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- Disagreements are allowed, given you walk the talk and are a person whom is putting the same amount of work out in the field if not more. (too many cheesy bastards [me being one of them] on this forum lately)
- I love weed more than anything on this planet.
- I take pickup and self-actualization too seriously, its like a fucking science to me. In all reality, its a fun hobby. I just try to make the most of it, luulz.. Theorizing and experimenting is all fucking fun, part of the game.
- Disagreements are allowed, given you walk the talk and are a person whom is putting the same amount of work out in the field if not more. (too many cheesy bastards [me being one of them] on this forum lately)
- I love weed more than anything on this planet.
- I take pickup and self-actualization too seriously, its like a fucking science to me. In all reality, its a fun hobby. I just try to make the most of it, luulz.. Theorizing and experimenting is all fucking fun, part of the game.
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"We never said it was going to be easy, we said it would be worth it."
Hijacking your thread dude :
What we have to distance off any source of quicky pleasure and focus in long term pleasure.
- Fapping: a quicky release of energy that can wore out your will to conquer greater things.
- Drugs: Why we have to sarge if the booze can make me so satisfied
- Food: Same thing.
and there's a greater drugs
- TV: small releases of 20/40 minutes to reach satisfaction for episode
- Internet memes: continuous satisfaction within 5 seconds that can hook you up for hours
So focus in the ling term satisfactions
- Being the greatest player.
- Books instead of TV, even the shortest and cheapest story will need your attention and focus, finishing a long book, is like climbing a intelectual mountain
- Sports
Also, keep out the victimising. The stuff is not that difficult, but we get used to be in this constant pain of not getting it.
Stupid people do it. So can we.
The most (and the same as always) : be in the field.
Every night in the field will give you a small brick to build the wall of china
Like developing science, only the accumulous of previous data could generate the next step
A ex-boss of mine, that was invoveld in some hindu stuff used to say.
Quick pleasure is like the flash in your camera, short and strong.
But the Resistance of a obstacle is like Edison's lamp, the resistance of electricity in the matter that creates a continuous yet pleasant light.
and this video also helps
What we have to distance off any source of quicky pleasure and focus in long term pleasure.
- Fapping: a quicky release of energy that can wore out your will to conquer greater things.
- Drugs: Why we have to sarge if the booze can make me so satisfied
- Food: Same thing.
and there's a greater drugs
- TV: small releases of 20/40 minutes to reach satisfaction for episode
- Internet memes: continuous satisfaction within 5 seconds that can hook you up for hours
So focus in the ling term satisfactions
- Being the greatest player.
- Books instead of TV, even the shortest and cheapest story will need your attention and focus, finishing a long book, is like climbing a intelectual mountain
- Sports
Also, keep out the victimising. The stuff is not that difficult, but we get used to be in this constant pain of not getting it.
Stupid people do it. So can we.
The most (and the same as always) : be in the field.
Every night in the field will give you a small brick to build the wall of china
Like developing science, only the accumulous of previous data could generate the next step
A ex-boss of mine, that was invoveld in some hindu stuff used to say.
Quick pleasure is like the flash in your camera, short and strong.
But the Resistance of a obstacle is like Edison's lamp, the resistance of electricity in the matter that creates a continuous yet pleasant light.
and this video also helps
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2. Loss Aversion and Why Leverage does not work to some people
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Reflecting the 6 human needs
Did you have to hi-jack my thread in such an elegant manner, you bastard? Thanks for the input AND video. :)
I think what it also comes down to is HABIT. Habits are easily broken and new ones are easily started; you simply just STOP doing the shit you were doing before....and CONTINUOUSLY push yourself onto a new habit until it sets in and internalizes into your system.
EX: you hate going to the gym for the first 3 months but after 6 months you love it, you gotta keep going, and you inevitably get ripped abs.
EX2: You quit smoking, cold-turkey, first few weeks are rough and you have cravings (inevitably)....but keep the habit going and next thing you know its internalized. You almost have to put no effort/energy/thought....its just natural now.
I think what it also comes down to is HABIT. Habits are easily broken and new ones are easily started; you simply just STOP doing the shit you were doing before....and CONTINUOUSLY push yourself onto a new habit until it sets in and internalizes into your system.
EX: you hate going to the gym for the first 3 months but after 6 months you love it, you gotta keep going, and you inevitably get ripped abs.
EX2: You quit smoking, cold-turkey, first few weeks are rough and you have cravings (inevitably)....but keep the habit going and next thing you know its internalized. You almost have to put no effort/energy/thought....its just natural now.
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"We never said it was going to be easy, we said it would be worth it."
The thing about kobe bryant is yeah he wants to win.He wants to win really bad.Thats not all it is though that keeps him going.The main thing is kobe truly loves to play the game of basketball above all else.If he didnt he wouldnt be able to go so hard.to him playing basketball and competing are really important.Plus his dad was in the nba and he has been playing since he was a little kid.
Extreme competitieness and ambition in my opinion is something you are born with.Its a part of your personality.
Extreme competitieness and ambition in my opinion is something you are born with.Its a part of your personality.
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True as fuck. After a couple previous fails of not wanking, I really tried my best for real these past 4 days and I've gotten more shit done in these 4 days than I've gotten shit done in like the last 4 years. FOCUS
Not born with, you said yourself, his father put this values in him
He had no option to fail, so he didn't.
We have options because we don't have father/coach 24/7 in our lives to remember that, so we have the option to eat/wank/drink/tv that gives us a moment of pleasure.
He had no option to fail, so he didn't.
We have options because we don't have father/coach 24/7 in our lives to remember that, so we have the option to eat/wank/drink/tv that gives us a moment of pleasure.
The thing about kobe bryant is yeah he wants to win.He wants to win really bad.Thats not all it is though that keeps him going.The main thing is kobe truly loves to play the game of basketball above all else.If he didnt he wouldnt be able to go so hard.to him playing basketball and competing are really important.Plus his dad was in the nba and he has been playing since he was a little kid.
Extreme competitieness and ambition in my opinion is something you are born with.Its a part of your personality.
Extreme competitieness and ambition in my opinion is something you are born with.Its a part of your personality.
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1. What Tyler missed at the Tony's seminar (and my journey going there)
2. Loss Aversion and Why Leverage does not work to some people
Coming soon:
Reflecting the 6 human needs
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2. Loss Aversion and Why Leverage does not work to some people
Coming soon:
Reflecting the 6 human needs
<3 good thread sir as always
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LA dudes hit me up for wings.
I stopped masterbating for a few weeks a few different times, and noticed absolutely no correlation to my game. The only reason I don't jack off as much now is because I don't want to be too drained to have sex 4 or 5 times in a night.
I can't speak for drugs, but quiting masterbation won't solve your problems.
That's not to say I don't wholeheartedly agree with the message you're putting out. Virtually all men want to fuck hot girls, but you have to want it more than 95% of them if you're actually going to realize that goal. Wanting it more than 95% of guys means doing shit that 95% of other guys won't do -- whether that's quitting drugs, losing 100 lbs or going out another night every week.
Thing is, it's only going to work if the thing your fixing is actually what's holding you back from the success you want.
I can't speak for drugs, but quiting masterbation won't solve your problems.
That's not to say I don't wholeheartedly agree with the message you're putting out. Virtually all men want to fuck hot girls, but you have to want it more than 95% of them if you're actually going to realize that goal. Wanting it more than 95% of guys means doing shit that 95% of other guys won't do -- whether that's quitting drugs, losing 100 lbs or going out another night every week.
Thing is, it's only going to work if the thing your fixing is actually what's holding you back from the success you want.
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you guys still missing the point, you dont see the problem because its not YOUR problem, we are made from different cloth man
for some quiting masturbation is like lol whatever, for some its like hey, thats nice and for others who have addictive personalities or other fuck ups it can be life changing, so stop saying something doesnt work if it doesnt work for YOU
especially ppl who didnt try quiting stuff that can be considered compulsive behaviours have no voice in this imo and are the ones who brag the most (way to avoid your issues guys, keep doing it)
for some quiting masturbation is like lol whatever, for some its like hey, thats nice and for others who have addictive personalities or other fuck ups it can be life changing, so stop saying something doesnt work if it doesnt work for YOU
especially ppl who didnt try quiting stuff that can be considered compulsive behaviours have no voice in this imo and are the ones who brag the most (way to avoid your issues guys, keep doing it)
So how would you guys reckon the best way to go about tuning the RAS to self disipline. I don't watch much tv (won't get a tv licence) and I read fuck loads. But I'm pretty lazy, find it hard to get round to stuff and put things off all the time. Sometimes at the end of the day I just feel like i've been in an unconcious daze, with nothing productive having being done.
I keep trying to push myself with will power, meditation, hypnosis but fuck, the unconcious daze takes over everytime. Maybe this could be the answer.
You guys have any suggestions apart from stop wanking and smoking?
Peace.
I keep trying to push myself with will power, meditation, hypnosis but fuck, the unconcious daze takes over everytime. Maybe this could be the answer.
You guys have any suggestions apart from stop wanking and smoking?
Peace.
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I want to be the best as much as anyone else here wants to be - if not better.
I want the hottest bitch in town.....................AND more.
Tyler speaks on the importance of RAS (reticular activating system) - RAS is basically what you choose to focus on/what your brain will focus on.
Kobe Bryant's RAS is focused on the basket and making that next point for his team - his only purpose on the court IS WINNING. ALL THE MAN WANTS TO DO IS WIN. AND HE WANTS TO WIN ALL THE FUCKING TIME.
And if his team doesn't win........he's still the best-motherfucker on the court. Why? Because he wants it so fucking bad. Thats what he focuses on. RAS. All his energies and focus are ON THAT FUCKING BASKET; ON WINNING.
Go watch how bad-ass Kobe Bryant is on Youtube and you will see what I mean.
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I see a lot of topics regarding how the halt of masturbation or drugs (or any other bad habit you may have) will drastically improve your game.
Let me tell you this: MASTURBATION AND DRUGS ARE NOT THE REASON WHY YOU AREN'T GETTING LAID, MOTHERFUCKER.
I don't care what fucking cheesy 10 minute video you link me to proving that there is some sort of scientific evidence behind why smoking marijuana or wanking or porn is leading you to have bad nights in LE CLUB.
Here is the real reason: Your RAS is wasting its energies and focus on getting high and wanking at the end of the night that you do not have enough energy to focus on PICKUP.
Try not wanking or smoking for just one week...............
You will see that you have so much spare energy and focus, that your human concious and RAS has no choice but to re-align its energies into some of the more vital and important areas of your life.
EXAMPLE: After I took a break from wanking ------------> I had much more energy and focus on BITCHES
EXAMPLE2: I stopped smoking weed (though i love my dank) ----------> I had much more time to read books and RSD/PICKUP shit
If you ain't a believer of my theory, try it out mother-fucker. I'm getting bitches............you're not.
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What it comes down to is this: YOU HAVE TO WANT IT AND YOU HAVE TO WANT IT BAD.
I'm a crazy mother-fucker. This month I gave myself NO FUCKING SLACK. I studied this pickup shit like no other.
I take notes, all the time. If I have random epiphanies, I write them down. I keep a journal. I read only books that will make me smarter and better. I went from talking to uglies to talking to girls I'm proud to brag about.
I quit shitting around doing pointless shit - focusing my RAS on shit that truly mattered........and I noticed my energies shifting upon MORE important things. Inevitably, I grew............AND I GREW A LOT.
My best-friend of 5 years and wingman (username: Rightnow911go) did the same thing. We both went through harsh break-ups after being in LTR's for the past 2 years; 5 months of strict discipline and not going back to our exes, Sticking to the system
My boy Rightnow911go is now dating and fucking a cute, smart, rich, high ranked Airforce girl with a FAT-ASS. He smells like pussy all the fucking time now - LITERALLY.
How did he do it? HE JUST FUCKING WANTED IT. FOCUSED HIS RAS ON PICKUP, DISCIPLINE, AND GROWTH. I swear, this guy did much more than I ever did - my discipline compared to his SUCKS!
When you want it as bad as me and my best-friend do, you drop all other shitty, unnecessary habits (video games, weed, porn, wanking, etc) and you inevitably get what you want because your RAS is so focused on what you want.
This is the reason guys come on the forum after weeks of no wanking or porn or whatever and say, "OMG dont masturbate u become so much more alpha blah blah blah nd get laid blah blah"
The reason isn't because all that cum and testosterone is fucking loaded in your system after weeks of not wanking.....ITS BECAUSE YOUR BRAIN AUTOMATICALLY BEGAN TO FOCUS ON BETTER FUCKING SHIT, OBVI OTHER PARTS OF YOUR LIFE WILL BECOME BETTER.
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TL;DR: There is no way you wont get what you want if you want it bad enough. YOU JUST HAVE TO WANT IT. Drop your bad habits and your RAS will automatically re-align its energies and focus onto more important and vital things in your life.
kthxbai