THE FORUMS
Lol saw a girl walking in to the complex from the balcony. Ran down and intercepted her in the staircase. We sat and chatted on the stairs for prob half an hour. Got physical at the end but she wouldn't kiss me cause she "had already kissed a guy and she is a teacher". Number closed though. Not bad for 5.30 am.
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Friday
Hit the town with some buddies.
Few approaches but nothing special. Opened a 3 set quite well, got in with the cutie and went well. Didn't push it though. Opened a cutie with a fringe and reapproached. I let her go both times cause her friend went to dance. Even though she stayed around.
I've realised I need to up my criteria for success. Been out 8 days in a row now with my only goal as going out sober. I now feel super comfortable out sober. Its no big deal approaching. The point I'm kinda stuck at now is pushing the interaction forward. I feel like i don't have enough intent.
On thursday night I drank cause it was a massive street party and couldn't resist getting a little crunk =) When I drink I get horny and push the interaction. I almost pulled 2 of the 4 girls I was with, friends messed it up both times though. At the moment i almost get a bit bored in interactions. There's some switch in thinking I need to make but just not quite sure what it is. Probably something the line of more party dong.
Thursday night was really really cool, lots of stuff went down. Should probably write it up in some detail. To be honest i'm more interested in putting down insights than a detailed report of the night. But maybe I should start doing it, would also be more interesting for anyone ready this =)
Hit the town with some buddies.
Few approaches but nothing special. Opened a 3 set quite well, got in with the cutie and went well. Didn't push it though. Opened a cutie with a fringe and reapproached. I let her go both times cause her friend went to dance. Even though she stayed around.
I've realised I need to up my criteria for success. Been out 8 days in a row now with my only goal as going out sober. I now feel super comfortable out sober. Its no big deal approaching. The point I'm kinda stuck at now is pushing the interaction forward. I feel like i don't have enough intent.
On thursday night I drank cause it was a massive street party and couldn't resist getting a little crunk =) When I drink I get horny and push the interaction. I almost pulled 2 of the 4 girls I was with, friends messed it up both times though. At the moment i almost get a bit bored in interactions. There's some switch in thinking I need to make but just not quite sure what it is. Probably something the line of more party dong.
Thursday night was really really cool, lots of stuff went down. Should probably write it up in some detail. To be honest i'm more interested in putting down insights than a detailed report of the night. But maybe I should start doing it, would also be more interesting for anyone ready this =)
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Play to win; not to not-lose.
Stay until she leaves or you fuck.
Need to work on these.
Stay until she leaves or you fuck.
Need to work on these.
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@ Dave7 - Yeah man South Africa is the shit. I haven't really experienced night life in many other places in the world (although i am doing a contiki tour of Europe in June), but I'm convinced SA has some of the hottest girls around. Hell, i just walk around campus and the girls in mini skirts i see walking around... WOW. Where have you visited here?
@ dzdevil. Yeah man the club scene has been a big part of my life for the last 3 years I've been studying. And I've loved it. I'm just trying to learn to like it sober right now, LOL.
@ dzdevil. Yeah man the club scene has been a big part of my life for the last 3 years I've been studying. And I've loved it. I'm just trying to learn to like it sober right now, LOL.
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Saturday.
Pulled a girl back to her place. Got the LMR. Just slept there. WIll write a detailed FR cause it was a cool night. Just not right now.
Pulled a girl back to her place. Got the LMR. Just slept there. WIll write a detailed FR cause it was a cool night. Just not right now.
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So I thought I'd write up the rest of my week since wednesday, cause they were the last few days of my 9 days in a row and were fucking crazy
So...
Wednesday
Went out with 3 buddies. Was planning to hit student night at Assembly but the line was super long. Went across to a cool bar called The Shack.
Saw a hottie sitting down as I was walking past. Made myself stop and go back and talk to her. Opened with "How is upstairs?". She replied with "Lets go have sex" and tried to pull me out the bar. Haha pretty much every guys fantasy the problem was she was super fucked. I politely told her I couldn't do that with her.
Played pool with my buddies for a bit. Not really any other options. We bounce. As we're leaving I see some guy getting in with the drunk girl. Obviously he has no problem with getting in there with a drunk chick. Heh. At that point I was like maybe I should have just rolled with it to see where the situation would have gone just for lulz. Oh well.
Lines still longish at assembly. I want to wait but my friends aren't keen. So we go all the way across town where I know its going to be lame. I'm kinda pissed. The bar we go to is just as dead. Been texting a girl I madeout with last year (and saw again on monday night) and tell her to come across to the bar. She comes with 2 friends.
We all hangout, play pool, foozeball. My chick and I dominate my friend and the other girl. We're cool like that. I'm getting along well with her, just not turning things sexual. I can tell she likes me though. She wants me to come for pre drinks tomorrow. Eventually they want to go so I walk them back to there place. Should have kissed her. Will be seeing her again though.
Ok this night was pretty average. Was something of a warmup for two of the craziest nights on thursday and saturday which I'll write up asap.
So...
Wednesday
Went out with 3 buddies. Was planning to hit student night at Assembly but the line was super long. Went across to a cool bar called The Shack.
Saw a hottie sitting down as I was walking past. Made myself stop and go back and talk to her. Opened with "How is upstairs?". She replied with "Lets go have sex" and tried to pull me out the bar. Haha pretty much every guys fantasy the problem was she was super fucked. I politely told her I couldn't do that with her.
Played pool with my buddies for a bit. Not really any other options. We bounce. As we're leaving I see some guy getting in with the drunk girl. Obviously he has no problem with getting in there with a drunk chick. Heh. At that point I was like maybe I should have just rolled with it to see where the situation would have gone just for lulz. Oh well.
Lines still longish at assembly. I want to wait but my friends aren't keen. So we go all the way across town where I know its going to be lame. I'm kinda pissed. The bar we go to is just as dead. Been texting a girl I madeout with last year (and saw again on monday night) and tell her to come across to the bar. She comes with 2 friends.
We all hangout, play pool, foozeball. My chick and I dominate my friend and the other girl. We're cool like that. I'm getting along well with her, just not turning things sexual. I can tell she likes me though. She wants me to come for pre drinks tomorrow. Eventually they want to go so I walk them back to there place. Should have kissed her. Will be seeing her again though.
Ok this night was pretty average. Was something of a warmup for two of the craziest nights on thursday and saturday which I'll write up asap.
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Jumping around a lil - but here's Monday night.
Go to the varsity rugby game. See S and M (lol), the one girl I made out with on saturday and the other who I pulled back to her place. Walk around a bit with S a bit, not really feeling like talking but just make myself say shit anyway. I feel like I lost a lot of momentum from drinking on saturday night. I am not worried though cause I UNDERSTAND that I'll get back to the point I was after a night or 2 out sober.
Lots of social circle... Its my flatmates first night out so hes already getting fucked. Decided I'm not drinking a sip of alcohol. He can't comprehend this haha.
Feeling quite a lot of negative bullshit and am also a bit tired. Nevertheless I push through and make myself go out after the rugby. Its our orientation week at varsity so there are hot first years everywhere wow.
First venue. As we walk in i approach a girl texting on her phone by the dancefloor. I use my "Yoh that's antisocial hey opener I always seem to whip out with girls on their phone. Hooks hard. Feel like I should go for makeout but I pussy out. I'm even thinking - if I was drunk i would go for makeout right now and definitely get it. But ego protection stopped me, meh. Got number.
We bounce across to another venue. M sees me and text's me that she just saw me. I go back and chat to her.
Big "sticking point" now with my sober game is that if there's a girl I've hooked up with around I feel bad to go hard on other girls. I do it anyway though cause there are girls with ze boobs around.
Had a GREAT set with the cutest girl ever. I opened with "Don't go that way, this is te cool side of the club". She laughs and asks why. Cause I said so, DUH. I find myself saying this is the warm side of the pool, and thats the cold end. LOL? I'm in state and shit is just flowing. Later she says its great that there's no awkward silences between us. I really want to go for makeout but I'm worried M will see cause she's around, along with her two other friends who I met earlier. Get the number.
Quite a lot of social circle. Open aother cutie and we fake mime our conversation because its super loud. I'm full on unstifled at this point and stuffs going smooth. Reapproach her a couple times. The venue was super hectic so there was a lot of bouncing from set to set kinda stuff.
Another very silly sticking point of mine is when i hit a full on raging nimbus of state i kinda stop doing stuff. Its like, oh cool, I approached and shit and now I'm in state... I win. Not capitalizing on this crazy power I aquire.
Anyway, i'm spending quite a bit of time with M. After approaching a bit i'd bounce back to her. Funny how I can noticibly tell I come off cooler after i've hit up a girl or two. We make out and stuff. Find it hard to make it sexual though. Our makeouts are very... "sweet". I get super tired at about 3.30 as the clubs are starting to close up. I'm driving my drunk mates home so i go and drop M off first quickly. I dunno, we're both kinda tired so I don't even really consider trying to pull her. Had to wake up earlyish too. SO yeah just say goodbye and then make like a baby and.... Abort?
Have to run to regsiter for my course. Hopefull I'm only going to have to go in to lectures at 2pm this semester. Hells yes.
Peace
Go to the varsity rugby game. See S and M (lol), the one girl I made out with on saturday and the other who I pulled back to her place. Walk around a bit with S a bit, not really feeling like talking but just make myself say shit anyway. I feel like I lost a lot of momentum from drinking on saturday night. I am not worried though cause I UNDERSTAND that I'll get back to the point I was after a night or 2 out sober.
Lots of social circle... Its my flatmates first night out so hes already getting fucked. Decided I'm not drinking a sip of alcohol. He can't comprehend this haha.
Feeling quite a lot of negative bullshit and am also a bit tired. Nevertheless I push through and make myself go out after the rugby. Its our orientation week at varsity so there are hot first years everywhere wow.
First venue. As we walk in i approach a girl texting on her phone by the dancefloor. I use my "Yoh that's antisocial hey opener I always seem to whip out with girls on their phone. Hooks hard. Feel like I should go for makeout but I pussy out. I'm even thinking - if I was drunk i would go for makeout right now and definitely get it. But ego protection stopped me, meh. Got number.
We bounce across to another venue. M sees me and text's me that she just saw me. I go back and chat to her.
Big "sticking point" now with my sober game is that if there's a girl I've hooked up with around I feel bad to go hard on other girls. I do it anyway though cause there are girls with ze boobs around.
Had a GREAT set with the cutest girl ever. I opened with "Don't go that way, this is te cool side of the club". She laughs and asks why. Cause I said so, DUH. I find myself saying this is the warm side of the pool, and thats the cold end. LOL? I'm in state and shit is just flowing. Later she says its great that there's no awkward silences between us. I really want to go for makeout but I'm worried M will see cause she's around, along with her two other friends who I met earlier. Get the number.
Quite a lot of social circle. Open aother cutie and we fake mime our conversation because its super loud. I'm full on unstifled at this point and stuffs going smooth. Reapproach her a couple times. The venue was super hectic so there was a lot of bouncing from set to set kinda stuff.
Another very silly sticking point of mine is when i hit a full on raging nimbus of state i kinda stop doing stuff. Its like, oh cool, I approached and shit and now I'm in state... I win. Not capitalizing on this crazy power I aquire.
Anyway, i'm spending quite a bit of time with M. After approaching a bit i'd bounce back to her. Funny how I can noticibly tell I come off cooler after i've hit up a girl or two. We make out and stuff. Find it hard to make it sexual though. Our makeouts are very... "sweet". I get super tired at about 3.30 as the clubs are starting to close up. I'm driving my drunk mates home so i go and drop M off first quickly. I dunno, we're both kinda tired so I don't even really consider trying to pull her. Had to wake up earlyish too. SO yeah just say goodbye and then make like a baby and.... Abort?
Have to run to regsiter for my course. Hopefull I'm only going to have to go in to lectures at 2pm this semester. Hells yes.
Peace
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2012 Journal ~ www.rsdnation.com/node/208885/forum
2013 Journal ~ www.rsdnation.com/node/208885
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Ah man, its fun reading your thread.
Youre about 2 weeks into the 30 day challenge.
Reminds me how fun that shit is.
The AA just goes away and you do crazy shit like run down the stairs to catch a girl coming in the building, chat her and kiss her.
Awesome. Just thinkback if you would have done that 2 weeks ago before this got started.
Momentum is awesome. Keep up the good work =)
Youre about 2 weeks into the 30 day challenge.
Reminds me how fun that shit is.
The AA just goes away and you do crazy shit like run down the stairs to catch a girl coming in the building, chat her and kiss her.
Awesome. Just thinkback if you would have done that 2 weeks ago before this got started.
Momentum is awesome. Keep up the good work =)
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My adventures in Dallas - 2013
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Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
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My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
Yeah man, momentum is SO AWESOME. I just couldnt comprehend it till now!
So I signed up for my courses today. Start at 12pm on monday, tuesday and thursday; 2 o clock on wednesday and no lectures friday. I think. So thats awesome for going out. Also, I'm taking a whole course on Odysseus and Homer's Odessy so I'm going to see what it takes to be a real hero (and a real human being).
Also I spent the afternoon with one of my best girl friends. We have the craziest chemistry and get on so well. She's also the smartest girl I know. She's like that girl who you know is super right for you except you don't want anything to happen because you know it could ruin things. We have kind of tried this in the past and things didn't go well (kinda hurt her and not proud of it).
Anyway, if I could have more relationships with girls like I have with her (plus sex of course) things would be very very good =)
So I signed up for my courses today. Start at 12pm on monday, tuesday and thursday; 2 o clock on wednesday and no lectures friday. I think. So thats awesome for going out. Also, I'm taking a whole course on Odysseus and Homer's Odessy so I'm going to see what it takes to be a real hero (and a real human being).
Also I spent the afternoon with one of my best girl friends. We have the craziest chemistry and get on so well. She's also the smartest girl I know. She's like that girl who you know is super right for you except you don't want anything to happen because you know it could ruin things. We have kind of tried this in the past and things didn't go well (kinda hurt her and not proud of it).
Anyway, if I could have more relationships with girls like I have with her (plus sex of course) things would be very very good =)
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2013 Journal ~ www.rsdnation.com/node/208885
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