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#11
Goran~

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Friday 7/01/12 - In Brief

Went out with Tin Tezer and Matt. Couldnt get into Club, so we went to a chill bar nerby, ti was ok, not too packed. Had a drink, and approached some greek girls, 2 set, the hotter one was being a bit of a retard initially,

Me: bla bla bla
Hottie: We are here with our friends...
Me: What?
Hottie: We are here with our friends...and boyfriends.
Me: Ok? And I look at her like shes a retard and cary on with what I was saying earlier because what she said was so retarded that I completely ignored it and caried on like nothing happened.

She promptly ejected herself and left me with her friend. (guess she was the one with the boyfriend and her friend was single.)

Unfortunately her friend was not the hot one out of the two, I stuck around for a few minutes but decided it wasnt for me and left.

A bit later, matt approached a couple girls, he was in there for a good 10 minutes, one fo the girls left matt and her friend alone and went to the bar, I decided to go talk to her to help if matt wanted to pull. We all merged back togehter and chilled for the night. The pull was on, the girls were up for it and trying to venue change us, but for me the chick I was talking to was cute but sub par to what I usually pull, and we decided to dissapear. That was pretty much the end of the night.

Ok night but iRay~ is still not back yet so Im not hitting it as hardcore to get my 100 girls.

Thaughts:

1. Sub Par Girls

Matt mentioned, if you want to get to 100 lays by end of 2012, you have to bang some girls that arent super hot, sometimes you gotta work with what youve got, and occasionally there will not be super hot girls arround, you gotta go for some sub par chicks otherwise it will take you forever.

Sub par does not mean ugly, it means cute chicks that you would bang but would not necesarily approach with as much effort as a hottie, shes cute but not a hottie!

So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!


2. Being up for anything

Ive noticed that ont thing thats heald me from banging as many chicks as I couldve in the past was the lack of desire to souldjer on till the end to get the lay. By this I mean, if I have to be up with a particular girl till 6am in the club I need to be ready and willing to do this. If the chick lives an hour away from where I do and doesnt wanna go back to my place, i gotta be ready to treck to her place bang her and then treck back home in the morning.

I have to be up for any situation. If I drive, leave my car and pick it up in the morning no matter how much hassle, ect.

Ive always lacked the ambition to go to the very end, been pretty lazy, if the pull would end up being a majour hassle (London is massive! So occasionally pulls can be fucked up with logistics if the chick lives miles away etc....) Id just prefer to go home and sleep. If I didnt pull in the club, I would be ready to head home and sleep instead of plowing the streets to try and pull. (Like in vegas, after the club, wed prowl the casino for hotties to bang!).

Tonight the bar we were at closed at 1am, and I just couldnt be bothered to stroll the streets of london in 4C temperitures to find a nother open venue elsewhere to approach some more, and in the future I have to be up for this! Beast all night till the sun comes up or get layed! But It might be good to have a deadline, if no pull by 4am, head home mission complete, dont want to exaust myself!
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#12
Goran~

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pringles wrote:
 ok ha, we will sort something out when i come down....only issue is i don't have anywhere to pull to in london so we have a situation.
Fuck it Ill let you bang the bitches on my couch, just send them over to my room when youre done! hahahah

Planning to get a sofa bed at some point, bam instant bedroom!
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#13
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Goran~ wrote:
Sub par does not mean ugly, it means cute chicks that you would bang but would not necesarily approach with as much effort as a hottie, shes cute but not a hottie!

So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!


Yeah... big kick up the arse that one. I don't know why but I seem to have a greater apathy here compared to somewhere like Vegas where we we pushing it hard every single night until the very end. In Vegas if I didn't push it hard, or get laid I was kind of disappointed. Here I always just feel a bit 'meh whatever' - something is clearly not right with that attitude...

I was thinking about this set yesterday and realised that it was incredibly smooth up until that point. I wasn't sure where things were at with my girl, I lacked a bit of self-trust and was doubting myself, and then tricked my mind into thinking that logistics would be more complicated than they really were. What annoys me on reflection, is not that I didn't get laid, but more the fact that I could have gained a) a really cool story, b) a really good reference experience. I realise, like you, that I seem to be stalling a bit in the 'end zone' and unless everything is straightforward I lose motivation. I'll take this as a learning experience and be sure not to make the same mistake again.

Similarly, I'm pretty sure lowering my standards in the short term will do me more good in terms of accumulating those additional reference points. The fact is, if I was confronted by that Victoria Secrets model with the opportunity to pull I probably would be in a weaker position at present for having turned away less attractive girls, and therefore that needs to become my motivation. I'm not going to go fuck some troll, but equally there is no shame in 7's and above...
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hold on.  

you're shooting for 100 in 2012?  or you want your total to hit 100 by end of 2012?  

sounds pretty crazy but awesome.  
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Pulling consistently is a habit like anything else. Once you start getting laid every few times you're out, it's easier to raise the standards as you go along. At least that's what I've found. Also, I'd rather pull a "sub par" girl than not pulling at all. As long as you're not just doing it as a cop-out.

Matt. wrote:
 
Goran~ wrote:
Sub par does not mean ugly, it means cute chicks that you would bang but would not necesarily approach with as much effort as a hottie, shes cute but not a hottie!

So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!


Yeah... big kick up the arse that one. I don't know why but I seem to have a greater apathy here compared to somewhere like Vegas where we we pushing it hard every single night until the very end. In Vegas if I didn't push it hard, or get laid I was kind of disappointed. Here I always just feel a bit 'meh whatever' - something is clearly not right with that attitude...

I was thinking about this set yesterday and realised that it was incredibly smooth up until that point. I wasn't sure where things were at with my girl, I lacked a bit of self-trust and was doubting myself, and then tricked my mind into thinking that logistics would be more complicated than they really were. What annoys me on reflection, is not that I didn't get laid, but more the fact that I could have gained a) a really cool story, b) a really good reference experience. I realise, like you, that I seem to be stalling a bit in the 'end zone' and unless everything is straightforward I lose motivation. I'll take this as a learning experience and be sure not to make the same mistake again.

Similarly, I'm pretty sure lowering my standards in the short term will do me more good in terms of accumulating those additional reference points. The fact is, if I was confronted by that Victoria Secrets model with the opportunity to pull I probably would be in a weaker position at present for having turned away less attractive girls, and therefore that needs to become my motivation. I'm not going to go fuck some troll, but equally there is no shame in 7's and above...


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Martin Crowe

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Matt. wrote:
 
Goran~ wrote:
Sub par does not mean ugly, it means cute chicks that you would bang but would not necesarily approach with as much effort as a hottie, shes cute but not a hottie!

So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!


Yeah... big kick up the arse that one. I don't know why but I seem to have a greater apathy here compared to somewhere like Vegas where we we pushing it hard every single night until the very end. In Vegas if I didn't push it hard, or get laid I was kind of disappointed. Here I always just feel a bit 'meh whatever' - something is clearly not right with that attitude...

I was thinking about this set yesterday and realised that it was incredibly smooth up until that point. I wasn't sure where things were at with my girl, I lacked a bit of self-trust and was doubting myself, and then tricked my mind into thinking that logistics would be more complicated than they really were. What annoys me on reflection, is not that I didn't get laid, but more the fact that I could have gained a) a really cool story, b) a really good reference experience. I realise, like you, that I seem to be stalling a bit in the 'end zone' and unless everything is straightforward I lose motivation. I'll take this as a learning experience and be sure not to make the same mistake again.

Similarly, I'm pretty sure lowering my standards in the short term will do me more good in terms of accumulating those additional reference points. The fact is, if I was confronted by that Victoria Secrets model with the opportunity to pull I probably would be in a weaker position at present for having turned away less attractive girls, and therefore that needs to become my motivation. I'm not going to go fuck some troll, but equally there is no shame in 7's and above...


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#17
Kuz

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??? I thought you guys were much better than this? pringles seems the real deal though
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#18
Goran~

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UtopiaFive wrote:
hold on.  

you're shooting for 100 in 2012?  or you want your total to hit 100 by end of 2012?  

sounds pretty crazy but awesome.  


Bang 100 in 2012.
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#19
Goran~

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Im really lame at keeping these updated, especially if I havent banged a chick, actually over the past 3 years I get so bored of writing field reports I cant remember if I ever posted a LR, Its like, Ive banged her I dont give a shit to write it up, but I gotta try keep this one updated.

Weekend of 20th & 21st.

Friday 20th:

Hit it up awesomely in this little club, was with some cute Sweedish for a while, but I was so distracted by the other girls in the club flirting with them and making  out with a bunch that sweedish one got anoyed and wouldnt talk to me, lol, her friend was in love with me thos, but she had a guy there.

There were a couple other girls I couldve pulled, one left early before I could find her again, and the second one I could not see myself really banging her, she was allright but could not see myself even kissing her, I had to tell her I was leaving to get rid of her.


Saturday 21st:

Had a shit night, no reason to write anything up.

Weekdne of 27th and 28th.

Friday 27th:

Good night, matt chated up some girls sitting down, I went in a few minutes later with the friend, who was quite hot, was with her all night. Was just beiing cool and calm, no amazing super hero pickup guy shit, just chill, she was all over me. Some other chick I met earlier came and talkign to me and matt, we were flirting with her, matt told me aparently my girl got pissed off but didnt show it when I went back to her, lol. Her friends eventually sorted themselves out and went home. Left the club with her round 4, got to my car and she wouldnt get in, I tried a couple times to get her in but no go, got her number, might meet up sometime next week.

Saturday 28th:


Good night, started off slow, fucking around with the boys, but finally started hitting it up a bit later, enede up messing round with one girl, she bought me a shot and kept folowing me round the club, but she was playing games too much, I got bored and ignored her the whole rest of the night, shed flirt with other guys around me to try get my attention, but didnt work it was too late, I was chatting up other chicks allready...

There were a couple girls there I shoudlve approached but didnt, lessons to be learned.

Thats about it for now.

Thaughts:

- Nothing regarding the two last weeks, maybe approach sooner in the ngiht and fuck arround more, theres always a few girls I shouldve approached but didnt, must approach these ones from now on.

- Planning to hit up some weeknights in March when it warms up, but thats about it for now.


Cheers


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#20
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Mate you should fuck of the central London sarging, to many foreigners and Weird uni type people. Bars our very fleeting and logistics our usually fucked. Get yourself down to Essex you will clean up.O2 arena house and terrace. Maidstone Kent.
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