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December 10th, 2016
Elite Levels of Game
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MADISON*

MADISON*

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Join Date: 07/07/2008 | Posts: 92

Allrighty, I got 25 mins exactly to type this. Im using the “The Pomodoro Technique” to type this up. As per Google the definition of this technique is “a productivity methodology that helps you to stay focused on a task by breaking up your day into 25-minute work stints (called “pomodoros”) followed by five-minute breaks.” Anyways I have been owning with minimal effort - been like going out to clubs 1 time a month and just railing 6 chicks a month. But hold up – lets stop right there for a moment. I just wanna say sex has absolutely no meaning to me. At all... sex no longer makes me feel cool. See, that’s how most of ya loose chicks. You get validation from banging the girl, and she can feel it. She can sense that you would feel somehow better about yourself by getting her. And that’s where you fail. You have to reverse that. Not as a gimmick or trick, but you need to make that emotional maturity shift. We’ll talk a little bit more about that later…. At this point I have had so many girls I am to lazy to follow up on phone numbers for dates with 7’s. No shit, I got 10 numbers this week. And I can only be bothered to meet up with 2 of them. The 2 that I am meeting up with are interesting as people to me. They are worth my time, because I have developed my life to have so much cool shit in it. Working for RSD, travel, I just got a bowflex, Casino marketing job, masonry, public speeches. I genuinely feel that if a girl is getting with me she is winning. Like I could be the best thing to happen to her in 2012. I am unique in my lane. No one like me, I own myself. This is how we are always taught to feel. And to an extent you can trick your mind to believe this with mental games. But at some point you have to become that man and actually have the discipline to live by those values and guide lines you create for yourself. Develop your internal wealth, virtue, honor. So that when a situation comes up and a girl expects you to stoop to a low level of behavior, your internal soul says “no, that’s not me, I am better than this. And I know people cant see it, but I can see it” … and then eventually you start to become it. Ive noticed the past few weeks that girls take a step back, and then are like… wait a minute… he is THAT guy. Ohhhh shit. And its done. Like for real. Be that guy, a man, and what men should be. Be sexy, firm, have vision, and value unseen things. So ya man, been owning. Girls with BF’s, without, 10 minuet interactions, on the internet, whatever… they have all been reacting the same. They have been reacting, and I haven’t. im just trying to be me. In regards to my game? Well I dropped all of it pretty much, I am socially calibrated like a mother fucka, and my ability is stupid-fresh from years in the game. So I have just been letting the honest expression speak for itself. A quick note about “Honest Expression”. I just wanna say something because I think it is completely misunderstood. Honest expression is not calling out a girl when she flakes, its not saying she’s hot so you want to get to know her. That’s “boy-man” behavior, so It is none of those things. And honestly I do none of those things anymore. Getting butt-hurt to call out a flake just shows you have low options and care more then her. Saying you want to meet a girl cause shes hot means you have few options of beautiful woman and that physical beauty is your first level of standards. Honest expression is you talking about your hope, dreams, fears, desires, dislikes, and your lessons learned. NOT you expressing how your caving in to that girl. What you are and what you believe, with no desire to get ANY reaction from her. This is “Natural Game”… but ….natural game doesn’t reach its full potential if your fucked up on the inside as a person. If you still have lots of emotional issues, those issues will slip through the cracks in ways you cant even see them, but they will be obvious to girls and other people. You need to fix these issues and develop as a person. That’s how I can go up to a girl, use not much “game” and just let her see there is no “cracks in the armor” as Tyler puts it. Once she can see that. Its so solid. It allows me to break all kinds of rules, like for example, when I get a girls phone number I call her the same day! Its not perceived as needy or anything. I call her because I screened her, and she was worth getting her phone number. And now I want to talk, not because I want something from her. But just to enjoy the conversation. Shit I have been writing for 40 minuets…. Ok time to wrap it up Elite level game seems to not come from more game or new game. But it boils down to a mastery of discipline of the fundamentals and being emotionally well rounded. My game at this point is only 2 things. What I like to call “Independent Interest + Emotional well roundedness.” A True Player needs nothing… NOT EVEN TO FEEL POSITIVE EMOATIONS. When you roll up on Shorty and you want to feel positive emotions from getting her. That is also neediness. My vibe these days is more like: “Meh, sure I guess i would like to rail you hard, but it it doesn’t happen im really not going to think about it or put any emotions energy into it.” Cuz lets be reall, nailing a hot girl is like a 45 minute fuck fest session. But the VALIDATION YOU GET from it can last days… lol you want that high don’t you? Yaaaaa you do …. And guess what… SHE CAN FEEL IT. AND THAT’S WHERE YOU FAIL. Part of the solution is to be coming from a place of just knowing “its all good At all times…”. With out a shadow of doubt in your body, soul, and down to a cellular level. You need to know, is “its all good At all times…” Outwardly it may appear that you don’t care. Its not that you don’t give a fuck, its just that you care more about other things that you KNOW FOR A FACT to be true within your self. Peace
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CBAABC

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Madison* wrote:


Part of the solution is to be coming from a place of just knowing “its all good At all times…”. With out a shadow of doubt in your body, soul, and down to a cellular level. You need to know, is “its all good At all times…”

Golden.

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PositiveDominance

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 Massive value, thank you.
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ExtraordinaryDump

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Join Date: 08/09/2010 | Posts: 282

Hey.

Good shit :)
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the_kenny

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Do you remember the point at which you changed into this Madison?
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He is paying for our sins by taking jabs to the face by angry feminists -- and so it was,  so it shall be.
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FoodBuddha~

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It took you 40 minutes to write that?  Fuck, you're slow.  Take a typing class.

(it took me over an hour to come up with that insult)
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Dr Feelgood

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I enjoyed your post, as always, Madison!




Madison* wrote:

And I know people cant see it, but I can see it …
This is a keyphrase for me in here.^^

"My game at this point is only 2 things. What I like to call “Independent Interest + Emotional well roundedness.”"

But "independent interest" (love that phrase, so spot on!) is freedom from outcome + intent, so your game actually is 3 things, lol! Semantic mathematics...
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UtopiaFive

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These things I quoted down here are pretty key.  I see huge differnences when these parts of me are turned on.  Actually NOT NEEDING the sex.  Whatever happens you're excited about.  I think guys can kinda learn this by WATCHING their emotions and understanding they're both actually FINE, getting laid, or getting blown out, and whatever ACCOMPANYING FEELINGS that come either way...no big deal, its "right" even when its wrong lol.  Probably some of this comes from "learning to reframe negatives" then it eventually is more solid and automatic.  

Whole post is pretty good except I don't really like bowflex commercials man ;)

You get more numbers from daytime nowadays I take it?
Madison* wrote:
I just wanna say sex has absolutely no meaning to me.

Part of the solution is to be coming from a place of just knowing “its all good At all times…”. With out a shadow of doubt in your body, soul, and down to a cellular level. You need to know, is “its all good At all times…”
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high_maintenance

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Join Date: 11/07/2010 | Posts: 541

You say you got 10 numbers this week. How many of those are from online game?
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Torrey

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Join Date: 12/28/2011 | Posts: 209

Thanks, bro. I've been toying with the methodolgy of just "letting go and trusting the process", and truly not giving a fuck whether or not I get laid, and I'll tell you this: In the four months I've started this, my results are starting to show.

Four months ago, I was a virgin, never been kissed, never had a girlfriend, never had more than two friends, never went to parties, never asked a girl for her phone number, and my heart would jump every time a girl would talk to me.

Now, I've lost my virginity, this past month I've kiss closed 7 different girls, gotten 15 phone numbers, have quite the social circle, attended 6 parties last month, and have two girls right now obsessed with meeting me sometime this week (and one's a MFing 10).

All because of this mentality of just letting go and not caring about getting validated. There is no me getting validated. I already am validated by just being me, a man with core intent. Pretty impressive results for a newbie who had never seen a vagina two months ago.

Peace
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ambiguity

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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 5327

Madison mate, why did you keep a video of yourself still up while in a relationship but, you had removed your avi?
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Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
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brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
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