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December 9th, 2016
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Gravity

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hey guys
im coming fresh off my first thirty days in this, it feels pretty fucking awesome, anyways ive decided to make a journal so i can keep up my progress and seeing as im in toronto i may as well get advice from people that are around my area. im still only 18 so i cant go clubbing, GUESS ILL BE TROLLING THE STREETS. im currently at about 100 approaches, by april im looking to triple that number. shouldnt be too difficult. anyways if you guys have any words of wisdom or if you wanna come trolling with me just msg. ima head out tomorrow and we'll see what happens there

PEACE 
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Ryan

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Props man, you sound like you've got the drive to be great, which is really the only thing you need. That and time. Look forward to reading about your progress. Be sure to hit up the free tour on the 19th when Jeff comes through.
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 thanks bro, ill be there
alright so today i headed to yorku to change my major and work on a project. i have always been terrorfied of approaching at my uni because god forbid the girl was in my class. so i made that my mission today. no matter what i was going to approach, it could be or direct but i would not leave until i approached. i headed to the psychology department and waited in line so i could get access to the course. there were these two cute blondes there, 7s, so im like okay this seems safe enough, they talk to each other about the psych major and i just jump in with "hey im trying to get in too". wwe talk for a total of 2mins before they lady running the thing pulled them away. oh well mission accomplished. anyways i go over to my group for our assignment and i go through the basics of public speaking. while talking about how you should sound i made the difference between being heard and SCREAMING. cute brown girl sitting at the table next to us hears me scream, looks at me and smiles. i go yup your mine. i open by asking if they've got anything they wanna add. we got into a nice chat about presentations, i dont plow through though so i ejectulate. shouldve stayed in there. all in all it was a successful day, the only thing that held me back was being more direct. i feel like i am not being myself. myself being the biggest intelligent retard on the planet :). but it feels like ever since i stepped back into mississauga my brain wants to go back to chodieness, the only thing holding it back was that awesome feeling i got by being myself all the time in montreal. anyways thats the new sticking point so that is where i will work at it. 

Things to improve on:
stop ejectulating....bitch
approach more!
get rid of that whole "im not in montreal anymore" limiting belief, its gay
go the full retard and be yourself :D
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went out last night, no clubs would let me in so i was all effffffffffffffffffffml. so i took to the streets! i started off by screaming at girls HEY YOURE CUTE! most of them gave me this "wtf is wrong with you" look, but as the night progressed more and more started smiling and waving and saying thankyou, at least i was approaching. so i was with my buddy and i dont wanna call him a chode because he does see that there is the possibility to change, so ill call him an EXTREME newbie. he didnt want to approach, so i tried to push him to show him how awesome it is. so i started doing direct approaches to show him i didnt need a line. so as i started doing direct approaches i noticed that every direct approach got attention, no girl continued walking or pretended to not hear me or none of that crap. i was always in at least for a few seconds, definite improvement from a month ago. so i was feeling really good, he wasnt really participating, guess i fucked his reality :P, so i decided to push my comfort zone in my approach. i walked up to a walking two set i held out my arms and i said STOP.
they stopped dead in they're tracks and i continued the interaction. it was soooooooo fucking awesome, i felt like the force was strong in me :D.  anyways made about 12 approaches last night, i noticed that with my friends i can be retarded, now i wanna know how it feels to be alone and do that, ive developed a dependency on other people. so gonna work to get rid of that, but honestly this is fucking sweet, i may go trolling the mall today, depends how hungry i am. 

PEACE
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 good evening gents :)
went out to york u today, i decided it was time for me to work on other aspects of my game and not just the approach. so i hit up some girls from my class that i had a bit of a relationship with. cute brown girl <3 from my bio class waved at me when i stood up to stretch, so i went to talk to her, we talked about some stuff, had some fun, got her a coffee and me a tea cuz i dont wanna stain my teeth :D. FORGOT to #close D: idk if i forgot or pussied out, i was kinda excited about getting back my midterm so i kinda left... LOL whatever. went to my group for an assignment, theres some dude that always gets really agressive when he argues, he looks like hes about to jump off the table and hit someone. but good old me im rehearsing my RSD, be the master of my own emotions, stay unreactive, dont even allow him in your RAS, you know cool shit. so me and the only girl in my group,( ALPHA MALE STATUS LOL) went to downtown toronoto, ive never been on the TTC bus before so i was like IM DOWNNNNN. we talked we flirted, when she offered to come with me i pulled out a tyler line from the internet "i cant come im shy" she started laughing and said i dont wanna see that part of you... YET. im like ITS FUCKING ONNNNNNNNNNNNNN. we talked the whole way through the subway, it was all fun and games, but by the end i realised i shouldve probably kiss closed her :(. FUCK I SUCK :'( OH WELL it is certainly much better than ive ever done before with a girl so thats fun. idk if i have another chance with her, if i dont then mehh
eventually my approaches will allow me to stop being a total and ill pick up a girl from the street. anyways my buddy from this forum texted me and said he didnt make his approaches today. so after failing twice in one day i was like NOPE and i convinced him to come to the bus terminal close to square one. once we met i told him to approach some random girl. he was hesitant, i remember that feeling as it grips me sometimes now. that feeling of embarassment when someone rejects you because no matter how hard youd like to believe you dont, until you take enough action you will always care what others think of you. so i decided that i would make it worse for him if he didnt approach, so i called the girl and i was like HEY MY FRIEND THINKS YOUR CUTE. to which she ran away. LMAO. next one i pointed at he went in and took a mans blowout so im proud of him, today he took action and he took rejection like a fucking boss. tomorrow i may approach or i may not, im noticing people are getting much nicer than before, everyones so social! its awesome
until next time
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 went to toronto last night as i havent been out in 4 days! last night was probably the roughest night in a while. i opened about 5 sets, all five of them were instant blowouts. uoft girls are BULLIES :'( nahh something was 

just up with me. opened the 6th set and SHE ACTUALLY LIKED ME, called me cute, but i felt so defeated by the first five i didnt even REGISTER that i should probably stick in there :P. opened up another 3 girls, and 

decided i hung in there, that and a combo of my parents calling me to go home. so i went home, i knew i had pushed myself through the rejections so that felt better, but all in all rough night, ill do better today for sure

later guys!
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 Today i headed out to square one shopping mall, during my thirty day challenge that place was my sanctuary. went in there and gotten all bitchy and whinny to myself. i got some serious approach anxiety aka pussiness

going out alone may have propelled me to new heights in my game, but when im all alone im a little bitch. so i decided that i would get at least ONE approach in there, but it had to be scary otherwise it didnt count. so while

i was walking i saw a girl from highschool who never really liked me. i figured AWESOME i may as well walk in and say something and see where it goes. to my surprise she wasn't a total and we talked for a while,

but fucking kill me if she wasnt the most boring human being ive ever had the experience of speaking with. we talked for about five minutes, she laughed at a few of the things i said, but i wasnt gonna fucking sit there and

entertain her ass so i got up and left. it feels pretty good that girls that would never have spoken to me only a short while ago now get friendly and talk to me. in a years time i wanna be able to fuck them all teeth. tomorrow im

gonna head back out, i wanna triple today's approach quantity, and i wanna do so by myself, i think the first hundred approaches i did were simply so my brain could register that i CAN do it, the next hundred will be about 

fine tuning it and making it a lot smoother and consistent.

Free tour in a week, cant wait :)
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tastycurry wrote:

IMO Eaton's is better because there are way more girls so you get more reference experiences, but I like square 1 too, girls are relaxed and friendly.  
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DEF agree with this, Eaton centre girls are a little more about their own business, but when it hits it hits nice.
Anyways weather today was pretty shit as you all saw so i thought i would get in some day game at york :D, but instead i pussied out like a little bitch, so as punishment to myself im only gonna give myself 4 hours of sleep :) ill be headed out again tomorrow and i will not be a little i promise you guys. anyways when i finished work today i was talking to my buddy and theres this cute girl there. hes leaving in three weeks so he just doesnt give a FUCK anymore, so he # closed one of the cutest girls at work. i figured FUCK IT i didnt do anything amazing today and i know she likes me, so i #closed and bbm closed her, kind of an easy thing so nothing to brag about, but its cool, today i was not acting like who i am, so all i can do is act better tomorrow
BTW RYERSON IS BY FAR MY FAV PLACE TO APPROACH <3
AND UOFT = HELL
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 DID MY FIRST APPROACH AT YORK ! :D
k so the basic FR is this:
came out of psychology class at 11:30, i promised myself i would approach 10 girls at york within the next 10 days, i walked around for 15 minutes thinking to myself, "just go, its the same as ryerson except its YOUR uni".
i see this cute lightskin girl come out of a bus. so i figure fuck it, walk over, AY YOUR CUTE! she looks at me and smiles, so i invite myself over to her. she told me her name and, she was coming from a party at mississauga from the night before and headed home to toronto, we talked for like 5 mins and i was like, come i gotta kill 2 hours, lets take a tour of york. so we walk to some media room, we tour all the buildings, we even look at a mini art gallery. i find out shes in one of my classes, so my fear came true, but it was all good. we talked about everything, like i mean EVERYTHING. i thought i was dragging it on so i told her i had to go to mississauga. i realized i had actually FORGOTTEN to physically escalate. so at the end i grabbed her and i gave her a nice tight hug, # closed her and told her id see her in class tomorrow. that was the first time i had that much success on the first approach. NOT EVEN IN STATE BITCHES. anyways, i shouldve stayed and kept it going, but i had to leave to pay a fucking parking ticket, so i took the bus home, and here i am :)

LATER GUYS
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 FREE TOUR WAS JOKESSSS

loved jeffy he was fucking hilarious

went to SQUARE ONE today. i went into spectator mode for the first half hour, and i found out that i use "im acting like a bitch" as an excuse to NOT APPROACH. weird excuse, but who cares.

anyways so i found this black 7 so i approach with AY YOUR CUTE. Shes like THANKS, im like yup your mine. we talk for like 2 minutes, i got within that hugging position that jeffy advocates within 30

seconds, it was fun. so we went trolling the mall. we found her friend, a white 3, but it was cool; practice for handling my first threesome. so were walking through stores and ive got the black girl

on one arm and the white on the other, some dude walks by and screams: THATS THE WAY TO DO IT, WHITE ON ONE ARM, BLACK ON THE OTHER. PISSED MY PANTS. so were walking

and i see a brown girl that blew me out a month ago, ROUND 2 MOTHA FUCKAS. told the girls to wait, and i walked up to this brown girl, 2 mins of talk # closed. came back to the girls we kept 

walking, then i saw a 10. maybe i was just on, or maybe i was just having too much fun, but i rolled up like it was no ones business. we talked for a little while, she told me she had to go, so i was like

send your bbm. she was on the phone the whole time. she said okay, then said to the phone: baby give me one second okayyyy? hung up before he could respond, i scanned her barcode, got her bbm.

BOOM. went back to the girls, they got boring so i number and hug closed them both, ill deff be calling the black girl, but i dont give a shit now that i got the 10. Went to sherway with my buddy looking for 

other girls, it was dead so i went back to the store i used to work at, rolled up to the hottest girl, chatted her up, #closed. DONE. oh and my brother is in prison, who gives a fuck.

YES GENTLEMAN I EXPERIENCED A DAY BLOWOUT FREE. idk if anyone else has done this, but im feeling REALLY cocky, probably an effect of seeing jeffy and having so much success

honestly i cant wait to get out there to get rejected again because i feel like SUCH a BOSS that itll be good to come back to reality. anyways peace guys im gonna go read up manwhores

text game guide so i can fuck my wifey <3

PEACE
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 wuddup guys

so i took the last week off of gaming just to get some me time

a lot of shit been going on at home, really stressful environment i didnt realize how much it affected me until i went out

so heres a FR of the last few days:

Friday Jan 27

went downtown and hit up eatons with mstar, who btw is fucking amazing, almost all his sets hooked and it was awesome watching him

but hes pretty modest about it, anyways i went into total fucking chode modee, i legit watched him take other girls and did nothing to wing properly, he also had me approaching

in ways ive never done before, and now i feel fucking empowered as shit, i didnt even know i had these excuses till he went in the way he did.

it was jokes as hell. I had a good time, between getting to know mstar and getting through the few sets i did manage to open, it was awesome!

Sat Jan 28

Had to work on this day, but i figured since i pushed my comfort zone the day before i may as well do it again, so i opened this really gorgeous looking girl, AT WORK :D

we had a great conversation for like 10 minutes and thennnn she was like oh here take this pamphlet, which i opened to find THE WATCHOVERRR YAYYYYYY LOL

so i opened a jehovahs witness guys, AWESOME! that was it for the day, wasnt gonna do anything else more than that ::P

Sun jan 29 

I hit up square one, but i totally bitched out, solo game is pretty tough so i wasnt too hard on myself, i stayed up to do homework as punishment, NEVER NOT APPROACHING AGAIN

Mon jan 30th

BOSS DAY, i opened six girls at yorku, which was awesome because ive been so when it came to york that it made go chode modeee, on this day the 10 msged me, in other words 

shes DTF, i tried to keep up the conversation, successfully i might add :) now i just gotta set up plans so its cool.

Tues jan 31st

goal today was to hit my 150 mark, which i succeeded, opened about twelve girls all across the city from york to uoft to ryerson to the street to the eaton centre. i opened one girl with AY YOUR BUM 

IS AMAZING I HAD TO COME TALK TO YOU! :D lol she didnt say a thing and kept walking. i thought i was funny, so w/e. UofT girls have gotten much nicer, some talked, the blowouts said SORRY I

WOULD LOVE TO STAY BUT I CANT. whatever it was all good and fun. now i wanna adress an issue ive been seeing on the forum.  im not sure wtf happened exactly but someone got arrested for

assaulting a girl (tapping on the shoulder) inside the eaton centre and it has let out a scare with enough people on this forum because most of us are under the clubbing age and eatons is the 

best place to go. that said i decided to experiment today because i think that this is just stupid. now idk if there were more of them or if i was just conscious of them but i noticed quite a few

of security guards, one saw me mid set however he didnt see me approach. So i decided to open in front of the guard just to see what happened. i opened with THE FORCE,

the girl stopped smiled and talked to me for about 30 seconds before she said she had a bf, kept it up for another 45 seconds and she left. This guard was giving me cut

eye but idk whether that was cuz i was approaching and he was mad that he couldnt arrest me, or that i approached a girl he was checking out. i left after because

A) i dont wanna be fucking trolling the mall and become restricted to it and B) i didnt wanna make it look like i was picking up girls. 

now idk what you guys are afraid of but here is the eaton centre game plan. so first thing is get rid of that physicality mentality bullshit. fuck the claw. get physical after you

established a comfort with the girl. if you approach and a security guard sees you and gives you shit, heres what you do:

you guys can take my identity and say "im (insert name here), im sorry if i caused any trouble, im a psychology student at yorku and im researching the effects of approach

anxiety on a persons sense of identity for my honours thesis." now theres a huge chance that the security guard is gonna be a complete moron, so youll probably get off

with a "just dont bother anyone" or some shit, at which point you say "dont worry i wont" and walk away respectfully. dont give a fuck if you think your so cool that you no longer

need manners, theyre just doing theyre job, if you fuck it up you fuck it up for all of us. so cut the shit. save the beastmode nonsense for when you day2, or the nightclubs

or the streets, but stop doing it on private property, the girls are nice and i found none that went apeshit, even when i grabbed and stopped them. nothing bad happened

the eaton centre is fine just dont be stupid about it :)

alright next months game plan, APPROACH 100 CHICKS, HOPEFULLY GET LAID, HAVE FUN, GROW OR DIE, BOOM


oh and big ups to my boy juggernaut92 for getting his first number close today!
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