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LethalLex

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Just pulled and fucked a girl in my car.

On a monday.
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LethalLex

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Monday 2nd April 

Super on night - Loads of makeouts - First car pull: Take smoking hot blonde to my car and bang her in the backseat

Probably my best nights in terms of pickup ever. Like this was one of those nights that i used to fantasize about when I was a chode.

Head out to the club by myself, having made tentative plans to meet up with NerdGirl who I banged last tues. In my head I was like "It's monday night so I'm going to have a chilled night, maybe do a couple of approaches and then go home with NerdGirl and get some action." 

When I get out I realize its school holidays as well as varsity holidays so there's a massive line outside my usual monday spot. Cool.

Head to the bar next door. I know as i walk in this is going to be a good night. I'm feeling so great and i haven't even started talking to anyone. First thing I do as i walk in is talking to a stunning English blonde who's walking out. I go in hard with a big smile on my face. Just say "Hey" and and stop. Quick back and forward before she leaves.

Bounce straight away to a girl sitting down. Chat for a sec. Friend comes in who is hotter so I switch to talking to her. She's got blonde curly hair and a cute face but is a little chubby. Tyler's voice echoes through my head about how fatties are great to warm up with. Can't argue with that. Makeout.

Note: I'm in set with her within 2 minutes of walking into the bar. Making out with in 5. She has really soft lips.

Spend a little time with her then realize this isn't helping my momentum so i say I'll see you later and bounce. 

At this point I lose focus a bit and do some kind of lame approaches. Seems like I can only maintain PU God Mode for a limited period.

Decide to hit the main club. Lines still super long, so i walk up to a girl a few people from the front, put my arm around her and say "Hey there you are, been looking everywhere for you". We joke a bit about how we go way back and mess around with her friend, making her believe we actually know eachother. See her often later in the night and she's in to me but she's like a 7 so didn't take it anywhere. Get in within the next 5 min. People had been waiting in the line for an hour haha.

Inside, I'm totally on again. Meet every hot girl downstairs, going in hard, seeding. Find a short blonde cutie I like and have a good vibe with. She's still in high school lol. Makeout. Say I'll find her later. Didn't see her though, should have got number.

Went upstairs which killed my state a bit - was super loud and packed. Realise how much easier it is when its quiet. See an american girl I kinda met outside. Chat to her a bit. She looks kinda like Sarah Jessica Parker but hotter, lol. Pulling her in close and kiss her. Leave.

Choding around a bit then I see a short blonde with a super tight body. I put my arm around her and say she looks lost. She laughs and says ya she is. She looks at me, then tells me to wait right where I was while she goes to the bathroom. Think I might as well see where this goes so i wait around till she comes out.

Pull her to the side, makeout against wall, she's really hot. She suggests we go downstairs for some air. I'm down. She then suggests we go outside for some fresh air. I'm down. She then says she wants to go for a walk. Ok. See some girls I've met around before and say hey. They're all flirty with me. Nice touch of social proof. Carry on walking in the general directions of my car. Chatting a bit and turns out my girl took MD. Thought she looked a bit skittish. That's like the second girl in 3 days who I've hooked up with who have been on MD. One thing in common with them, they were both super horny. My girl announces this very fact at this point. I click, she's basically been pulling me this whole time. I'm mildly surpirsed how easily this is happening. I'm like time to take over... My car, lezgo.

We in the car, makeout in front. Jump into back. I pull down her top and she has perfect perfect boobs. We feeling eachother up, she has her hands down my pants and some people walk past. haha. They go, she pulls off her panties and climbs on top of me. I grab a condom (just bought more on the day thank the pope) and start banging her. The car mists up and is bouncing up and down. Hot shit. Keep trying to check for people coming as we're doing it. Finish up and head back to the club. First car pull evar. Fun as hell.

Back in the club I must have been glowing or something, girls kept checking me out and double taking. Felt good man.

At one point I was talking to a girl at the bar and i put my hand on her back or something. Some chode behind us pull my arm down and gives me a look and maybe says something, I dunno. I just glance at him and continue talking to the girl as if he wasn't there. I see him melt away out of the corner of my eye. CLassic.

Couple of good interactions. Makeout and number of a cute girl. 

Getting empty and I don't really feel like the bullshit of trying to pull some mediocre girl so I bounce.

One funny thing: She goes down on me for a bit in the car and then is like "Oh wait I can't do that my jaw is like clamping up". HOOOOLLLYYY SHIT not cool! oO

She also mentioned her boyfriend in conversation... Right at the point when she's walking up to my car to get banged out by a guy she met 10 minutes ago.

So, like, best night ever? Yeah.
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scottsdale

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ridiculously awesome! now I feel like a chump for not going out on a fucking monday night....

excuse the ignorance but what is MD?
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awesome shit dude! love the soloness.. something im gonna strive for. 

sexy.

i read it as mdma.
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That's retardedly awesome dude.  I love random fucking hookups.  

I think it's funny that dudes on here are going to be like DUDE HE JUST GOT LUCKY in their heads.

FUCK THAT GUY.  He doesn't understand the ultimate truth about pickup:

YOU BECOME A CHAMP FIRST aka GO OUT ALL TEH FUCKING TIME 

YOU SEE AN OPPORTUNITY

YOU TAKE OPPORTUNITY

YOU FUCK HOTTIE

If you don't become a fucking MONSTER first then you either wont see the opportunity, or you'll be too much of a fucking pussy not to go for it (and try fucking it up).  

Great work g, inspiring
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LethalLex

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Thanks guys. Milestones been destroyed here. Three new girls in 10 days and a car pull is like crazy shit for me!

@scottsdale Yup, MDMA. E, Ecstasy, horny-berry-juice =) Not sure what this says about the quality of girls I'm hooking up with lately (type of girl, not hotness: Hooking up with the hottest girls I have in my life lately).

@Cat yeah buddy I'm learning so many dynamics lately. Specially endgame/pulling stuff which is where i fucked up big time in the past. The big change I'd say I've made is just sticking in set, even given mediocre responses. Like there are times when to pull a girl you have to do some clever working of logistics, push here, pull there. But there are other times where the girl wants it already and you just have to be that cool guy and not fuck it up. This girl was definitely a case of the later. And one thing I want to work on now is engineering the former =D
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roadrally

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Damn dude you are just killin it. Ever since you did the 30 day sober challenge shits been crazy for you.

I have a question as to pulls for sex.

So let's say I'm with a girl at the end of the night and were clearly into each other.
But then she gives a little bit resistance as to going home with me or whatever.
Do I just do like decisive man lets go let's go let's go and just brute force pull her.
Or do I just kind of weasel around her resistance and baby step it?

Or I guess do you just calibrate on a case by case basis and try a bunch of different things?

There was a couple sets for me within the past week or 2 we were making out and hanging out at the end of the night and I think it totally could have went down if I executed right, but I kinda fumbled. Expected/hoped for the pull to just be a smooth win-win process. But it didn't go so smoothly and girl ends up finding her friends again at the end of the night and not going home with me.

Hope this makes some sense/you have some experience/can give some advice

Thanks bro
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LethalLex

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Wednesday 4th April 2012

Hit up the club feeling after feeling a bit down and moody throughout the day. Turned out to be a good learning night. 

One thing that has started happening which I know is really good for me is repeatedly seeing girls do stuff that should affect me, and would definitely be like a knife in the heart for any "normal guy". This is stuff like seeing a girl I've hooked up with before getting with other guys.

At first this did affect me a lot. I remember probably not much longer than a year ago, seeing a girl i'd been hooking up with with another guy. Didn't even see them hook up but I flipped out. Smashed a glass shelf across the bathroom in my residence. 

Now though I'm becoming super desensitized to those kind of hits. Tonight I saw the girl I took to the concert a while ago and never closed hooking up with some guy. I was seriously in to her and when I first realized it wasn't gonna happen I was pretty bleak. Now though, I just feel a slight pang and can literally feel myself becoming more icy. Weirdly it actually feels fucking cool. I'm LIKING all these references. I get blown out and I can feel myself growing stronger like some superhero that just gets more powerful by absorbing hit after hit he takes.

I also saw one of the girls I made out with on monday with the guy I stoll her from. I totally obliterated that guy infront of her on monday and her and I got on really well. I was actually thinking about her during the day, and thinking how cool she was. And then she was hooking up with this guy again. Fuck. But no worries, just another hit that makes me stronger.

Other than this it takes me a little while to warm up. Maybe 20 min or so. First set was so bad, just like asked her questions and shit lol. But after that started loosening up.

Even when I hit state it was a pretty average night. Talked to some kinda average chick for a long time. Coulda kissed her but didn't want to.

Few average sets here and there. Then hit up a cutie who I ended up spending quite a bit of time with. Turns out she lives right by me. Get her number. She wouldn't kiss me properly but still feel like it's pretty solid. She's super hot, gonna follow through with her. Don't feel like slogging it out to the bitter end so bounce.
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LethalLex

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@roadrally Yeah man quiting the booze and being able to hit it hard, as well as learning how to build momentum and hit state without alcohol have changed my life. It ended a 3 year plateau of just getting lots of drunken makeouts and ocassionally getting lucky enough to have sex with a girl. There was no growth. No confidence. Now I'm the right track and its great because it can only get better from here (and its pretty damn cool as it is right now).

I know what you're talking about with that end of the night stuff. It's kinda been a sticking point for me too. 

I think it comes down to what kind of vibe the interation has. Sometimes it just calls for riding it out and letting it happen. Sometimes you'd have to step up and make it happen. I'm definitely more comfortable with when it just slowly pans out, rather than the forced almost non-compliance pulls. But that's kind of just because that's how most of my pulls have gone down and I just haven't pulled off a "SKO bitch SKO" kinda pull when I have tried it.

My mate who's also into RSD seems to push for the pull pretty hard and it works for him. It's pretty cool how he pulls some crazy stuff off. I've been working on pushing myself with this but if you're not comfortable doing it I think you can end up losing the girl.

But at the same time "letting it just happen" doesn't mean just sitting back and letting the girl make the decisions. You have to lead and stuff. Just do it chilled and relaxed - you don't need to throw her over your shoulder and carry her off into the night.

And the most important thing is to lose the outcome dependence at that critical point right at the end there. If you start thinking "what should I do now to get her home" / "will she be down to come back with me" or any thoughts it probably won't happen. You should be totally unfazed about whether you get her or not. I can actually tell if it's going to happen or not based on this one thing. If I'm feeling at all needy about whether she comes back with me it won't happen whereas if i don't really mind, there's a good chance it will. I think this one thing is more important than whether its compliant or non compliant. Sure you have to be able to work the logistics, but this is what it's really all about IMO.

So in your case, did you maybe start to feel a bit of pressure to get her and that's why you fumbled it?

Anyway these all just some of my thoughts, not sure if others would agree. Hope it helps a bit.
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roadrally

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LethalLex wrote:
@roadrally Yeah man quiting the booze and being able to hit it hard, as well as learning how to build momentum and hit state without alcohol have changed my life. It ended a 3 year plateau of just getting lots of drunken makeouts and ocassionally getting lucky enough to have sex with a girl. There was no growth. No confidence. Now I'm the right track and its great because it can only get better from here (and its pretty damn cool as it is right now).

I know what you're talking about with that end of the night stuff. It's kinda been a sticking point for me too. 

I think it comes down to what kind of vibe the interation has. Sometimes it just calls for riding it out and letting it happen. Sometimes you'd have to step up and make it happen. I'm definitely more comfortable with when it just slowly pans out, rather than the forced almost non-compliance pulls. But that's kind of just because that's how most of my pulls have gone down and I just haven't pulled off a "SKO bitch SKO" kinda pull when I have tried it.

My mate who's also into RSD seems to push for the pull pretty hard and it works for him. It's pretty cool how he pulls some crazy stuff off. I've been working on pushing myself with this but if you're not comfortable doing it I think you can end up losing the girl.

But at the same time "letting it just happen" doesn't mean just sitting back and letting the girl make the decisions. You have to lead and stuff. Just do it chilled and relaxed - you don't need to throw her over your shoulder and carry her off into the night.

And the most important thing is to lose the outcome dependence at that critical point right at the end there. If you start thinking "what should I do now to get her home" / "will she be down to come back with me" or any thoughts it probably won't happen. You should be totally unfazed about whether you get her or not. I can actually tell if it's going to happen or not based on this one thing. If I'm feeling at all needy about whether she comes back with me it won't happen whereas if i don't really mind, there's a good chance it will. I think this one thing is more important than whether its compliant or non compliant. Sure you have to be able to work the logistics, but this is what it's really all about IMO.

So in your case, did you maybe start to feel a bit of pressure to get her and that's why you fumbled it?

Anyway these all just some of my thoughts, not sure if others would agree. Hope it helps a bit.
Dude, its kind of fucking crazy you said that - I would say its point on with my experience.

So there was one girl I pulled succesfully and SNLed a couple weeks ago. This one was pretty chill just like let it happen. There was a couple times in the night where I was down to pull her and bang (I guess thats always lets be honest) but it was still kind of early and she wanted to chill more. So I was like whatever no big deal, wasnt really worried about banging her. Just enjoyed our vibe and hanging out. Towards the end of the night she was just like okay lets go, and she had made the decision.

The 2 more recent interactions that I didnt close sucessfully. What happened was I rolled in like normal, but then I found myself in an amazing position. IE end of the night, me and the girl alone. Thats like perfect setup right? So then my brain is into figure this shit out mode. How do I make the pull happen. Handle logistics, what about this, how can I make this happen. Exactly how you described. I put the pressure on myself because  was like oh time to make this happen or whatever. And then yeah, it ends up not working out. 

So, seems like the key is just to kind of enjoy the vibe and enjoy the girl and not worry so much about making it happen.
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I guess you are kind of more of the chill type of guy vs the push push push for close, which is like me so then letting it naturally happen is comfortable for both of us.

The way that I have had any success with girls, yeah the whole outcome dependance is in full effect. What I do is just vibe and enjoy the girl, and then at a certain point in time, there is something within the girl that flips and just makes her decide that she wants to make this happen. Then once the girl decides, she seduces and escalates on me and then its on. Of course I still need to play it solid escalate and whatever, but she has decided so it makes things easy. On the otherhand, when I want it too much and start to push hard for an outcome (day2 or pull or etc) It doesnt work out very well for me.

For me, it seems almost like I have just kind of been there with the girl, doing typical vibing escalation or whatever, and then at some point the girl makes the decision that its going down, then it happens, Does this match up with your experience?


Also it seems like theres 2 styles, because your wing buddy who is pushing hard..... That doesnt seem so much like outcome independance, but more of a dominance pull. Idk maybe thats just another style to learn?
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