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Sub par does not mean ugly, it means cute chicks that you would bang but would not necesarily approach with as much effort as a hottie, shes cute but not a hottie!
So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!
So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!
Yeah... big kick up the arse that one. I don't know why but I seem to have a greater apathy here compared to somewhere like Vegas where we we pushing it hard every single night until the very end. In Vegas if I didn't push it hard, or get laid I was kind of disappointed. Here I always just feel a bit 'meh whatever' - something is clearly not right with that attitude...
I was thinking about this set yesterday and realised that it was incredibly smooth up until that point. I wasn't sure where things were at with my girl, I lacked a bit of self-trust and was doubting myself, and then tricked my mind into thinking that logistics would be more complicated than they really were. What annoys me on reflection, is not that I didn't get laid, but more the fact that I could have gained a) a really cool story, b) a really good reference experience. I realise, like you, that I seem to be stalling a bit in the 'end zone' and unless everything is straightforward I lose motivation. I'll take this as a learning experience and be sure not to make the same mistake again.
Similarly, I'm pretty sure lowering my standards in the short term will do me more good in terms of accumulating those additional reference points. The fact is, if I was confronted by that Victoria Secrets model with the opportunity to pull I probably would be in a weaker position at present for having turned away less attractive girls, and therefore that needs to become my motivation. I'm not going to go fuck some troll, but equally there is no shame in 7's and above...
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hold on.
you're shooting for 100 in 2012? or you want your total to hit 100 by end of 2012?
sounds pretty crazy but awesome.
you're shooting for 100 in 2012? or you want your total to hit 100 by end of 2012?
sounds pretty crazy but awesome.
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Pulling consistently is a habit like anything else. Once you start getting laid every few times you're out, it's easier to raise the standards as you go along. At least that's what I've found. Also, I'd rather pull a "sub par" girl than not pulling at all. As long as you're not just doing it as a cop-out.
Yeah... big kick up the arse that one. I don't know why but I seem to have a greater apathy here compared to somewhere like Vegas where we we pushing it hard every single night until the very end. In Vegas if I didn't push it hard, or get laid I was kind of disappointed. Here I always just feel a bit 'meh whatever' - something is clearly not right with that attitude...
I was thinking about this set yesterday and realised that it was incredibly smooth up until that point. I wasn't sure where things were at with my girl, I lacked a bit of self-trust and was doubting myself, and then tricked my mind into thinking that logistics would be more complicated than they really were. What annoys me on reflection, is not that I didn't get laid, but more the fact that I could have gained a) a really cool story, b) a really good reference experience. I realise, like you, that I seem to be stalling a bit in the 'end zone' and unless everything is straightforward I lose motivation. I'll take this as a learning experience and be sure not to make the same mistake again.
Similarly, I'm pretty sure lowering my standards in the short term will do me more good in terms of accumulating those additional reference points. The fact is, if I was confronted by that Victoria Secrets model with the opportunity to pull I probably would be in a weaker position at present for having turned away less attractive girls, and therefore that needs to become my motivation. I'm not going to go fuck some troll, but equally there is no shame in 7's and above...
Sub par does not mean ugly, it means cute chicks that you would bang but would not necesarily approach with as much effort as a hottie, shes cute but not a hottie!
So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!
So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!
Yeah... big kick up the arse that one. I don't know why but I seem to have a greater apathy here compared to somewhere like Vegas where we we pushing it hard every single night until the very end. In Vegas if I didn't push it hard, or get laid I was kind of disappointed. Here I always just feel a bit 'meh whatever' - something is clearly not right with that attitude...
I was thinking about this set yesterday and realised that it was incredibly smooth up until that point. I wasn't sure where things were at with my girl, I lacked a bit of self-trust and was doubting myself, and then tricked my mind into thinking that logistics would be more complicated than they really were. What annoys me on reflection, is not that I didn't get laid, but more the fact that I could have gained a) a really cool story, b) a really good reference experience. I realise, like you, that I seem to be stalling a bit in the 'end zone' and unless everything is straightforward I lose motivation. I'll take this as a learning experience and be sure not to make the same mistake again.
Similarly, I'm pretty sure lowering my standards in the short term will do me more good in terms of accumulating those additional reference points. The fact is, if I was confronted by that Victoria Secrets model with the opportunity to pull I probably would be in a weaker position at present for having turned away less attractive girls, and therefore that needs to become my motivation. I'm not going to go fuck some troll, but equally there is no shame in 7's and above...
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Sub par does not mean ugly, it means cute chicks that you would bang but would not necesarily approach with as much effort as a hottie, shes cute but not a hottie!
So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!
So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!
Yeah... big kick up the arse that one. I don't know why but I seem to have a greater apathy here compared to somewhere like Vegas where we we pushing it hard every single night until the very end. In Vegas if I didn't push it hard, or get laid I was kind of disappointed. Here I always just feel a bit 'meh whatever' - something is clearly not right with that attitude...
I was thinking about this set yesterday and realised that it was incredibly smooth up until that point. I wasn't sure where things were at with my girl, I lacked a bit of self-trust and was doubting myself, and then tricked my mind into thinking that logistics would be more complicated than they really were. What annoys me on reflection, is not that I didn't get laid, but more the fact that I could have gained a) a really cool story, b) a really good reference experience. I realise, like you, that I seem to be stalling a bit in the 'end zone' and unless everything is straightforward I lose motivation. I'll take this as a learning experience and be sure not to make the same mistake again.
Similarly, I'm pretty sure lowering my standards in the short term will do me more good in terms of accumulating those additional reference points. The fact is, if I was confronted by that Victoria Secrets model with the opportunity to pull I probably would be in a weaker position at present for having turned away less attractive girls, and therefore that needs to become my motivation. I'm not going to go fuck some troll, but equally there is no shame in 7's and above...
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??? I thought you guys were much better than this? pringles seems the real deal though
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Hai!!!
Mate you should fuck of the central London sarging, to many foreigners and Weird uni type people. Bars our very fleeting and logistics our usually fucked. Get yourself down to Essex you will clean up.O2 arena house and terrace. Maidstone Kent.
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Went out with Tin Tezer and Matt. Couldnt get into Club, so we went to a chill bar nerby, ti was ok, not too packed. Had a drink, and approached some greek girls, 2 set, the hotter one was being a bit of a retard initially,
Me: bla bla bla
Hottie: We are here with our friends...
Me: What?
Hottie: We are here with our friends...and boyfriends.
Me: Ok? And I look at her like shes a retard and cary on with what I was saying earlier because what she said was so retarded that I completely ignored it and caried on like nothing happened.
She promptly ejected herself and left me with her friend. (guess she was the one with the boyfriend and her friend was single.)
Unfortunately her friend was not the hot one out of the two, I stuck around for a few minutes but decided it wasnt for me and left.
A bit later, matt approached a couple girls, he was in there for a good 10 minutes, one fo the girls left matt and her friend alone and went to the bar, I decided to go talk to her to help if matt wanted to pull. We all merged back togehter and chilled for the night. The pull was on, the girls were up for it and trying to venue change us, but for me the chick I was talking to was cute but sub par to what I usually pull, and we decided to dissapear. That was pretty much the end of the night.
Ok night but iRay~ is still not back yet so Im not hitting it as hardcore to get my 100 girls.
Thaughts:
1. Sub Par Girls
Matt mentioned, if you want to get to 100 lays by end of 2012, you have to bang some girls that arent super hot, sometimes you gotta work with what youve got, and occasionally there will not be super hot girls arround, you gotta go for some sub par chicks otherwise it will take you forever.
Sub par does not mean ugly, it means cute chicks that you would bang but would not necesarily approach with as much effort as a hottie, shes cute but not a hottie!
So in retrospect we shouldve tried to pull them, matts girl was quite cute too!
2. Being up for anything
Ive noticed that ont thing thats heald me from banging as many chicks as I couldve in the past was the lack of desire to souldjer on till the end to get the lay. By this I mean, if I have to be up with a particular girl till 6am in the club I need to be ready and willing to do this. If the chick lives an hour away from where I do and doesnt wanna go back to my place, i gotta be ready to treck to her place bang her and then treck back home in the morning.
I have to be up for any situation. If I drive, leave my car and pick it up in the morning no matter how much hassle, ect.
Ive always lacked the ambition to go to the very end, been pretty lazy, if the pull would end up being a majour hassle (London is massive! So occasionally pulls can be fucked up with logistics if the chick lives miles away etc....) Id just prefer to go home and sleep. If I didnt pull in the club, I would be ready to head home and sleep instead of plowing the streets to try and pull. (Like in vegas, after the club, wed prowl the casino for hotties to bang!).
Tonight the bar we were at closed at 1am, and I just couldnt be bothered to stroll the streets of london in 4C temperitures to find a nother open venue elsewhere to approach some more, and in the future I have to be up for this! Beast all night till the sun comes up or get layed! But It might be good to have a deadline, if no pull by 4am, head home mission complete, dont want to exaust myself!
"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.