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May 18th, 2013
Ocean2 field reports The Netherlands
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Ocean2

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 Night out 3)

This seemed to be a  'off night'. Nothing much happend at the start, but at the end it was getting alot better!

- Two set at a table
Opened them, had a small talk with one of the girls. And later on talked with them again. Nothing special.

- Brunette at stairs
She walked on my foot exidently, she said sorry. Grabbed her, played with her hands and also took her very close to me. Then she followed her friend, her friend kept on walking and they almost lost each other.

- Brunette (6)
Had a conversation with my wing that we didn't went 'hard enough' this evening. Then it suddenly popped into my mind I still had 10 minutes, and it is STILL possible to get a girl!! Saw a girl a few meters away, but she was not really my type (she was a bit dark skinned, and I only really like white girls. But she had a very western look so she was ok. Approached her really hard, both arms on her shoulders etc. She lost her friends. Went totally for the pull! She even mentioned 'are you going to show me the way?'. But meanwhile she felt obligated to finish her drink some chode just ordered. She was into me, and I teased her a lot. At some point she even agreed to go with me!!! Could see in her eyes that she was getting really horny. She was at some point also walking to a wall and leaning back but in a very open and almost submissive sexual posture, in a way like 'come'. Went close to her and grabbed her, this time more tightly. I did some (also a bit false) time constraining, in reality I had a few minutes more left.  At the moment when she was going to finish her drink, her friends found her again... This was really a eye opener, I was so much believing that it is possible to do a 10 minute pull anyways on a bad evening, I almost did a 10 minute pull! Now I am actually starting to believe more and more it can be done (and so quickly) :D One mega good reference experience which turned my 'bad evening' into a really good evening. Sooooo close :D P.S. 2 months ago these kind of stuff (and also sober)  where totally out of my reality!
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Felt I choded out a bit this afternoon. So I forced myself to go in set. A girl was passing by and she didn't look that happy. But I was like: approach anyways. Even if it was a 'weak approach', I asked her what the thing was where i was genuinely interested in. First she was like: 'What!?'  But then I asked her again, and I was just being authentic. She saw me suddenly as a real person and giggles and her emotions went up suddenly. She didn't know what it was either. She slowly continued her way but she was happy suddenly and really liked me.

At the mall there was something going on with mayonaise being placed nearby the belt. The cashier asked something, but I didn't understand and at first I did my own stuff. Later on I noticed that someone had left mayonaise nearby the belt (was listening music). Then when it was my turn I asked stuff about it, then she started talking a lot. When she talked about a woman who had suddenly a product she didn't need I said (and thought it was funny):   'oh, now the woman had extra mayonaise'. She giggles. Then later on she asked me if I wanted some soccer stickers/images. I looked at her in a way like, what the fuck, am I a guy that likes that? Told her no in a playfull way. She started giggling again. This doesn't sound that special, but the girl had a intimidating look, a hot blonde with attitude. And she kept talking and talking, I felt myself being in the buyer position. 
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 Daygame:

- Artchick
Had to go to a graduation of someone, but I had some time left. Saw some art chick leaving a museum. Authentictly I was a bit interested (Not that much into museum's, but that museum can be interesting). Approached her, had a nice conversation with her. After a while I ejected, had to go.


Daygame with Flypp
- Girl on bench
Told Flypp: This is a easy one, she is just a  '6'. My mind made it easy. Stepped to her, and we talked quite a bit. Flypp later texted me 'instant date'. At that moment she was typing her contact info in my phone. The reason I did that was because she was waiting for her dad to show up (she lives in Belgium and she planned a day with him). I am sure it was just a matter of time, so before that happened I asked contact information. If I waited really too long, her RAS would be completely on her dad ofcourse. It is really funny that I found out that we have a shared friend on facebook from Belgium. Maybe I have actually met this girl before many years ago, who knows.

- Girl on zebracrossing (8.5)
Saw a really hot cutie walking on a zebracrossing. For me it was a total hotty. Flypp was like, 'is that a 8.5 for you'?? But he is more into exotic type of girls. Had the same with him before, he saw a black chick he thought was hot, but for me she had a nice face but I was totally not attracted to her. Anyways, 'my' hot girl walked on the zebrapad. Didnt open loud enough, she couldn't hear me and asked again. But at least she wasn't bitchtesting me, as I would expect and was genuinely asking while giving a small ioi. Then Flypp continued vibing and they both laughed and continued their walk. (We where at the center of the street by the way, so we HAD to walk somewhere). Bad logistics, but at least I opened. Allthough I should have done it way more direct and harder. Doesn't really matter though, compared to the past I am doing a lot better already during the day and pushing myself out of my comfort zone.
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Night out 1)

 - 10 !!!!
When walking to the trainstation I saw a HOTTTT girl staring at me. Stared back and  approached her while saying if she is sitting well. Saw her signaling  'yes', but she didnt say anything. When I  already passed by, her words finally came out! She said she was sitting well in a very submissive way. A way like I was the one caring for her!!!! Looked a bit to the side, so she knew I heard it, but I had to continue my walk (couldn't miss the train, still a lame excuse not to walk completely back). Her friend (another girl) giggled. I think she thought it was funny that she was sooo slow.  Her voice was so sweet. She is a absolutely 10, she was SOOO hot. I could have done her 40 times in one day lol (and then go into coma).

- Brunette (7)
Saw a cute brunette from a while ago. Grabbed her, I knew she recognized me but faked she didn't. I didn't care, continued and hugged her etc while talking stuff in her ear. Her friend (it was her sister according to my wing) also interfered. The interaction was very bumpy but funny. Wings entering the set, girls split and sometimes regrouped etc.

- Brunette (7.5)
This interaction went very well. A bit cuddling and vibing. Also even told her she probably had a nice ass, and felt the top of her butt for a bit. She was like testing me then ofcourse but in a playful manner. Later on I reentered the set, and took her close to me, and said I was going to take care of her. Saw her telling something to her friends, something like that I was cute. She turned around and danced with me for a bit. Later on she turned again to the group and after a while they left. Should have went even harder with this one. 
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 Night out 2)

- Hot blonde (8)
Went for her directly, and I came really close to her. Then I started to try to kiss her. She turned away a little bit, but I kept going. She didn't react with her lips, but she had her arms around me as well though. Had also a kiss half on her lips. Later on I didn't know what to do anymore. I know I have to put all responsibilities on my shoulders, but this was just too much responsibility for me at that time. The fear of rejection was getting bigger then the enjoyment of the moment. Then I stepped back a bit and I was really like wooohow what did I just do. It was nice and new terrain to do it that fast (it was like within 1 or 2 minutes while being totally sober). Then I came back in set again, didn't go well. She was busy texting her friends who she lost and was purely focussed on that, my frame wasn't strong enough to force her out of that. But good that I went in hard!!! A very good positive reference experience that she let me so close and give her kisses.

- Tall brunette (7.5)
Grabbed her, talked with her. Then later on danced with her a bit (with me behind her).

- Cute brunette (7.5)
Saw a cute brunette, opened her. Had chemistry with her on a deeper level, more long term level then short time. We where already leaving, but I staid a bit in set. Then I number closed her.
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 Night out 3)

- Brunette passing by (7.5)
Saw a cute brunette passing by while I was on a chair. Ticked on her arm quickly and asked if everything was fine. She smiled and asked me the same. First time maybe I did a set in this setting. 

- Blonde with white dots on her clothes (7)
Pointed at her white dots as self amusement, and told her I was counting the dots. She even said thank you, and after a while of vibing she had to go to the toilet. Instead of leaving both, she asked her friend to wait for her (so she wanted to keep the spot!). When I saw her again, danced with her for just a few seconds. Didn't go hard enough.

- 6
Grabbed her hand, danced with her for a bit. The interaction was short, her friend came also between us. The girl with the dots saw me dancing with her, and looked dissapointed. Which is actually good. Should have went to that set later on, but I didn't (stupid).

- Brunette (7)
Went in hard and grabbed her with both hands, kept on vibing till she continued her walk with her friend ( who was walking in front and was cheering).

- Blonde 
Allthough she was dancing in front of some guy before, I just grabbed her when she was alone. She didn't mind, but later on stepped further again when I didn't lead enough.

Allthough this could be considered as a down night, I am focusing on the positive interactions as always. There where not many sets, hot girls and I was quite tired (allthough these can be considered as excuses),  I did fine. But it is better to go in a lot stronger :D
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 Forgot to mention:

On night out 2 I also sucked on some girls lollypop when I asked for it. 

Last night I couldn't get asleep. I was thinking about two flakes I had lately and it was over midnight. Then I was thinking about what Jeffy said once: A way to avoid flakes is to have a GOOD INITIAL interaction. Then I stopped caring about the outcome. THEN ONLY ONE MINUTE LATER I GOT A REPLY FROM THE GIRL FROM LAST WEEK, THE CUTEST GIRL I NUMBER CLOSED FROM PICK-UP EVER. This is exactly what Tyler said before: If you stop caring they suddenly respond. This is almost like the law of state transfer over distance.

- Brunette (7) Leaning at a wall outside
Today I felt I was choding out, after a job interview I approached a woman. It was directly a instant-date!!! Staid in set for a very long time, and when she had to leave (she had to work but tried to delay her break as loooong as possible) she said .. 'I ... will... see you again or something?'. Then I said, WAIT! Whats your number? Then she was relieved that she could give me her number! 

Getting more and more results from daygame while giving myself props for just taking action!
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 Could not catch up with my field reports because I have been 2 busy gaming (daygame and nightgame).

Daygame 1)

- Brunette (7)
Met a brazilian girl in the supermarket. Normally I don't really like foreign girls, but she kinda looked western. Had a long conversation with her while standing in the row. After she left I helped her with her bycicle (on my own intentions, she was giving me the lead though). Then I fb closed her (thought it was better because she was from another country, but I should have asked for a number close instead, I could just have guessed she is useing a dutch phone.

Nightgame 1)

- Blonde (7.5)
Saw a hot blonde walking slowly by, I grabbed her hand from quite a distance, and she was getting very receptive. Said some stuff to her, and let her go again. (Stupid, I should have continued, she was cute and easy to grab).

- Tall blonde (7)
Saw a tall blonde, she had to bend over to talk with me. Had a nice conversation, hold her also in my hands and number closed her.

Daygame 2)
Nothing much happened, only walked for one hour and most girls where already going home. But I opened some set anyways, had some very short stuff going on, nothing special. But still approached some girls so I didn't waste my time.

Nightgame 2)

- Blonde sitting a table with lots of girls
Vibed with her, and said she was cute. I saw her sometimes drowning in my eyes. Then I stopped vibing and ejected. Then my wing forced me to go back into set (which helped me a lot). Went back in, and it was fine. Later on I ejected again, thought the set wasn't going anywhere (I had no patience). Later on when she left, grabbed her and said some stuff before she left.

- Blonde waiting to put her jacket away (7.5)
Saw a cute blonde waiting to put her jacket away. Number closed her, but the number was wrong (allthough I am not sure if she did it on purpose or not). Either way, had a lot of initimate interactions with her. I held her close to me almost the whole time, and I stroked her back slowly and had my hand on the top of her ass. Also almost kiss closed her in the row, (very nearby kisses while holding her tightly close to me). A very good reference experience, she liked hte idea that I had to take care of her. Later on I reapproached her, and danced with her. She was doing some erotic dance with her ass to me. Later on I saw her with some other guy, but  he was a chode and the dancing was not man-woman and not leading. Forgot to take her away from him, should have closed the deal. (First I wanted to get in, but then I thought euhm, let him entertain her during this time, he is not a threat at all). But at the end of the night I forgot to go back.

- Brunette sitting on a table
She had the anime eyes, but I thought it was because of drugs or some stuff because her pupils where very big. But it could also be something else, but should have just went for the idea that it was because she was into me. Had a conversation with her, she hinted me that she was bored with the girls. Anyways, I should not care about the girls reactions at all, it doesn't mean shit if I don't finish the deal with her.

- Girl with long hair (dark red hair, 7)
Opened a girl with dark red hair by grabbing her hand, she was cute. She smiled while I said something to her, but she didn't hear it. I told her again, and she giggles. Should have plowed more and keep her nearby. 
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 Had alcohol yesterday night, my game was sloppy. Also there where not many cute girls around, not many people at all btw.

- Blonde (6.5)
Grabbed her hand and moved her around. She liked it but then somehow she turned later on to her friends again.

- Girl trying to take 'my girl' away
I was vibing with a girl, touching her as well etc in a natural way and she liked it. Then I saw a arm beside me  (its of her friend, trying to steal her away from me). I blocked her arm several times, it was funny. Tried to contact close her, but it was too hard. She was also dancing with some guy before (my wing didn't want to go back in set because of this reason etc). 

- Blonde (7) Talking with a guy
I didn't care, stepped onto her while she was talking with some dude.  First she was like, 'what the fuck?'. Then she liked it and we talked a bit. Then I ejected later on to talk with my friends something when the heat was a bit off (stupid).

- Brunette with nice blue eyes(8)
Saw a tall hot brunette with blue eyes and very sexy make up. Had her giggling for stuff I said, but later on her friend suddenly came into nowhere and she pulled her away from me very fast. 
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 Night out saturday 

- Brunette (6.5)
Had a nice talk with a brunette, and had some good physical stuff going on. She was very receptive... I let her go ( her friend was going somewhere and she was following). I thought it i would be ok to close the deal later on... then I was too late and saw her with someone else...

- Blonde (8)
Saw a solid 8 blonde in a threeset (1 guy 2 girls). She started opening up very quickly, but her friend was a being a bitch. She was standing in front of her and such, and I was making funny gestures to the blonde for my own amusement. She totally agreed with me that her friend was acting like a little bitch, but couldn't do anything about it. Then I left, even a wing said the situation looked hopeless with the other girl being such a bitch. (Should have tried more later on though).

- Girls
Danced with some girls on the dancefloor, didn't do much of initiation here, so I don't really give myself props for that.

- Girl with dark hair (7.5)
Grabbed her arm, and got really close to her. Vibed around for a while. Also grabbed her with both arms sometimes.

- Brunette passing by
Grabbed her arm, and stopped her. Said something to her before she continued her walk. Just not hard in enough.

- Hot 8 who seemed to have a boyfriend who just walked away
My wing didn't want to open her because of the fact that some guy just left her. I went in. She kept testing me HARD, also even ignores me eventually! Then I said to her: 'are you ignoring me?". Then she suddenly opened up for a bit. She said she was with friends (so the guy was probably not her boyfriend or something). Then I ejected, went to my wing. Then I saw her staring at me. A eye opener, the most bitchy girls can even open up. I plow better now :D.

Today:

- 9 ON THE TRAIN
Saw a solid 9 on the train. Had heavenly eye contact with her, she was several seats away. I am SO STUPID that I didn't write my number down on a paper and hand it over to her. (the logistics where really bad,  she was several seats away and there where a lot of people there who where also quiet, so dealing with a lot of social conditioning resistance. So they could hear anything. When I was outside I thought by myself that handing over a paper with my number would be the most discrete probably. This is a really good reference experience that really hot girls like me just for me, but I don't like the fact that I was so stupid and didn't close. Then I was hoping she was also going to exit the train at the same station, but she didn't. About 7 people would also hear the conversation if I really approached her . 

- Minidate with the woman from last week
Had a minidate with a woman I number closed last week on the street during daytime. Kissed her on her cheecks and had a nice conversation. Touched her a little bit. It wasn't that long, she had to go work again.
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