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December 9th, 2016
Mixed Sets - How do you handle them?
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Dr Feelgood

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Do you open direct? How and when do you deal with the guys? What if the guy AMOGs you? What if he gets offensive/ aggresive towards you? If he tries to cockblock you in a "softer" way, like a girl in a 2set would?

How about this: Opening the girl direct, then soon turn to the guys and befriend them for a moment ("You are rolling with some of hot girls, you must be the man!", etc; but with good tonality and body language). If he gets aggressive then you AMOG him back.

I haven't done a lot of mixed sets so far and I also noticed other guys do them rarely too. What's your standard procedure for mixed sets?
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 What Jeffy suggest when a guy enters a set:
-If she doesn´t give him EC then ignore him completely
-If she looks at the guy, then probably it´s the friend, then you introduce yourself to him

When I am in a mixed set I always introduce myself and I am always friendly...but be aware of your surroundings, a lot of times I introduce myself to the guy and the girl who´s all over the place just leaves...either you keep an eye on her with your peripheral vision and make sure she doesn´t leave or reapproach her later. If the male friend is being a dick then ignore him.

If the guy amogs/tries to cockblock you then all you need is to stay relaxed and not let it affect you.

If he gets agressive then walk away...do not let it escalate (like you saw in Volksgarten with S).

2012 let´s do more of them :)

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RockNRollPUA

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Mixed sets are actually the easiest to work if you aren't a douche.  I personally don't go direct on mixed sets because there is a better way to do it.  This is conventional old school wisdom.  Just respect the dudes, befriend them first, find out how everybody knows eachother.  If they just met then feel free to hit on the girl you want.  If its friends, you want to be cool with the dudes cuz the girl  isn't going to take kindly to you tying to "AMOG" her friends.  If one of the dudes is with one of the girls, don't bother, plenty of single girls and its not worth the drama.  Hit on one of the single girls and befriend everyone else.  Its easy to befriend drunk dudes, generally they will be cool with you.  If some guy tries to tool you first and you have established he has no claim on any of the girls, his ass and make him look like a bitch.
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Dr Feelgood

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Thanks, guys!

Any other input?
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yorro

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in mixed groups i'm cool with everybody innitially. but i hate "working the group" shit. i like to approach girl i like. do it properly. rock her world. and deal with my fans/haters later.

mixed set are quite easy simple because guys are usually soft and not able to handle some real charm in a proper way. so they back off or behave friendly. but again just like rocknroll said.. don't be douche. be cool with them. and engage girls so they love you. then you're good. when some guy steps up without any valid reason to be pain in the ass then i have more than plenty magic tricks in my sleeve to handle him in a very polite but effective way.
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RuleNo1isFun

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http://www.bradbranson.com/how-to-talk-to-girls/
That, or befriend everyone and then get the girl you like. Whatever is more fun to you. 
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Dr Feelgood

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I will go with the direct version, direct is more my style!

Summary:

1. Find out how they know each other. If the guys didn't come there with the girls/ if the girls don't give them eyecontact, just cut them out and ignore them.
2. Go direct on your girl first, then handle the rest of the group (not too quick, because you need to establish some kind of connection to your girl first; but not too late either, because the group might get unruly; just like with a girl 2set).
3. Befriend the guys and the other girls (You have to believe 100% that he’ll shake your hand, and if he doesn’t go for it, it’s WEIRD. Like start laughing and pointing because he is so rigid and serious, then go straight back to the girl. - Credit Brad)
4. If their friends are hostile towards you, ignore (or AMOG).

Bonus point: Don't douche around!

Any more comments? I'm taking what I can get!
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Right now,
I go start talking to the girl pretty chill.  
If the guy comes in saying something, I say something like "Oh hey.  What up man." like "giving him acceptance" or whatever.  
I may ask the girl "Who's this?"  Usually I want to ask her cuz a guy will often say "boyfriend" even when she says "just a friend."  If he says boyfriend ask her "Haha, this is your boyfriend?" (to her) almost in a demeaning nonaccepting way.  If not really, she'll say no.  
Guy basically never gets pissed when I do this.  
Sometimes even if she's like "my boyfriend" I'll calmly say "Can you just ask him to leave?" mainly for lulz.  

Basic thing, go start doing it.  Take the first step.  Walk up, say hi.  You're asking for my playbook but you haven't even picked up a football.  Start playin homie.  (Yeah its nice to have a plan, but IF you can go in without one, just see what happens...you'll grow immensely more faster.)   
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