl and guy. Didn't spot a single girl above 7.

But when the club is empty, I treat it like practice. Start talking to some dudes, see a girl I made out with last week drunk off of Moet give me the eyes. Ignore her. Start talking to her friend. Music too loud to hear shit so I just spit Drake lyrics in her ear untill she assumes I'm intoxicated. Turn around talk to some guys and another girl.

Couple girls stare while I pass by, see the one friend push the other to co e talk to me. I give her a hug. Ask how her night is going and excuse myself. Get a beer for free by a guy I know, down it, chit chat with the coat girl and I'm out.

# of Approaches: 10-11

Hitting up the first official uni party tomorrow where there's bound to be hot girls and a bunch of people. Do the same shit just with a real intent to get some of the girls there.

 
Friday: 
Start the day off with a promotion from my boss. I'm the official marketing- and sales coordinator for an innovation project by one of the largest companies on Forbes. Will be working with side-by-side with a multi-millionaire Harvard educated man with the hottest wife I ever saw someone have above 40. And the man is a real man. Pleasure to learn from him. Close a couple of sales during the day and I already know this is going to carry through in the evening..

And so it did. Start the night off with a bottle of expensive grapes - (Note: Not a drinker, but lately I've just been receieving a lot of free stuff incl. alcohol) - Head over to my friends cocktail bar where we shoot the shit, talk about life, women, music and crack ourselves up. Got a great vibe going and we head downtown.

Roll up into a larger up-scale bar and start talking to them pretty thangs ;0) Great crowd tonight, a LOT of people. Do some conversating here and there, getting myself loose. End up in a 3-set of girls and start talking to this shortie with a bubbly personality. She erases everything from last night and just solidifies my flow by bringing the best out of me. I'm busting out funny shit, lifting her up a couple of times and just being in her ear. Buys me a drink, I thank her with a make-out. Part ways and I'm on to the next ones. 

Couple other girls are what I call "cramped up". I bring the party, but their vibes are just too cramped to accept it. I give them a chance, plow through but in the end get bored and excuse myself with "AAAH well. Sorry for your loss" and leave while they sit back befundled.

Roll up to a 2-set, say hi to both, tell her the lesser cute friend that I'm stealing her friend and that she's in good hands. She nods in acceptance and pushes her friend towards me. I lead her away to another part of the bar and go "I think... YOU.. are TOO.. adorable". Say the last word with all space removed between us, roll my head down her neck, smell her hair and make-out.  Keep talking, dancing, lifting her.. Her friend comes by and says they have to go because their cab is outside. She apologizes for taking her away, I give her a hug, get the digits and roll on.

NOW. I see a stunning 9 sitting in the pseudo-VIP area with some cheap bottles on the table and a guy on each side of her. She's bored. I roll up, lean in over the table and tell her I think she's adorable and I HAD to meet her. Grab her arm, lead her to my side of the table ask if "Those are your HUGE boyfriends who are gonna kick my ass?".. She denys with a happy smile "God no.. They're not".. "Ok" lead her away to a more secluded place. 

And.. we.. hit it OFF.. RIGHT from the start. Same educations, a lot of the same interests. She's BEAUTIFUL. Tall, slim, dark-haired and wearing some sexy leather pants and heels. Tease her about her height, she bends down, I grab her by the waist and maneuver her around as I feel like it. Smell her hair - And I SERIOUSLY get infatuated with her smell. That shit was intoxicating. Everytime I come close to her neck she kind of melts and relaxes. I see the eyes, but I make her wait..

Then I lift her up, put her towards the wall, push a couple other guys away and full make-out! Soft lips, great kisser. I feel like Jamie Oliver describing food here!

We stay together for a good 30 mins, where in she DOES tell me "Listen.. YOU.. Are a great guy! You could probably have any girl in here tonight. But I just came out of a 5 year relationship". So I acknowledge that and tell her "Listen, I just love talking to you and being around you. I also just came out of a relationship, so it's all good". Oh AND I kept asking her to punch me all the time whenever I could. She laughed her ass off, did it once and when she saw it had NO affect on me, she melted again. Make-out again, we exchange digits cuz she has to take care of some friends and into the night she goes. LOVED that interaction.

Bounce with my friends to the McDonald's, shoot shit about the night, prevent a guy from being killed by my friend cuz he starts talking shit and end text the girls on the way back home with a brief msg. Get a text back from the 9 saying "A pleasure meeting you too! Hopefully I will see you again tomorrow!" referring to a Fashion Week Party going on. Got another text from the 1st girl who I'm meeting up with on Tuesday.

That's that, on to the next one and tonight is gonna be huge! Momentum has been building the last 3 nights out and tonight it should coincide nicely. Or it may blow.. Only one way to find out gentlemen.

# of Approaches: 20-25
# of Make-Outs: 3

✘ Learning points: ALWAYS go for what appears to be the "hardest" set. It always ends up in A) I get a HOTTIE or B) It pumps my state to the roof. Plow through the cramp-face as much as possible.  

Caught up with massive workload last week and only dabbled with it. Back this week in full force.

Going out Tues, Wed, Thurs, Fri & Sat - starting with a date tonight and another tomorrow. 

Read some poetry at my friends cocktail place and got a 28 year old mom interested right off the bat. As I was working, she added me on Facebook the other day and we've been exchanging msgs. 

Get ready fellas!

Tuesday:
Valentines Day. Wake up 5 am to go work out and handle some business. Don't understand why people hate on V Day. Whether it's commercial or not, if you feel like doing something special, go ahead and do it. If not, don't. It's all good bro.

Meet up with the hottie I met last week. Right off the bat I'm in my zone, feeling comfortable and leading her to a venue I picked for drinks. This girl turns out to be INCREDIBLY cute, sexy, smart, well-traveled and apparently rich! (Find out she lives downtown so all of a sudden I'm looking at great logistics). We vibe well, I'm comfortable and being myself. I have no idea what this girls name is but at some point she pulls out her scuba diving license and I get that under control as well. We end up talking for 3-4 hours with a brief make-out session in the middle. Wasn't as smooth on that as I want to be as I'm still getting used to the trenches, but it's fine.

After all this conversating and getting to know each other, this girl is a 10 in my book. But I still don't give a damn about what happens and I'm being honest about everything. She tests me a couple of times by saying that a lot of girls must like me, that I go out a lot etc. Either I just say some funny stuff I'm thinking of at that time or don't even notice it untill later. Like "Hey. That was a test. Ha". 

While I get us drinks, I talk to the bartender and get a conversation going. Excited about spending a great night with a cool girl. 

I walk her back home and we initiate make-out. Get pretty hot and heavy and then her neighbor walks by and she gets a bit self-conscious. I continue, she continues. Ass is perfect. Soft lips. But she breaks it off. She just got out of a 6 year relationship and it was too early. I probably could've taken it further if I wanted to, but it was fine by me. I had time and I'm going to work early tomorrow. 

Great night, great girl. Exactly the ones I'm aiming for.

✘ Learning points: Relate more man-to-a-woman instead of charismatic friend which I've gotten used to by being in a relationship. Create more sexual tension and use more body language to convey message. Let her talk (tough) and lead lead lead.