THE FORUMS
WHATEVER GUY THAT'S INSECURE ABOUT HIS LOOKS SHOULD HIT THE GYM EVERYDAY, EAT WELL, SKIN CARE, ETC. AND ON TOP OF THAT GO OUT AND LEARN TO BE GOOD WITH WOMEN. THERE IS NOTHING TO GAIN BY FUCKING COMPLAINING ABOUT IT ALL THE TIME AND IT DOESN'T EVEN MAKE SENSE TO COMPLAIN ANYMORE EITHER. I'M THINKING OF ERASING "COMPLAINING" FROM MY VOCABULARY N REALITY. I USED TO WORK WITH A 5'2 GUY THAT WAS DOING RELATIVELY WELL WITH WOMEN WITHOUT BEING INTO PUA.
THERE ARE NO FUCKING EXCUSES!!! I HOPE GOD HELPS YOU GUYS THAT ARE INSECURE ABOUT YOUR LOOKS. THERE IS SO MUCH YOU CAN DO TO LOOK YOUR BEST AND NOTHING STOPPING YOU FROM DOING IT.
I DON'T WANNA SOUND FUCKED UP OR HARSH AND DON'T TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY BUT
GETTING LAID SHOULD BE EASY!!! AND IF U CAN'T GET LAID OR ARE A VIRGIN THEN YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT PLACE TO LEARN!! BOOKS, RSDNATION,RSD, HOTSEAT, ETC
STOP BEING INSECURE OR COMPLAINING! START IMPROVING YOURSELF INSIDE AND OUT AND GO OUT AND PARTY HAVE FUN WITH GIRLS. GET YOURSELF AND YOUR LIFE TOGETHER! I REPEAT GETTING LAID SHOULD BE EASY!! IT'S ALL HERE ON THE INTERNET!! Like Brad says "Use your head", "Think for yourself"!
GOOD LUCK YALL.
THERE ARE NO FUCKING EXCUSES!!! I HOPE GOD HELPS YOU GUYS THAT ARE INSECURE ABOUT YOUR LOOKS. THERE IS SO MUCH YOU CAN DO TO LOOK YOUR BEST AND NOTHING STOPPING YOU FROM DOING IT.
I DON'T WANNA SOUND FUCKED UP OR HARSH AND DON'T TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY BUT
GETTING LAID SHOULD BE EASY!!! AND IF U CAN'T GET LAID OR ARE A VIRGIN THEN YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT PLACE TO LEARN!! BOOKS, RSDNATION,RSD, HOTSEAT, ETC
STOP BEING INSECURE OR COMPLAINING! START IMPROVING YOURSELF INSIDE AND OUT AND GO OUT AND PARTY HAVE FUN WITH GIRLS. GET YOURSELF AND YOUR LIFE TOGETHER! I REPEAT GETTING LAID SHOULD BE EASY!! IT'S ALL HERE ON THE INTERNET!! Like Brad says "Use your head", "Think for yourself"!
GOOD LUCK YALL.
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"No one can be told what the matrix is you have to see it for yourself.....There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path."
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting
." I think this is true
"A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting
." I think this is true "A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
Lol,
Girls are attracted to looks ALSO. Behaviour is just more important in 99 cases of a 100. If a guy is good looking its A BIT EASIER in field. If a guy is ugly its a BIT HARDER. If your a real troll, like a dwarf in a wheelchair with mental disabilities - its impossible to get layed.
Looks is something that can help a guy, just like so many other things. Game works for the wast majority of dudes (err, well, looks is not the issue if a guy isnt getting results).
The end.
Girls are attracted to looks ALSO. Behaviour is just more important in 99 cases of a 100. If a guy is good looking its A BIT EASIER in field. If a guy is ugly its a BIT HARDER. If your a real troll, like a dwarf in a wheelchair with mental disabilities - its impossible to get layed.
Looks is something that can help a guy, just like so many other things. Game works for the wast majority of dudes (err, well, looks is not the issue if a guy isnt getting results).
The end.
The problem is that you cant have a rational discussion about it in this community, because people are so emotional about this subject and tend to go to extremes.
If you show a picture of one good looking guy and one ugly guy to 100 girls i can promise you that the good looking dude will get almost all of the votes, so obviously if you have nothing else to go on looks is some kind of value.
HOWEVER looks is not the best evolutionary indicator of male value, because looks alone doesn't kill animals, build shelters, lead tribes, resourcefulness etc therefore looks in guys is quite low on the attraction scale, therefore someone with "game" can quite quickly smoke someone who only have "looks", because looks have very little leverage.
Just be thankful that you are men and have control over 80-90% of your attraction value, when girls are born with at stuck with 80-90% of their attraction value.
As a man you have NO excuse to not get good with girls since you have control over almost all of your attraction value.
If you show a picture of one good looking guy and one ugly guy to 100 girls i can promise you that the good looking dude will get almost all of the votes, so obviously if you have nothing else to go on looks is some kind of value.
HOWEVER looks is not the best evolutionary indicator of male value, because looks alone doesn't kill animals, build shelters, lead tribes, resourcefulness etc therefore looks in guys is quite low on the attraction scale, therefore someone with "game" can quite quickly smoke someone who only have "looks", because looks have very little leverage.
Just be thankful that you are men and have control over 80-90% of your attraction value, when girls are born with at stuck with 80-90% of their attraction value.
As a man you have NO excuse to not get good with girls since you have control over almost all of your attraction value.
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Yes. The PUA community is not about do X,Y,Z AND TADA!! YOU GET LAID!!!! It's a "guide". You have to figure out what works for you by "interacting with girls" and internalizing (YOU GUYS KNOW WHAT INTERNALIZING MEANS= EXECUTING PUA/RSD PRINCIPLES WHEN BEING WITH GIRLS) YOU HAVE TO FIGURE IT OUT SOME THINGS FOR YOURSELF for example if you're getting laid alot when you're lifting weights all the time then keep doing it. DUHHH!! If you seddenly start getting laid alot after starting MMA classes then..... KEEP DOING IT!!! DUHHHH!!!
However one day you may stop taking the MMA classes,etc and you find yourself still getting laid because you've been going out and have gotten good at executing the RSD/PUA principles. YOU GOT THAT. Success with women is complex and can take guys up to a year or more to get good. If you put in the time then you will have the life you desire. THE MORE TIME N FOCUS YOU PUT IN THE BETTER! UP TO EACH N EVERYONE OF YOU. RSDNATION#1 Peace
However one day you may stop taking the MMA classes,etc and you find yourself still getting laid because you've been going out and have gotten good at executing the RSD/PUA principles. YOU GOT THAT. Success with women is complex and can take guys up to a year or more to get good. If you put in the time then you will have the life you desire. THE MORE TIME N FOCUS YOU PUT IN THE BETTER! UP TO EACH N EVERYONE OF YOU. RSDNATION#1 Peace
Lol,
Girls are attracted to looks ALSO. Behaviour is just more important in 99 cases of a 100. If a guy is good looking its A BIT EASIER in field. If a guy is ugly its a BIT HARDER. If your a real troll, like a dwarf in a wheelchair with mental disabilities - its impossible to get layed.
Looks is something that can help a guy, just like so many other things. Game works for the wast majority of dudes (err, well, looks is not the issue if a guy isnt getting results).
The end.
Girls are attracted to looks ALSO. Behaviour is just more important in 99 cases of a 100. If a guy is good looking its A BIT EASIER in field. If a guy is ugly its a BIT HARDER. If your a real troll, like a dwarf in a wheelchair with mental disabilities - its impossible to get layed.
Looks is something that can help a guy, just like so many other things. Game works for the wast majority of dudes (err, well, looks is not the issue if a guy isnt getting results).
The end.
__________________
"No one can be told what the matrix is you have to see it for yourself.....There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path."
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting." I think this is true
"A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting
." I think this is true "A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
Why ending the looks matter debate? It is some of the most asked questions guys have. It will never go away.
Nice one. I think we got some good responses so far. Good Luck yall.
The problem is that you cant have a rational discussion about it in this community, because people are some emotional about this subject and tend to go to extremes.
If you show a picture of one good looking guy and one ugly guy to 100 girls i can promise you that the good looking dude will get almost all of the votes, so obviously if you have nothing else to go on looks is some kind of value.
HOWEVER looks is not the best evolutionary indicator of male value, because looks alone doesn't kill animals, build shelters, lead tribes, resourcefulness etc therefore looks in guys is quite low on the attraction scale, therefore someone with "game" can quite quickly smoke someone who only have "looks", because looks have very little leverage.
Just be thankful that you are men and have control over 80-90% of your attraction value, when girls are born with at stuck with 80-90% of their attraction value.
As a man you have NO excuse to not get good with girls since you have control over almost all of your attraction value.
If you show a picture of one good looking guy and one ugly guy to 100 girls i can promise you that the good looking dude will get almost all of the votes, so obviously if you have nothing else to go on looks is some kind of value.
HOWEVER looks is not the best evolutionary indicator of male value, because looks alone doesn't kill animals, build shelters, lead tribes, resourcefulness etc therefore looks in guys is quite low on the attraction scale, therefore someone with "game" can quite quickly smoke someone who only have "looks", because looks have very little leverage.
Just be thankful that you are men and have control over 80-90% of your attraction value, when girls are born with at stuck with 80-90% of their attraction value.
As a man you have NO excuse to not get good with girls since you have control over almost all of your attraction value.
__________________
"No one can be told what the matrix is you have to see it for yourself.....There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path."
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting." I think this is true
"A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting
." I think this is true "A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
... what's the point of this thread?
That looks don't matter? ...don't be ignorant. If you face is considered genetically beautiful, you will have A LOT easier in life. There are also STANDARTS in face for beauty.
BUT - that doesn't mean a shit. Either you START to believe that you CAN be successfully in life and with women (even if you are genetically plain ugly), or you DON'T. It's all up to you. But don't be an idiot, thinkin that "looks don't matter". It's only on a very deep level of understanding of life and social dynamics in gerneral that looks don't matter anymore.
YES. You CAN achieve WHATEVER YOU WANT in life while being ugly. BUT, it won't be easier if you allready have engraved deeply rooted issues because of your looks. And there's no question about that. Don't make yourself a fool. You're to smart for that shit. See what is there and from there act on it. Do whatever you can to achieve the life you want. Even if you're truely ugly.
There's no alternative.
Basically it's right for most of the guys to say: "Looks don't matter. Make yourself a better lookin guy by going to gym and dress nice", and all that shit. BUT, there are guys out there who have deeply rooted emotional/mental issues with their looks.
For some it's not just "I'm ugly, women don't like me for who I really 'am. - Hey... I think I should get a new haircut and go the the gym." and all that "I improve my self" shit.
For some guys it's more like: "YES. I' AM UGLY. But I don't care. I won't try to make myself a fool, believing that my genetically potential, measured by my looks, is worth a SHIT for women and people in gerneral. BUT I DON'T CARE! There's no alternative. So I have to do what I have to do. Without depending on feeling good looking."
For some guys it's absolutely out of their reality that they are "good lookin". Not because they are stupid or just too lazy to hit the gym and dress nice and all that shit, but because they aren't afraid to look truth in the eyes. They don't feel the NEED anymore to get ANYTHING out of good looks or whatever source of "good emotions". They just don't care this shit. They let the issues burn out themselves by not feeding them with the NEED to exchange those negative feeling with postive ones.
That looks don't matter? ...don't be ignorant. If you face is considered genetically beautiful, you will have A LOT easier in life. There are also STANDARTS in face for beauty.
BUT - that doesn't mean a shit. Either you START to believe that you CAN be successfully in life and with women (even if you are genetically plain ugly), or you DON'T. It's all up to you. But don't be an idiot, thinkin that "looks don't matter". It's only on a very deep level of understanding of life and social dynamics in gerneral that looks don't matter anymore.
YES. You CAN achieve WHATEVER YOU WANT in life while being ugly. BUT, it won't be easier if you allready have engraved deeply rooted issues because of your looks. And there's no question about that. Don't make yourself a fool. You're to smart for that shit. See what is there and from there act on it. Do whatever you can to achieve the life you want. Even if you're truely ugly.
There's no alternative.
Basically it's right for most of the guys to say: "Looks don't matter. Make yourself a better lookin guy by going to gym and dress nice", and all that shit. BUT, there are guys out there who have deeply rooted emotional/mental issues with their looks.
For some it's not just "I'm ugly, women don't like me for who I really 'am. - Hey... I think I should get a new haircut and go the the gym." and all that "I improve my self" shit.
For some guys it's more like: "YES. I' AM UGLY. But I don't care. I won't try to make myself a fool, believing that my genetically potential, measured by my looks, is worth a SHIT for women and people in gerneral. BUT I DON'T CARE! There's no alternative. So I have to do what I have to do. Without depending on feeling good looking."
For some guys it's absolutely out of their reality that they are "good lookin". Not because they are stupid or just too lazy to hit the gym and dress nice and all that shit, but because they aren't afraid to look truth in the eyes. They don't feel the NEED anymore to get ANYTHING out of good looks or whatever source of "good emotions". They just don't care this shit. They let the issues burn out themselves by not feeding them with the NEED to exchange those negative feeling with postive ones.
to understand these issues about looks or money guys here would have to look at the big picture of attraction instead of just cold approach (gaming). but since this is the forum that is focused on building the skillset then it's understandable that other factors are being ignored.
owen purposefully ignores these other factors in order to hammer it down to lost guys that to meet and sleep with a girl all you need is the skillset and nothing more. and that is true.
however if we talked about bigger picture (lifestyle) then more sources of status would be discussed.
owen purposefully ignores these other factors in order to hammer it down to lost guys that to meet and sleep with a girl all you need is the skillset and nothing more. and that is true.
however if we talked about bigger picture (lifestyle) then more sources of status would be discussed.
Zoom,
Very good post. Its important to emphazise that attraction for girls is not as STATIC as for guys.
Being good looking dosent mean a guy is attractive.
Being ugly dosent mean a guy is unattractive.
Looks should be viewed as something that can HELP a guy, like so many other things but you dont NEED it to ATTRACT. HEALTH indicators are more important on women, since they give birth to children. But doesnt mean it aint a factor AT ALL on men. It can be an important form of value in individual cases, but generally:
1. A guys behaviour
2. How others treat him
are more important. Looks does and it doesnt matter, based on how you view it. CHARISMA, clothes and subcommunication, the way a guy carries himself is more fucking important than objective beauty in MOST cases.
If one dosent make a big deal about looks in ones REALITY it dosent become a big deal, like Tyler says. Alphas shape their reality and how much it matters in ones reality is up to oneself :]. The girl is invited into that reality....
Very good post. Its important to emphazise that attraction for girls is not as STATIC as for guys.
Being good looking dosent mean a guy is attractive.
Being ugly dosent mean a guy is unattractive.
Looks should be viewed as something that can HELP a guy, like so many other things but you dont NEED it to ATTRACT. HEALTH indicators are more important on women, since they give birth to children. But doesnt mean it aint a factor AT ALL on men. It can be an important form of value in individual cases, but generally:
1. A guys behaviour
2. How others treat him
are more important. Looks does and it doesnt matter, based on how you view it. CHARISMA, clothes and subcommunication, the way a guy carries himself is more fucking important than objective beauty in MOST cases.
If one dosent make a big deal about looks in ones REALITY it dosent become a big deal, like Tyler says. Alphas shape their reality and how much it matters in ones reality is up to oneself :]. The girl is invited into that reality....
I know johnny had good intentions but this is just gonna turn into another run of the mill do looks matter debate.....smh.Rsd should find some fat ugly guy and train him to be a pimp and tape the whole process.That would destroy looks matter debates once and for all.
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JohnnyCanada
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Join Date: 02/20/2011 | Posts: 516
First of all, to all the guys that have issues with this and insist that looks DO matter, then would it be fair to say that you would be better off giving up and stop wasting your time learning about game, posting on the forum and asking for advice?
The instructors at RSD do not carry around magic wands they can wave over you to make you grow taller, lose weight, grow your hair, change your face, etc so if they can't make you look like what you think attracts girls, then why would you even want to learn from them?. The concepts and advice are obviously futile unless you have good genetics.
http://www.sensationallifestyle.com/