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December 6th, 2016
Rough night? Out Of State? Not Clicking? Hammer It Out Til The Bitter Damned End
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Tyler

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Sometimes you're having an "off night".

Maybe you just went through a painful breakup.  Or your business isn't functioning properly.  Or you haven't been out for a long time.  Whatever.

HIt, hit, hit.  HIT HIT HIT HIT HIT FUCKEN HIT.

Nothing will be accomplished by standing around.  Minimize time in between approaches.  GO!

Doing this from 10PM until 2 or 3AM can be brutal.  Your head will be spun out.  You'll want to pack up and go home.  Badly.

KEEP GOING TIL THE BITTER FUCKING END!!!  When every last damned girl has gone home and there's nothing left, you're done and you can go home and go to sleep.

Trust me on this one.  There's a good chance you won't be going home to go to sleep. ;)

Tyler
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TheXavier

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Hear, Hear!
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Waywardson

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The last 5 min the bar is open is usually the best time lol. I have multiple extraction at that time.Esp if your cool and she had been getting hit on by lameo's all night.
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Tyler

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I would rather kill myself than be a pussy.  Emotions and tiredness are not more relevant than when I teach Hot Seat on 3 hours sleep.  If you had a gun to your head you could do it.

GO.

Tyler
synergist- wrote:
Tyler wrote:
Sometimes you're having an "off night".

Maybe you just went through a painful breakup.  Or your business isn't functioning properly.  Or you haven't been out for a long time.  Whatever.

HIt, hit, hit.  HIT HIT HIT HIT HIT FUCKEN HIT.

Nothing will be accomplished by standing around.  Minimize time in between approaches.  GO!

Doing this from 10PM until 2 or 3AM can be brutal.  Your head will be spun out.  You'll want to pack up and go home.  Badly.

KEEP GOING TIL THE BITTER FUCKING END!!!  When every last damned girl has gone home and there's nothing left, you're done and you can go home and go to sleep.

Trust me on this one.  There's a good chance you won't be going home to go to sleep. ;)

Tyler
How can I force myself to do this, especially when I'm out solo? I have tried plenty of times. My nervous system and emotions stop cooperating at a certain point. Do you just launch into extreme "kill yourself, suck a dick" self-talk until the emotional wave turns into fun again? Does it always or usually turn into fun again or do you just force yourself to eat negative emotions all fucking night like a medieval priest flagellating himself to achieve purity, knowing that it will build your skill and on one of the next nights it will hopefully pay off? I typically don't go this hard because I want to achieve a consistent practice, not a few heroic spikes here and there that drain me for a week. But clearly you're doing it right so I want to know how it works for you so I can frame it for myself in such a way that I can do it night after night after night and be prepared for it instead of destroyed by it (which affects my job and thus my ability to get quality sleep in an apartment instead of under a freeway overpass).
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RockNRollPUA

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*Sarcasm ON*
But Tyler, what do you do if you are simply just a and are too afraid?  What if I am a and it is just too hard?  What if I am a and I'm just too tired?  What if I'm a and I just can't do it because I am a pussy?
*Sarcasm OFF*

Anyone doesn't listen to Tyler on this point is a pussy, and doesn't want it bad enough.  That is how hard you have to go to make any real progress in anything important.  If you don't want it bad enough, just stay home. The bars are too crowded as it is and you pussies slow me down blocking up the foot traffic with your homosexual circles of death, where you sit around with your beer and pretend to be having fun.  If you wanna stand around with a bunch of dudes, go to a gay bar or have a LAN party in your moms basement. 

Thanks for the reminder Tyler, I going out and doing this tonight.  Fuck work in the morning, thats what Coffee is for.
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Yep! It's funny the last two posts iv read from rsd insrictorshave been very similar to threads I have written in my blog. Glad to know I am on the same wave lenth on topics I consider important with the elite guys in the community :-) hey Tyler if you get a chance read this http://www.rsdnation.com/william-h-bonney/blog/somebody-will-have-you cheers
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 I never understand the guys that leave early. There's always a chance. Last 2 times I went clubbing with this one dude it was dead and he left early (like 1 am). Yet each time I pulled. Fucking faggots.
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 Well said sir, jolly good show :)
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Colt

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I thought you were going to say stay in the set til.the end but nevertheless good last post.
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synergist- wrote:
Tyler wrote:
I would rather kill myself than be a pussy.  Emotions and tiredness are not more relevant than when I teach Hot Seat on 3 hours sleep.  If you had a gun to your head you could do it.

GO.

Tyler
Is there anyone that does this every single night? Even you don't hit it this hard every single night do you?
Uh I bet Tyler actually does this.  He Is a maniac.  There are always exceptions to every rule, but in general unless you have a REALLY REALLY REALLY good reason to call it quits early,  you should be doing this.  Don't even worry about what other people do.  What other people do is irrelevant.  The only thing that matters is,  you are doing it.
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Tyler

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Yeah we usually do but it's also trained over many years of repetition.  We're either clowning in between sets or else in set.  OTOH we do this to prepare for the pace of bootcamp and recording Hot Seat footage as this is my job and I don't like to waste time.  Many guys do better at a slower pace so that's not the point.

What I was referring to is *specifically* when you're having a garbage night -- that's what this post was about -- like if your girlfriend dumped you, or your career isn't going well, or you haven't been out in a long time.  Your brain is going to be trying to make you not hit it up because you've been weakened.

On those nights you have to go until the end to shake out of the funk.  I had a fucked up thing happen to me recently that weakened me, so I stayed out two nights in a row and hammered it out until the bitter damned end.  The first night I had a CUTE lil girlie want me to pull her but my friend messed it up with her friend so she bounced and we now have plans.  Second night (last night) I stuck it out for 5 hours of humiliation and finally pulled the very last girl of the night as the club piled out -- which is why I'm awake now at 8AM.

I find the more I do this on shitty nights, the faster I shake off whatever was emotionally bothering me.  Sex with a hot girl is also a great way to get over it. :)

Tyler

synergist- wrote:
Tyler wrote:
I would rather kill myself than be a pussy.  Emotions and tiredness are not more relevant than when I teach Hot Seat on 3 hours sleep.  If you had a gun to your head you could do it.

GO.

Tyler
Is there anyone that does this every single night? Even you don't hit it this hard every single night do you?
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