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December 7th, 2016
Better effects than meditation in just ONE MINUTE a day. Develop stellar eye contact.
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UtopiaFive

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Pretty sure this kicks doing meditations ass.  

Its based on EYE CONTACT.  

By doing this ONE LITTLE THING I've noticed my eye contact has gotten PRETTY FUCKING STELLAR this week.  

Oh yeah, and it just takes ONE MINUTE.  No excuses WHATSOEVER.  Try it out, it seems like its just been a week that you gotta build up to it.  

First though, it seems almost TOO SIMPLE, but...might as well try it out, right?  A minute a day.  

Second, you need to also just think and focus on 'self-love' here, again, cheezy sounding, but...would you rather be cheezy and get chicks or too cool to get chicks?  Thought so.  

So, this is it.  You set a timer for a minute.  You look into your own eyes in the mirror.  You just eyegaze...yourself.  You look deep into your own eyes.  Really...you CAN'T THINK while looking into someone eyes.  It doesn't matter if its your own or someone else's.  It just doesn't work.  You're like "gazing into their soul" and "feeling stuff" rather than "thinking stuff."  So within a minute, you're snapped into how Tyler describes the 16-17 minutes into his daily meditation, where IT GOES BLANK.  

Just an example of how fucking cool this shit is...at some fuckin dayparty I stop some woman and we're just eye to eye (like Tyler teaches, or used to teach, on BC, forehead to forehead).  I barely respond to shit she says.  Her friend comes in and "hugs her".  I stare down this other woman.  "We gonna have to fight for her huh?"  "No"  I release first woman and get on the protector.  She eventually asks initial woman "WHO IS THIS MAN HOW DO YOU KNOW HIM?"  Woman1:"I don't know him", Woman2:"I think you should get to know him."  Long Pause.  (Then I blow this shit...I only got step#1 here lol.)  "But wait...first...who are you."  And then I fuckin punked out on this question w some odd response.  

But this initial shit is damn solid.  

BTW as compared to my "old way of going about it" doing all this eye contact stuff also requires an element of NOT CHASING IT AT ALL.  Like being fully able to let women walk by without just chasing them down.  

Oh, other solid set where this has INITIAL AWESOMENESS was super hot blonde with black dude.  He was even like "reacting to me" initially but then I basically got to excited and uh messed it up.  But like EC on the chick 1-1 freaks out all the dudes around them cuz...what says I WANT TO FUCK HIM more than that look in the eyes.  

Do this shit for a week or two.  Don't even think about anything else.  I'm not smart enough to, and I bet you're not either.  ;)

DO IT.  ITS AWESOME.  NO "PROPS BRAH" THEN FORGETTING ABOUT THIS SHIT.  JUST DO IT.  WERD.  

--Tom
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voodoo_child

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 ha ur right, makes me feel how i feel when meditating

usually wen i look in the mirror my mind is analysing bullshit about looks - just a thought pattern
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UtopiaFive

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Yeah, when you first start doing it, you'll be like "Hmm, yeah, my eyes look like...like I'm not in state.  This kinda sucks."  But then just realize it is what it is.  Accept that shit.  You let go.  And ironically...once you do this, it looks "good".  Like so fucking subtle cuz there's so many little muscles up in that shit.  

I also have just had to experiment with like raising my eyebrows as strongly up as possible then relaxing as well.  Eventually you're just like "Aw man I love this guy blah blah blah."  Yeah, again still cheezy sounding, but...its solid, so...whatever.  I'm not too cool for that shit heh.  
voodoo_child wrote:
 ha ur right, makes me feel how i feel when meditating

usually wen i look in the mirror my mind is analysing bullshit about looks - just a thought pattern
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luke3585

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 Gonna try this one mate, I do love meditation but alot of the time I'm too tired to get in that initial state and sit for that long.
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UtopiaFive

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bump this shit is so amazing you're killing yourself by not reading/doing it

so much better than 'not masturbating'.
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Beast Von Gandi

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try tickling your balls as you do this
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pringles

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 Funny you write this i actually do this a lot myself.

It only messed up in those interactions because you were identifying with the result rather than letting it happeen though you btw
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IvánPérez

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Ok, I've just tried it and I'll do it more. It just takes a fucking minute so I'll see how my results improve. It makes sense the eye contact will be better. So...
Definitely a good exercise.
Definitely NOT a substitute for meditation, which has other benefits besides 'going blank' and IMO can't be replaced by anything.
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- When I'm out: it's me-time. I focus on expressing myself and doing what's fun for me, I don't care about girls. Self-absorbedness.
- 'It's all good, it's going to be fine, I am enough'. No worries or concerns. Let the dynamics work for me.
- Nobody is going to pull girls home for me. Self-image will stop you, take action regardless.
- Focus on finding a girl DTF vs. trying to game/arouse/whatever girl after girl.

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Resaj

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Haha this is awesome. I have done it before too, but never thought of it as "meditation". I heard it from Cory first.
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 http://mindhacks.com/2010/09/18/the-strange-face-in-the-mirror-illusion/
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